Matias De Stefano
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Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
I made death an exercise because when you are attached to life, you want to keep the things as you observe them. And in my life, I've been changing everything constantly. Like, oh, I created this, now I will destroy it. I allow my body to have the struggle and the feeling of something is dying so I can be reborn. Why there was water inside a glass when I can be a galaxy.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
You have to release all that in order to feel correctly. So that's the actual void.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
You have to realize that all of those things that you've been putting here, they maybe go here or here or in the hip. But they don't go in the heart or in the mind. They have their position. So you release them from the place where you place them. So they can be actually where they are supposed to be. And that's what it means to die in life, to let go. It's not like, okay, I forget about it.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
It's about where do I have to place every idea, every emotion, every action that I took in the correct position of my body, of my soul, of my mind, so I can allow the kundalini, the energy, flow correctly. Otherwise, you're creating points of gravity within your center that attach the energy and they start to spin instead of just moving through.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So the Kundalini doesn't go like this, starts to roll and roll and roll. And when the snake of fire, it starts to roll in one place, it creates a disease, a conflict instead of moving. So that's why it's released the gravity from the center. So the energy can, the light, which is the photon can move through and not get attached to the gravity of something that you have inside.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Yeah. I want to speak from experience because it's easy to say, yeah, the emptiness. And I know it's not easy. I've been like right now sitting here, but right now I am in the middle of a process of destroying myself where I feel that emptiness of not knowing what I'm supposed to do tomorrow. If I have to destroy everything that I created, disappear from the sight of everyone, I don't know.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And the first thing that I feel is sadness. and depression. And I have been feeling that for every day since last month. And it's been terrible. But every time that I tap in that emotion, my higher self says, don't think that that emotion is something that you have to release.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
But it's something you have to observe as a map because it's what it's holding you to understand why are you feeling that. So it's not like, oh, I have to feel happy because it's not good to feel sad. It's allow yourself to be that sadness until you feel nothing, until you go beyond that so you can see the map. And I've been doing that, but means to basically release everything.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Everything that was setting pressure on the existence and being who you are supposed to be starts to be ripped apart and destroyed. It's been like that. Like even yesterday I had a big meltdown because of that. Like saying to everyone I work with, saying, I want to disappear. I don't want to be here anymore.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And it's not, even if I feel it in sadness, it's like allowing yourself to go to that void and not thinking that it's something to be ashamed of, but something that is bringing you to a territory that is unknown. So it allows you to open yourself to new stuff, to new positions. As I said, maybe I was water inside a glass when I can be a galaxy.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
But because I thought I feel contained in a glass of water, I'm not allowing myself to become stars. But only when I go to the void, I can be both at the same time.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
When I was 12 and I started to remember, One of the main things that I started to remember was every death. And I had to go through not only my death, but remembering the death of people I loved. and how they started to disappear in front of my eyes and myself dying. So I made death kind of an exercise for me, which is also annoying for a lot of people that wants to keep living.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And the main reason is because when you are attached to life, you want to keep the things as you observe them. And in my life, I've been changing everything constantly. Like, oh, I created this. I will destroy it. I will do something else. And I will reincarnate in the same life in different projects or stuff, which is very unstable for many.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And for me, it's like a natural state of destroying myself once and again, because I have to remember that that's how life is. Actually, if I get attached to one shape or one idea, then... I would be stuck in the same process. So you start to see all the patterns that are stuck all the time and kind of like, oh, I want to destroy them so I can keep on going. I want to die so I can keep on going.
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I would hope I could do that.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So I think that for everyone that is living situations like that, in my own personal experience, I allow myself to suffer it Because it's not that I want to suffer, but I allow my body to have the struggle and the feeling of something is dying. So my consciousness can actually work and say, now I know that because I'm dying, I can be reborn.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So the whole mindset starts to reset and starts to be a blessing for the new things to come. But of course, the process is difficult. But if you fight it on, you shouldn't feel like that, or don't cry, you know, these kind of things that people used to say, it's all going to be okay. It doesn't have to.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Like, if you put your mindset on everything's going to be okay, you're going to get out of this or these kind of things, you don't allow yourself to actually finish the process.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Exactly.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
I don't have any technique of anything. I basically, when I start to feel like this, I just allow myself to feel it. The essence is like the void. It has no point of relation. So it's holding everything. So it cannot relate to anything directly. It's just there for the everything. So the ego is basically like the focus on your side.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Like, okay, I have so many things and I am so many things that I will put my attention into this spot here. So that spot becomes the point of gravity of the whole thing. So all of it starts to spin towards it like a galaxy, and it creates the ego. So the ego is this point of gravity, so the essence can say, oh, I can relate to that. I have something to relate to now. So what happens?
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Well, we would need like many podcasts to try to clarify that. And even for myself, it's part of my life mission. So it's not like something I have clear. It's something that I felt remembered and that I am working on. So every day, every week, there's a new clue on all of that. And that's what amazes me all the time. But first of all, I would like to say that it's not that...
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If the essence grows bigger and bigger, so more things will go to that point of gravity. So a person that... has nothing in its life, usually don't have much to carry in the ego because it's not carrying the weight of anything, like any mission, purpose, or relationships, or friends, or family, or whatever, or money. It's just free.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
That's why a lot of people, to release the ego, they just go to a cave in the middle of nowhere, and they start to meditate and leave everything behind, even the clothes. Because in that way, you have nothing to think of, nothing that the ego can be attached to or carry as a point of attention. That's why we have this common belief that doing that is to release the ego.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Which is not.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Actually, it's not how it works. We have this common belief in the same way as we believe in karma or these kind of things. It's like a common thing that someone said and we start to repeat it, but it's not what it means. Or like reading the Bible. Like it's completely the opposite to what it's written, what it's said.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And the person that goes to the mountain and release everything, there is ego too. But it's a healthy ego because it's not attached to anything. Physically, it brings that process into experience. But there's a lot of people that are also detached from everything, having a lot of things. Having family, having money, having whatever. You can also be totally detached from ego.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
And usually it's the people that is not attached. talking about it yeah they're just living it silently yeah it's like you it's kind of you you don't notice them yeah they go unnoticed in life usually this is because they don't have to show anything or they don't have to to prove themselves anything because if they have it or not have it is the same yeah And that's ego, but that's a healthy ego.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
It's a healthy ego because it can use the points of gravity, but don't be attached to those points of gravity.
Healing + Human Potential
Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So most of us suffer because we want to hold the character as if it's us. And if I lose this... I might lose that part. If I leave this or if I stop doing that or whatever, I might lose myself. Who am I after that? That's where I'm going right now. The discovery. Yeah, that's where I'm right now. It's that question, who I'm going to become if I am not... what I build up.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So if I have to leave everything and that's the difference between essence and ego, like the ego is trying to survive. So when the essence comes in life, the essence is like, I don't care if I have this or I have that, or I do this, or I have this relationship with someone.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Or even if I have an ego, like I am, and that's it. I'm not even, it's like, not even I am. It's like, it's that. Yeah. It's just that. And the ego is like, oh, I am in between all of that. So to be healthy in that is not to try to be, Leave things away or relationships away.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
It's about being more in your essence and let the things Just happen instead of trying to control them, which is what we all try to do.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
from my point of view, there is a mistake with everything or that the universe has like a mistake, let's say, because of course, from the point of view, when you are connected to everything, everything is perfect and you can sense it. Like everything makes sense. Everything is perfect. Even though we are not we as humans, but nature is constantly trying to fix problems, right?
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Well, it's not what it looks like.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Yeah, exactly. Of course, we have to make it beautiful so people go into it.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
Yeah, the first one's free. I always love to say that spirituality actually translates literally to the ability to breathe. So spirituality is not about channeling dimensions or knowing what I remember. This is not spirituality. Spirituality is whoever manages the breathing and knows how to be in presence. So the ability to breathe, that's what it actually means.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
So when you try to connect with it or whatever, it's like, Go back to remember how to breathe. And that's very difficult for all of us because we are not in a constant breathing process. And some people that are in the breathing process, they are trying to demonstrate that they can do it. So they are not also in the actual breathing process. Breathing process is like being a baby. And...
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having this breath and allowing themselves to cry if they need to release the tension. And so it's not about looking spiritual, meditating and breathing like in yoga. It's about actually allowing the art of breath to express. So a spiritual awakening is like when a baby is That's like, that's a spiritual awakening.
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For example, it's like getting out of another human's body, feeling the pressure of the air in your lungs and changing completely from a not breathing being inside a womb to someone that has to breathe.
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do this in order to expand so you are compressed in your reality and now you are expanded in your reality but for that you need to know how to breathe and a spiritual awakening is comparable to being born and being born usually in this planet is like trauma for the baby unless the mother is very well prepared during her whole life on knowing how to give birth
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Otherwise, it's a process that is traumatic because it's like getting out to a different environment. You don't feel the pressure and the heat anymore. Now you can sense so many other things and you can see so many other beings around you. Before it was all filtered by your mother.
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Now you don't have filter. You see so many things and it burns your eyes and bothers your ears. And now you need to eat and having teeth hurts. And so that's a spiritual awakening. A spiritual awakening is like going layer after layer to realize that you need to adapt a new breathing, that you need to adapt to new lightning. So it's a constant process of adaptation.
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Why Letting Go Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do | Matias De Stefano | EP 86
is not sitting there and feeling, I'm in peace. That's not spirituality. Spiritual awakening is a constant process that you have gone through as you enter this world when you were born. So imagine that again. but now with dimensions instead of just air and people.
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Well, to compare this with what actually happens in the universe, speed of light. So the light, the photons are moving so fast that we compare everything to the speed of light. So how many light years it takes for you to arrive from one place to the other. Like the light from the sun to the earth, I think it takes like eight minutes from the surface of the sun to our surface of the earth.
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is life is programmed to try to fit a structure that is not matching. So basically every atom, every frequency in the universe is trying to match with something to try to balance something. So the reason why protons and electrons and neutrons are getting together and sharing, exchanging energy is basically because they are trying to compensate something.
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So it's very fast, and it goes very fast in a spiral way, like the photons move like this, very fast in the universe with nothing stopping them. So for the universe, they move fast, but actually they never actually are moving. So it's like kind of a paradoxical thing for a photon. So what happens?
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When a photon gets trapped by the gravity of this planet and the gases of this planet, the photon starts to heat every particle. And instead of just keeping going from the sun to another world, to Jupiter, let's say, it gets trapped in our atmosphere. And that's why we see, for example, this color, like blue sky, is actually photons hitting ozone and helium.
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So like this, so we can perceive that color. But it's because a lot of photons are being trapped. in our world by this gravity and all the particles that are here. And that's why we see the colors. It's just a reflection of those photons that got trapped in Earth. So now imagine that your body has a sun. and another sun on the other side.
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And they both are sending photons throughout a channel, which is your center of your being, your spine, through the nervous system, through the core. But you have chakras, which are the planets. So those planets will be crossed by the photons. But what happened? The bigger that planet grows, the more photons it catches and traps them.
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So they start to shine, but also they start to vibrate very fast and be entrapped. Instead of in the presence, infinite presence of a photon throughout space, Now they get trapped and get chaotic. And that's why we feel heat. That's why we burn by radiation when we are taking some sun on the beach. So it's because of these photons and radiations being alterated here.
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So imagine a chakra that has more weight, that has more shades, more things are trapping more light and more light and more light, not allowing the light to go from one planet to the other, from one sun to the other.
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feeling that connectivity of the infinite space so it creates life for example that allows the chakras to shine so it gives energy and and that's how we see the colors the wavelength of the photons around us that's why we say red orange yellow the colors of the chakras are not different it's just one spectrum of a photon that moves in different wavelengths.
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So there's the same photon moving in different wavelengths. So we see red, orange, and so on. So that's why we see the colors of the chakras, basically. So all this rainbow that we have within ourselves is because photons are crossing from the sun to the ground by gravity and being expanded by this sun that we have above us, the higher self.
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So if we are aligned, these colors will shine like a rainbow. But if we start to trap emotions... relationships, fears, attachments, and we start to grab more gravity and gravity and gravity. So it's less light going through. So the rainbow starts to kind of disappear. And so you get stuck in one specific moment. Like for example, a lot of attachments to a place, right?
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It creates a lot of weight in the root chakra. So it's more long waves. So that means more red light, which means that I'm going to get more anger. and rage and because I'm trying to protect territory. So the photon starts to be more attached there. So I will have much more red energy and the other ones will be lower and lower because all the photons are vibrating in that wavelength.
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Because the only truth and perfection of the entire universe is the void. It's like this grace that holds everything that doesn't exist. It's this massive thing that is impossible to understand. But what we can grasp to understand, which is the seen aspect, the one that we can perceive, is constantly trying to compensate something. Which means that that's our perfection.
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So that's why we see a rainbow through us. But if that light gets attached by too much gravity in one point of your body, so it changes the whole configuration.
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Exactly, yeah. So it's basically like saying, okay, if I have a lot of attachment here in this chakra, maybe I'm losing strength in my legs also. So why? Because I'm taking all the power of my knees and my hips to put it here, to nourish something that needs to be fulfilled.
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So what do I have to do? It's not about releasing that energy. It's about relocating it to the hips, to the knees, to the bones. So I spread the energy where it's supposed to be so the photons can cross correctly and correct. That's the healing.
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Of course, the awakening happens when the light of your own sun crosses directly to your own world. That means that there is nothing that can stop you from feeling that light. So that's why realign the chakras, reorganize the information that you have in them, allowing a black hole to be in the center of everything so the energy can just go through.
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Because I thought I feel contained in a glass of water, I'm not allowing myself to become stars. But only when I go to the void, I can be both at the same time. The whole mindset starts to reset and starts to be a blessing for the new things to come. One of the things that I would say to the people that are close to people that have is allow those people to expand.
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Mm-hmm. I like in Spanish illness is enfermedad. And I like the origin of that word because enfermo, enfermedad means to be stopped. So someone that got stopped and got still. And because the energy is not moving, it gets stuck. So you get ill. That's the way to understand the word. So basically, it's like when you get sick, when you create a dam for that water to go through.
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So you start to accumulate water. And you say, well, water is not bad. It's bad when it's accumulated and doesn't flow. So then can become, I don't know, the water can get rotten and smelly. And so that's what happens. That's why we get ill, because the flow of the energy is not the correct one. So we start to create a dam of energy, a dam of power and light.
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And the same thing that before gave us life and energy is the same thing that is killing you. Just because you are blocking with a lot of things that you're putting inside in order to feel that you hold it. Because one of the beautiful things about how this works is that in order for you to have it, you need to release it. That's eating and pooping. Energy is the same. You receive and give.
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So if you keep all of that because, oh, I just received all this energy and I want to keep it for myself, the same thing that was so amazing, it will get you ill.
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I have a friend that had cancer, and we did some ceremonies together, and I was receiving this with my higher self speaking. And, of course, in Spanish it wouldn't make any sense, but in English, he speaks English, he found a way to explain this with the similarities of the words, which is, in order to heal... You have to know where to put your heel.
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I was like, what does it mean when you stand up? Health means that you are in your center. So to be in your center when you are standing up, where are your heels? So health is where you put your heels so you can have your center. So one gets ill when doesn't know where to put the next step. So the question is not about your illness, it's about where are you going? Or where are you staying?
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That's our beauty, let's say. Life, it's about that. And we can explain that constantly. But once... I was connected to, let's say, an energy that the Indians call Brahma, which I've never felt before. And it was too powerful. My body couldn't stand just the tiniest slice of that. And he kept repeating something that in my brain was translated into...
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Where you're staying is a healthy center for you? Do you know where you're going to put your heel in the next step? Where are you heading to? What is the purpose? So the questions, when there's an illness, it's not about how I heal the illness. It's about why I got stuck. Because the illness is just cells saying, hey, there's a problem here. So where are we going?
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So when all the attention is about how to heal the disease... you're just stuck in the energy again and again in the same trauma, in the same conflict. Because all your attention and your heels are just thinking about the disease.
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Yeah, it's like, I'm feeling this. I have to be here with the disease. But most of the people, instead of asking the disease, why am I here? They try to avoid the disease, trying to heal it and saying, I have to be fine. I have to heal. I remember my grandmother died because of cancer and we were at the hospital and I said to her, there are two ways to walk this path. One is very long.
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but it might get you to where you're supposed to. The other one is short, but it will take you where you don't want to go. So the short one was let's try chemo and trust the doctors, of course, something that can heal you too. But of course, it's going to kill more cells than actually heal them. The other one is to walk the path. Where are you? Where have you been? Where are you going to?
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Do you actually want to heal? So you have to face why you have this disease. So all of that is longer, of course, but it might get you to the real point. And I remember she looked at me and said, and she said, so what would be the first thing to do? And I said, well, you have to forgive my grandfather, your husband. He was dead many years ago. And you have to speak with him.
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And she said, let's go for the short one. Yeah, she died, of course. But yeah, she didn't want to face the whole situation.
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Is that right? Yeah. Yeah. And forgive, forgive is to give away. So that's the origin of forgiveness. Forgiveness is the ability to give something that doesn't belong to you. So I forgive you is actually, I'm not expecting anything and I give you what you have gave me back. So that's the concept of it. So I don't have the weight anymore of something that doesn't belong to me.
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You're giving it away. You're giving it back. So you are taking away the weight that you had in that chakra. So that's why forgiveness is not about the other person. It's always about yourself. So that's why I said the first thing is to release a weight that doesn't belong to you. in order to focus just on you. So that's why you have to forgive first.
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So otherwise, you're not concentrating yourself. You're just giving energy to someone else. That's why you have to forgive everyone before you can do the work with yourself.
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Well, forgiveness is one of the first ones. The next one, I believe, is to make the map on why did you accept all those weights. So what are the cycles that you've been repeating that you accumulated that weight in you? That takes a long time because it means recognition, understanding, talking about it, having conversations even with people that...
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are not there but you can speak with someone like if that person was there so it's part of the recognition of where is the map where does the map leads me in my mind so to understand all the moments that you had that disease that same disease that now is physical but you had it before emotionally so where did i feel this before
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How can a mistake know that it is a mistake if it's very nature is the mistake? And I was like, what does this mean?
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Yeah. That's the second thing that someone has to do. Yeah, of course. And the third one would be towards the future. Where am I heading because of that? What are my intentions? Are mine or are of those people, of those situations? Where am I going? And that's the question of the heels. Like, where am I standing and where am I going to put myself?
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The heal, because health is about where I'm going and how the energy is moving. If I'm not moving, if I'm still shocked by what happened, I'm not going to heal. The next question is where am I going to put my heal? in the next steps. Where am I heading to? What's my purpose? And so on.
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It's basically that. Like, emotion is energy. I say energy in motion. It's a constant motion of energy. So what is energy? Everything. We are energy. We are packages of data in shape of energy. Electrons spinning around a proton, energy. So what are you? Chemical elements that are atoms, that is atomic energy packaged in a different way. We have that power within us.
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that becomes emotions organically become emotions when we are not using it correctly so when we don't know how to use the machine correctly that energy and we call that emotion so in order to heal a machine you need to correct the emotion and that makes you think about what is my emotion Where am I moving?
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Am I moving or I'm just thinking that I'm moving, but actually I'm like a hamster in the same wheel spinning and running, but in the same position all the time.
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And as I went through that rabbit hole, let's say, in my consciousness, it took me to this moment of creation that we all say that is the moment of the beauty and the creation and big bang and appearance of all the particles in the universe and all the history and stars and everything that we appreciate today as the origin of life. But from the point of view of the void, that was a mistake.
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Yeah, the universe is eternal.
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So plenty of time.
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I think it's important to understand that when someone dies, their energy expands. So that expansion goes to different levels. There's one aspect of that expansion that goes to the fourth dimension and the fifth dimension that expands into different dimensions. But other aspects of you expands in the third dimension. Meaning... Insects will eat from you. That will feed birds and roots.
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That will give power to flowers and seeds. That will create honey for beehives and so on. So you expand in different dimensions. You don't only expand in the fourth or heaven, but you're also expanding to this one. So that means that the person that just died, one aspect...
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expands very fast to the fourth dimension, which is that moment when you see your whole life and the tunnel and the whole thing. But then you go to the fifth dimension, which is information, and you start to expand to other levels. But the physical aspect of you, it takes months until it expands into nature.
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One of the things that I would say to the people that are close to people that have died recently is... to allow those beings those people to expand because if we grab them and say we don't want for you to leave why did you leave i want for you to stay with me so you provoke a contraction but they cannot come back to the body so they get stuck in the energetics of a place
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So it's very beautiful to accompany someone to leave and to expand. And I remember from my grandmother, I was in the hospital and I, and I created a whole portal under the bed. Of course you did. With a lot of crystals and things. And I put all these crystals that reflect rainbows and was playing the crystal ball. And the nurses used to come to the room just to relax and then leave.
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Because, of course, she'd choose the other path. So I was creating a tunnel for her to expand faster. And, of course, I gave her a lot of cannabis. Illegally.
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I don't care.
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Yeah, she said, give me that thing that you give me. Yeah, okay, good. Yeah, to expand the mind and the body. So I think it's very important for us to accompany those who are going or just left to expand to every dimension.
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And that's why I also, like, personally, I don't like to put bodies in a coffin.
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Mainly because it's more difficult for those people to expand to nature again because they are kind of trapped. And this is actually a tradition we kept from the Middle East because we believed we would use the same body when we reincarnate. So they had to keep it as possible equally so we could use it back. That's the mummification stories and everything. But actually, we go back to the source.
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And if we are energy, we are fire. So that's why the cultures that burn their bodies, not immediately. That's the other problem. You need at least seven days to do the whole process of the body processing the energy and releasing the whole energy. That's what you recommend.
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That's what I would recommend to have a time or help the body during the first hours or the first day to release all the energy with whatever many techniques so it doesn't get attached to the body and then release it through fire. So we become energy and the plants can eat us, the birds, it comes back freely to everything, to the source.
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So we, the void, the essence of everything is constantly trying to compensate and balance the creation in order to see how can we harmonize finally the entire existence. Because of that tiny mistake.
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But actually, that tiny mistake was done by many different ancient civilizations and future civilizations when they tried to control that moment, when they tried to become God, the very origin of everything. So by trying to...
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control the moment of error origin or trying to understand it they created technology created ways to arrive to that moment and the way you arrive to that moment is by going in in in in and you can go in two ways you can go in meditation or you can go with
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technology that can take you until the wands and quarts and when you get there and you move it and you break it to see what is the origin of everything you arrive to a moment within everything that doesn't have time so whatever you touch there you touch the origin of everything It's not that you have to go to the past to do that.
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You just have to go away from the structures of reality to arrive to the origin. So we all leave connected to that, but we are layers of that mistake. So we cannot actually appreciate that time doesn't exist. We are just different rhythms of that time that we created as a consciousness.
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And every time that science or not just in this planet, but many others are trying to reach the origin to control time, because one thing is control matter, but if you control time, you basically control every process of matter and you can manipulate everything, like every atom, every structure. So when you go there and try to control time, every time that your consciousness observes
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With this point of view, what happened in the origin, you are moving the structures in a different way, which creates ripples in time that traps us constantly. So it's creating mistakes after mistakes after mistakes. So every story, every atom, every molecule in this universe has been trying to correct those mistakes from the origin, which is not in the past.
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Because if we grab them and say, I want for you to stay with me, you provoke a contraction. They cannot come back to the body, so they get stuck in the energetics of the place. Most of us suffer because we want to hold the character as if it's us. If I lose this, or if I stop doing that, I might lose myself. Who am I after that?
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is in the tiniest aspect of the universe, that someone or some people, not just from here, has been trying to manipulate. So how do you find something that was moved from its place that actually is nowhere, but is everywhere, hidden every code of the reality? So you have to pay attention to everything. And to see how everything that seems not to be connected...
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has a code for the others to repair it. The paradox here is what happened when you repair it? You start all over, you disappear. What does it mean? So there are many stories from there.
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Who am I? That, well, related to what I was just explaining, who am I is just one of the expressions, the main expression of the entire universe. But we have a misunderstanding of the concept I and am. So basically it's like something that starts to pulse, to create a pulse. So I is the essence and am is the pulse of that essence.
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So we translate it into I am, the force of the I am, because we can relate to it, because we evolve through an ego. So the ego is the easiest way to understand how everything can relate to me, to my point of view, to my hearing, to every one of my senses. How can I perceive everything is because of me. So I am according to what I perceive. I only see what I perceive.
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So I've been evolving according to that. So that means that every little mistake in the reality is my perception of my own mistake. So the whole thing is how do I go back to the essence of all of it, to I? And from there, being, I can expand myself and express myself in this reality.
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So who am I is one of the main questions that we have to do constantly when we reach consciousness in order to repair that system, to bring everything that we projected outside into the right position and order. So it's like a practice that we have to do constantly. Who am I in this? Who am I with that? Who am I doing this? Who am I in this relationship? Who am I?
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So that question is the one that brings the particles to order to try to find the right essence. And that is being asked by plants. It's being asked by insects. It's not just humans. We all ask that constantly in different ways with different resonance, vibration. So it's just to relocate the essence as it is supposed to be and not just the perceptions that we have been adapting to.
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The same thing that before gave us life and energy is the same thing that is killing us.
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Yeah. Well, the first layer that we have when we hear the word void or emptiness is is that we feel that it means nothing that we exist because our entire body has been trying constantly to accumulate things to fulfill our bodies to fill up our stomachs to fill up with blood our heart so it keeps beating
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to fill up our minds so we can find structures to hold to, to relate to people so we can understand that we are not alone. So in our survival history, we have been developing constantly ways to tell us that we have to fill up something, that every void that we have or every empty aspect of ourselves needs to be fulfilled with something. Or filled up. Just that.
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So every time that we do something, it's like, oh, I don't feel complete. There's something missing. And it's like constantly these things that we say... are establishing a pattern that makes us escape from the idea of void, of having something that is hollow. And it's a terrible image for someone that is trying to fulfill its life or to find something to complete themselves.
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Like love, we try to find someone else to complete ourselves and so on. But this void is not about that. This void is not about there's nothing and I have to fill it up. And if I don't fill it up, I become nothing. It's not that specific void. Basically, when you go to the infinite structure of particles, there's nothing. It's void. And even though that void is holding everything.
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it doesn't matter where it is it doesn't matter if it's another galaxy or here this glass of water it's the same void that is holding the structure of everything so when you go to that void it's not something that you have to fill up it's something that allows you to be in that galaxy and in the glass of water So you are everything.
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You are holding the structure of everything that you can possibly think of. So it's completely the opposite to where we were designed to understand about what is void and emptiness. So when scientists say, oh, the universe is basically 0.0001% matter, And the rest is void. It's like, so what? The 99.99% of the universe is void? What it means? What does it mean?
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So it means that it's holding everything that we perceive. So actually, that's the important aspect. That's the divine itself. And the reason why that void is so important is because it allows everything to exist without any conditioning. So that's why we feel comfortable in that void. expansion of nothing instead of feeling I'm loosening. So when you connect with that is totally different.
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And I used to use this this way of explaining the void so people could understand it more closely, which is A guitar to make music needs a hole. So basically, not the void, but the emptiness of the room or the hole on the guitar is the thing that allows the sound to expand, the music to be heard.
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So that's like a simplest way to understand that the void is not something bad that you need to fulfill, because if you fill it up, the sound won't be the same. You cannot actually feel. That's why in order to actually find coherence between heart and mind. You need to be empty from all the expectations, feelings, patterns, ideas, preconcepts.
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We think we have to escape the Matrix in order to see the truth, when actually the entire system is telling you once you get out of the Matrix, you have to honor the Matrix because the Matrix is feeding you. Take life as if it's a video game. Try to enjoy every aspect of it and doing mistakes because that's the way you learn the systems that no one else can actually teach you.
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When for other people, like if you go to, I don't know, native people in the rainforest, in the Amazon, or to places like Papua New Guinea or these places that have matriarchy. So they don't have one mother. They have many mothers. So suddenly these people don't have that conflict with the matrix because those people can see the mother as it is. They don't have this controllative energy.
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They just have a lot of feminine energy that gives you the chance to become what you're supposed to be instead of trying to control you. So suddenly your relationship with the system is completely different. You don't have that trauma.
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Exactly. And now repeat that for thousands of years. What you have is Middle East. Okay. Your relationship with your mother. So you have Middle East. What they did. Let's make the women shut up. So we are not controlled by that. So let's create a father that takes care of us. because we're in a prison and we have to escape.
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So now you have like four main religions telling you that you have to escape the prison of earth because you're punished in this planet and you have to go to heaven with your father and repeat that for 2000 years. And then you have us. Trying to escape the system saying that people is controlling us. The governments are controlling us. The economy is controlling us.
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The religions are controlling us. And we are just talking about mom.
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but for millions of years. Wow. So we have been just repeating that. So that's why we can think about people that is trying to control our minds in behind the governments. But why is because they had some trauma with mom. So it's not far away. It's not that far in conspiracy theories, like all conspiracy theories comes from someone that had a trauma as in the childhood.
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Not only talking about humans, of course. Many.
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It's like the geometry of everything.
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Patterns are something that leads you. So when you are born, the natural state of being born is that is there to receive you. Now we cannot relate to that because we have so many doctors or so many people that is not living that. But think about repeating this for millions of years in a cave. So there was a father or a masculine figure that was receiving the baby.
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So for millions of years, we have had in our minds this idea of a figure that is father coming when we are getting out of the womb. So that image that is telling us about the father coming.
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from the light we are coming from a cave the womb and suddenly we see the light and that is there the father is there so what tells us to our subconscious that person is going to lead my way out so that person is the one that creates my path my pattern the one that i have to follow In order to get out from where I am. So to get out from where I am, I have to follow a pattern.
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I have to follow that. So for thousands and millions of years, we have been following the leader of the herd. which usually was a male. So we follow that and we were protected by the feminine.
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So that's why we had this sense that the feminine needs to feel and pay attention to more things because they have to pay attention on how everyone is feeling on the herd while the father is concerned about what am I going to kill on the path of where I'm going so I can feed them. So that repeated for millions of years.
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Exactly. And what are the patterns? The patterns are that knows where is the next tree. That knows where is the next well of water. That knows where the buffaloes are. That knows where and so on. So if you follow that pattern, you will find the buffalo. But if you don't follow that tree with that well of water, you won't find it. So if you break the pattern, you might die.
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If you don't follow that, you might die. So we created this idea that we have to follow the leader or we will die. We have to follow God or we will die. So follow the son, follow dad, follow the priest, follow a leader, a politician or whatever. So we have to follow someone with a pattern. And then in our life, because dad said, don't do that or you will burn. Don't do that or you will fall.
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So in our life, we won't jump because... We might fall and die. I'm not going to a holy fire because I might burn. So I start to repeat those patterns because that's what in my mind is telling me that's how I survive. And even if my dad did terrible things to me,
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If you look at school, like I don't like school. If you look at how school is presented today, of course, it's about, okay, you have to learn something. But actually, how you learn is through the experience and games. Like you see in nature, most of mammals and even some reptiles too, birds, of course, they tend to play. They play by doing things that they would do in their lives.
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abuses or i don't know in many different ways the worst thing you can think of your body is what recognized as that's why i'm alive even if that person abuse of me i'm alive because of that
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Survival. So that's a pattern that I will repeat with friends, with lovers, with bosses or whatever.
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Tick tock. It's the heartbeat of God. If we have all the patterns in our head telling us, pay attention to this, that, that, that, and creating a whole mindset for us to survive. And then we have the matrix that is telling you, I'm holding you and creating the matter to sustain the body of the universe. So matrix and pattern in the middle. We have the heart. So what is hard is the time.
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Time is the pulse. It's the pulse that connects the structure of matter in matrix and gives a meaning to it according to the patterns of your mind, the father. So in the center, time is the one that balance space according to those two points of view. So every heartbeat, it nourish the matter and the pattern. It nourishes all.
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So time is what actually helps us perceive the patterns, is what actually helps us perceive the matrix. Why? Because the heartbeat creates a pattern. And if it keeps going, creates a matrix. So every is like one dot, a line, and another dot, point A to B. So it creates a whole structure that we perceive as space, but actually was only rhythm. So it was rhythm of ideas that become structure.
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So what happens with time? That it transforms itself according to how we perceive the patterns. If we start to understand the matrix and the patterns, we dilate time. So suddenly we perceive it longer or shorter according to how we leave those patterns. That's why some people think like an hour is too long.
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And some people think that it was a minute because of how they are living their own patterns in life.
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Yeah. So in that point of view, we have time as the rhythm, as the heartbeat of the system. What does resounds with you? How do you feel your heart? And we go to here to the very human emotions of love and conditional love. I feel you. I love you. I have my heartbeats for whatever. Basically, why the heartbeats? because the heart beats because it has nerves
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that are connected to the brain, so it has its own rhythm, but it has electrical pulses because of neurons. So there you have patterns in your heart that are beating it. The other thing that makes it beat is blood. How do you produce blood? You have to eat and go to the third structure, which is matter, in your intestines, stomach, is the third brain, to produce the energy and the blood
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for you to have something to bump. So you need the blood from matter and the nerve system from father in order for the heart to beat. And every beat that the heart is making, it aligns you with the whole purpose of the universe. That's why the feeling is love, but actually is blood pressure. I want to describe it like that.
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So that's why when we feel in love, we relate that to be full with food, with sweetness. It's all the pancreas. With sweetness and also the... I feel it here. It's just the blood pressures aligning the brain and the intestines with the heartbeat. So... We have that in our lives and we can understand when someone is out of time, when they don't live according to what they love.
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So game is very important. To play is very important. So why would I suggest... for someone that is in the fifth grade is to take life as if a video game or Disney park or whatever, and try to enjoy every aspect of it and what it gives you. So the main thing is to enjoy, to enjoy playing and doing mistakes, because that's the way you learn the systems that no one else can actually teach you.
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If you don't love what you do, if you don't feel appreciated, loved in the environment, if you don't enjoy what you are doing in your life and you are not coherent because you are... Living with people that doesn't make you feel love or living work situation that doesn't make you feel here. The question is what you're living is making you feel here.
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It's making your heart beat in a way that you feel fulfilled, that you feel this. If it's not, you're out of time, which means you lost your rhythm, which means you're out of the patterns and matter, and you are lost in time and space. So it's for the universe, just a simple thing of not doing what you love makes you be out of the tune of the universe. And
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Now that I say this, for some people it's like, yeah, well, you have to work and you have to pay your taxes and you have to do your stuff. Yeah, but you can do it doing what you actually love. And what you actually love is not here. Because a lot of people think, mainly in this continent, and precisely in this country, and I think more in this city.
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And you have to be rich or have this or have that or whatever. So it's like, yeah, but I have to work hard to feel. No, no, no, no. It's not about what you think is making you good. It's about what is actually making you good. Maybe today is to just be with a dog in the street and that's it. So what makes you feel there? And this is what takes you to the right people.
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This is what takes you to the right situations.
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Exactly. Because you start to be in synchrony. You start to synchronize with time. That's what synchrony means. It's synchronous. It means to be with time. That's what it means. Synchrony is when you are in your time, you synchronize with the clocks of others. So if they are also tuned, it's a match. So it's all about time, about how do you process things here.
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But of course, people talk about this with love and this, I want to like,
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To talk a little bit more of the system and how it works than the emotion of it. So we don't just get into the idea of you have to love because there's a lot of that.
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Yeah, exactly, because it's very superficial when you say only you have to do what you love. I've heard many channelings from people Beings from other worlds, which this is very funny sometimes and very annoying for some people, too.
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When you have, like, I don't know, huge beings in the cosmos or the Galactic Confederation from other worlds, captains of spaceships, that when they are channeled, the channel says, you have to love what you do. And, you know, it's like... What? Like, really? Like, you're an alien and you come to say something that I can read in a... Self-improvement book? Yeah, something like that.
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So it's like, really?
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Yeah, something like that. But why is that? Because the entire universe works for the rhythms of time. So most of the people in other dimensions and other worlds cannot connect with the entire planet if the planet is not in the right rhythm.
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So it's like trying to tune a radio station to hear what humans are saying or what Earth is talking, and you are in Sirius, and you're like, what are they saying? And it's like, I can't hear properly. So what do I have to tell them? From other dimensions, download to humans, go back to your heart. Yeah. Tune in with your heart, do what you love.
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So you can tune actually so they can hear and we can communicate through radio stations.
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Because if I go to a fifth grade and said, well, we are here in this planet for this, this, and this, it's like teaching algebra and going straight to a point that no one cares. Because like, yeah, but what can I do about it? Like, oh, yeah, we are here to solve a problem that is a conflict in the universe because an ion was missing. And I was like, sure. Yeah.
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Well, I think that this is one of them, the one where we are talking about in the first civilizations that started to tune in with the higher consciousness. they understood that everything is about rhythm and vibration. And that if you don't resound with your own self, you cannot create nothing outside. You can't be and create what you're supposed to be.
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So one of the biggest teachings, I believe, is How to tune with yourself, how to be tuned with yourself. And this brings us to part of the first conversation we had before, which is if I right now I'm tuned with emptiness because I need to find out something there. So tune in with that. Being tuned is not like being the image of Buddha, you know, or an enlightened one.
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If you take it too seriously on how do I escape, you stop enjoying the game. Just a simple thing of not doing what you love makes you be out of the tune of the universe. The universe has always a reason why that is happening and anything that you do will have an effect forever. Everything that happens in the universe is generating a new reality, a new pathway. Mind is not in the brain.
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It's basically to be tuned with what your song is saying right now. Because for the universe, you are not a person. For the universe, you are a wave in the infinite song of the universe. And in a song, sometimes you have a do, and sometimes you have a oh, So different octaves. So it's the same note, but in different octaves. But if you just keep going to...
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suddenly you disappear because no one can hear you anymore in this reality. So you get enlightened, let's say, but it's actually because you are like moving to a different realm. In a song, there's no song that goes... The songs go like, it goes up and down. So to be tuned with the universe is to allow yourself to feel in which note are you in every moment.
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whatever so but what do i do well let's relate it to you feel that something is missing in your life so how do you find something that's missing well it's hidden so you have to play in where those things are hidden in life so you go through stories you you try to find people to to make a trip to find something different and to enjoy what you discover even if it's not the point
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You don't have to just jump from one to the other. You have to dive in all of them. And that's how you start to tune with the others and the other instruments that are in reality.
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The symphony. So that's why I feel that one of the ancient knowledges that humanity had was sitting around the fire, playing the drums, And feeling how the drum aligns with the heart of everyone. And that's what tuned everyone in the same frequency. So then they could spread it through the body. And that's why they could dance, bringing the patterns with the movement.
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And that with the flute, with other instruments. And we started to create stories around the sounds. And we carry it in the heartbeat. So that became technology. For Atlantis, how they build pyramids, it was because of music. Because the architects were tuned with themselves as instruments of music. I think that's one of the most important things.
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Well, it's like I said, glass of water or galaxy. It's basically us in a different way, in a different shape. Some of them with different bases, so they don't look like us. They're very different from us. But everyone follows the laws of the universe. those main laws and vibration is there. Rhythm is there. So that's why extraterrestrial beings, they don't usually travel through space.
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They travel through time. They don't usually connect a world with the other by building a spaceship to go outside, but they build spaceships to go within. So they could travel through molecules. So that's how we become them through millions of years of pollinization. So it's a long process of sending packages of data.
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There are many billions of planets that are evolving that are in a lower process than us or the same process or higher process. Most of them don't know about us as we don't know about them. And those who know about us, they basically, as I said before, they are trying to tune.
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The main ones that you can read about them, the mentalism, which is the first one, everything's mind, but not here. Mind is everything. It's a network of data. So mind is not in the brain. The brain is just the CPU, the processor, the server, let's say, for mind. So everything is mind. It's mind means that everything is a network of data. It doesn't actually exist. It's just an idea.
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It's just a shape of an idea that is not human. It's a cosmic idea. So that's the first one. Then the law of correspondence. Correspondence means to answer with, which means that if I make a question, I will receive that answer. If I give an answer, I will receive the question related to that. We summarize that into there's above and below, right and left.
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Within, without. So everything corresponds to something else in order to exist, to understand the mind. Then it's vibration. Everything is vibrating. Everything is vibration. So wavelength of the mind. So you are going to tune into what you think, what you feel, what you do. That would be the tuning aspect. Then the rhythm. The law of rhythm is everything has a rhythm.
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So that's the rhythm of everything. So everything will repeat somehow. So according to the rhythm that you have, it will repeat in one way or the other. Cause and effect. Everything that you do will have an effect. or every effect has a cost always. There's nothing that just happens. That's what it means. Like, oh, why this is happening to me? Or this just happened.
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But to get the exercise of discovering something that is there that you cannot see. So this place is a huge escape room that gives you clues after clues after clues. So if you take it too seriously on how do I escape from this room, you stop enjoying the game.
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It makes no sense, but that's what happens. That's how it is. No, like the universe has always a reason why that is happening. There is always a cause of why that is happening. And anything that you do will have an effect forever. So that law, it's telling you, you are the result of many causes.
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So you have to understand these causes to understand you, and you have to be very aware of the causes that you do. Because it will affect everyone and yourself. So be mindful about that. Then it's polarity. So everything has poles, which means everything has one side and another side, which is not duality. This one is not related to duality. And the idea we have about two things.
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This one is basically saying if you have this hand, you have one side and another side. That's what it means. They are not against each other. But they make sense. They give sense. Like polarity would be electron, proton, for example. So they make sense together. If they are not correctly together, they create a toxic environment. So the importance of polarity to create.
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That's what gives us to the last one, the seventh point. which is generation, which means that everything that happens in the universe is generating a new reality, a new option, a new pathway. So there's constantly option to create something. It never stops. Creation never stops. So it will constantly...
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try to fit this with that and to do another shape, even if it's all the same mind and idea, but it will constantly find a different way to do it. And that's why we commit mistakes. Mistakes are not something bad in the universe, in our universe at least. They're not something bad. Mistakes are ways that the universe found in order to complete a new image.
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So it breaks something in order to put it in a different position. So that's the law of generation. So that would be kind of the seven laws that I humanize them a little bit. It's helpful.
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Yeah, and there are, of course, many books that explain it better.
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Dimensions are perceptions of your reality. So when you dream, you're able to tap into different perceptions of that reality, which means that you are accessing different dimensions of yourself. So most of them are related to things that we do in our daily life. But when we start to open into more dimensions, suddenly they start to give us information that makes no sense in our daily life.
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And you just try to escape. So it's not about how do I escape the room. It's about how fun... am I having with the short amount of time that I have to figure out all the clues? with my friends and whoever I'm surrounded by, to find what is this story about? So I guess that's the thing we could explain for 5th grade.
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So usually we discard them because it's like scientifically we could say it's just the brain trying to adjust data and... grabs information from the five senses. And because it's like making a backup, it's like a daily backup of it's just making a mix of a lot of things. And that's what a dream is. But actually, of course, that's true.
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But actually, what is happening is that doing that backup, you are uploading information to the cloud. So which means that in that moment, you are not just connected to your own device. You are connected to the cloud.
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So that means that all that information that you are uploading into the mind, the only thing that exists in the universe, into the mind, now it can be like a filter for you to download something from the cloud.
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Oh, yeah. Okay. Yeah, it's all about it.
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Of course, reality is multidimensional. What actually happens is that we are only perceiving a slice of it. So this is not purely the third dimension. We perceive the third dimension. But here it's also happening in all the others. At once. At once. It's not like to go to the fifth dimension, you have to go up there or above the clouds. How do you ground that like right now?
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Let's say you bought a lot of veggies, many different kinds of veggies. And with all of them, you made soup. So what is that soup? It's all the veggies at once. And now you can taste the flavor of all of them and even salt. And you cooked different things that you think they're separate, but they have the same chemicals inside of them, just in a different form.
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But you have the same structures that you need for your body. And you just mix them with water. You create a solution. And now all mixed is only one thing that you call soup. So... You perceive the soup, but actually all the chemical elements that were in every vegetable, they're together now and they're coexisting. So we are like that soup of dimensions.
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So it's not that they are one veggie upon the other.
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So they're all mixed and they're happening at the same time. Animals can perceive a different kind of dimension of the third dimension. Insects can perceive ultraviolet colors that we cannot perceive. So that gives you the idea on how we can have many dimensions happening at the same time. Your cat is not seeing what you see. The bees are not seeing what you see. It's completely different.
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Also, because of the quantum level. Yes. Which is every particle can be anywhere.
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Every proton has the possibility to be everywhere and everything.
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Yeah. It could be also the cucumber. Right.
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Yeah.
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That's the moment when all of it is mixed. You start to wonder, was I a cucumber or was I a carrot? Yeah. Because, oh, no, simply I am. Because now in that soup, everything is mixed. And if you try very hard to identify yourself as a carrot, it's going to be difficult because now you are not a carrot anymore. So you are the everything.
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And every proton has the possibility to be anything, anywhere, at any time. It's just linked to time and space. when it creates a structure.
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Yeah, exactly. That's how you stop trying hard to be the carrot when you actually can be everything. Yeah, so that's the analogy.
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Exactly.
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Depends on who. Of course, we're talking to people that are wandering. So I would speak just for the wanderers. The people that are wandering, the main thing that we have to do is to understand what consciousness is. Consciousness is going to be the most important asset. for humanity in the future. Because we're heading to an Aquarius age.
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And Aquarius is very fast, very changing, very weird, very crazy. So many things will happen that will take our attention out of the center. In the age of Pisces, like the last 2000 years, we had religion, as a way of finding the focus. So it was easier for the people, even if it was chaotic and everything was destroying constantly and you had no idea if you would survive next day.
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But all that chaos was held by a cross, a moon, Star of David, or any symbol. So Our consciousness was held there. So that's how we didn't lose the focus of Pisces. So what happens in the 2,000 years ahead where everything is going to be changing here, which is terrible because in the previous 2,000 years, everything was changing just outside, and we held a mindset.
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It's the self. Yeah, the self. It's the essence that we taught that keeps everything trying to position itself in a different position. Like me sitting in your place, you sitting in his place. We change position just because someone lost its north.
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Like if you go to someone, the Egyptian time, 3,000 years ago, And you take someone from the 50s or during the World War II, the mindset is kind of the same. So 2,000, 30,000 years of kind of the same mindset. The outside changed. But in the last 50 years, this is out of control. The mind is out of control. Why?
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Because we started to break the only things that kept us here, which was religion and a fixed idea that we can change. And suddenly we started to wonder. We started to maybe that's not true. So what is the truth now? Oh, it can be anything. Welcome to Aquarius. It can be anything. It can be whatever.
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So now you can go through technology and go through all YouTube and TikTok and whatever, and you have thousands of options of possibilities. Of everyone telling you stories that may or may not be true. And all these conspiracy theories. And people believe in them in the same way as they believe in religion. But people change in religion every two days.
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Or it's so complicated to know what is the focus of all of this. What is... what we are, where are we heading to like democracy or kingdoms or what do we do? So it was, it's so much and science every day is like trying to explain things, but at the same time is committing so many errors that people stopped trusting in science. So now we don't even believe in science or technology.
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So Aquarius time is going to be about what is my consciousness, right? Because we will have with AI, with technology and everything, we're going to solve many problems. Like many problems are being solved. Many solutions will happen. But if we keep the mindset of 3,000 years ago, this technology will be the end of us.
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So that's why one of the main things that we have to have in mind is how can we balance our brain, our focus, so we can change everything and not needing to come back to the religion to trap our mind. keep the focus anyway. So that's why consciousness is going to be something very important. And to work with consciousness is about questioning yourself constantly.
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Questioning yourself and questioning everything. At the same time, you accept yourself fully and accept everything that is happening outside. That's consciousness.
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So because one part of the essence lost it, now we all are trying to fill up that gap. So we all moved. one side. But the problem with the universe is that it doesn't work like that. It works with prime numbers, with irregular numbers, with pi numbers, Fibonacci. So someone that moved from one to one, it makes the other one move to two, but the other two moves to
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Yeah.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Allow me to die.
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First of all, allow me to die. Sometimes I need to disappear. But of course, all of this I'm receiving in the shape of projects that we have.
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And we are still shaping them to know exactly why we're doing them and how we are doing them. But I would love for everyone to be tuned in so they can sense in that story how can they support.
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Because we are creating a foundation, a project in order to start developing all these projects.
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Well, right now we are trying to start promoting gatherings that we are doing every solstice and equinox in different parts of the planet. And the idea is is again the rhythm because solstice and equinoxes are the between moon sun and earth so to balance the calendar to balance time and we call this gathering holy nada So and Rainbow Bridge to Holy Nada. So to create that Rainbow Bridge.
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So that's the main thing that we are kind of trying to create right now for the next years. So the next one is in June. of course, then September and then December. And we will keep that doing those gatherings. So I would love for everyone to join.
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Physically or online.
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Yeah. That's a way to support for me to keep going.
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Of course, financially support. We are establishing a foundation in Liechtenstein because Metatron told me. Which is a whole other story. But it was like, okay, there. To start to support all the projects that we are thinking that matches in how to start balancing and repairing this time. We don't have a specific website for that, but we are... We are developing all that right now.
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So we will share all the links.
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Thank you for the space.
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three and the three to five and the five to eight. So how do you find how to bring back the eight to five until you complete the sequence backwards? So everyone is spread in numbers around the entire universe through the math of encryption in the whole reality. So everyone has been moving in infinity. So how do you correct a system of someone moving from the essence, from itself?
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The one that moved to another one and created two. So now the two has to create a bridge to the one again, creating three, the Holy Trinity. But the three needs now perception. So it needs the duality to express in the five senses. So in a box, which is the eight, which is the creation of the Metatron's cube. Okay. The five senses through these levels of time and space.
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So, and you start to expand into a whole reality just because the one wanted to see itself.
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Well, without duality, you have no idea how to express, how to expand, how to be. When you are yourself... You have no relationship to anything unless you project outside to have a relationship with yourself. So when you project outside something like, I feel this... That feeling is you, but you need to say it somehow. I feel this. I see that.
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The brain is just the server for mind. Everything is a network of data. It doesn't actually exist. It's just a shape. It's a cosmic idea. To work with consciousness is about questioning yourself constantly. And at the same time, you accept yourself fully and accept everything that is happening outside. That's consciousness.
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Instead of saying, I see me in the shape of this, you say, I see that. So you need the perception, the expression of yourself in order to compare. So compare yourself. means to put pairs in resonance. So I am comparing myself with you means I am resounding with you. So I need you to see me somehow. The thing is that when you are out of your essence, when you compare, is how can I become like you?
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And that's the problem because I forgot that I am you too. So I start to compare in a wrong way. So that is the moment when we think that duality is bad. It's just a matter of perception. So we are comparing to everything all the time because we are expressions of the everything. So everything is a part of me, is a pair. So when I resound with that, I compare.
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If I am in my essence, when I get out of my essence, I think that it's my opposite and you have what I don't have. So instead of being positive and negative as compares, now we are in a fight. which is you have what I don't have, so I have to work myself so I can have what you have. And that's what started to create the idea of duality.
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Yeah.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Well, talking about what we said before about spiritual awakening, you're in the womb of your mother, you are born, and that's kind of a spiritual awakening. So matrix is another word for womb. Literally, in Latin, matrix means womb. So what is matrix in all of this? It's basically you are within the womb of your mother, Mother Earth, or the Dark Matter, the Dark Mother. So you are within matter.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Matter is another word for saying mother, right? Actually, it's the same word, but took different path in history. So it's the same etymology, the same word. What is matter is the mother that holds you. So that means that you are in the matrix of mom.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Form is like the matter has the form of a glass.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
The matter has the form of a human.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
The matter has the form of a chair, but all of it is matter.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
So forms are different.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
The mother is everything that you can sense.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
And forms are different ways in which you can sense it.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
So matrix is basically you are still in matter, which means you are in the womb. mother earth or mother dark which is dark matter so that's where you are so what is the feeling when you're starting to have a spiritual awakening or conscious awakening you start to understand that this is trapping it's like I need to be born into what so you need to get out of the matrix and
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
to expand towards the light of the father, let's say. Another way to say father is pattern. So pattern, pater, is also father. It's the same origin. So you escape the matter to see the patterns. What are the patterns? Geometry.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
mandalas the structures of the universe with the colors and everything so you see the patterns behind everything you can see the patterns of a tree and a human they are the same you have the same structure just different form in mata but in the patterns we have kind of the same so you have to get out of the matrix to see the patterns so you are with the father energy but
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Do you think that a baby, when it's born, what is the first thing that a baby does naturally when it's born? It doesn't try to get away from the mother. It doesn't try to kill the mother. The first thing instinctively is to go up, crawl and go to the breast of the mother. So when we talk about matrix, we usually think we have to escape the matrix in order to see the truth.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
When actually the entire system is telling you, once you get out of matrix, you have to honor the matrix because the matrix is feeding you. is giving you the energy to understand the patterns.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
So if you try to escape Earth by saying Earth is bad because it's patterns and the Matrix is trapping me and I have to set myself free, so basically it's like, okay, so who's going to feed you in this new world? Who's going to hold you in your arms for at least one year until you know how to communicate with the patterns correctly?
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
So I think that the misunderstanding that we have about what Matrix is It's something we have to also recognize on how we relate with mom and dad. Because that's the main thing.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Yeah. I mean, we are echoes of a story. So our relationship with the mother, our relationship with our father is related to how we relate with the matrix and the patterns.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
Let's say you grew up in an environment that your mom was very controlling.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
So imagine that your mom is very controlled. It tells you everything that you have to do, how you have to feel, what you have to dress and everything. And you need to follow that. Otherwise, you are not following the rules of your mother, let's say. So you might be kicked away of your house if you don't follow those rules. Eventually, you grow up. You have your own life.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
you go to college, you get a job, you stop talking with your mom, and then you have some problems with a friend, and you go to therapy to solve the problems with your friend, and actually, the therapist said, let's talk about your mother. Okay, so you go to your mother, and then you say, okay, I will heal my relationship with my mother.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
But that therapist take you to, I don't know, a yoga retreat that takes you to a spiritual awakening, that takes you to wonder, I don't know, YouTube videos that takes you to someone that is talking about the matrix. And suddenly you say, oh, yes, I feel trapped in the matrix and I have to escape the matrix.
Healing + Human Potential
What’s Really Controlling Your Reality + How to Shift It | Matias De Stefano | Part 2 | EP 87
And because the matrix is controlling your mind, the matrix is controlling your body, the matrix is controlling how you dress, the matrix is controlling how you think, how you feel. And eventually you're talking about your mother. Yeah.