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You're definitely going to hear people expressing themselves, making noise while fucking at these events, but I think my American partner would be a level or two above. It'll be a thing. I don't think anyone would make her feel unwelcome, but I'll be acutely aware that she, and by extension both of us, are kind of dominating the room. I feel really bad asking about this.

You're definitely going to hear people expressing themselves, making noise while fucking at these events, but I think my American partner would be a level or two above. It'll be a thing. I don't think anyone would make her feel unwelcome, but I'll be acutely aware that she, and by extension both of us, are kind of dominating the room. I feel really bad asking about this.

She's a wonderful, considerate partner who has that amazing ability to make me feel really desired. I don't want to do anything to suppress her sexual expression, so I don't feel like I can say anything to her about it.

She's a wonderful, considerate partner who has that amazing ability to make me feel really desired. I don't want to do anything to suppress her sexual expression, so I don't feel like I can say anything to her about it.

But at the same time, I just have this anxiety that I won't feel fully comfortable and fully sexy if I have this nagging feeling that everyone is making eyes at each other about that one noisy as fuck couple over there. Dan, help me find an elegant solution. One caveat, I don't think a ball gag is going to be the one for this situation.

But at the same time, I just have this anxiety that I won't feel fully comfortable and fully sexy if I have this nagging feeling that everyone is making eyes at each other about that one noisy as fuck couple over there. Dan, help me find an elegant solution. One caveat, I don't think a ball gag is going to be the one for this situation.

Hi, Dan. My partner and I recently made a film called Surrender for HuntFest, and it got accepted. Super exciting. The film is kinky, intimate, and very much an expression of who we are as queer, bi, kinky poly folks. Here's the complication. My partner's wife, my memoir, wants to see the film.

Hi, Dan. My partner and I recently made a film called Surrender for HuntFest, and it got accepted. Super exciting. The film is kinky, intimate, and very much an expression of who we are as queer, bi, kinky poly folks. Here's the complication. My partner's wife, my memoir, wants to see the film.

She's never seen us have sex before, and while she's witnessed him play with others at events, this seems very different. Watching Surrender would mean seeing us up close and personal on a big screen in a deeply intimate and kinky dynamic that's specific to us and not part of their relationships.

She's never seen us have sex before, and while she's witnessed him play with others at events, this seems very different. Watching Surrender would mean seeing us up close and personal on a big screen in a deeply intimate and kinky dynamic that's specific to us and not part of their relationships.

I'm uncomfortable with the idea of her seeing this, and I worry it might affect how she sees me in our dynamic or in the future. Since we're also launching an OnlyFans and planning to make more public films, I'm struggling with whether it's unreasonable to say I don't want her watching any of our content.

I'm uncomfortable with the idea of her seeing this, and I worry it might affect how she sees me in our dynamic or in the future. Since we're also launching an OnlyFans and planning to make more public films, I'm struggling with whether it's unreasonable to say I don't want her watching any of our content.

How do I balance my discomfort with her curiosity while respecting our polycule dynamic and staying true to the visibility we're trying to create with this work? It feels like a minefield, and I don't want to mess up the relationship here.

How do I balance my discomfort with her curiosity while respecting our polycule dynamic and staying true to the visibility we're trying to create with this work? It feels like a minefield, and I don't want to mess up the relationship here.

Hi, Dan and everyone. I'm a mid-40s gay man. I've been in a monogamous relationship with my partner for 10 years. I really love him. I really adore him. And we have a great life together. But a sex life is good, but it's repetitive. Like, he doesn't...

Hi, Dan and everyone. I'm a mid-40s gay man. I've been in a monogamous relationship with my partner for 10 years. I really love him. I really adore him. And we have a great life together. But a sex life is good, but it's repetitive. Like, he doesn't...

want any sexual adventure or sexual novelty he just wants to do it in the same way every time I'm not satisfied with that so I persuaded him to open the relationship and to let me sleep with other guys he was very reluctant I had to work really hard to persuade him and there's lots of ground rules like I told him that I would only sleep with other guys three or four times a year and he wants me to tell him every time

want any sexual adventure or sexual novelty he just wants to do it in the same way every time I'm not satisfied with that so I persuaded him to open the relationship and to let me sleep with other guys he was very reluctant I had to work really hard to persuade him and there's lots of ground rules like I told him that I would only sleep with other guys three or four times a year and he wants me to tell him every time

and it must be safe sex because we don't use condoms together but each time that I do tell him I've slept with someone else he freaks out and he says he doesn't know the relationship in survive it threatens to break up with me and It's a whole big drama each time I tell him. It's also been really difficult for me to find casual sex because of my age, because I live in quite a rural place.

and it must be safe sex because we don't use condoms together but each time that I do tell him I've slept with someone else he freaks out and he says he doesn't know the relationship in survive it threatens to break up with me and It's a whole big drama each time I tell him. It's also been really difficult for me to find casual sex because of my age, because I live in quite a rural place.