How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
10 Invisible Red Flags that Get You Rejected: Which Mistakes Are YOU Making? Plus 10 Fast Fixes
21 Jan 2025
Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress HerListen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
Get out of your planned mind. Get in the present moment with her. Get present with her. Give her a present. Give her your presence. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett.
I'm here to help you learn to flirt, gain self-confidence, get a great girlfriend, and do this by being authentic, radically authentic, not using any weird, toxic, sketchy pickup artist moves. This is about showing women your most confident, best, authentic self, because that's what women want. And today, I'm going to help you fix some dating problems that are holding you back
I'm going to help you get rid of red flags. Red flags that push women away. Dating red flags that you might not know you're sending that make a woman friendzone you, or that make a woman ghost you, or that make a woman just say, hey, you seem great, but let's just be friends, or I'm just not ready to date right now. We're going to go through 10 of the most common dreaded
dating life harming flags, these red flags. And in the next episode, I'm going to give you 10 green flags that are going to help you make some sparks happen. So what is a dating red flag? Well, a red flag is any behavior or trait that makes a woman think, I'm not going to date this guy. It's something that's really hurting your chances of romance with women.
And you don't even realize you're making these mistakes. And these red flags are not things that, it's not that you're a bad guy. It's not that you're not ready for love. I don't mean you're not emotionally available. I mean red flags that signal low confidence, that signal awkwardness, or that signal an inability to connect with women romantically, emotionally, the way they want to.
So what you need to do is make sure you get rid of these red flags and Here's a quick story from my dating past. I remember a first date I had with a wonderful woman named Lorraine. She became my girlfriend, by the way. Lorraine and I met up at a bar. It's our first date. And I'm sitting up at the bar, and I'm reading the latest Harry Potter book. And she walks in. We meet, make some small talk.
The date starts. And a few minutes into the date, she says, by the way, I like that you're not trying to impress me. And I said, what do you mean? She said, well, you're reading Harry Potter. I hate it when guys try to come off as something they're not.
Expelliarmus! Harry, what did you just do?
So basically she was saying she liked that I was leaning into my nerdy love of Harry Potter as opposed to sitting there with a book by Tolstoy or Dostoevsky or something and trying to impress her. Later in the date, she tested me actually about something. We were talking about our favorite SNL shows and cast members. And she said, what do you think of Will Ferrell? Do you think he's overrated?
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