How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)
14 Feb 2025
You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”You’re About to Learn:2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your GymListen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
And knowing that you are more than enough for a woman. What you say is enough for a woman because it's coming from you, a really great guy. You don't need great game because you're a great guy. Ooh, I just made that up. That was pretty good. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am dating coach and bestselling author, Conal Barrett.
I'm here to help you confidently meet and attract wonderful women in real life and do it without weird tricks or cringy pickup moves. Okay, so you've got her attention. You just broke the ice with this wonderful woman. Now what? She's smiling. You said hi. Now you're in a conversation, but suddenly your mind goes blank. What do you say next? How do you not run out of things to say?
How do you keep her interested? What if the conversation dies? Most guys struggle with this. They either freeze up, or they ask boring questions, or they ramble, or they have a really long, awkward pause, and then she just slinks away. And the result is no numbers, no dates, no chemistry, no success. But not you.
not after today's podcast episode, because this is part three of my four-part special series here for Valentine's Day week on how to meet women in real life. And if you missed the last episode, please go back and check it out. I taught my natural approaching method, so you know exactly how to break the ice with women anywhere in a way that works so, so well. But let's be real.
Just breaking the ice, just approaching isn't enough. you have to keep the conversation flowing. You've got to create some kind of connection. You've got to ask for her number, set up the date. And if you don't do these things the right way, then all this time and effort you put into talking to the woman, she'll lose interest or it will fall flat. So today I'm going to give you
I'm going to give you kind of a three-step plan that you can follow. Let's call this a three-step roadmap, a three-step roadmap to make your conversations feel natural, authentic, flirty, much more effortless, so that you can turn that approach into a phone number, into a date, and eventually into getting a great girlfriend.
And also, I'm going to break down the seven biggest mistakes guys make when talking to women, post-approach, and I'll teach you how to fix those mistakes.
And by the way, please stick around until the very end of the episode today, because at the very end of the episode, I'm going to talk about one of the most common dating questions and problems I hear about from guys, which is, how do you talk to women at the gym? How do I talk to her at the gym without being that creepy pickup guy who's bothering her mid-squat?
So I'm going to give you that tip at the very end. So that'll give you a reason to stick around to the very end. Okay, here's your three-step roadmap to flirty, authentic conversation. Okay, so you walk up to that woman. You use the natural approaching method from last episode. And you've opened in a strong, positive way. You've got her attention. And now you're thinking, now what?
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