How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!” The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App Success
30 Jan 2025
Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4sFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
It's not you. It's the halibut you're holding. That's your problem on the apps. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I am here to help you flirt with confidence, get dates, and get a great girlfriend, all by being authentic. No sketchy, weird, toxic pickup artist moves needed. Not here. And let me ask you a question.
I think I know the answer to this, but I'll ask you anyway. Are the dating apps just not working for you? They don't work for most guys, at least not very well. Chances are you swipe and you swipe and you swipe and you're really struggling to get good matches, good dates.
If you're struggling with online dating, if you've got carpal tunnel because you swipe so much with no results, we wanna fix that. And it can lead to a lot of other problems, right? It can lead to anger, frustration, giving up on the apps. And worst case scenario, you end up moving to a monastery in Myanmar, becoming a monk, swearing off women, and just meditating on a mountain.
Hey, that's not going to work for most guys. Well, today's episode, I've got some really good tips for you. Today's episode, I want to give you six essential photos that pretty much every guy needs in order to get matches and dates on any dating platform. And most men, if you're struggling on the apps, it's because your photos just aren't good enough. It's not that you're not good enough.
It's that your photos aren't making women feel the way we want them to feel. And that's simply about understanding that online dating isn't really dating. Not until you meet a woman or at least have a phone date with her. Online dating isn't dating. It's marketing. You're marketing a product. The product is you. The product is you as a great boyfriend. The product is you as a great guy.
A guy with so much to offer, and I know you have so much to offer. So understand, if you would, that if you're struggling on the dating apps, the good news is it's not you. It's the fish photos you're showing women. It's not you. It's the halibut you're holding. That's your problem on the apps. And I've been a dating coach now for 13 years.
I've helped thousands of guys get literally tens and tens and tens of thousands of matches on the dating apps. And I want to help you have the same kind of results. So today's episode, I'm going to give you six essential photos that you need in order. In order. I'm going to tell you exactly what six photos to use. I'll tell you how to take the photos and what order to put them in.
These are going to help you so much. I have a client named Ben. Ben did these six photos and he was literally getting like zero good matches a week. He was getting okay matches, but women he just wasn't attracted to. And he did these six photos and all of a sudden he was like, Connell, you're killing me. I'm so upset.
He's like, I got 83 matches this week, and I just don't have time to go on all these dates. And so I want you to have, that's called a first world problem. I want you to have first world problems like that. So here we go. Here are the six game changing photos that are going to really help you change the game for you on Tinder, on Bumble, on Hinge. And stick around to the very end.
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