3 Miracles That Saved My Life - Kevin Hines shares his incredible journey of survival and hope after jumping from the Golden Gate Bridge. In this powerful conversation, Kevin reveals the extraordinary chain of events that saved his life that day: a compassionate sea lion who kept him afloat, a quick-thinking Coast Guard response, and a world-class surgeon who happened to be in the right place at the right time. From his struggles with mental health to becoming a globally recognized suicide prevention advocate, Kevin opens up about his ongoing journey of recovery and healing. Learn how he transformed his darkest moment into a mission of hope, helping others choose life through his compelling story and practical mental wellness strategies. In this raw and honest discussion, Kevin shares invaluable insights about mental health, resilience, and the power of speaking up. Discover his proven two-step technique for managing suicidal thoughts and how he's helping create lasting change through groundbreaking initiatives like the Golden Gate Bridge safety net. If you're struggling or know someone who is, this episode contains essential wisdom and hope. Watch now for an unforgettable story of survival, redemption, and the miracles that can happen when we choose to keep fighting. 🙏 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 #transformingmentalhealth #suicideprevention #suicidepreventionresources #mentalhealthstigma #suicidalthoughts CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:39 - Kevin’s Story 04:54 - Miracles that Saved Kevin 08:56 - Suicide Prevention Techniques 11:35 - Experiences in Psych Wards 18:00 - History of Lobotomies 19:58 - Suicide as a Crime 20:40 - Guilt and Mental Health 22:50 - Impact of Bullying 27:30 - Society’s Role in Suicide 31:08 - Pain Medications and Mental Health 34:38 - Cultural Perspectives on Mental Health 39:30 - Supporting Students with Counseling 40:25 - Kevin’s Love Story 47:20 - BroglieBox Overview 49:00 - Solutions for Las Vegas 51:50 - Kevin’s Relationship with His Mom 57:47 - Future Plans for Kevin 1:00:40 - Resources for Suicide Prevention 1:02:30 - You Matter: Mental Health Awareness APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Kevin Hines https://www.instagram.com/kevinhinesstory/ https://kevinhinesstory.com/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/
Chapter 1: What happened to Kevin Hines on the Golden Gate Bridge?
I shattered three vertebrae immediately upon impact. They splintered inside me. I missed severing my spinal cord by two millimeters. And then at one point, I could not make my way back to the surface. I was drowning. And I simply prayed, God, please save me. I don't want to die. I made a mistake on repeat.
All right, guys, Digital Social Hour here with Kevin Hines. We've been trying to set this up for a while. Thanks for finally coming on, man.
I'm so glad to be here, Sean. Thank you for having me.
Yeah, I think we're going to impact a lot of people this episode.
Chapter 2: What miraculous events saved Kevin's life?
That's the hope, the wish, and the prayer.
Absolutely. A lot of people are probably familiar with your story, but for those who aren't, could you briefly explain what happened?
Absolutely. born in abject poverty, raised in a crack motel, parents died of drugs and alcohol, got adopted by a beautiful family, lived a great childhood and a beautiful adolescence. However, at 17 and a half, I was diagnosed with bipolar depression, type one with psychotic features, meaning I saw and heard things that no one else could see or hear.
I had panic attacks, heart palpitations, and manias and depressions. And due to all of that, and a lack of proper treatment, rather a lack of following a treatment plan. At 19, I ended up making my way to the Golden Gate Bridge to attempt to take my life a method of suicide that is 99.9% fatal. 99.9% of the people that have leapt off that bridge in the last 90 years of it being open are gone.
Chapter 3: What techniques does Kevin recommend for suicide prevention?
And I did the unthinkable. I leapt off. On the way down, in that fourth second fall, These were the words that rang true in my mind. What have I just done? I don't want to die. God, please save me. I hit the water at 15,000 pounds of pressure. If you don't know, that's like a giant African elephant standing on your chest. I shattered three vertebrae immediately upon impact.
They splintered inside me. I missed severing my spinal cord by two millimeters. And then at one point, I could not make my way back to the surface. I was drowning. And I simply prayed, God, please save me. I don't want to die. I made a mistake on repeat. And that's when something began circling beneath me. I thought it was a shark. I was terrified.
And I really started punching it because I really thought this is going to bite me. I didn't die jumping off the Colton Gate Bridge. A shark is going to eat me. Perfect. But it wouldn't go away. It just kept circling beneath my shoulders, my elbows and my knees, bumping me up.
Chapter 4: What are Kevin's experiences in psych wards?
and now no longer am I waiting or treading in the water, I'm lying atop and on my back being kept afloat by this creature, thinking this is one hell of a nice shark. I would later learn it was in fact a sea lion, and the people above looking down believed it to be keeping my body afloat until the Coast Guard brought a ride behind me.
And three separate people would report that to the Coast Guard office, and one man named Morgan, who I won't say his last name, wrote to me through ABC News when I was on there telling the story, and said, Kevin, I'm so very glad you're alive. I was standing less than two feet away from you when you jumped. Until this day watching this show, no one would tell me whether you lived or died.
It's haunted me until right now. By the way, Kevin, there was no shark like you mentioned you thought there was on the show, but there absolutely was a sea lion, and the people above looking down believed it to be keeping her body afloat until the Coast Guard board arrived behind you.
But Sean, the only reason the Coast Guard boat got to my position in the water before I would drown, regardless of the sea lion, was because a woman driving by in a red car at the moment of my attempt saw me go over the rail, called her co-worker in the United States Coast Guard. She worked there and told who happened to be manning the waters of the bridge at that moment.
Those are the two reasons I survived. Next to the third final miracle, which was at the hospital, they took me to Marin Medical Health Center, formerly Marin General Hospital. And they had options of which hospital to go, and they were originally going to go somewhere else. But the ambulance decided to go faster to Marin Medical Health Center, one of the foremost back surgeons in the world.
happened to be visiting for the day. Shout out to Dr. Jonathan Levin. Thank you, God, for him. I had a reunion with him after 22 years last year, which was incredible. He came in, decided to clock in and do my surgery, replacing my shattered vertebrae with titanium. Wow. And he saved me the ability to stand, walk, and I can kind of run.
That's crazy. So three miracles in one experience.
Yeah, yeah.
And did you realize that at the time or did you take some time to reflect back on that?
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Chapter 5: How did cultural perspectives impact mental health?
Chapter 6: What is the role of bullying in mental health issues?
So when the phone goes off in his pocket each and every time, even now. Wow. His first and every thought is Kevin alive. I did that. My actions did that. He has severe trauma from what I did. Sort of the rest of my family. And I feel like I have to take responsibility for that. I have to, you know, when he calls me, and he invariably does, and he goes, Kevin, are you thinking of killing yourself?
I tell him the truth. I live and have lived for 24 years with chronic or semi-regular thoughts of suicide. But I will and have never attempted since the year 2000 off the Golden Gate Bridge. And people say, well, how do you do that when you constantly think about it? I said, it's very easy. I have a two-pronged technique to never dying by suicide. And I share this with people all around the world.
I teach it to them. Number one, I say to find a mirror, any mirror, anywhere. I say, my thoughts don't have to become my actions. They can simply be my thoughts if they're dangerous to myself or others. My thoughts don't have to own, rule, or define whatever I do next. Thus, I never have to attempt to die in the first place.
The second and most important thing I do is I turn to anyone willing to listen, and Sean, I mean this. If I was suicidal today, which I'm not, and here we are together, I would literally say to you four simple but very effective words. I need help now.
The difference between me and people around the world who attempt to die by suicide is that I don't stop saying I need help now until someone's willing to answer the call. And frankly, mostly it's my wife, Margaret, my lovely wife, Margaret, who keeps me on the straight and narrow and keeps me safe in those times of pain. But I have been at the Atlanta airport where I live and stopped a TSA agent
and said, I need help now. And dude was like, what do you mean, buddy? I was like, I'm drastically suicidal. I need your help. And my phone had died. I didn't have my charger. And he goes, come with me. And he puts me in a locked room. Three police officers come in, two more security guards. And I'm like, not a threat to the airport or you. I'm suicidal personally. I have bipolar depression.
I need you to help me get ahold of my wife and figure this out. So they did. And that was my 10th psych ward stay in 2019. Whoa. And so the first three psych ward stays I was in were involuntary. I was forced in against my will after the Golden Gate Bridge. The last seven psych wards I've been in, and I haven't been in one since 2019, pre-pandemic.
The last seven psych wards I've been in, I have walked into those units and said, I need to be here or I won't be here. I effectively saved my own life. And that's what I teach people around the world is to have agency inside their mental health. To have agency in the idea that you have a choice here. It is not inevitable that you have to take your life. It's not the only option.
Just because you happen to be in a world of immense lethal emotional pain today doesn't mean you don't get to have that beautiful tomorrow, but you have to be here to get there in the first place. And so those are the messages I share with people everywhere I go.
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Chapter 7: How can we better support individuals struggling with mental health?
box shackled to it no more straight jackets I've gone through all of that shit in psych wards psych wards that I've been in have been both horrible and wonderful the reason they've been horrible is generally because of some of the staff you see there's two factions of staff in a psych ward most psych wards um
The ones that are just going through the motion, 100% hate their job and are just earning a paycheck as in any job.
Yeah.
And the ones that love what they do are impassioned and emboldened to help people in pain, genuinely care about them and want to see them heal. You can choose in a psych ward to, to worry more about the ones that don't care about you, that are struggling themselves with burnout, or you can choose to appreciate the ones who've got your back.
And for me, it took me a while, but in my third of 10 psych ward stays, I had this kind of epiphany. My uncle George comes in and he came in against visiting hours. He had a special admit to come in. And he drove like six hours from Arnold, California to see me. And he would always do that. He would always come to my psych ward stays.
I listened to uncle George, you know, on my mom's side, favorite uncle on my mom's side. And uncle George comes in and he has a rolled up magazine in his left hand. And he goes, Kevin, Your family and friends can help you until we are blue in the face.
But until and when you take 100% responsibility, young man, for the fact that you have this disease and you fight it tooth and nail, kid, ain't nothing going to change. You'll be in and out of these places for the rest of your life. Is that what you want? I said, no, Uncle George. And he yelled, well, get it together, kid. We're counting on you.
And he slammed the magazine on the table of the cafe and It was empty besides me and him. And he goes, read it. And he left. And I was like, you're not my favorite uncle anymore. But he was already gone. And I picked up the magazine. And I believe it was a 2002 or 2006. No, it was 2004 when I entered. So 2002. It was a 2002 Time Magazine article.
The front read, how to fight bipolar depression, mental illness with routine and regimen and win.
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Chapter 8: What steps can we take to combat the mental health epidemic today?
She goes, we're going to the roof. I said, Margaret, are you going to throw me off? She goes, no. We go to the roof. Two purple yoga mats, a box garden, the Bay Bridge, full moon, Golden Gate Bridge Tower behind us. It was epic. And we laid down, and I was freaking out. I was like, Margaret, what are we doing here?
And she goes, Kevin, if all we do right now is stare at that full moon, ain't nothing else can go wrong. And she gave me a second date, and we're 20 years dating, 17 years married, and she's loved my life, my very best friend. And the reason I'm proud of her...
to bring this full circle is because she has gotten together with a great friend of ours named Julia Belt, who created Broglie Box after she lost her brother to suicide. Broglie Box is a wellness care package for people who live with mental health crisis and struggles and illness and challenges. And you can gift them to people all over the world. You can gift them to corporates.
And these boxes are curated specifically for the right person. And you can pick what you want in the box. It's really nice. But my wife and Julia founded this company, Mindly, to solve the youth mental health crisis by way of using this thing called single session intervention. which is a platform they've built. It's basically a SaaS company platform they've built.
You pick the crisis, challenge, or issue you have. You enter it into the platform. It goes through a branching system. It makes you a three-step, regimented, actionable solution to that problem in less than 10 to 15 minutes. Wow. You get to the solve. You engage in the solve. You've co-created the solve. You act on the solve. You heal. It's fucking incredible. Beautiful. It's incredible.
And so they're building that right now, and they're putting that in schools all over the world. They just signed a deal with the territory of Guam.
Nice.
Guam has 157,000 people, right? This is going to be for everybody. it's going to be incredible.
That's epic. I love your approach because it sounds like you're pretty holistic, man.
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