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Chapter 1: What are the grievances discussed in this episode?
they have been is the good trouble where they've had to learn, no, you can't do that, what have you. So I've been really hashtag blessed in that regard. But I'm telling you, man, the stress, when I think about being in my 30s, fuck, all the stress came from the husband. I completely agree. That was my experience. This was pre-Best Buy era. Yeah.
Which is very recent.
Yes. Okay. The next story is related to this. New research shows that gay and lesbian couples tend to have a higher quality relationships than their heterosexual counterparts. Relative to heterosexual relationships, same-sex relationships tend to have more equitable domestic work arrangements. less defined gender roles and a greater sense of social connectedness to a community.
They believe these findings suggest heterosexual couples could in fact learn something from gay and lesbian couples. Further knowledge of the strategies developed by gay and lesbian couples to maintain their relationship quality despite individual and institutional discrimination could help to develop new counseling tools.
You know what? When you were reading that headline, all the things in that article that were mentioned, like the gender roles, equitability, I was thinking, I think that that would be better in a same-sex couple. Because in heteronormative relationships, there are such gender roles baked in the cake. And so I think that's interesting. And it seems like it's true. It's just common sense true.
Here's what I think we do. Okay.
we just start ban straight marriage. Maybe we should do a build of ban straight marriage. We just, I mean, just ban straight marriage. Everything MAGA wants, we just go the complete opposite and just flood the zone with it.
We are, you know, everybody knows about our toddler advocacy program where we're advocating for toddler safety and have basically found two places which they are safe, which is home and school. Mm-hmm. Outside of that, you can't take your toddler anywhere. You're at home. So I think these straight marriages are a minefield of toxic, really bad breeding grounds for bad things to happen.
And so I think we should just ban straight marriages.
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Chapter 2: Why do some people dislike DIY furniture assembly?
And so about, what, 15 years ago, we get the Oklahoma City Thunder. And they trot out all these hot African-American basketball players. There's this one player in particular named Serge Ibaka who is just – I mean he would look good sitting in the barrel of a loaded shotgun. Hot. Hot. And then this image gets kind of leaked all online. And he's in these gym shorts, but you can see his penis.
And let me just say, Size Queen Pumps approved it and brings it up still decades later.
We were just passing the picture around at the Knicks games. We were showing our friend that we went to the game with from New York. And he was like, no way. And it's just, it's unbelievable.
So anyway, my point is that once this team rolled in, Josh Welch – all the women in Oklahoma City were super excited to go to games, were wearing Thunder merch. They were all in on NBA basketball.
And Josh Welch said to me, well, I don't think anything has combated racism as much in Oklahoma City as the Oklahoma City Thunder rolling out here with all these hot black basketball player men because all these white women were all of a sudden –
huge huge huge Thunder fans and it wasn't just like oh I love to go to the games it was like oh my god I love to go to the games and those players are hot I mean it was like it was like a cougar moment but it genuinely I think Josh had a very astute point it genuinely helped with the issue of
of race because so many white people are still so segregated in white culture and completely around white people they are never around or mixed with black people and so that mba move has been very beneficial now it didn't help anything in the state as far as voting goes
Right. Nobody got smarter. But I will say this. People that live in like on the East Coast or metropolitan areas, you have to understand you can live in Oklahoma. And if there are certain places you live, there is not one foreign language. There's not one person of color. I mean, it is like sitting in a glass of milk. All day, every day. There's just zero co-mingling of different cultures.
No diversity.
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