How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
27 Flirting Tips in 27 Minutes! Go from the Friend Zone to the First Kiss—FAST
29 May 2025
Not knowing how to flirt with women can leave you awkwardly fumbling your words. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett has fast, field-tested fixes! In just 27 minutes, he shares 27 practical flirting tips to help you confidently make sparks fly—on dates, during approaches, and over text. Get ready to escape the friend zone and boldly land that first kiss, even if you’re shy!Episode Highlights Include:03:00: 3 Playful First-Date Games that Instantly Spark Chemistry04:10: How to Flirt Without Being Needy or Weird09:00: Rejection-proof openers for Shy or Introverted Men17:41: The Right Way to Compliment Women (They Love This!)21:55: The Funny, Flirty Text that Gets You a Second Date26:47: A Great Question to Dial Up SparksFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:http://www.datingtransformation.comWANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
If you look up the word flirtatious in Webster's, it actually says, quote, playing at love. That's what flirting is. Flirting is play. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I am here to help you flirt confidently with women, get more dates, and get a great girlfriend. and do it all by being authentic. No sketchy pickup artist moves here.
This is about attracting women with integrity and authenticity and vulnerability and not some weird pickup artist BS. And today's a really cool episode because you're about to get 27 flirting tips in 27 minutes or less. Why? Well, I just had a birthday and life is short. Life is shorter than Danny DeVito.
And I feel like a podcast can be nice and short as well and give you a lot of great advice in a short space. A podcast episode doesn't have to be longer than a Christopher Nolan movie. So let's get to it. Here are 27 flirting tips in 27 minutes because I want to help you stop overthinking and not freeze up when you want to approach a woman or you're not sure what to say to a woman on a date.
Or maybe you just don't know how to flirt without coming off as quote creepy or weird. Today's your crash course. Here we go. 27 flirting tips in 27 minutes or less. Start the clock. right now, not literally. Here we go. Tip number one, the most important tip of all in my book, convey the real you. When you meet a woman, give her a radically authentic approach opener.
This is my favorite way to approach a woman. When you see a woman you want to approach and talk to, Skip the canned lines. Be what I call radically authentic. Lead with vulnerability. Say something true, something simple, and something G-rated about what you're actually feeling, even if it's a little bit scary. Actually, especially if it's a little bit scary.
The first time I ever did this, I'm on a rooftop bar. I see a beautiful woman in a silver dress. I approach her. I'm so nervous. I'm so scared. I walk over and I say, hey, excuse me, but I just had to meet you. I'm actually really shy. I'm shy, but I had to come say hi to you. I'm Connell. And her face lit up and she said, oh yeah, right. You're real shy. Hi, I'm Amy. And she was into it.
She thought it was a line. It wasn't a line. It was me being radically authentic. Because when you approach a woman and you say the honest, real thing, It shows her that you actually have belief in yourself, even if you're nervous. So approach with radical authenticity. And if you are a nervous, shy guy, use that. Say, hey, excuse me, I'm really shy, but I had to meet you.
You seem like you might be my type. It is so powerful because it's vulnerable and it's real. Okay, tip number two, be playful on first dates by playing fun games. I don't like to play games on first dates in the game playing sense, you know, manipulation, all that BS. But I love to play games on first dates, actual games. So on a first date, do a staring contest with her.
Play two truths and a lie. Challenge her to a thumb war. If I could boil down what flirting is into one word, it's play. That's all it is. It's a man and a woman playing together. If you look up the word flirtatious in Webster's, it actually says, quote, playing at love. That's what flirting is. Flirting is play. And so, yeah, be playful on first dates. Play games. Get to know you games.
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