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Sawyer (Mel's daughter)

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558 total appearances

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I loved the visual of the tug of war because immediately what I thought was, if you put me and you on either side of the tug of war, every single time that I was mad at you, I was tugging. And every single time you would basically hold on tight and tug closer to me because you just wanted to save me and do all this and do all that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Whenever we fight, whenever we used to argue in the past, it would be both of us tug of warring. And I think with the let them theory, which you started implementing with me and our family way before I even knew it, I think what ended up happening is I would start to tug and you would drop the rope and I would fall down, which happens every single time.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Whenever we fight, whenever we used to argue in the past, it would be both of us tug of warring. And I think with the let them theory, which you started implementing with me and our family way before I even knew it, I think what ended up happening is I would start to tug and you would drop the rope and I would fall down, which happens every single time.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Whenever we fight, whenever we used to argue in the past, it would be both of us tug of warring. And I think with the let them theory, which you started implementing with me and our family way before I even knew it, I think what ended up happening is I would start to tug and you would drop the rope and I would fall down, which happens every single time.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

And it's not falling down in the sense of I'm less than or screw her. It's more so, oh, she's just not playing this game anymore. And I think that's what's so beautiful. What is so beautiful about the Latin theory is you actually can't play the game of tug of war when one person isn't playing. It takes two.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

And it's not falling down in the sense of I'm less than or screw her. It's more so, oh, she's just not playing this game anymore. And I think that's what's so beautiful. What is so beautiful about the Latin theory is you actually can't play the game of tug of war when one person isn't playing. It takes two.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

And it's not falling down in the sense of I'm less than or screw her. It's more so, oh, she's just not playing this game anymore. And I think that's what's so beautiful. What is so beautiful about the Latin theory is you actually can't play the game of tug of war when one person isn't playing. It takes two.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Yes, 100%. So we start writing the book together. And geez. What do you mean, and geez? Geez, oh, geez. It was not a breeze. Oh my God, no. We, mom. Yes. This was horrible.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Yes, 100%. So we start writing the book together. And geez. What do you mean, and geez? Geez, oh, geez. It was not a breeze. Oh my God, no. We, mom. Yes. This was horrible.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Yes, 100%. So we start writing the book together. And geez. What do you mean, and geez? Geez, oh, geez. It was not a breeze. Oh my God, no. We, mom. Yes. This was horrible.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I genuinely think if the topic of the book was not letting other people be themselves, live their lives in order for you to live your best life and for you to finally be yourself, I would not be sitting here today. How come? Because this book writing process brought us closer, but also was weird. It was hard. It was really hard.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I genuinely think if the topic of the book was not letting other people be themselves, live their lives in order for you to live your best life and for you to finally be yourself, I would not be sitting here today. How come? Because this book writing process brought us closer, but also was weird. It was hard. It was really hard.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I genuinely think if the topic of the book was not letting other people be themselves, live their lives in order for you to live your best life and for you to finally be yourself, I would not be sitting here today. How come? Because this book writing process brought us closer, but also was weird. It was hard. It was really hard.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I think I said it 25 times a day. And let me just paint the picture for you guys. Okay. So we are living together. Which is, I would not recommend. Do not recommend. Do a project virtually or something. But we are living together. So every single day for the entire last year, this is how it would go. We'd wake up. Hey, Mom. Hey, Soy. How are you? Oh, my gosh. You sleep well? Yeah, sleep well.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I think I said it 25 times a day. And let me just paint the picture for you guys. Okay. So we are living together. Which is, I would not recommend. Do not recommend. Do a project virtually or something. But we are living together. So every single day for the entire last year, this is how it would go. We'd wake up. Hey, Mom. Hey, Soy. How are you? Oh, my gosh. You sleep well? Yeah, sleep well.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

I think I said it 25 times a day. And let me just paint the picture for you guys. Okay. So we are living together. Which is, I would not recommend. Do not recommend. Do a project virtually or something. But we are living together. So every single day for the entire last year, this is how it would go. We'd wake up. Hey, Mom. Hey, Soy. How are you? Oh, my gosh. You sleep well? Yeah, sleep well.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Okay. Then we go to exercise together. No boundaries. Then we eat breakfast together. One of us is making the same smoothie for the both of us. Then we're in such a positive mood. We go up to the office. We sit down. And then all of a sudden, our personalities come out. Mom, her brain is the most beautiful, creative, absolute disaster tornado I've ever worked with in my entire life.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Okay. Then we go to exercise together. No boundaries. Then we eat breakfast together. One of us is making the same smoothie for the both of us. Then we're in such a positive mood. We go up to the office. We sit down. And then all of a sudden, our personalities come out. Mom, her brain is the most beautiful, creative, absolute disaster tornado I've ever worked with in my entire life.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

Okay. Then we go to exercise together. No boundaries. Then we eat breakfast together. One of us is making the same smoothie for the both of us. Then we're in such a positive mood. We go up to the office. We sit down. And then all of a sudden, our personalities come out. Mom, her brain is the most beautiful, creative, absolute disaster tornado I've ever worked with in my entire life.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory

She cannot make a decision. She is all over the place. And you cannot contain her in structure. She wants to creative write for... I don't even know how you got your other two books done, to be completely honest.