Vanessa B. Bonds
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Right.
I mean, that's another thing to think about.
Like each time we say yes to something, we're kind of saying this is OK.
Right.
We're saying like it is acceptable for us to ask these things.
Sometimes we don't want people to feel like, oh, that was wrong to ask.
But sometimes it's like, no, I'm actually going to teach you that this isn't something you should be asking for.
Right.
I love that.
That's one of the recommendations I give, too, when people want a reason to say no that's like, it's not because I'm a bad person.
It's not because I'm not helpful.
It's just, I'm working on this.
It says, like, I am.
My default is to say yes to this, but, like, I'm doing it too much.
I mean, I guess, you know, Adam, I have another book coming out.
Will you plug it on social media?
Adam Grant is so mean.