Sarah Spain
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It's just me standing over Sarah, sitting in a chair for an hour, looking at her tits. And the person hiring was like, that's hilarious. And I was like, what am I getting into? And I called home and I just was so upset because I had, again, read about it and heard about it. And I just thought, well, not me. You know what I mean?
And that's another thing that it really opened my eyes to was the judgment that we have of women who are victimized or mistreated as in whatever way being different from us, that there must be some reason that that's happening instead of understanding that men who behave in this way do not need any excuse, do not need anything within what you are and who you are to behave in this way.
And that's another thing that it really opened my eyes to was the judgment that we have of women who are victimized or mistreated as in whatever way being different from us, that there must be some reason that that's happening instead of understanding that men who behave in this way do not need any excuse, do not need anything within what you are and who you are to behave in this way.
And that's another thing that it really opened my eyes to was the judgment that we have of women who are victimized or mistreated as in whatever way being different from us, that there must be some reason that that's happening instead of understanding that men who behave in this way do not need any excuse, do not need anything within what you are and who you are to behave in this way.
And so it's very hard afterwards not to feel some sort of shame about what you might have done to bring it on yourself. And it's been impressive to see how a male-dominated sexist industry has made me so much more of a feminist than I was before I got into it because it just made everything so much more obvious when it was done.
And so it's very hard afterwards not to feel some sort of shame about what you might have done to bring it on yourself. And it's been impressive to see how a male-dominated sexist industry has made me so much more of a feminist than I was before I got into it because it just made everything so much more obvious when it was done.
And so it's very hard afterwards not to feel some sort of shame about what you might have done to bring it on yourself. And it's been impressive to see how a male-dominated sexist industry has made me so much more of a feminist than I was before I got into it because it just made everything so much more obvious when it was done.
That applies to sexual assault, harassment, all sorts of things. It's called the just world ideology. And it's the idea that if we do everything right, nothing bad should happen to us. And it's the main reason that people victim blame. I was doing a story on Larry Nassar, the awful abuser at Michigan State.
That applies to sexual assault, harassment, all sorts of things. It's called the just world ideology. And it's the idea that if we do everything right, nothing bad should happen to us. And it's the main reason that people victim blame. I was doing a story on Larry Nassar, the awful abuser at Michigan State.
That applies to sexual assault, harassment, all sorts of things. It's called the just world ideology. And it's the idea that if we do everything right, nothing bad should happen to us. And it's the main reason that people victim blame. I was doing a story on Larry Nassar, the awful abuser at Michigan State.
And people were asking questions about 13 and 14 year old girls that he had abused about what were they wearing or doing or why didn't they know any better? I was so infuriated and I couldn't figure out what, possibly could drive someone to blame a 14 year old girl. And so I wanted to write about it.
And people were asking questions about 13 and 14 year old girls that he had abused about what were they wearing or doing or why didn't they know any better? I was so infuriated and I couldn't figure out what, possibly could drive someone to blame a 14 year old girl. And so I wanted to write about it.
And people were asking questions about 13 and 14 year old girls that he had abused about what were they wearing or doing or why didn't they know any better? I was so infuriated and I couldn't figure out what, possibly could drive someone to blame a 14 year old girl. And so I wanted to write about it.
And I found some experts and the just world ideology is essentially if I dress right, act right, walk in the right places, don't walk after dark, do all these things, then nothing bad will happen to me. And to live in a world where you believe that you're not in control of whether something awful can happen to you is so scary that people would rather find a way to blame those who are the victims.
And I found some experts and the just world ideology is essentially if I dress right, act right, walk in the right places, don't walk after dark, do all these things, then nothing bad will happen to me. And to live in a world where you believe that you're not in control of whether something awful can happen to you is so scary that people would rather find a way to blame those who are the victims.
And I found some experts and the just world ideology is essentially if I dress right, act right, walk in the right places, don't walk after dark, do all these things, then nothing bad will happen to me. And to live in a world where you believe that you're not in control of whether something awful can happen to you is so scary that people would rather find a way to blame those who are the victims.
People are going to find a way for you to have caused what happened to you. And so it would suck to enter an industry and believe it doesn't matter how hard I work or how smart I am or how good the work is, it's going to happen anyway. And that's 100% what this industry is.
People are going to find a way for you to have caused what happened to you. And so it would suck to enter an industry and believe it doesn't matter how hard I work or how smart I am or how good the work is, it's going to happen anyway. And that's 100% what this industry is.
People are going to find a way for you to have caused what happened to you. And so it would suck to enter an industry and believe it doesn't matter how hard I work or how smart I am or how good the work is, it's going to happen anyway. And that's 100% what this industry is.
That's the hardest part. You can tell them and you should. And I've done podcasts and stories where I talk to people across my industry, other women who have experienced similar things, because I want the ones coming up to know they're not alone. It's not their fault. It happens all the time, unfortunately. And this is likely what will happen if you want to report it.