How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
1,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 2
Wed, 04 Dec 2024
Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with YouStop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
What are the challenges of getting out of the friend zone?
Dear m'lady, might I have your permission to please place my lips upon yours? No, don't do that. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently flirt with women, attract your dream girlfriend, and do it all by being authentic. No weird pickup tricks needed.
Thank you for letting me be your dating coach for the next 30 minutes or so. And let me make a wild guess about something. You want fun, sexy, flirty, great first dates, right? You want that conversation to flow. You want that woman looking at you, smiling, touching your arm. You know, when the moment's right, you want to know when and how to go for that first kiss, almost like it just happens.
And then the next day, she's texting you, hey, I had a really good time. When are we going out again? That's what you want. But I'll bet that's not where you are. I'll bet that the dates you do have, the conversation is fine, but it's rarely like on fire, really connected and flirty and fun. And I'll bet you know that you should make moves.
And you might even know some of the moves to make, but you're afraid. Something stops you. You don't want to come off as creepy. And the next day you get either she goes to you and goes quiet or you get that next day text. The whole, hey, I just didn't feel a connection. That's very frustrating. It's frustrating to have a lot of first dates that don't lead to second dates.
And it's also frustrating because maybe you're just not sure why women see you as just a friend. Well, I have been there. Oh boy, have I been there. So I've been a dating coach for 12 years now. And I've also been on, man, probably a thousand dates. I estimated I've been on a thousand dates. But there was a time when I was first working on my dating life when I got really stuck in the friend zone.
And I had so many first dates end with women just saying, hey, Connell, you're nice, you're funny, but I'm just not feeling it. And so I want you to know that I know how to fix this because at first I fixed it in myself and I fixed it in tons of my clients.
So on this episode, I'm going to give you seven practical moves that you can use on first dates to make an authentic, real connection so that you can soon have women saying, hey, when are we going out again? You can get a really great sexy, awesome first kiss that feels very organic.
And so I'm gonna give you my seven best moves, my seven favorite moves to use on first dates to get out of that friend zone and make sure you have really good, fun, connected first dates. And make sure you listen to the very end of the episode because I'm going to give you a bonus tip. Let's call it tip number eight.
And at the end of the episode, I'm going to share my favorite first date game that I've played literally on dozens and dozens of first dates. I don't mean playing games like in the deceptive way. I don't mean manipulation. I mean, actually a game, a fun first date game that I want to teach you. It'll get women hanging on your every word.
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