Thomas

There's people yelling at all times of night and people drag racing in the middle of the night, things that you get in the city. I had used my time away from work, so I had to go back to work shortly after we had gone through this process. She needed to go and stay with her mom because she needed full-time help. For a month or two, we weren't even staying together.

It was devastating for our relationship at the time. By the time I was able to rejoin them, I felt out of place. I didn't feel like part of the family unit. And I didn't feel like I knew how to take care of my son who had changed so much in his time staying there. I mean, of course, I was going there as much as I could. And I was spending the nights there, probably most nights, but still.

It was devastating for our relationship at the time. By the time I was able to rejoin them, I felt out of place. I didn't feel like part of the family unit. And I didn't feel like I knew how to take care of my son who had changed so much in his time staying there. I mean, of course, I was going there as much as I could. And I was spending the nights there, probably most nights, but still.

It was devastating for our relationship at the time. By the time I was able to rejoin them, I felt out of place. I didn't feel like part of the family unit. And I didn't feel like I knew how to take care of my son who had changed so much in his time staying there. I mean, of course, I was going there as much as I could. And I was spending the nights there, probably most nights, but still.

Yeah, working and then I would drive to go spend the night with moms and come back early to take care of the dogs and go to work. I just remember feeling really, really lost. And I remember even my performance at work really suffering too. I'm just having moments where I'd be working and working and just kind of like look up and just be like, where am I? It was really rough.

Yeah, working and then I would drive to go spend the night with moms and come back early to take care of the dogs and go to work. I just remember feeling really, really lost. And I remember even my performance at work really suffering too. I'm just having moments where I'd be working and working and just kind of like look up and just be like, where am I? It was really rough.

Yeah, working and then I would drive to go spend the night with moms and come back early to take care of the dogs and go to work. I just remember feeling really, really lost. And I remember even my performance at work really suffering too. I'm just having moments where I'd be working and working and just kind of like look up and just be like, where am I? It was really rough.

On top of all the new parent woes that the dad's working and then the mom is overwhelmed, we were both coming to terms with what had happened to us and the negligence and the misguided care that we had gotten. As we're discovering that, I mean, where is all that anger going to go? It wasn't something that united me and Kristen. It kind of formed a wedge between us. I think a lot of it was guilt.

On top of all the new parent woes that the dad's working and then the mom is overwhelmed, we were both coming to terms with what had happened to us and the negligence and the misguided care that we had gotten. As we're discovering that, I mean, where is all that anger going to go? It wasn't something that united me and Kristen. It kind of formed a wedge between us. I think a lot of it was guilt.

On top of all the new parent woes that the dad's working and then the mom is overwhelmed, we were both coming to terms with what had happened to us and the negligence and the misguided care that we had gotten. As we're discovering that, I mean, where is all that anger going to go? It wasn't something that united me and Kristen. It kind of formed a wedge between us. I think a lot of it was guilt.

We felt like we had picked this place that was so negligent and was doing all these things. We were the idiots for doing this. We put our son in danger. And I truly think that's how we felt. And that guilt had a way of taking a toll on our marriage and our relationship. Definitely for the first year, I'd say almost two years, we really, at least for me, felt that guilt upon ourselves.

We felt like we had picked this place that was so negligent and was doing all these things. We were the idiots for doing this. We put our son in danger. And I truly think that's how we felt. And that guilt had a way of taking a toll on our marriage and our relationship. Definitely for the first year, I'd say almost two years, we really, at least for me, felt that guilt upon ourselves.

We felt like we had picked this place that was so negligent and was doing all these things. We were the idiots for doing this. We put our son in danger. And I truly think that's how we felt. And that guilt had a way of taking a toll on our marriage and our relationship. Definitely for the first year, I'd say almost two years, we really, at least for me, felt that guilt upon ourselves.

We still thought that this is just something that happened to us, an isolated deal. It wasn't until much later on that we started to kind of piece these things together. I would say over the course of the next year or so, we started to unravel what had happened to us.

We still thought that this is just something that happened to us, an isolated deal. It wasn't until much later on that we started to kind of piece these things together. I would say over the course of the next year or so, we started to unravel what had happened to us.

We still thought that this is just something that happened to us, an isolated deal. It wasn't until much later on that we started to kind of piece these things together. I would say over the course of the next year or so, we started to unravel what had happened to us.

We've gone through therapy and we're in a much better place. If one good thing has come out of us deep diving into what happened to us, it was able to also kind of reunite us in understanding what each other went through. At a certain point, we moved out of that apartment. We rented a house further away from the city. So it was a lot quieter and it was nice.

We've gone through therapy and we're in a much better place. If one good thing has come out of us deep diving into what happened to us, it was able to also kind of reunite us in understanding what each other went through. At a certain point, we moved out of that apartment. We rented a house further away from the city. So it was a lot quieter and it was nice.

We've gone through therapy and we're in a much better place. If one good thing has come out of us deep diving into what happened to us, it was able to also kind of reunite us in understanding what each other went through. At a certain point, we moved out of that apartment. We rented a house further away from the city. So it was a lot quieter and it was nice.

But now we live in what most people would probably call the country. And when we did, we found a new pediatrician. My son, I want to say he was a year and a half old. And of course, you know, he's walking, babbling, all that stuff. And the new pediatrician is looking through his chart and he goes, oh, oh my God, you don't see a lot of ones walking around and doing what he's doing.