Hot and Unbothered
the ONLY dating advice you will ever need to hear: attract the love you deserve & know your WORTH
Fri, 14 Feb 2025
Welcome to the Hot & Unbothered VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL!! Everything you need to know about DATING/LOVE LIFE, whether you've been in 1 relationship, or 100 (or none!), today's episode covers a complete guide to the dating life-- from first dates, to situationships and long term partners, this advice is a MUST KNOW before becoming invested with someone else. Take notes, ladies to ensure that you can enter your next connection as the hottest, highest, and detached version of yourself. Remember, you are a pink diamond, you are the prize!!Join our Hot & Unbothered besties groupchat! Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST self and truly GLOW UP from the inside and out.Shop my sustainable made to order clothing line! Stream Hot & Unbothered on ANY PLATFORM.LET’S BE FRIENDS ♡:Hot & Unbothered is now on TikTok!:@hotunbotheredHot & Unbothered Instagram:@hotunbotheredKeep up with me on Snapchat:@bbriannagomez Shop all my favorite things on myAmazon StorefrontBri's Instagram:@bbriannagomez Bri's TikTok:@bbriannagomez Pinterest:@bbriannagomez Spotify:@bbriannagomezShop my Closet on Depop:@xobbrianna See you next Bri-day!xo, Bri 💌
Chapter 1: What is the purpose of the Hot & Unbothered podcast?
if you want to level up your life and unlock the hottest highest and healthiest version of yourself this is the podcast for you welcome to today's episode of hot and unbothered Hello beautiful people and welcome back to my podcast.
If you are new here, my name is Brianna Gomez and I am your host of Hot and Unbothered, the ultimate place to be if you are looking to unlock the highest version of yourself, to start visualizing your dream life and showing up as her every single day. The whole point of this podcast is I want us to take out the space between our dream ideal selves
our present selves and teach you guys how to show up as her every single day and a huge huge aspect of that is love love for yourself love for your friends romantic love love for life and today is Valentine's Day if you're watching this the day I release it so happy Valentine's Day to all of you guys Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday and I need you guys to take the bitterness out of Valentine's Day okay if you're sitting there like I hate relationships I'm single I don't have a boyfriend I hate love blah blah blah
There are so many different ways to celebrate Valentine's Day, so if you are not taken this Valentine's Day, don't worry because there are so many other ways. I have other episodes.
I did a little Valentine's Day series the past three weeks, so I did self-love, friendship love, like love and female friendships, finding a healthy inner circle, attracting your people, attracting healthy friendships in your life, and then today we are getting into what people think when they think Valentine's Day, which is typically...
romantic love and dating so there's a few actually a lot of things i have to say about dating i've done my time i've been in the toxic long-term relationships i've gone on a couple like more casual dates and now i am in a happy stable relationship. So I definitely say I have a lot of perspective when it comes to relationships.
I know some of you guys, maybe you are taken and you're in a relationship and you're like, why would I listen to this? I have a lot of advice for you as well. Maybe you've never gotten a date. I know some of you guys who listen might be younger or just a little less experienced when it comes to that realm. I have stuff for you. I have stuff for the people who are certified man haters, boy haters.
They don't want to date again. Even this video will will be beneficial to you so stay tuned but before we dive in i want to give you guys a quick analogy that just really sticks out to me i want you guys to imagine you have this pair of shoes in your head and you are going everywhere looking for them maybe they are hot pink vintage dior suede pumps right and you want these shoes so so bad
And you haven't seen them in person anywhere, but you have this idea of it in your head that is so perfect, so great. And so you go thrifting like all the time. Every time you go thrifting, you are just so dialed in on finding this one pair of shoes, these Dior heels that you just want so badly all over your Pinterest boards. You are manifesting these heels, right?
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Chapter 2: How can you celebrate Valentine's Day if you're single?
I feel like that's so common in girls because we have this internal maternal nurturing instinct and we love to be problem solvers. But at the end of the day, it's not your job to fix him for the next girl. It's not your job to be his mother, okay? You need to find someone when the timing is right, okay? Even if you love this person, if you are meant to be, it will happen when the timing is right.
It's not your job to clean up their act. It's not your job to raise them or teach them how to treat you, okay? You do not need to fix him. That's not your responsibility. It's not in the job description Okay, also take away the mindset of like there's no one like him. He's so special.
I'm never gonna find anything like this babes He's only special because you're making him special like you are the special aspect. You are the prize I need you to stop being like oh like I don't want to walk away from this because like What if no one likes me like that again? What if I never find anyone who has these traits that he has? Clear your mind of that, okay?
He's only special because you decided he was special in your head. And I can do a whole other episode on breakups and like knowing it's not the right person because I think that deserves its own episode. But I just wanted to throw that in here because that's a huge aspect when it comes to dating is realizing that you are the reason that they are special.
Another lie that I need you to clear your mind of is I need to change myself so they will like me. You never, ever, ever have to pretend to be someone you're not, have to change things about yourself. I feel like especially growing up, high school, even middle school, you can start...
trying to dress a certain way, act a certain way, talk a certain way, portray yourself under a certain light so that someone will like you. Maybe so you have more things in common with them so that they find you attractive. That is never the way to go because you will never be happy again if you have this facade on even if they do fall for you
you're not internally happy because you're not staying true to yourself. I saw someone say that the most highest form of vibration and of frequency that humans have is our authenticity and I just thought that was so beautiful and such a beautiful reminder to never ever change yourself for anyone. And this can go for relationships, family, friends, jobs, but never ever ever change yourself
to be attractive or lovable to someone else. The right person will see you as you are and they will love you. Last lie I want you to clear your minds of is that a man's actions are a reflection of you or your worth, which is so far from the truth. I've seen people be like, oh like he's not texting me back. It's because he doesn't like me. He doesn't want to date me.
It's because I'm not good enough. That is so far from the truth. I've learned that men do things typically based off of readiness and their position in life opposed to like actually how they feel about you. You could be the perfect girl for him. If he's not ready, he will not know how to hold your love. He will not know how to properly pursue you and care for you if he's not ready.
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