Mel Robbins

What business do I have telling anybody anything?

And so I used it in secret.

No.

Like I told Chris, my husband Chris, but literally it was self-preservation.

I mean, we were in a free fall for crying out loud.

As long as you're not bitching at me and screaming at me, I'll cry anything.

Like, this keeps you calming off my ass so that I'm working as hard as I can, woman.

Like, finally, you see it.

Chris, okay?

Like, come on.

He's a nice guy.

No.

Okay, so here's the story.

So three years go by.

I'm using 54321, 54321 to get out of bed, to network and get a job, to open up the bills, to just do the basic blocking and tackling that we all need to do because nobody's coming.

You can sit around and hope that somebody's going to come and fix this.

They're not.

And the sooner you recognize you've got to stop waiting to feel ready and you've got to get to a point in your life where where you're at doesn't work for you anymore.

So you're going to do something about it.

So for three years, I'm just working at it.