How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)
19 Nov 2024
Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to SayAre you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30Quotes"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett
Full Episode
I don't like to ask a woman's permission to kiss her. That's a little too 18th century. Milady, might I entice you with a smooch upon your lips? Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently flirt with women and attract your dream girlfriend all by being authentic. No toxic pickup tricks needed.
I'm so glad you're here taking a few minutes of your time for this coaching session with me. I'm really honored because I know how busy you are and I know that you have a million other podcasts you could be listening to. So I'm going to try to make it worth your while today.
In the last episode, part one of this series I'm doing this week, you learned all about the power of using radical authenticity in your dating life. Radical authenticity is about awakening your most confident, attractive self with women because girls like you for you. Now in part two of this five-part series, it's time for the fun stuff.
I'm going to give you the good stuff, the moves, the tips, the what to say. You're going to learn all about how to confidently flirt with women using my flirting formula. And this means you're going to be able to stop running out of things to say with women you're talking to. And you're going to be able to start attracting some cool, cute girls.
So I'm going to give you my flirting system that you'll be able to pick up really quickly. I'm also going to share 10 tested flirting tips that you can use right away. And not done there, but wait, there's more. I'll give you five of the biggest flirting mistakes to avoid. And you might not even know you're making some of these flirting mistakes.
By the way, stick around to the very end of the episode. I'm going to give you three of my favorite flirty questions to ask women if you ever get stuck in your head. Think of these as three back pocket flirting moves, flirty questions so that you always have something to say. No more awkward silences. No more just getting stuck in your head, running out of things to say.
I'll share that with you at the very end of today's pod. Here's my question for you. Do you struggle with what to say and how to flirt? Have you ever been stuck in the friend zone? I know I used to be. I have been there. I remember a date I had many years ago with a beautiful young woman named Brandy. And she wanted to like me, but I couldn't make her feel the feelings that I wanted her to feel.
And at one point, I finally went for a kiss on like date three. after the right moment had passed. We were standing on a romantic street in Brooklyn. And I wanted to kiss her, but I was afraid. And I went out. Five minutes later, I tried to make up for the mistake. I went for the kiss. And she said, sorry, I've lost interest. You had your chance back there.
She basically said, you're really bad at this. So back then, I had to learn how to do all these things myself. So I've been in your shoes. I know what it's like to struggle with flirting. So let me give you what I've developed as the secret. Not the secret, but a flirting formula. It's no secret. It's in my book. It's on the podcast.
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