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Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
We get paid to serve you, but we're made out of the same things. It's rare to have black male teachers. Sometimes I am the testament.
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Yeah, I mean, I got a lot of criticism and people said, well, that proves he's a huge idiot from a, you know, like, look, you know, he bought it for whatever, $44 billion and now it's worth like eight cents. It's not worth eight cents. But, you know, it was essentially to, you know, buy freedom of expression.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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Patricia's would have kind of been cool.
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Because Patricia is one of those names. I mean, that's the generation above us. There's no Patricia's that are millennials or younger.
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Imagine you meet a 15 year old and she's like, hey, I'm Patricia. There's no way. Like that name doesn't happen to her.
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It was actually a word that makes sense why it's kind of hard, you know?
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It's so weird how like certain names are like in certain time brackets. Like actually Justin and Kristen, very millennial. Are there any 65 year old Kristen's? Maybe they're like, oh, well, they wouldn't spell it. Or 10 year olds. Yeah.
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Or Justin, do you know any 70 year old Justins? No. Justin Timberlake was like the first Justin born, I think.
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It literally would have. Okay, so we're just going to ask some questions. And then, you know, it's funny. I always think about like...
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with you people don't realize how deep you are bro people think i'm a dumb ass no i don't think people do not think you're dumb there's nothing well no actually people would love to be like she's just a dumb blonde like people who don't know you but i don't think people who pay any attention to think you're dumb but i don't think people know how deep you are like you and i dissect shit for a while well i take it too far you always take it too far i take it too far but we but we love getting
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Let's get you to try to say it.
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We love getting really deep. And I think that's also obviously like why we're really close and why we talk all day long.
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Oh my God, we text so much.
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We're solving problems all day long. But then beyond that, like when we're together, like if we have like a little bit of drinks in us or whatever, like you and I like dissect shit. But I feel like with all the stuff you do, like a lot of people don't get like the really deep side of you. Yeah, that's true. So I'm going to get deep, bro. Not even that deep, honestly.
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It's just conversation so that we can like chat and elaborate on things. Okay. There's no particular order to these. So I didn't go importance to not important. Let's just kind of go through it. All right. So one of the most incredible things I think about you, this isn't me reading a script. It's me trying to stay ahead. And also bear with me. I have really bad ADHD.
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Whoever's editing this, you might have to edit it down quite a bit. Okay, one of the most impressive things for me about you is your ability to make quick decisions. Was it always there? Was it learned? And when was the first time you were like, wow, trusting my gut really works?
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Do you feel like you learned that from like finding fame at such a young age? Because I don't know, the way you make decisions is really impressive.
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Oh, well, you just said it really easy, right?
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Yeah. And you're really good right away being like, no, that doesn't work for me. You don't ever like because, you know, most people like, oh, should I do that? Or what do you think about that? Like you never play that game.
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I totally agree. It's the hardest thing for a lot of people. I mean, that sets like the biggest boundary too.
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He knows what's up too.
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Okay, here's another thing. My goodness, I wrote these like a four-year-old.
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No, I didn't put this out to Instagram. Remember I said to you, because I was going to say to all of our friends on Instagram, I was going to be like, what do you guys want me to ask Kristen or whatever? But I just had a feeling coming off of like the last big podcast you do, it would all be about guys or whatever. And it's like, can we talk about something else for the love of God?
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Oh my God. And they're all very catered to you, to how I feel about you and things that I want people to know about you. Oh, that's sweet. I really want people to see like lots of sides to you. Okay. Making experiences happen for yourself is kind of like this thing. I think you're really good at making experiences happen. And here's where I see it all the time. We travel a lot together.
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And you know how sometimes you'll go on a vacation, maybe you just lay by the pool or you just do the spa stuff or you have a long meal. You are the queen of experiences. And Scoot and I talk about this all the time because we go places. You want to go... shooting or whatever the fuck they call it. And like, you want to go out and like do all these activities and explore where we are.
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I didn't do that for a long time. Like, okay. And so my question with that is, is it purely selfish to experience life and have no regrets later in life? Or is it about having the time with the people you love or a combination of both? Like, what do you think your, your passion for like wanting to go out and like experience so many things? And I'm not just talking like ski shooting or whatever.
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You're big on experiences.
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Cause a lot of people don't, I mean, I know a lot of people do do that kind of stuff, but I think most people, when you travel with your friends, even it's like, let's get drunk in the pool and just like sit around over that. Yeah. And you're very good about, okay. Like, okay. Tomorrow's schedule is that at first I was like, what the fuck is going on?
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We could get drunk all day and like, we could just like lounge and like we, whatever, but like, you're good at that. And it's like, and now it's changed me. Like when I go on vacation, like I want to have like an itinerary. I want to like experiencing when I leave a city, I want to really feel like I like took it in, you know, and saw things or whatever.
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We've gone to the coolest places. We've gone to some cool places. Okay. This one's a fun one. Okay. Do you think in general, do you think your very first love sets the tone for the, your romantic life? Or do you think that's a thing? The first time you feel love or get your heart broken, does it have a big impact on how you view love in the future? Because this is a big thing for me.
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No, I'm totally with you. But I think it's really interesting because, well, for me, I mean, I was gay. And so I was trying to pretend I was straight in high school. So like my first loves were always like girls. So it was, again, more like a best friendship. You know, so mine was always like, it didn't feel real, right? But I always think about those things.
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It's like, you could, like, I always think about like... The first time a girl gives herself to like a guy and she's young, it's like the responsibility that that guy carries to really kind of like, and I'm not trying to get too deep, but like set the tone for the rest of that girl's life. Like if you took a girl, we can just talk. If you took a girl's virginity, right.
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And then you just totally ghosted her. Like, that's all you wanted. Like that could fail. fuck someone up for a really long time.
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Or even, it doesn't even have to be the first romantic love. Like a parent could fuck up your idea of love for a really long time.
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Right.
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Did Johnny break your heart or forget?
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That was the one he moved.
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Sexy Kelsey.
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Lainey. That bitch. No, Lainey's chill, right?
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But you think about that thing when you're so young and like the first time you really like, not even sex, just like kind of trust someone enough to be your boyfriend, even if you're like 13 or 12, like it could either ruin you or it could like set up your life to be like beautiful as far as love goes, you know?
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Cause I think that, I think your first heartbreak hits like no other, like the first time you get your heart broken is
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Boom.
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Like you were protecting yourself.
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You were saying that yesterday. We went to dinner. It's like when she got there, Jackson and Sailor were like going crazy in the car, right?
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So you've always wanted to be in the driver's seat since then.
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Come on out Johnny. Johnny's coming to my show in Chicago.
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buy tickets to the Chicago show Johnny will be there but I and I guarantee I mean I don't know Johnny we've talked a little bit about this or whatever but yeah I bet Johnny loved you and also like you're so young yeah but I'm not even thinking about Johnny I'm thinking about like you your experience can change from like just whatever happens with that and it's so interesting I think like later in life I do think actually if I'm being honest the first time I had like a gay experience I mean it was bad I'll be honest remember I hooked up with like a tennis instructor oh yeah oh my god
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I hope you guys, I wasn't even 16. This is like bad. And by the way, like, yeah, he was 38. That was my first gay experience. And here's the thing. When I think about that, it kind of gives me chills or whatever. it was, that's disgusting and the most creepy thing ever. But thank God he didn't do anything weird, you know, cause that could have changed everything where I didn't trust or whatever.
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But then they were so cute at dinner.
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It could have been so worse. So thank God. Yeah. Okay. Um, yeah, that's weird. And I've like also tried to like look for him. It was like, no, I really can't find him. No, nothing. Okay. That's bad. If the next 10 years of your life were a chapter in a book, what would the chapter or what do you see the chapter being about?
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And you're all about, Kristen's so good about kind of manifesting and setting the tone for where she wants things to go. And it does really good for you. But what is the next chapter of your book?
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They were really cute last night. They're like kind of at that age now where they're like, they're starting to feel like almost like the teen years. Yeah. Like they're fun. They're like part of the crew. Yeah.
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Isn't that such a good place to be though, where you're kind of at that place where you're like cruise control is a good way of putting it. Like you just want to like, I'm so there, bro. All I want to do is enjoy life now in every aspect. Like I just want to laugh. I want to like appreciate the things that I'm doing.
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Like I did all that grinding in business for so long and you're chasing and you, and then you get to a place where you're like, I really want to enjoy now.
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And I also know it's a, it's a privilege to be in a spot where like, you know, I started doing like real estate stuff at a really young age and I always thought about the future and I always knew my dream was to really slow down later in life and like really enjoy things. And it's funny, like you and I kind of have that same philosophy on life.
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Like I want the next chapter of my life to be like really chill. So I love that.
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I love that for you. This isn't about me. Shut up, Justin. Be quiet.
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Okay. This one's fun. And I want to know this about you. And I want you to be really honest because I'm like curious, you know, if you're like, if you were Patricia, you know, and Laguna Beach never happened. Okay. If failing didn't matter and making or losing money didn't matter, what would you work on doing? Like a dream you'd love to chase if you had nothing, like absolutely nothing to lose.
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Well, I think that's what I'm actually trying to get at, sweetheart, is like it doesn't have to be cool.
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Actually, that's interesting. Yeah, it's true. Like you really have done a bit of, I feel the same way too. I think that looking back on my life, I think my life was bigger than I ever imagined it to be. I feel really content. But when I ask that question, I think about, is there anything that like,
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think what i've missed out on in life is having the really simple time of life like i look at people who like a pilgrim or like an amish person or whatever and sometimes i'm like i wish i could do that you know what i who i'm jealous of like all the time like i go to the same like starbucks coffee all the time whenever i get actual starbucks and i see people like working they're like really happy i know it's not like a dream job or whatever but like i've never been
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in a work situation where it was just like clock in clock out and then your life is kind of chill. Then you go home and you like, don't have to think about work till the next day when you clock in or whatever. Like sometimes I fan fantasize about like having a real simple life.
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They're like little adults. Also, I think it's good. Like it's actually a good idea. Like for kids who need a lot of stimulation because there's so much to watch and it's like,
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Everything I've ever done was over the top, the celebrity hair, starting businesses, like trying to buy and sell real estate that would make me a lot of money. And I'm always like stressed and crunching numbers and all that stuff. And, um,
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well, maybe now you're kind of just doing it then. Now you're just kind of going into that like slow, enjoy your time right now. Yeah.
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I guess that question is good for, better for people who like maybe feel more stuck. And what would you do if you could do anything that you wanted to do?
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Yeah. I don't know. And just going for it and making it happen.
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You guys have to go back and YouTube it because it's the cutest thing ever. You were so cute actually though. Thank you.
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Yeah. I was thinking about that with Jackson. Yeah. You're waiting for the next thing. Like it's actually really good. Like I have bad ADHD and like, I love those kinds of meals actually, because it like keeps things moving.
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I love dinner and a show. Jackson lives for it.
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that's so cute what about jackson i'm looking for like our next con jackson is her kid like i love going to concerts with him it's like last night he was like showing me all these concerts the most random things to him like super random let's try it to chicago to see what was the name i don't know it's like these young bands and i'm like no i'm gonna wait for like imagine dragons or whatever and then camden's like let's go to sisa and kendrick lamar okay i don't know one kendrick lamar song
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Okay. What do you want to be remembered for? Even if it's from people who know you publicly or the closest people in your life. Like when you think, like we all think, do this thing. Like, have you ever thought about your own funeral?
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I always like thinking about like, what would people say? Who would cry the hardest? Like, yeah.
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At my funeral. He wanted to go a long time ago. You guys, he was tired. It's all right. He was achy. You would pat me in the casket.
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No, but what do you want to be remembered for?
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That's important to you, right?
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Wait, can I tell you something really quick? Yeah. You've done that, bro. Thanks, bro. That's like what you're known for, man. When people talk to me about you, they're like, she just makes me feel like I can do anything. Like you've done that for people, right?
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And the rest of the people who like complain about it, like, first of all, that's just dork behavior. Like you're not happy. You know, if you're like being like her again, why is she talking? Because she's human. And someone asked her a question.
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Oh my God. That's right. Oh, okay. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? What's something about your personality? Okay. Let's go deep here for a second. What's something about your personality that you've thought maybe you should work on, even if it meant kind of changing who you know yourself to be?
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No, not necessarily. Well, no, I think as your best friend, I have things that like, I wonder if you would want to, but I don't want you to change them. I wonder what you think. Cause I know my things for me, like, you know, patients or like my things, but yours, I'm curious. Cause to me, you're perfect. Thank you.
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That's the girl, right?
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You think it takes a minute for you to warm up to people?
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I'm always shocked how comfortable you are around people immediately. Really? I think that's like one of the weirdest things about you and I. Oh, interesting. When we meet people, you and I are so comfortable right away.
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No, I think you 100% are.
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Yeah. Yeah. Not that you would like let down, you're just so like warm and smiling. Well, I'm not a bitch.
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No, you're definitely guard. Even as like one of your closest friends and we've become so much closer after like the past six years or whatever. But yeah, you always definitely like had a little boundary up or like a guard up. But like, I loved that about you. It was so interesting. But I think that like, that's like your little armor or whatever. Yeah.
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Yeah. And you've been hurt in the past, you know, like you could have been walked all over.
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Really?
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Oh, yeah.
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It's funny, too, because even with that, like I was kind of thinking it's like if you don't really have anything to change about yourself, like because even all of our quirks and stuff like make us who we are. That's what I mean. Yeah.
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Because sometimes I would say things like, I wish I didn't talk so much or I wish I wasn't so like, I didn't. And I'm not saying this to act like I'm the sweetest person. I wish I didn't care about other people.
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Yeah. And I'm like a people pleaser. So those are things for me. But if I change those, I wouldn't be the same person. Exactly. So with you, it's like I was wondering if there is something because I actually.
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Yeah. All right. I'm bored with that question already. Okay. Would you say that not caring what people think or say about you has a lot to do with your years of success? Like if you spent time caring how people would react to what you did, would it have held you back from winning?
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You're so much cooler with like your music. I wonder if your kids help a little bit with that. Like you still have like Young.
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Okay, calm down. Sorry. But like the stuff that you send me is like so edgy. Like you go out sometimes and you don't tell me. Like I feel like you're at like underground club.
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Well, and with that, I think like, what is the opposite that like you're supposed to just disappear? Like, I don't understand.
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But I think that that's the thing too. It's like, cause I'm always shocked. Like, you just keep going. I noticed as your friend, like how much pushback you'll get on things. You get so much love and you get so much attention and people, you know, people who love you, they love you or whatever. But like some of the pushback, it's so fucking weird with you, dude.
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It's always been like that. But it's 100% because like something about you triggers something in them. Otherwise, why would you care? I have never scrolled social media and wanted to say something negative because I just simply don't care. If somebody said something that I 100% disagree with, just keep scrolling, like, oh, disagree and keep scrolling.
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So it's like, I think that it's always something like when you trigger something in somebody.
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Hot chicks can do that. Tail is all this time.
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I think you're better than most people because I think that that is why you had like... That's why you've had like the staying power of like, you've had like a 20 plus year career because I really think at the end of the day, like you don't- I can let it roll off my back. This stuff doesn't keep you up at night or whatever. Like, but I do think like, it's like a boxing ring for you.
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Like every single day sometimes with the shit that's happening, you know?
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Yeah. Like I think you handle it really well. And as your best friend, are you getting emotional?
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I'm obsessed with music. Oh my God. You guys, Spotify will tell you how much you use it or whatever. We were all comparing. Well, I don't use Spotify, but I use iTunes or whatever. Kristen's number, like you listen year round. I'm in the top 2%. You listen year round.
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Oh my God. I get so excited when you get a little bit emotional.
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Oh, no, but you get a lot of shit, but I think that it's, it never knocks you down. You just keep going. You keep doing your thing. And I'm sorry, but can we just be honest for a second? You're really fucking interesting. Even if you were like, she's annoying, like whatever. Cause like, you're like, so the typical, we're both fucking annoying.
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If somebody just like dipped in on our conversation, we're like the most annoying California. Like we say like so much, like I get that we're annoying, but we're deep. Okay. But the thing with you is you're really interesting. I think people are always like, what's she going to do next? Like, who's she going to date next?
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Like, you're kind of like, you're a wild card, but then you're also so grounded. And like all the things that you've done are very strategic. Like you've always really taken care of yourself. You've made your life like amazing. Like you could have been a flash in the pan, bro.
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Well, and the reason I bring that conversation up is not to like, I mean, I'll hype you up every single day of my life, but like for people listening is I really think that there's something important. They're like, you have to just be you and do what you want to do.
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And everyone always says that it's not like exciting advice or whatever, but it's like, I really think you do a good job at just like doing what you want to do. And it's like, you throw stuff out there, you say things and like, you're not gonna let people like beat down your personality.
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Everything online, I have just started realizing, not just started realizing, but like really made a mental note of it. Like the elections fucked me up. Like during the elections, I was reading everything online. I was like going like left, right, center, like reading everything. And it was making me crazy. And then all of a sudden when you, I really tuned it out.
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Like Scoot and I made a thing like no news on in the house. Like I'm not looking at...
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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anything that I scroll if they're talking about politics or whatever like swipe by it and the same thing with like it's so easy to get like sucked into that vortex but then when you put it away like the world's fucking normal which I think is the point I think they want us to be sucked in and just become dumber and dumber a hundred percent like put your phone down so that we just start like because that's the thing we're robots
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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Yeah. And when you start paying attention to all those things that first of all, we can't change, like it's going to happen. We're on a ride, you know, we're not stopping the ride or whatever, but like the more we fight or whatever, then they can just control us. They like that.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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Yeah. And stop fighting with each other also. That's the dumbest thing too.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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Okay. Well then that's good for our last question here. Okay. Do you love yourself and how did you get there? And, or how do you plan to get there? I think you love yourself. If you're there, is there any advice you can give to people who have a hard time loving themselves or putting themselves first?
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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I actually don't listen to a lot of music as much as I love it. Like in the car loud. I love watching TV. Yeah, you guys are big TV people. I think you're a sicko for not watching TV. I mean, TV is so good now. You're missing out on so many good shows.
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Love yourself. What did that feel like?
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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So what you were afraid, like, I don't know where this is going. I don't know.
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LA is so scary. Like I'm not an LA hater. I grew up in Southern California. I love parts of California. When I say LA, like Hollywood in particular, there's great people in Hollywood. Also, I never want to talk shit because there's great people in Hollywood.
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But the overall, like it is so, like if I had a kid who wanted to move to Hollywood, the way that I would handcuff that kid to my driveway and be like, you're not going anywhere near that town because you, thank God you were strong. Because even with you, the way that like it kind of like, tore you down a little bit or like the relationships you think are normal in Hollywood.
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Yeah. And like the after parties and just the nasty weird things that the longer you're there, you start to think that it's normal. Yeah. And it's like, you have to be a strong person to get through Hollywood.
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I mean, you see it all the time, how Hollywood just destroys people, you know? And we think like, oh, they were, they had an addiction or like whatever. They didn't, they didn't make it in the business or whatever. It's like, no, that town will fuck you up.
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Like, it takes the strongest person and, like, I don't know. The friends thing is, like, a real thing, too. Like, wouldn't you say, like, looking back, you know, because we both had our 20s in Hollywood, and I look back on people I used to hang out with in my 20s that, like, I couldn't even sit in the same room with now.
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Like, the conversations and the things we used to talk about, like, so vapid that, of course, we were binge drinking and, like, just getting fucked up so we could, like, even get along with these...
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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What was your last show?
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dorks that you're hanging out not dorks because they're supposedly like the cool people or whatever but it was like it was so shallow and not real and now later in my life you know everything about what I want I know you want it's like I want depth and I want like connection and I want like and if I don't have that with someone not to be rude but I don't want to be around them well right that's how I am maybe we really value it so much now too as adults because we didn't have it
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Gossip Girl.
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Yeah. Yeah. It was like an insecurity. Yeah. Well, and deep down, we love to party, bro.
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I like no regrets there though. Like, I feel like I like, I'm so glad I got all those years out of my system or whatever. Because certain personalities, like, you really have to do it. Like, I love to party. I was watching this movie the other night. Like, I immediately texted Chris. I'm like, you have to watch this movie. It's the most fucked up movie ever. It's called, like, Anora or something.
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But it's, like, a party girl thing. And I'm like, Chris, you have to watch this. It's going to make you want to party so hard.
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But I think that you'll always have that.
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That's sweet. Thanks, bro. You really gave me all that I wanted. You know, that was incredible. I can't wait to have you back next time. Maybe she'll be back on the show next week. Patricia Cavallari, ladies and gentlemen.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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It's a beautiful little flurry.
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Um, no, so we were talking about like, whenever we do it together, whenever, um, I'm on her podcast for like fun things that we can do. Like we want to like, we love like laughing, like jokes and stuff. So like our, some of our ideas like need a little bit more production. Right.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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So today we were just talking about like, I'm like, let me kind of interview you in a way that I think like some of your audience would want to hear the questions. And we're just going to talk like friends or whatever. And I'm not going to let her give me like PR answers. Like, bitch, if you start doing that. Well, actually like that.
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And yeah.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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I kind of get what you're saying, but no, I don't think that you will like with, Like, you know what I'm saying?
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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Well, and you get asked a lot of the same thing over and over. So even if you do give the PR answer because you don't want to throw someone under the bus or you don't want to like talk about somebody, it still gets blown out of context. Yeah, it does. And you talk a lot. You talk a lot. Yeah.
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Well, I think that you doing your own podcast has changed a lot.
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Yeah. And she's good at getting like good answers out of people.
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And you respect her. You love her. She's here in Nashville. So it just kind of worked. But yeah, that turned into a whole thing. And then people like, oh, look.
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Because I know what happens. But to be outside, people are probably like, Kristen wanted to go on and talk about those things. No, you're asked. And you're also one of those people like, you can't lie.
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Like if somebody's asking you something, you're going to be honest. And you didn't give any major details. Whatever. I just think that that's like who you are. Like that's, you're just.
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Everyone wants to hang out with us. I know. Go away.
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Well, right before we started this today, cause I was like saying to Kristen, I was like, I don't want to do any of those fricking questions that like create some sort of buzz like that. And Kristen was like, I can't be written about in the tabloids like for a while. Yeah.
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That's actually a good point. I think that's something that, that is a good save right there. Cause I also kind of was thinking while we were talking about this, I'm like, people are going to think like, cause we've said this before. We're like, Kristen avoids the taboos or whatever. And I think to the outside world, they're like, well then why didn't she stop talking?
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I don't think people would really get it unless they were in the situation that you're in. Cause you do say anything and it turns into something. Right. But you were recently being like, I've always been this person though. If somebody asked me something, I'm going to say what's on my mind. I don't hide things like whatever. And you did it a little bit more and then you,
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She was messing up a word like over and over in my head. I was like, Oh my God, just skip it. I know what you're trying to say. And then she like stopped. And then she texted me. She's like, can you pronounce that word for me? So that I wrote it back to her. What was the word?
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Oh, really?
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I can't think of the word that I mess up all the time, but there are some. I mean, well, with my lisp, I mess up a lot. You know, there's certain words that I kind of skirt around. I'll try and skip certain words.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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All right, let me pull up my notes a little bit. Okay. So ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Let's Be Honest. Lesbian Honest. Lesbian Honest with your two favorite lesbians, Justin and...
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Patricia Elizabeth Cavallari wait let's start off with that did you guys have we ever talked about this on your podcast no wait do you guys know that Kristen was almost named Patricia like her name your mom told me this story and I don't think I've ever belly laughed harder we were at my house in the kitchen and your mom was like well you know I almost named Kristen Patricia Fell over.
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I thought it was the funniest thing in the world. Because here's the thing. Think about this. Your whole life would have been different if you were a Patricia. My whole life would be different. Hey guys, it's Patricia Cavallari and you're watching MTV.
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But you know what I was thinking about? You probably would have changed the trajectory for all Patricia's.