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The Real Deal About OnlyFans & Modern Dating | Farha Khalidi DSH #1390

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🌟 Get ready for a deep dive into "The Real Deal About OnlyF*ns & Modern Dating" with Sean Kelly on the Digital Social Hour! 🎙️ This episode is packed with valuable insights as our guest Farha shares her journey from writing for feminist magazines to navigating the world of OnlyF*ns and tackling modern dating debates. 💬🔥 We’re breaking down the myths, controversies, and truths about OnlyF*ns, feminism, Red Pill ideologies, and what it all means for relationships today. Farha doesn’t hold back, exploring everything from political ideologies, social media dynamics, and the evolving dating game to her bold stand on societal double standards. 💪💡 If you’ve ever wondered about the intersection of modern dating culture, OnlyF*ns, and feminism—or just love engaging debates—this is a must-watch! Don’t miss out on the conversations that are reshaping perspectives. Tune in now and join the conversation. 🚀 👉 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets! 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎉💬 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:30 - Farha's Political Journey 02:11 - Feminism: Has It Gone Too Far? 06:34 - OnlyF*ns and Feminism Discussion 09:58 - Our 2nd Sponsor 10:54 - Farrah's Sexual Skills 13:27 - Andrew Tate's Debate Skills 16:21 - The Value of Marriage 21:03 - Dating a Guy with Kids 22:24 - Banned from Tinder: The Story 23:34 - Ideal Traits in a Partner 25:54 - Veganism in Relationships 28:38 - Muslim Community's Reaction to OnlyF*ns 34:03 - Sydney's Next Debate Target 35:31 - Handling Hate: Sydney's Perspective 39:40 - Brian Johnson's Nighttime Performance 41:32 - Pressure for Cosmetic Procedures 43:30 - Job-Related Appearance Pressures 45:20 - Highest Payment from a Fan 47:20 - Coping with Online Hate 50:10 - Where to Find Us Online APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Farha Khalidi http://instagram.com/legalqs/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ The views and opinions expressed by guests on Digital Social Hour are solely those of the individuals appearing on the podcast and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, Sean Kelly, or the Digital Social Hour team. While we encourage open and honest conversations, Sean Kelly is not legally responsible for any statements, claims, or opinions made by guests during the show. Listeners are encouraged to form their own opinions and consult professionals for advice where appropriate. Content on this podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, financial, or professional advice. Digital Social Hour works with participants in sponsored media and stays compliant with Federal Communications Commission (FCC) regulations regarding sponsored media. #ad #moderndaydebate #englishcollectiveofprostitutes #xanderhalafghanistan #hippydippyroundtable #scotlanddebate

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Chapter 1: What is Farha's political journey?

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Okay, guys. Got Farha here today. I saw her on a debate and reached out to her to come on. Thanks for coming on. Thanks for having me. Yeah.

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Chapter 2: Has feminism gone too far?

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Good debate with Jake Shields. Yeah. Who do you think won? Yeah. You asked me that. I didn't have a good answer. I felt like with debates, it's hard unless there's a clear winner.

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Chapter 3: What are the challenges of OnlyFans and feminism?

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If I wasn't a clear winner against Jake Shields, that's a skill issue. He was saying women shouldn't vote. Yeah. Well, that was a strong stance, but you changed his opinion a little bit, it seemed like. Yeah, I ended up choosing genius women over the bottom rank of intelligence of men. Right. It took a while, but yeah. It's a fair point, right? Yeah.

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You know, intelligence should matter when it comes to voting. I don't think it has to, but if he's going to say women shouldn't vote because they're unintelligent, then I'm going to like press him on that. But I don't think you have to be smart to vote. Yeah. Have you always been into politics?

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Um, a little bit. Yeah. I feel like the past few years I've leaned more into like the feminism red pill stuff kind of by accident, kind of like went on fresh and fit like two years ago and then went down that pipeline. I got like addicted to those types of conversations.

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I mean, I'm, yeah, I've always been interested in politics, I guess, but I wasted, I want to say the past few years talking about like body count and the 19th with these red pillars. But yeah. Yeah. When the feminist movement was like popping off, is that where you kind of just stood out and built your brand?

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I've always been super feminist. Like I used to write for like a feminist magazine in like high school and college and stuff like that. So it's just always kind of been my thing. And then I kind of like built my TikTok up before I ever did any red pill shows doing like skits and comedy. And a lot of it was, I guess, rooted in like feminism and just being a little bit progressive, I guess.

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So then when the red pill stuff started blowing up, it kind of just fit perfectly with my niche because I would do like skits kind of like making fun of alpha type of guys and stuff. But yeah. Did you feel like the feminism movement ever got out of hand? Like it got too crazy?

Chapter 4: What are the ideal traits in a partner?

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No. Really? No, not at all. Wow. Because there's a lot of people that theorize red pill kind of spawned off of the feminism movement. Um, they can say that for sure. I don't subscribe to that at all. I mean, they have yet to say a single thing that feminism has done wrong. Like they'll say feminism has gone too far because for instance, educated women are filing for divorce more.

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And I'm like, if your stance is that the smarter someone is, and then they make a decision that that decision is a bad decision, I would say that's a pretty dumb premise. Like obviously smarter people make smarter decisions. And if they're leaving bad relationships, that's You know what I mean? That's on the men in that relationship. But I don't know. I don't know.

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Do you have strong opinions on feminism? I wouldn't say strong. I just hear both sides. I hear from the Red Pill saying that like the feminism movement just got crazy and that like one out of 15 women are on OnlyFans now. All these crazy like sayings, you know?

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Yeah. I mean, I wouldn't even see that as feminism in my opinion. Like a lot of feminists actually, when you look at like who was protesting like long before OnlyFans, it was mostly feminists. Like it was feminists that were corralling like 2 million signatures to get things like ban because there was so much like child, I don't know what words I can say. You can censor me if you want.

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We'll put some corn emojis up there. Okay, child sex trafficking, stuff like that. It was feminists who were like the sole protesters of it versus men were actually more likely to morally approve. They were more likely to obviously be subscribers of things like Playboy. But now when OnlyFans drop, now you have all these droves of men who are pretending like they're anti-sex work.

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But what I feel like they're really against is just women like deriving clout out of sex work because again- These were men who were totally okay with things like Pornhub. In 2020, New York Times dropped this groundbreaking expose called The Children of Pornhub, which detailed these countless stories of minors being trafficked, drugged on camera, and all that.

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And there was not a single drop in male viewership after this groundbreaking expose. We did not see any male-driven anti-feminist collectives bubbling up in the wake of this expose, right? None of them cared. Feminists were the only ones who were anti. for many reasons. One, they thought it was unfair to your relationship to watch. Two, they thought it's unfair to the women.

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Like they cited all the like really horrible, exploitative working conditions of prostitutes and strippers. They cited the fact that like the average age a girl goes into street prostitution is literally age 12. And one out of five American men have bought sex, right? So it was mostly feminists who are against this. They cite the fact that most strippers have like endured verbal or physical abuse.

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And like 60% of men have been to a strip club. They cite the fact that, you know, over half of women in a

Chapter 5: How do dating apps view OnlyFans creators?

Chapter 6: What is the Muslim community's reaction to OnlyFans?

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Do you have strong opinions on feminism? I wouldn't say strong. I just hear both sides. I hear from the Red Pill saying that like the feminism movement just got crazy and that like one out of 15 women are on OnlyFans now. All these crazy like sayings, you know?

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Yeah. I mean, I wouldn't even see that as feminism in my opinion. Like a lot of feminists actually, when you look at like who was protesting like long before OnlyFans, it was mostly feminists. Like it was feminists that were corralling like 2 million signatures to get things like ban because there was so much like child, I don't know what words I can say. You can censor me if you want.

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We'll put some corn emojis up there. Okay, child sex trafficking, stuff like that. It was feminists who were like the sole protesters of it versus men were actually more likely to morally approve. They were more likely to obviously be subscribers of things like Playboy. But now when OnlyFans drop, now you have all these droves of men who are pretending like they're anti-sex work.

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But what I feel like they're really against is just women like deriving clout out of sex work because again- These were men who were totally okay with things like Pornhub. In 2020, New York Times dropped this groundbreaking expose called The Children of Pornhub, which detailed these countless stories of minors being trafficked, drugged on camera, and all that.

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And there was not a single drop in male viewership after this groundbreaking expose. We did not see any male-driven anti-feminist collectives bubbling up in the wake of this expose, right? None of them cared. Feminists were the only ones who were anti. for many reasons. One, they thought it was unfair to your relationship to watch. Two, they thought it's unfair to the women.

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Like they cited all the like really horrible, exploitative working conditions of prostitutes and strippers. They cited the fact that like the average age a girl goes into street prostitution is literally age 12. And one out of five American men have bought sex, right? So it was mostly feminists who are against this. They cite the fact that most strippers have like endured verbal or physical abuse.

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And like 60% of men have been to a strip club. They cite the fact that, you know, over half of women in a

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being trafficked and again 60 of american men in the last month have watched mostly women who cared but now because of only fans you see all these men pretending to take a moral stance but and they'll start they'll talk about things like nofap shout out to today's sponsor kinsta if you run anything online an ecom brand a podcast site a service business you know hosting is one of those things that can either run quietly in the background or completely wreck your momentum when it goes wrong

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Chapter 7: How does marriage impact men and women differently?

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No, he's welcome to. They just invited me on. I was like, I've heard some interesting things. So it's like an eight hour show, right? It gets longer every time I go on. Like, I feel like the first time I went on, it was like four hours or three hours. Now I think they're doing like eight hour episodes. Plus you got to drive an hour because it's in the middle of nowhere.

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I think I'm doing two 1v1s back to back this Saturday. Oh, yeah. On it. Yeah. Well, this will come out after. So can you reveal who you're debating?

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Um, it's supposed to be a guy named Jim Bob and then a guy named, I don't know who these people are. And a guy named Jim Jire. Uh, there, there's like a new crop of just like Andrew Wilson wannabes who think that he's like the fucking goats. And now there's all these like guys who are just copycats basically of him. You got to admit objectively, Andrew Wilson is good at debating.

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Yeah, he is. But I guess I just don't see the value in being good at debating if you're spreading something that sucks. Because I feel like the whole point of debate is it's a means to an end. It's a tool to try and push forward an ideology you actually believe in and think is good for society.

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I think if you put Andrew Wilson on a polygraph, I think he's 100 percent in it for like the blood sport. Really? Yeah. I mean, he even has in his bio like blood sports debater. So, yeah, he's a good debater, but he also is in it just for the sake of debate, in my opinion. So you don't think he actually believes what he's debating on when it comes to like dating and relationships?

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No, of course not. Because one, he, again, like reports traditional values. I'm not going to shit on his personal relationships, but let's just say like his current family situation isn't the most traditional. The other thing is he'll go on a podcast like Brian's and he's a trad con, right? Or like he calls himself like a paleo Christ con, like whatever.

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further back than trad con like paleo um and at the same time he doesn't offer any pushback really maybe he does in like sprinkles to someone like brian who says like you shouldn't get married like marriage is a trap like women are temptresses he doesn't really offer much pushback and still he'll co-sign on to the pushback of the only fans girls and it's like i'm sorry which person in this arrangement has more sway over the general public brian who has four million subscribers and is telling his audience that women are like temper temptresses marriage is a trap and

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or this single like college girl that they found off the street who was saying something like, yeah, like my body counts eight. Like if you're actually a trad con, which party like deserves more pushback in that moment for like not aligning with your values. You know what I mean? Or he constantly like glazes people like Andrew Tate on Twitter.

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And he's just like, we need to not turn on Andrew Tate. We've let feminists get too far. So I'm just like, you're a trad con and yet you're co-signing on to like Andrew Tate. But that's the thing with a lot of these traditionalists is I feel like trad con is honestly just red pill and sheep's clothing.

Chapter 8: What are the implications of dating a single mother?

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Yeah. Holy crap. Yeah. That's way higher than I thought. Yeah. I mean, it's across cultures and maybe in certain cultures, it's higher. Like obviously in areas where gender norms are more extreme, like, you know, it's higher and stuff. I wonder how they conducted that study too. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not sure. Because you would assume a lot of guys would lie. Yeah, that's what I mean.

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So it could be even higher, you know? Yeah, that's the depressing part. So yeah, I guess my point is like, I don't think marriage is bad for women. I just think like for men, it's better to be in an average marriage, in a lackluster marriage than no marriage statistically versus for a woman. I would say it's generally...

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better for your wellbeing and mental health to be in a marriage where the person actually respects you and matches your values. And, you know, you can test that before getting married versus entering like an average marriage. Cause I think that's going to be more disadvantageous to you as a woman.

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Makes sense. You see a lot of Red Bull guys saying, don't date women that have kids from a prior relationship. What do you think about that?

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Yeah. I feel like Andrew Wilson's one of those guys, but he did it, you know? Yeah. I don't have much of a, I could see if they have the preference for that. But I think acting as if those women are like a cautionary tale is kind of weird because I don't feel like it's a woman's fault if she gets like abandoned. It doesn't really make any sense because a lot of that comes from the right.

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And these are guys who literally shame women for being single issue voters and being pro-abortion. And I'm like, isn't a single mother... a woman who by your value system chose life over an abortion. So why are you now penalizing her against that in the dating market? Like, aren't you literally now incentivizing women to think like, go get an abortion.

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Otherwise you're going to become like a dating pariah, you know? So I don't know. I think it's inconsistent. Yeah. I don't know how I feel on that one too, honestly. Would you date, I guess it's weird to think about because you've been in a relationship for a decade. It wouldn't be my preference, like you said. Yeah.

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But if I really liked the girl, I guess, I would look past it. I mean, my best friend just is about to get married to someone who had a kid from a previous relationship and they're really happy together.

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So I feel like it wouldn't be my preference to like date a guy who's already been married or have a kid. Like, you know, if I was like swiping on Tinder, you know, obviously I wouldn't select for it. But if I met a guy and clicked, like I'd probably look past it. Are you on the apps, the dating apps? I'm banned off Tinder and Bumble. I don't know why. I've been banned for like eight years.

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