Mandel
Appearances
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
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REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
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REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Hello, it's Mandel.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
What's going on, Andy? How you doing, man?
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Man, I'm doing great. Yeah, nah, man, this is no doubt one of the best days of my life. I mean it.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Yeah, Sioux Falls, South Dakota.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
That's a beautiful country up here. Yeah, it is. It's nice up here, though. It's a good state. All right, brother.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Yeah, so I want to be as objective about this as possible without putting emotions into it. But my question is, is it a moral and ethical thing to cut your siblings out of your life when you believe they are the reasons for holding you back. They come with good intentions, but do not believe in the path of being what Tim Grover calls a cleaner in life.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
For, you know, me, you, I'm sure DJ and the rest of the RelayF team that have read the book Relentless by Tim Grover.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
A hundred percent. Okay. No, literally that was straight facts. Like, it's just nice to hear from somebody for the first time in my life that gets what the show is real AF. And yeah, you know, it's something where like, I'm truly trying to do something incredible with my life. I know people laugh at me when I say, I know they're like, Oh, you're trying to do something like Steve jobs. No, I am.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
I really am. And I, I say it with humility and you get laughed at, you know, and it's like, you get to a point, like you said, it's like you love them and you're proud of your siblings. They're your blood siblings, you know, you grew up with them, but you realize that they are anchors.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
And it's like, you know, just from these short couple of months of closing these relationships with them, because I have, I've achieved like literally a year of progress because of the focus that I've been able to put on all this energy towards my goals. So yeah, It just sucks. It's a sucky situation because, like you said, it's easy to do with friends because they're friends.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
You talk about your blood siblings, Sal for you, Andy, your brother. You grew up with these guys. You love them, but you realize that they just... They call you high at TVing and all this, and it's just not the right energy. Like you said, you need people there that are going to fight with you, not just be neutral with you when you're having these conversations.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
All right.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Yeah, man. I appreciate it. Yeah. No, it's to the point where, like you said, during 25, you know, going into that, you know, transitionary phase, you know, I want to win.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
so bad that like it's coming at all costs now like to where like it's i'm having this question with you guys today bro let me tell you but no i go ahead sorry about that let me let me tell you something dude it takes everything anybody who tells you it doesn't take everything is lying they've never done it or they had some sort of
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
No doubt. All right, brother. Nah, man. I mean, I don't want to take any more of you guys' time. I mean, this is literally one of the best days of my life. No, like seriously, the wisdom I just got is going to propel me. I can't wait to see what 20 years from now, my life's going to look like.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
I just want to thank you guys, the Real AF team on first form and all of everybody in the entire teams that, you know, put out the stuff you guys do. You guys are literally doing God's work. Like, I mean, you guys are actually speaking God's word into the world. Like it's, it's amazing. I've been listening for five years and I just can't thank you guys enough. It, the show truly means a lot to me.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Yeah, man. No, no. Last thing I want to say is, uh, You know, my mom, she's eight months sober because she's been so inspired at how hard I work every single day. There you go. And my goals and everything. And it's just, you know, little things like that that you had to be grateful for.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
But, yeah, no, I don't want to take any more of you guys' time. Seriously. I know, you know, you guys got the episode laid out and everything. I already appreciate this call, like, just so much.
REAL AF with Andy Frisella
878. Q&AF: Is It Too Late For My Purpose, Feeling Aimless & Siblings Holding You Back
Yeah, man. Yeah, no, definitely. Definitely got some, you know, other questions for the future. But yeah, I'll definitely... um, keep sharing the show. Um, you know, don't be a hoe out there. Uh, and, uh, yeah, you know, I'm just going to keep falling. Like I've always done. Uh, you guys have always impacted my life in tremendous ways already.