How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Will You Be My Boyfriend?” The 10 Green Lights that Trigger Instant Attraction in Wonderful Women
28 Jan 2025
How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!You’re about to learn…03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to YouListen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
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It gives her the cake and the frosting. The frosting is the flirty playfulness. The cake is sincerity real. This is the real guy. And man, women like cake. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence, get more dates, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.
And do it without weird, sketchy pickup moves. Authenticity, baby. Women want the real you. And today's a great episode. I'm really psyched for this. I want to give you 10 green lights that are going to help a lot more women see you as boyfriend material. Because here's what I know you want. You want a wonderful girlfriend, an incredible relationship. And not only do you want a great girlfriend,
Wouldn't it be a nice bonus if you had women saying to you, hey, I really want this to go somewhere? Or what would you say about becoming exclusive? Or as a couple women have said to me over the years, hey, do you want to be my boyfriend? I would like to just date you and only you. I want you to have that feeling too, OK? I want you to have that feeling too.
And today I'm going to give you 10 green lights to help you project that most authentic, attractive version of you so you can be that guy who women say, hey, I want to be your girlfriend. Let's take this somewhere. And have it be a wonderful, gorgeous, cool, intelligent, stylish, successful, awesome woman. Because that's what you want, right? But there's some problems that stand in the way.
You probably have dates. First dates that don't go anywhere. Women don't want to see you for second dates. Or you're not sure how to flirt. Or you just don't know how to put that boyfriend vibe out there. become, project that side of you that women want to turn into their relationship. And that's what today is about. I want to help you do that. A couple episodes ago, I did 10 red flags.
10 red flags that push a woman away. So I hope you checked out that episode. If you haven't, please do. And now today, we're going to talk about the opposite. 10 green lights that make women see you as a boyfriend. And Here's what we want, or here's what I want you to know. Here's a little secret before I get into these 10 green lights. What makes a woman say, I want this guy as my boyfriend?
Every woman has her own personalized blueprint for what her man is going to be like. And it's different for every woman a little bit, but there's some commonalities. Every woman, pretty much every woman, wants a guy who is confident in himself and who leads the dating dance. Every woman wants a guy who can flirt. Every woman wants to feel some good flirty vibes with a man.
Every woman wants a guy who's ambitious, has passion for life, at least parts of life. And of course, every woman, in my opinion, pretty much every woman wants a guy who is uniquely authentic and can be his real self with her. You've seen reality shows, dating shows. I just want him to be real, lower his walls, open up.
That's basically a woman's way of saying, I want authentic men who put their real selves out there. And they also want fun, fun, flirty dates. So today's episode, I'm going to give you 10 green lights that are going to help more women say to you, yes, you are the man for me. So here we go. Let's get to it. Let's dive in. Here is green light number one. Be radically authentic.
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