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The Hidden World of Online Scams Exposed | Nikki Benz DSH #883
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Dive into the hidden world of online scams exposed in this eye-opening episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎙️ Join the conversation as Nikki Benz shares authentic and shocking stories of deception, from fake accounts using her photos to scam unsuspecting fans to wild tales of online imposters. 😱 Packed with valuable insights, this episode reveals the darker side of fame and the vulnerability of fans caught in the crossfire. Tune in now for an engaging discussion on the challenges adult actors face and the steps you can take to protect yourself from scammers. Don't miss out! Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 #scamstargetingseniors #adultindustrytrends #onlinescamsawareness #commoninternetscams #digitalmanipulation #scamstargetingseniors #onlinescamsawareness #adultindustrytrends #spotscams #scamprevention CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:33 - How to Measure Your P*nis 01:11 - Nikki's S*xual History 06:23 - Nikki’s Fans Getting Scammed 11:14 - Experience with Plugged Talk 12:02 - Future Plans in the Industry 15:40 - Start of Nikki's Career 17:08 - Investing Knowledge Sources 21:03 - Comedy Career Exploration 22:00 - Running for Mayor of Toronto 23:52 - Public Recognition Frequency 24:30 - Trust Funds for Pets 25:40 - Discussion on Kids 28:10 - Family Relationships Insights 32:08 - First Award Achievement 32:55 - M*sturbation Discussion 33:54 - Where to Find Nikki Online 34:18 - Outro APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Nikki Benz https://www.instagram.com/nikkibenz/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chapter 1: What scams are targeting fans of adult actors?
This isn't anything new. It happens with adult actors. It happens with mainstream actors. And people fall for it. I really do feel bad, because you don't want people to get scammed, and I get mad. Pricks use my photos and other girls' photos to scam fans. I had a guy who came in when I was doing an appearance. He came in. He had an online relationship for two years. He thought it was me.
He was literally in love, ready to marry the fake me. It was wild. Damn. Yeah.
Chapter 2: How can you identify fake accounts online?
All right, Nikki Benz here. And she's going to bust this myth on how to measure your dick right off the bat. Right off the bat. So a lot of guys measure it from the balls up, right? Like underneath the cock. You can't do that because that adds fake length. You have to do it on top. Take your ruler and put it on top of your dick. That's the proper way to measure it. I just lost half an inch.
You probably did. Yeah. I would ask you how big you are, but I feel like it's inappropriate. Yeah, I don't know if my girl wants the world knowing. No. I'll just ask her directly.
Chapter 3: What should you do if you get scammed online?
Yeah, you could ask her. Yeah. But I don't know. But I think when you go home tonight, you should remeasure it and see where we're at. That might hurt my ego. That's okay. Damn. What's the most someone's lied to you about their size?
Oh, guys lie all the time. Guys lie about how many girls they slept with. I had a few guys lie on me saying that they slept with me and they never have, which is so crazy. But yeah, guys lie about everything, don't they?
Chapter 4: What is Nikki Benz's experience with online scams?
Girls lie about their body counts too, though. Like they usually lower it, right? Yeah. And guys over inflate. They do. They do. It's an ego thing. It is. Yeah. Yeah. But you're open with yours? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Do you even know yours?
Um, so before, I do know, before I got into, actually I do, in my personal life I do, I never counted in my adult career, but a lot of people think it's like in the thousands, multiple hundreds, it really isn't. I tend to work a lot with the same actors, and that keeps my numbers down. You know what, I should count it and let you know, but I really don't know on top of my head.
I would assume hundreds at least, but... I don't know that it's even 100. Whoa. Yeah. That's the lowest I've heard for a porn star.
Well, I've always been under contract. And when you're under contract, you don't shoot as much. And then you literally rotate the same four to five guys with a certain company. And then when you switch companies, it's just another four to five guys. Got it. And it's the same people. I try to kind of, my fans get annoyed with that. And they'll be like, can you use somebody new? And I will.
They want some new guys? Yeah, because they get bored of the guy as well. But I don't know that it's in the multiple hundreds. I really don't think so. And in my personal life, it's pretty low too. Are you having more sex in your personal life or business? Um when I'm date I so I'm not a serial dater I don't when I if I don't have a long-term relationship, I kind of just I'm very low-key Okay.
Yeah, so more in business time more in business Wow. Yeah, you're really not craving it outside of business like that. Um, no, I'm very Spicy vanilla like I'm spicy, but I'm vanilla.
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Chapter 5: How has OnlyFans changed the adult industry?
No, I mean, yeah little chai latte or whatever it is chai latte.
I Yes. It's, you know, I'm a little bit of a contradiction because I am pretty conservative, but I do adult movies and a lot of people don't really understand that. And that's OK. But there is the work me and that's the whole fantasy. And then there's the real me that a lot of people don't know. And I'm pretty chill, pretty laid back. OK, so you're way different off screen.
A hundred percent. On screen, it's a persona that I've built. It's also part of me. But off screen, I'm just in my sweatpants, hair up, just chill. I love being home. I'm not crazy. I used to be in my 20s. I'm just chill. I'm low-key. I think a lot of people, when they see the on-screen persona, they just assume... I'm that person 24-7, and that's incorrect. No one is.
I mean, mainstream actors are not like that either, right? Just because you see so-and-so in a Batman suit doesn't mean they go home and keep it on.
Chapter 6: What investing strategies does Nikki Benz recommend?
Right. So you'll have weird fans approaching you thinking you're that person, and then... 100%. Fans just automatically think because they've done or do adult movies, they can get it in there, and they can't. You've never slept with a fan?
I think one of my exes was definitely a closet fan. I just didn't know at the time. You know what I mean? Because I used to ask him, I used to be like, who's your favorite performer? What kind of porn do you watch? And he would never tell me. And then I found, like, he used to watch my shit. You went on his phone when he was sleeping? Yeah, absolutely. Girls do that shit, man. I love doing that.
Why?
Chapter 7: What challenges do adult actors face in their careers?
You find out a lot of stuff that they don't want to tell you. Don't you feel like it's a personal boundary, though? Oh, well. How do you feel if he did it to you?
Well, it is OK. But when I ask him, hey, what kind of porn are you into, and he's secretive about it, I think it's weird. Yeah. I've been with that guy for over a year, and he would never tell me. But I think the porn that he watches was me. Okay. Did you find any gay porn? No. Not with him. Another guy, yeah. Oh, we can go into that as well. What happened there?
This guy that I dated, I actually used his laptop. I wasn't spying. I just needed to use it. And I just happened to... look of the search Engine and he was watching gay porn and I confronted him about it. He was in denial He said that it wasn't his laptop. It was somebody else's could have been whatever right don't care and
Years later, like I'm talking about 12 years later, actually last year, we just all found out that he came out of the closet and he's literally gay. Wow. Which is also okay, but he was just, obviously was in denial. And what's interesting about him, he dated the hottest freaking girls. Like he always had like the hotties on his roster. Damn. Yeah. He could pull girls.
Yeah, he was funny. Girls like that. Girls like funny. Wow. You know what I mean? Like, he was average looking. He wasn't, like, hot. But he was just so funny and quirky. And I think his personality won over a lot of people. Unfortunately, I was one of them. But, yes, I can officially say that I've dated a gay man. Damn. Yeah. Have you dated a trans man? No.
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Chapter 8: How can you protect yourself from online scams?
Okay. No. No. Not my thing. Sorry. That's where you draw the line? Well, yeah. I don't want to get canceled. I don't want to get canceled. I love everyone, but not everyone's for me, okay? Let's talk about these scams.
Let's talk about it. Oh, my God. What is going on? So this isn't anything new. It happens with adult actors. It happens with mainstream actors, but... Fans get scammed by people who steal our photos. I'm going to use myself as an example. They'll steal my photos. They'll create a fake Nikki Benz account. It'll be like Nikki Benz. It'll be misspelt. And it'll be like one, two, three, four, five.
Like you should already know that's a fake account. Um, and then those fans or those fans, sorry, those people, those scammers will talk to my fans. I don't know how they find them online, whatever. And they'll convince them that that's really me. They'll convince them that I need money, that I need an iPhone, that I need tickets to this, that the other gift certificates, new car, whatever.
And people fall for it. They fall for it. They get scammed. They feel bad. And then somehow by some miracle, they find the real me. And then they complain about it. They get mad at me for getting scammed by a fake. So I'm on here saying, guys, please stop getting scammed. Look for the check mark.
If you obviously see my account and it has like five plus million people versus somebody who has 300, you know that's not me. Stop getting scammed.
They really do. And I feel bad. I really do feel bad because you don't want people to get scammed. And I get mad that these pricks use my photos and other girls' photos to scam fans. Like they obviously target lonely men and they talk to them. They develop a relationship. I had a guy who came in. When I was doing an appearance, he came in, he started talking to me as if I know him.
He's like, hi, it's me. You know, like, did you get an iPhone I sent you? I'm like, I don't even know you, but nice to meet you. And then he had an online relationship for two years. He thought it was me. Whoa. Yeah. Like he was literally in love, like ready to marry the fake me. It was wild. Yeah. And you said, I think you mentioned $10,000 he sent over the time. That was somebody else.
Oh, that was someone else? And I don't know if that's true. Like, they could have lied to me. But somebody told me they got scammed for $10,000 thinking it was me. And, like, I'm never going to ask people for money like that. Like, join my OnlyFans. Great. Thank you. Support my work. But I'm not going to ever say, hey, send me $10,000. Like, that's crazy.
What if someone offered $10,000 for a dinner with you? Um, I'm okay. I can afford my own dinner. Oh, you wouldn't take that? I wouldn't. Wow. It's no. It's a lot.
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