Digital Social Hour
The Truth About Confidence in Modern Dating | Casiah West & Chase DSH #1305
Mon, 07 Apr
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Uncover the truth about confidence in modern dating! 💬 In this episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly, we're joined by Casiah West and Chase for a deep dive into the dynamics of modern relationships, confidence, and how societal norms are reshaping dating today. From the challenges of insecurity to the impact of social media and red pill ideologies, this conversation is packed with valuable insights and candid stories that will have you rethinking everything you know about dating. Discover why confidence is the ultimate game-changer, hear jaw-dropping takes on relationship roles, and find out how traditional values meet modern expectations. Plus, we tackle controversial topics like cheating, societal pressures, and what really matters in building a lasting connection. 🌟 Tune in now for an unfiltered discussion that will leave you inspired and informed. Don’t miss out—watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts in the comments below. 👇 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:03 - Why Men Hate Women 04:57 - Prolon 08:01 - Do Women Only Want Men for Money? 09:58 - Lumati Red 12:14 - Cheating is Common 17:28 - Insecurity is Unattractive 19:57 - How to Get a Girl to Like You 23:55 - Makeup Sex 25:35 - Kevin Samuels 29:44 - Most Men Are Gay 35:00 - Is Watching Porn Cheating? 40:04 - Do Nice Guys Finish Last? 41:53 - Fresh and Fit Exposed 47:55 - "Women Should Chase You" Mentality 49:20 - Dan Bilzerian and the "Girls" Trend 51:50 - What's Next for You Guys? 56:56 - Thoughts on Dating Apps 59:00 - How Are Clubs Doing? 59:35 - Pro Tip: Approach Girls Confidently 1:00:41 - Where to Find Casiah West & Chase APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Casiah West & Chase https://www.instagram.com/casiahwest/ https://www.instagram.com/deveanchase SPONSORS: PROLON: http://prolonlife.com/DSH LUMATI: https://www.lumati.com/dsh LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #moderndating #relationshipinsights #redpill #highvaluemen #datingadvice
Chapter 1: Why do some men express hatred towards women?
or in love with their secretary or they cheated. But now it's literally getting to the point where they hate women. Yep. For being a woman. And also saying that you should only hang out with your guys. All I want to do is get one. Thing. What the hell is going on? And then the other issue is, is most men are actually gay. What? Yes.
I did not expect that. All right, guys, got Cassia and Chase here today. We're going to talk relationships. You guys have been blowing up on social media. Congrats on all that. Only two months in, you said?
Chapter 2: How did Casiah and Chase gain social media attention?
Yeah, it definitely started to blow up like two months in. And we've taken so many breaks on it too. Like we'll stop posting for like four or six months. And like when we go back to it, it's just- It just keeps going, yeah. We're not consistent at all. Yeah. You guys don't want to go full time? Are you scared or-
It's just, you know, we never did it to start for the money. You know, I own a bunch of tech companies. She was, you know, just chilling at home and we're like, we just talk shit all the time. Yeah. Put it on camera. Yeah. I love it. You guys are very open with, with like relationship stuff. It's impressive. Yeah.
A lot of couples are scared to speak out, but it sounds like you guys got good communication going, right? Yeah, for sure. Definitely. What was the first few videos that kind of blew up? What were they about?
I think, so that day, like the day of the podcast, I read this book about, you know, the psychological differences between men and women and the reasons that most couples get into arguments. So I think it was the one about like, men having only one area of the brain for listening or for language.
And I really was doing it to give women the... So women would understand the reasons that their men aren't able to listen. But guys just immediately took it as... A woman is talking. I'm furious. I'm not going to listen. So after a couple of those, I was just like, you know what? Forget it. Forget it. Like, you guys are the worst audience. I'm not helping men anymore.
Because I could give men great advice. But with all the content that comes out that makes them hate women, they just don't listen. So it just became me giving women the ammunition that they need to send to their boyfriends when their boyfriends are sending them videos of Andrew Tate. Yeah.
And you know, the crazy thing is with your videos, it's just, it's the knowledge in it is just so basic common sense. And just because she's saying it in the way that she's saying it, men can't handle it. So literally just be like, oh, you get testosterone in the morning. So it's easier for you to wake up. Right. Just a physiological difference.
And they're like, I can't believe you're saying this. Like my woman should get up at 6 a.m. Just like. Where does this come from? It's insane. And I don't know anyone in real life that actually talks that way or thinks that way. It's easier to say stuff like that on social media, but then in person, you don't really come across it that often, I bet.
But women are dealing with their men being mad at them for not being as productive as they are, like as if it matters.
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Chapter 3: Do traditional relationship roles still work today?
And so I got to give him credit for that, but he did definitely start it. And he definitely started this trend of guys posting a bunch of girls on their Instagram and doing photo shoots to be like, look at all the girls. That's not how it works, bro. What do you think of the approach of like having the woman come to you rather than pursuing woman? Absolutely not. You don't like that approach?
I literally like the, you know, people would say, what's your type? Basically having the balls to walk up to me. Like if you have the balls to walk up to a woman, you're already doing better than 90% of guys. And like, yes, she should want you maybe based on your social proof or your looks or your vibe. But you need to be able to walk up to a woman cold approach.
That's all these guys need to be doing is just practicing having the balls to walk up to a woman and say, hey. Yep. That's it. That's it.
And have a normal, unintended conversation. I mean, with no intentions. Because the chasing thing that you're talking about, you do want the girl to chase you, right? But that doesn't mean you just stand there. And be like, oh, look, you know, you see, come to me. It's not like that. Even Dan Belzerian in his book, he goes up to the girl. Oh, he does?
He goes up to the girl and has a normal conversation. That's his thing. He goes up and he has a normal conversation with no intention. He barely shows interest. Right. He never compliments them. He's just like, oh, hey, like, what's up? You know, I'm Dan. Nice to meet you, blah, blah, blah. And then that's when the chasing happens because a girl is not used to hello and nothing else. Right.
She's used to hello. And then, oh, my God, you're so beautiful. I want to be with you. She's used to that. And when she doesn't receive it, that's attractive. Oh, that's what the chasing is. But if people are just like we see people so many times just standing in the club, you know, just like chill and thinking, you know, they look good. So girls think coming, getting a table, spending 20. Good.
You look. Girls are not coming up like that. And the girls that do come up based on your looks are not the girls that you want. Yeah. Because the hot girls don't come up. There's no way. Yeah, 100%. What's next for you guys? Anything planned for this year? Are you going to launch a dating course or something?
We're actually... So... Like every month we always like go on like a big trip. We get like a villa, whatever. We bring our friends. And I was like, why don't we start bringing some of my followers? Yeah. And so actually like tomorrow we're going to Cabo and we're bringing a group of girls and we're basically going to make a reality show of it. Oh, sick. Yeah.
Full on. We got videographers and we're, you know, just having like. So it's all girls? No guys? It's all girls and me. Let's go. My God. I'm dimples. I love it. No, but we're going to do like, you know, like a revenge tour, like she said. Yeah, basically girls that have been like, the girls that are my followers are girls that have been pissed off at their exes.
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