How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From Dateless to Dates on Demand! How to Improve Your Profile and Get 2 Dates Per Week (Part 4 of 4)
15 May 2025
Are you struggling to get great matches on the apps? Get ready for the game-changing finale of a 4-part series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. Your host, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett, reveals how to troubleshoot and fix 7 hidden profile problems. Want to land two dates a week? Listen now!Highlights of this Episode Include:01:52: The 12 Essentials You Need for Great Results06:15: Ben’s Success Story: From 3 Matches to 87 Matches (!) in Just 2 Days09:44: How Connell Diagnosed His Own Profile to Go from Crickets to Dozens of Matches14:41: Problem 1: Crickets After Launching: How to Diagnose the Issue16:42: Problem 2: Only Getting Mediocre Matches: What to Adjust20:27: Problem 3: Matches, But No Replies: Why She’s Not Messaging Back25:14: Problem 4: Matches, But No Dates: How to Fix the Issue27:15: Problem 5: Not Seeing Women You Want to Date: A Simple Solution30:07: Problem 6: Your Profile LOOKS Good But Still Flops: The Key Photo You Need34:26: Problem 7: Getting Ghosted Often: Why Women Disappear Suddenly39:44: PLUS: Why You Must, Must, MUST Use Hinge!Listen now to make your phone a date-generating machine!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:http://www.datingtransformation.comWANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
And I just want you to know that you can, and if you want to, you will find success and dates and love on dating apps. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence, get a lot of matches and dates on the apps, and find a great girlfriend. Yes, finding her from online dating.
And I know it's possible because that's how I met my incredible girlfriend, Jess. I met her on a dating app, and I've met many, many women on dating apps, as have my clients. So yes, online dating success is possible, even if you've never had a date from the apps. Even if you struggle on the apps, it is fixable.
Welcome to part four of four, the special four-part series I've been doing called The 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online Dating Profile. to get you matches and dates. If you haven't listened to parts one through three, I suggest you go back and check them out because today's episode won't make a lot of sense to you otherwise.
Basically, there are 12 essentials that you need to have handled to get a lot of good matches on the apps. And today's episode is about once you have those 12 essentials all in place on your profile and you've relaunched your profile, Today's episode is about troubleshooting some issues that might come up along the way in case you have some roadblocks.
So go back and listen to parts one through three if you haven't already. First, let's do a really quick review of what the 12 essentials are. And then I'm going to go through seven problems and seven fixes that you might come across once you relaunch your profile with these 12 essentials in place. So today's episode is about troubleshooting. problems and fixes.
But first, let's review, do a really fast review of what the 12 essentials are. Number one, a swipe magnet first photo, basically a really great portrait in that first slot. That's essential number one. Essential number two is a second really good portrait. I call it the one-two punch. You want your first two photos on your profile to be really good, magnetic, authentic portraits of you.
Well-dressed, looking good, but also different outfits and different vibes. So essential number two is a second portrait in the second slot to help you get more matches because women like to see those first two great portraits. Essential number three is an action-oriented or, quote, masculine photo. You doing something action-based. Essential number four is social proof.
A photo of you doing something out in the world, living a cool, fun social life. Social proof. Essential number five is a heartstrings element. What I call the awe photo. Or it could be an awe prompt. Something to tug at her heartstrings. Because hey, dating is not just about good photos. Online dating isn't just about good photos. It's about tugging at people's heartstrings.
Making them feel the feels. Essential number six is flirty energy and good date vibes. We want to have some kind of flirtatiousness on your profile. Essential number seven is a good profile hook, something that hooks her interest from the very first words that she reads on your profile. Humor, something unusual, something that creates curiosity.
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