Digital Social Hour
Unlock Your Brain’s Hidden Patterns in 20 Minutes I Bizzie Gold DSH #1270
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Unlock your brain’s hidden patterns in just 20 minutes! Join Sean Kelly on the Digital Social Hour as he sits down with the brilliant Busy Gold to uncover the science behind brain pattern mapping and how it can transform your life. From understanding the five brain pattern types to decoding your unique operating system, this episode is packed with valuable insights that will leave you saying, “Wow, that’s me!” Discover how your childhood, environment, and even culture shape your brain patterns and learn how rewiring them can lead to better relationships, career success, and personal growth. Whether you’re intrigued by the habits of the top 1%, curious about mental health breakthroughs, or just eager to understand why you think the way you do, this conversation is for YOU. Don't miss out on this eye-opening episode! Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more life-changing stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:35 - 5 Brain Pattern Variations 06:42 - Brain Patterns of the Top 1% 10:51 - Is Healing Possible? 12:07 - Changeability of Brain Patterns 17:53 - Why Isn't This Common Knowledge? 20:30 - Political Brain Patterns 25:15 - Conflict-Prone Engagement Patterns 28:30 - Top 1% Brain Patterns 29:10 - Taking Calculated Risks 34:05 - Distorted Perception of Reality 37:17 - The Bible and Psychedelics 38:20 - Parenting for Success 41:08 - Importance of Self-Efficacy 43:10 - Risks of Homeschooling 46:05 - Far Right Brain Pattern Analysis 49:38 - Understanding Pure OCD 51:52 - Negative Effects of Psychedelics 55:28 - Outro 55:32 - Getting Your Brain Pattern Map 55:42 - Finding Dr. Leaf’s Book and More Info APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Bizzie Gold https://www.instagram.com/bizziegold/ SPONSORS: KINSTA: https://kinsta.com/dsh LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #behavioralscience #covid-19andmentalhealth #socialmediaeffectingmood #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealth
Chapter 1: What are the five brain pattern variations?
All right, guys. Busy Gold here today. We're going to talk human behavior. She knows a lot of fascinating stuff. Thanks for hopping on today. Thank you so much for having me. Yeah. So you basically figured out there's five brain pattern variations, right? I have. Yep. Eight billion people. Only five of us. Which is pretty crazy to think about because we think we're so unique, right?
It's true. People are very convinced that they are unique individual. And I always try to emphasize as a spirit, right? Kind of going more higher level. Of course, we're all unique, right? There's no other Sean Kelly in the world. There's no other Busy Gold in the world. But the way our brains are patterned by our environment, they all fit into five distinct patterns.
From the work that we've done over the last 11 years, we've found that there are five primary types and then there are subtypes from within that. But yeah, essentially five different operating systems. If you think of your brain like a computer, there's only five variations of an operating system. Wow. And do they vary based off country or are they pretty widespread everywhere?
Chapter 2: How do brain patterns vary across cultures?
Interestingly enough, there is a cultural component to this. The environment is one of the largest correlators to the outcome of a brain pattern.
So one of the things that we've studied quite a bit is that there's a prevalence of certain types of brain patterns in the United States, whereas there are other types of brain patterns that have prevalence in countries like India or China or even some of the Arab countries. And then if you think about
countries like Austria or Germany or Switzerland, or if you think of just kind of like the tough Russian as well, where there's a little bit of toughness and stoicism, that's very much part of their cultural fabric. You'll see brain pattern types tend to emerge that are similar in those areas as well.
So throughout the United States, obviously we have a ton of cultural diversity and we also have a ton of brain pattern diversity. But there are certain brain pattern types that emerge more when a child has a really wonderful, soft, sweet environment with married parents where, unfortunately, there might not be a ton of discipline. The child might not experience much hardship.
They don't really learn how to emotionally regulate. And we actually see a prevalence of a very specific type of brain pattern type in the US that is less common in other countries. And sadly, it has a... poor quality of life that they promote, actually.
Sorry to hear that, trust fund babies, right? That's what they call them. Daddy's money, trust fund babies. Yeah, it's kind of like a blessing in disguise because you're born into a family with all the success and money, but then you grow up kind of mentally unstable, right?
It's true, because you don't learn how to emotionally regulate. The stakes are lower when you're a child. So an example would be my husband's an only child and we have four kids. So when he's watching the interplay between our four children, he looks at me all the time and says, babe, I would have turned out totally different if I'd had siblings. And it's true.
Little kids are going to punch and slap each other. They're going to steal each other's stuff. And you learn to regulate yourself when the stakes are lower, right? Getting your blanket stolen is not the same as getting your girlfriend stolen. Losing a job is not the same as losing a soccer game.
So it's better to learn those things when you're younger because you're naturally you have more of a capacity for resilience. But unfortunately, a lot of parents don't ever put their kids in a position where they need to bolster themselves and learn to build resilience.
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Chapter 3: What is brain pattern mapping and how accurate is it?
There also overlaps with academics, how parents actually emphasized or didn't emphasize academics. And then we also look at factors like how a child is going to report whether their parent favored another sibling. So example would be many people will say in the diagnostic that they felt like there was...
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favoritism toward another sibling, we know that that correlates with a very specific brain pattern type. Really?
And if somebody reports that there is religion in their home, but they experience the religion as comforting, they're much more likely to be one of the brain pattern types. So it's never just one piece of data. We're looking at a whole subset of over 200 different points. But in general, religion...
overall childhood environment consistency, whether there was any sort of discipline used, whether there was substance abuse in primary caregivers. These are the types of data points that we're looking at. Have you seen a specific brain pattern for the top 1%? Absolutely. And what's that pattern?
So out of the five brain pattern types, it's best to look at it on a spectrum. So we have a graph that I can actually show you and I'll describe it visually. We'll throw it up on the screen. Okay, cool. So imagine a spectrum where you've got an equal left and right half. On the left side, you're going to have all the abandonment oriented patterns.
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Chapter 4: Can brain patterns be changed and how?
So in a way, my dad kind of parented me to have a high level of situational awareness. Imagine if you couldn't turn that off. Imagine if every time somebody moved their shoulder weird or made a funny face while you were at a restaurant with friends. Do you think you'd be able to focus on what your friends are saying? No. No.
So the byproduct of that is that the people around you will start to think that you're selfish or disengaged. Like, oh, he doesn't care about me. When really it's not that you don't care. That's not the place that it's originating from. But you can't shut off all the stimuli that you're experiencing in your external world. That's interesting.
So as you move all the way out to that left-hand side on the spectrum, the viewers and listeners are going to see a big circle. Inside of that circle, we're going to see a high prevalence of paranoia, schizophrenia, anything where you can no longer find the objective line of reality. Within that left side, there are two primary subtypes.
There's a very specific section, which I will do a box around for your viewers where the top 1% are. Interestingly, the top 1% is also where all the most, I would say, famous comedians are likely. Wow.
If any top comedian is listening to this, which I know there are many because some of you guys manage my social media platforms, I would love people that have that kind of skill set and that career path to come to me. I will give you a brain pattern map for free because I want to prove my point. You guys are all in that square. Yeah. And you predict with 98.3% accuracy, right?
We do. So in 20 minutes, we can accurately predict patterns of thought, behavior, and decision-making with 98.3% accuracy. And I think the coolest thing about this is that the entire field of mental health is really built on a foundation of narrative therapy. Well, Sean, tell me about your parents. What was your parents' marriage like?
These are all narrative-based questions that allow you to tell me a story. They're not objective data. And what we have found is that the narrative is actually a byproduct or coming through the lens of a brain pattern. So if you are not focused on the data, you're missing the wealth of information that comes from understanding how the brain pattern distorts the narrative.
Right. They'll never ask you for data in therapy. In fact, I think they're triggered by it. And rightfully so, because if we keep walking the path that I believe my company is walking, it will eventually start to make that field obsolete. One of the things that I've been thinking about a lot, because I've bumped heads with quite a few people in this field, because I do think...
At the core, and I think this goes across many different areas of our life, not just the mental health field, there's this sense that healing is no longer possible and everyone should just accept, cope, or adapt. And it feels like there's something more sinister going on behind the scenes where the powers that be, whoever that is, I'll let the listeners jump to their own conclusions,
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Chapter 5: What are the brain patterns of the top 1%?
don't actually want us to figure out how to be mentally well. And for a long time, the mental health field has treated psychology and mental health outcomes like a phenomenon. And in this way, I think they're relating psychology more to an art, but it really is math. Yeah, they call it a mental health epidemic, right? Going on right now.
absolutely mental health epidemic that keeps getting worse. I think we were pitched this lie over the last 10 years that the problem was access to mental health. So if we just gave everyone telehealth, then the problem would miraculously be solved. But that has not been the case.
And the more people engage with tech interfaces and replace the human connection with tech interfaces, I think it only exacerbates the problem. Absolutely. Now, how changeable are these brain patterns? Because I know these are formed when we're babies, right?
Between ages two and five. And with methods like what we do in Break Method, it's absolutely able to be rewired. It takes about 16 to 20 weeks. It does take hard work and the person is not going to like the process. Yeah.
Our brain patterns are going to be partially what dictate our preference. So you're not naturally going to like any of the things that will ultimately help you heal. But that's exactly the point. I could see that. It took me years to break one of my patterns. My father was really pessimistic, so I used to think the worst of every situation. It took me a while to break that one.
That's a hard one to break. Yeah, because he just assumed the worst. He had what you were talking about earlier, I think the paranoid stuff. I think he definitely had that.
So interestingly enough, so on that left side, the top 1% are right in the middle of the left side. So if we were to draw a square middle left, it's this overlap between two different pattern types, one which naturally has a high level of flexibility. So in any given situation, their fear state is adaptable and flexible, not rigid.
And same with the grouping just to the left in a different brain pattern type. So ultimately, and I think ironically, the key to being in the top 1% is actually not to be extremely rigid and controlling, which I only say it's ironic because nowadays on social media, everyone's like cold plunge, biohacking, morning routine, gratitude journals, like they have their list of their 10 things that
they do to keep themselves going, right? The best wake up at four o'clock in the morning. I think if we really dug into it, that's not actually necessarily true. And I think some people try to adopt that to try to regulate themselves back to the center. But naturally... The top 1% are flexible. Have you ever seen the show Billions? Yeah, that's a great show.
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Chapter 6: How do political affiliations relate to brain patterns?
Yeah, because they're moving so fast, right? And often they're not even really aware how fast they are moving because they can't relate to the other 99%. Right, yeah. People will call me an alien all the time. I don't even know how to deal with you because you're like an alien. And obviously that takes people work to catch up to.
Yeah. Communication styles. That's something I've been fascinated by because I used to shut down when conflict arose. So I've been having to work on that lately.
So this is what I will challenge you with. I will write down what I think you're... So we mark nine different distinct markers in brain pattern mapping. I think I could accurately predict all nine of yours before you take it. So I will do that. I will write it down today before you take it and then I'll give you a point. Just from talking to me for 20 minutes, you can mark all nine? Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, I think I already know it. Dang, that's impressive. Yeah. Wow. I think it will end up being the most revolutionary step forward in mental health that we've ever had. And it doesn't matter what type of background I've had kind of brought into the back end of what we've built. Every time the response is like, holy beep. Like, how is this not everywhere? Everyone needs to know this.
Yeah, this should be with your results. And everyone does need to know this. It doesn't matter. Your life might be great. You might have a lot of money. You might have the nice house, the nice cars, have the kids. There's always insight to be gained from understanding your brain pattern map because it will unlock all of the secrets of why you've done what you've done for so many years.
Yeah, yeah. This is valuable stuff. I think part of it's probably because insurance doesn't cover it. Like if I want to get therapy right now, insurance covers that, you know, but they're not going to pay for this.
They're not going to pay for this, but I will say the average amount of money that somebody spends on therapy, if you look at how long people are typically in therapy, doing what I do is significantly less expensive.
Oh, yeah. If you factor in the timing of it for sure, because some people are in it like Pete Davidson has been going to therapy for what, 20 years? That's probably tens of thousands of dollars. And I know that this is not the opinion that people want to hear, but that does not need to happen. Yeah. It really doesn't.
It just seems like they drag you on because they make money the longer you stay. It is a financially and emotionally codependent model. And I train therapists all the time in my modality. There ends up being this moment where I'm sure many therapists go into this field because maybe a therapist helped them. And maybe they're just driven to be that mediator or peacekeeper for people.
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