How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!
09 Feb 2025
Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!You’re about to learn:05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the TimeListen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
Of course she ghosted me. Her desperate guy alarm was going off. Welcome back to How to Get a Girlfriend. I'm your host, dating coach, Connell Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence, get dates with some wonderful women, and choose a wonderful girlfriend. from some really wonderful options. And do it all by being authentic. No sketchy pickup artist moves needed.
This is about dating with integrity and what I call radical authenticity. And let me ask you a question. Have you ever sent an opener on a dating app and gotten no response? I'm sure you have. Every guy has. If you've ever sent, hey, and got no response. Or you've ever just didn't know what to write to a woman and she went quiet. Maybe you sent her a cold open and she didn't respond.
Or even more frustrating, you got a match. You finally got a good match on Tinder, on Bumble, on Hinge. You sent an opener and she went quiet. Well, let's fix that today. I want to help you Make sure that you get lots of women writing you back on the dating apps so you can get some dates and get a great girlfriend.
So I'm going to count down my top 10 best fun flirty openers that I and my clients use. And these aren't just random 10 random fun flirty openers. I'm actually going to give you different openers for different kinds of women you see on the dating apps. For example, when you see that profile and she doesn't really write anything. She's just got photos, but she says nothing.
What do you say to her for your opener? When she's got five selfies and three bathroom selfies, what the heck do you write to her to get her writing you back? So I'm going to help walk you through the most common types of women you see on dating apps, give you the best 10 flirty openers to use, and stick around until the very end.
You're definitely going to want to hear number one, because number one is the opener that That is the single best performing opener I've ever come up with. It gets me a response 81% of the time. I actually tested it. I'm a big data and research guy.
I tried this 100 times on 100 women who I matched with on Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble, and 81 out of 100 times the opener that I'm going to share with you at number one got me a response. And I've seen similar results with my clients.
So stick around because if you're tired of a lack of matches and you want to start getting some women matching with you and writing you back, here's what we're going to do. We're going to fix that right now. Before we get into the top 10 list, I just want to tell you a really quick story because I know what it feels like to be struggling on the dating apps.
My heart breaks for guys who struggle to get matches, who rarely get matches, or who get matches but don't get women writing you back. I know how hard it is to write good openers because I used to struggle with this myself. So way, way back before I began working on my dating life, when I was really lonely and struggling with dating.
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