Julia
Appearances
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
That's it. So she just gives discounts to single guys that she likes?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Wait, so how does she even believe that you're single, though? Because I walked in with you.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I do believe him. He's not a liar. He doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think he's very truthful. I just, I think it's stupid. And I think it's really insensitive.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Well, I would say at the very least is to be honest with her.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I'm just not down with the dishonesty and, like, where that leads. I mean, how would you feel if I wore a miniskirt to the dentist to try to get a discount?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Well, I'm not real sure what's going on. I witnessed something, but I don't know fully what I saw or if I'm jumping to conclusions.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational. I'm trying to not be, like, super reactionary, but I'm freaking out a little.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah. Okay. So his name is Harry. And a couple weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment. We normally have separate cars, so normally I wouldn't do that sort of thing. But his is in the shop.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I offered to drive him because I saw it was on our calendar. And he was like, no, I'll just take an Uber.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
He did, and when we got there, he was like, we had a big hurry to get out of the car. And I was like, no, I'm going to go in with you. I'm going to check and see if they have the hairspray that I use.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
He's like, no, no, no, you're fine, you're fine. Just pick me up in an hour. What?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
That is what it was like.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
So I go in with him, and I'm looking, and they call his name, and then the stylist comes out. Yes. Of course. She's a gorgeous girl. I mean, she's just absolutely beautiful.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Well, it was just very obvious that this is not the first time he's seen her, and they seem very friendly and familiar with each other.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Well, there's more. There's more. Okay. So as soon as she showed up, he was like, all right, you probably got to get going. See you soon. Bye. Like literally chewing me out of the door.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah. And so then there's this partition, you know, like you come into the place and there's a reception desk and then a partition. And then on the other side is where all the chairs and all that. Right. I can picture that. I walk around the petition and I open the door and I didn't go out. I just closed the door, like made it sound like I left.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I hung out there for a minute behind the petition and listened.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
They were just laughing and giggling and flirting. And he was laughing like a moron at everything she was saying. And then she starts complimenting and like, oh, your hair feels so good. You've been doing so good at taking care of it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Or his weird behavior. I don't know. I understand maybe you have a little bit of a crush and there's nothing wrong with that, but to have been trying to get rid of me and not want me to come in, I just feel like that behavior is kind of bad.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah, I've been thinking about it. It's been a couple of weeks and it's just like I can't get it out of my mind. I don't know how to bring it up to him because I don't want to come across as super jealous or defensive, but it's really starting to... eat at me, and I'm kind of getting scared about it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah, that's a good point. No, I did not tell him that I stayed and heard them flirting.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I'm just trying to figure out how I would have to work it into the conversation since it was like two weeks ago.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
But what if it's perfectly normal and he wants to know where I know her from and tries to follow through on that?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah, sorry. No, I'm at work, and I just had a question for you. I've been thinking about it, and it just keeps slipping my mind, so I wanted to run it by you while it was in my head.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Yeah. Um, so a couple of weeks ago when I took you to the salon to get your haircut, your stylist was so, she was so nice. Like she seemed really, really outgoing and personable and I'm looking for a new stylist. And so I was kind of curious if you know, if she's taking new clients.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
well you know the last couple of times that i was with jasmine i don't know i just felt like she kind of fried my hair a little bit with the color and i talked to her about it and she kind of got annoyed at me and it feels weird and so i didn't know if maybe you'd want to give me a referral uh yeah uh i you know i i think i don't i think she mentioned she's like totally booked up like i barely get into there so like
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
Um, cool. Okay. Well, that brings up another point that I guess I need to get to. When I dropped you off, I didn't actually leave the salon. I just kind of like opened the door and then I like stayed and hung out and I heard, um, I heard the two of you talking and it was a lot of flirting and giggling and... You stayed?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I did. I did go get groceries.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I did, but you were acting weird. Like you didn't want me to drop you off and then you didn't want me to come in. And then when she came up, you were like trying to shoot me out the door. And I was just feeling really... Well, I just know you're busy.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
That's not what it felt like. It really felt like you were trying to get rid of me and like you didn't want me there. And that just blew up the red flags. And so I felt like I needed to stay and just see what was going on. And I mean, is there something going on? Is there something that you need to tell me? No.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
I could hear you laughing. I mean, she would say something and you were like, Oh, you're so funny. I mean, it was like, it was weird. It's not the way you laugh when we talk. I just, I'd never heard it. And I don't know. It was just a weird energy. And she was so flirty.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt
It's really for us. What? How, how does that work?
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
After the Spell | 6
It ended up making her a criminal because I think she couldn't even understand what she was doing to these people and why it was wrong. She was really a very good friend, you know. So for me, it's so weird to see the things that she did to these women who lived with her. I just have this feeling that, I don't know, something was distorted in Kat's head.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
After the Spell | 6
They're just locking people up and punishing them when they need to be treated, you know.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
After the Spell | 6
She's like, oh girl, can you ask my fans on Instagram for help and stuff? I mean, she's truly detached from reality. You can tell she has no idea what's going on.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
After the Spell | 6
I really want her to be well, you know, for her to be healthy and for all this to help her understand what she did. I don't think an apology from her will solve anything in her victim's lives. But I do think that at the same time, it's necessary, like for Kat to understand and to regret and to hopefully never do anything like that again.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
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Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
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Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
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Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
I used to do ballet, and after ballet class, I would come home and walk my little dog at the park.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
The girl was very thin and we both had short Chanel hair, but she had bangs framing her green eyes. Anyway, when I got close, my dog started to bark at them.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
She liked my ballet outfits, my pointe shoes. She was, like, dazzled, you know? She loved all that stuff. So we said we would meet again at the park some other time, and that was it.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
They had these tiny shorts on and little tops. And we used to learn the choreography and do the dance.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
My mom used to say that when Cat came over to our house, she barely heard her speak. And yeah, Cat was very closed off in front of others. Like when my mom made us dinner, Cat was always very quiet at the dinner table.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
Kat's house was the most humble one in her block, like by far. There was only one bathroom and it was super tiny. The rooms were also very small. The room that Kat shared with her sister had two small beds, some shelves and a little TV.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
But she was also very, very strict. Like if Kat had to be home at 9 and it was like 9.01 and she wasn't home, her mom would call her house complaining that Kat hadn't left.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
He was definitely drinking at work. And many times they found him passed out on the street.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
I knew he was an alcoholic. And at times we heard him fighting with her mom. And Kat told me that he sometimes hit her mom.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
They were renters, and the owner of the apartment did not like all this. It caused problems with the neighbors.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
I kept calling her and nothing. Her dad kept moving them around and I couldn't talk to her anymore. She changed her phone number.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
I had an uncle who traveled for work and he went to Macaia from time to time. So I would ask him to please bring me back the phone book because I wanted to find Cat's mom. I mean, I knew her whole name and the right spelling, but I still never found her.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
And the first thing that showed up was this article for a fashion blog saying something like Cat Torres, Brazilian model, blah, blah, blah. So I had to open it. And when the photo popped up, I saw this beautiful woman with blonde hair down to her butt. And I was like, damn, like she was a real model and stuff. So I was like, my God.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
She told me that she was sexually abused And that she would ask, like, beg for the love of God not to be left alone with these people again. But her parents would leave her anyway. She told them what was happening, but they never believed her.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
There was this one time she told me that she hated her parents and she tried to kill herself because nobody believed her.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
She said, oh, I've been through all these traumas, but I'm happy. I'm going to be happy. Things are going to work out. And she would also say things like, oh, these men, they just want to take advantage of me. They want to take advantage of my beauty, my body. So now I take advantage of them. They give me money and I don't let them touch me. Just like that.
Guru: Don't Cross Kat
The Voice | 3
She decided she wasn't going to get close to people who didn't have money or who couldn't help her in any way because she said everyone just wanted to exploit her. And she was going to take advantage of that. Honestly, she didn't have any other friends besides me, really. There were very few. So she started forming these sort of commercial relationships with people.
Search Engine
Why can’t we just turn the empty offices into apartments? (classic)
I live in an area with a catastrophic housing shortage and sky-high rental prices. However, the odd thing I've noticed is that an extreme surplus of commercial properties will sit vacant and empty on the market for months or years.
Search Engine
Why can’t we just turn the empty offices into apartments? (classic)
Why, when we have such a shortage of housing, does there seem to be no reason to convert vacant real estate into residential properties?
Search Engine
Why can’t we just turn the empty offices into apartments? (classic)
Right. How would having empty property be more profitable than having a tenant in there?
Search Engine
Why can’t we just turn the empty offices into apartments? (classic)
I would drive by often and just see these places, and it was while I was usually looking for a place to live, and I was like, I can live there. It's a house. Like, why can't I live there?
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Hi, Alex. Yes, ma'am. My name's Julia.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
And I'm an online fitness coach for women over 50.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Because I do my job so well. Yeah.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Anyway, because women have so much success in my program, after 12 months, 18 months, they're gone. I don't know what to offer them after that, but I also have a huge opportunity to tap a high net worth individual community where instead of paying $1,000 a month for six months or 12 months, 24K to 100K a year. And one of the reasons I came this weekend was to figure out
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
what direction I should go and I got a whole lot of other valuable content that I wasn't expecting so thank you but where should I focus my energy because really when my clients reach their goal they're gone
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
To have an impact. And make lots of money.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
That's not enough, but anyway.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Yeah. I guess my goal is to reach as many people as I can.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Growing the revenue, but in a model that I love doing.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
The top line revenue in the last two years is like 700K.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
You know, when we did all that stuff, I was like,
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
I don't know my numbers. I'll just admit it right now. Okay, fine.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Yeah, that's definitely a constraint.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
And sell more at what's making money now or to focus also on that?
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
No, absolutely. I have zero ad spend. I don't have any employees. I do have consultants that I pay. Yeah.
The Game with Alex Hormozi
Practical Ways To Grow Your Business | Ep 821
Perfect. Thank you so much. You bet.
The Ramsey Show
Go Slow: Never Invest in What You Don’t Understand
Hi, Dave and Rachel. How are you?
The Ramsey Show
Go Slow: Never Invest in What You Don’t Understand
Well, my husband and I have been working the Baby Steps plan for about nine years. And as of last year, we hit step seven. Oh, congratulations. Thank you. We're mortgage-free. We're debt-free, everything. We are looking for mentorship and being outrageously generous. And I was just wondering if you had any book recommendations or how we do that.
The Ramsey Show
Go Slow: Never Invest in What You Don’t Understand
We tithe, but above and beyond that, we're just looking for a little bit of mentorship.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
Oh, thank you. I'm calling to get some advice on retirement, please. I'm 66. My husband, 67. And he's an automotive service director. So we do okay. But as you know, California is so expensive. We bought a home here. And it appreciated in value, luckily. So we have a little bit of equity, but we still owe $300,000 on it. And we didn't buy it at a high price.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
You know, the thing is, we're still paying it off. He's working. I teach school. I'm not working right now, but I thought maybe it would be a good idea to move out of state. And, you know, get somewhere less and I could work, you know, as a teacher, maybe I'm older. So it's hard to get a position. I already had an offer in Texas. I'm certified there for fourth grade.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
I turned it down because we were here and I don't know. He just refuses to think about retirement. We have no savings. He's thinking he's going to get Social Security, keep working, put that money into the house payment. I said, well, what are you going to live on? You know, I thought maybe we could start a little business. I'm not talking a dealership.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
I told him, because he said, oh, yeah, I have money for that. Well, I like the idea of you guys. A coffee shop or a daycare. Sure.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
Hey. I don't know how you're going to spend all that, Julia. I bet there's a very high property tax.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
I don't know. The thing is, you know, he's also afraid that he won't be able to get a home at our age. I know. He won't get a job.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
No. He's thinking about 35, a little less. Okay.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
It won't work. You know, you're right. It won't work. I told him, what are you going to work on? Do you know that? Or are you guessing that?
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
It still feels like a million years.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
If you say, I need to know... Oh, he thinks he's got it all planned, though.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
Okay, that's a good way to phrase it.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
His parents were factory workers and children's workers. I mean, we grew up in Detroit, Michigan. Yeah, of course. So, you know, everything was... I don't know. I want to say easy for lack of a better word.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
You can't afford $3,000 more. I thought about Houston. I applied to Houston.
The Ramsey Show
You Can Build Wealth No Matter Where You Are in Life
Hi, good afternoon, guys. Hey, I really, it's such a pleasure to be able to speak with someone and get some advice.
The Ramsey Show
Big Life Changes Demand Bold Money Decisions
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
The Ramsey Show
Big Life Changes Demand Bold Money Decisions
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The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
Hi, guys. Thank you for taking the call. I'm calling because, and I had spoken, I think it was with Jonathan, when they wanted me to call back, but I never got through.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
You're here today. I'm struggling with my husband, okay? I'm ready to divorce. Oh, gosh. He refuses to think about retirement. I don't know what to do. We're 66, 67. I have a teaching credential in Michigan. Also in Texas and applying even to Tennessee. But the thing is, he says that we're stuck in this house, that if we move, it'll just cost money.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
We're in California, so the house is worth a little bit of money because it's California. But we still owe, it's five something, but we still owe $325 or more on it. And I don't know.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
No. So how are you guys paying bills right now?
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
Well, he's working. He's a service director at a dealership, so he has a good job.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
I don't know, maybe $130, $135. Okay, and are you working, Julia? Right now, no. Okay. I'd like to get teaching again, but I'm not certified in California. We have two girls we adopted out of foster care, so I get a little over $1,000, you know, for them. Sure, sure. Almost $2,000, yeah.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
One is 10, one is 12. Oh, wow. Y'all are amazing.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
He's just, I don't know. He just thinks he's going to keep working and working.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
I'm not sure if we should move out of state to somewhere cheaper than California. I don't know. And then he's afraid that he won't get a job if we move.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
A little bit. I mean, I know he makes about 135, 130. Okay. I know he, like I said, he just... Okay, well, we're to the point that... I think it's he doesn't know what to do, you know? Sure. And I don't know what to do.
The Ramsey Show
You Can’t Borrow Your Way to Freedom
I'm working out of state because I'm not certified in California.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
Oh Gott, wie kann ich das überwinden? Ja, das ist hart. Okay, I love everything that you're saying. I think my original question stands, but I have a choose-your-own-adventure for Russell, just because I love to keep things fun and immature as well. So, my two questions, you get to choose which one to answer.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
How can I iterate, test the market to see if they want this problem solved, aka like a Ryan Levesque-ass campaign? Do I like do a webinar to a small price so they can do case studies or... The other question you could answer is, what is your largest market for ClickFunnel Affiliates to stick? And what are they offering them, aka like Grace Lever or somebody, I don't know.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
You get to choose your own adventure with my question.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
I have nothing. I stopped talking. I actually went into a health crisis during COVID, which is a whole other story. So the last stage talk that I did, where I sold on stage, was with Bob Proctor, rest in peace. And I thought I failed miserably. I didn't even get to the offer stack, but I had a table rush for the first time, which was super exciting. But they just didn't know what I was offering.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
It was kind of like that, you know, teach from... Okay. Okay. Okay.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
I don't mind doing the lives, it's just spending the time on something that is going to be worth it.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
So like if I was to start publishing content, is it like, you've taught before like frameworks, so put up all your frameworks, you've taught, you know, mini VSL now, kind of like format in your content, like what format would you suggest that I start trying to like put feelers out for and do I make an offer, do I leave the offer out?
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
Me, ClickFunnels Library and YouTube.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
Yeah, I can teach small businesses, I can teach parenting, I can teach speaking, I can teach rapport, I can teach how to find your passion.
The Russell Brunson Show
Pricing, Niches, and Strategies to Skyrocket Your Success: Q&A from Selling Online!
Amazing. Thank you.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
actor right because it's like oh shut up like beginner's luck whatever or whatnot but like i will say social media has helped me of course comfortable in front of a camera oh like no other like i will say that is like a big part of acting right like you're supposed to act and like ignore that there are three cameras pointing at us right now you know what i mean and i think with social media and even like doing something like this
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like it just becomes kind of second nature, like having a camera on you. And so I will say with my first time kind of being in a movie, it was it didn't feel that out of place. You know, I'm like I've been on sets like I've had to perform in front of a camera, but not in a movie aspect, of course. But like it didn't feel too foreign to me.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. But it was, I will say, pretty surreal, like, seeing yourself on, like, a big screen. Because that, like, I mean... I see myself on my phone. I know what I look like on my phone, but, like, yeah, on the big screen, it was pretty surreal. Right. I can't lie.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
No, it wasn't touched on. Okay. I think in the book, I haven't read the book since I was first attached to the project, so it's been a while, but, like, I don't know if it's even covered in the book either. It probably is, but in the movie, we avoided it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I mean, kind of a, like kind of a brilliant plot hole for like, if there were a number two, like we grow up in all this Abby, like, you know, like, you know what I mean? Like who says, her name's Abby. Yeah. In the book, in the book, I will say that is further elaborated on in a much more like, tell me everything right now. It's, it's pretty brutal.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like how I apparently in the book, we found her later in like a ditch. What the fuck? And she was like, beaten and bruised. So, like, you can imagine having that, like, um...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
source material during like as i was saying this scene because i was like it's my first time acting i don't know if i can cry on camera imagining that easy piece of cake and so like in the moment when i was like damn in the script we don't go that far but in the book like i remember reading the book and seeing and like that visual is crazy so i'm like that kind of got me there and like there were takes from that scene when i talk about abby where i i
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
was a wreck. And like, I got to like tears and we didn't use them because I actually talked to the director and producers about this one. I was like, do you want me to get there? Like, do you want me to like be, and we're like, do it. So we have it, but we might not use it because, because then I, they also asked me, they're like, what do you think?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I was like, I personally think Drayton's dealt with this for 10 years. And I, I don't know if I would be that like raw to it where I would like break down in front of the girl that I'm newly in love with. And so I'm like, I feel like it would be to a point where I kind of, you can see that the visual and like that the fact that at any moment I could like tip over and like start bawling. Right.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But I liked the, the tension of kind of like he like, it's still emotional about this, but he doesn't, it doesn't, you know,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. I know. So it was – that was a very exhausting day on set because it was just like a lot of emotions.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
He also had a crazy run on Dancing with the Stars. Oh, he did? That's kind of like an unheard of thing. But yeah, he was really good on it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Same season. Same season. That'd be fun. I'd want to hang out. Okay, fair. Fair, fair, fair. You'd go farther.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Not religiously. I would say I watch highlights and watch dances, but I don't watch the show. I don't tune in like that.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I like that pivot. So many times. And I think, you know, it was funny. We weren't, how do I word this? So Sienna danced to that song and like, that was her big solo. She was always going to do her solo to that song. But I think in the final cut of the movie, we weren't going to use it for like a rights reason. Cause I think like, like that's a big song.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And like Jay LaMac, the artist is like amazing. And like, I don't know how we ended up figuring it out, but we actually used the song in the film, but we weren't for the longest time. I think we were going to replace it with just some like,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
non-copyrighted song and so i don't know what happened there but we actually like were graced with the song and are able to use it now in the film and it's so good but i heard it it was like engraved in my head while filming and i thought i was gonna get tired of it and like to this day i'm every time it comes on i'm just like oh it's so good oh it is good they screamed when it came on how do people sit however you want okay it's therapy oh my god i didn't even ask you what are you therapist about
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Wait, what's the science behind that? Disgusting science. Is it bad that they're growing back there? They're not like weeds, right?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I try to be. What's your star sign? Taurus. I just got a lot of looks. What does that mean?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, I'll take that. I love a material thing here and there. I think you do. What are you?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Really? Yeah. You're a great person. Do we get along? Like, are we compatible?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Great. She's a Taurus. You like your mom? Love my mom. Great.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Let's come back to me on that. Okay. Because I'll think about it. We'll return. We'll talk.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Already with travel. Yes. And I can imagine, like, drunk. Imagine what? Imagine it being, like, happening to you drunk. Like, that probably was not a fun experience.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I'm a very good traveler. And I say that because I've, I guess, I don't know. Can you be a good traveler? I guess I'm an all right traveler.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, do you, are you good on a flight? Like on a long flight? Like, what do you do?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That is a crazy Uber. Like, how long was that drive?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Have you ever been to, speaking of like 24 hours, have you ever been to Mel's Diner? Yeah, I like it. I love Mel's. You do? It's like all reliable. You would like Mel's. What, you like like a milkshake? They have crazy milkshakes. Like, they have like this Lana Del Rey milkshake. What? Yeah, she has a milkshake named after her. It's nuts.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's like a chocolate Oreo type thing. And I'm like, what does this have to do with Lana? Right. But. Hot take. I hate Oreos. That is a crazy. I love Oreos. So I don't. You do? I'm a little like dumbfounded.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Okay. What about you? I feel like it would almost be like a setup to kind of say Oreo. But I do love a good Oreo to be honest.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I like the double stuffed. I do. As much as you don't. I love them. But I will say I'm a sucker. Like I have such a sweet tooth. It's kind of a problem. Really?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But like if you were given – like what's your cheat meal?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Are you sweet or savory? Like, if you're, like... Savory. Savory. What's your savory order?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Chicken and rice doesn't sound that bad until the sauce.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, you know what does that for me where I can kind of have it with anything? Yeah. Is that painting effect where it can, like, mold? Yes. It's like an avocado for me. Like, I feel like I could... I mean, white rice is not bad. What? White rice isn't that bad. I don't think you should feel too bad about white rice. That's not really, like, a cheat meal. Guys, how much do I eat white rice?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That sounds so good. Are you open about this? Like, do people know about your rice addiction?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, I feel like that's a great bit. I just thought it would get boring. Yeah. Where is your favorite... Rice in the world? I was going to say octopus.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
The optimist. I love that you have like an answer for that. I wasn't expecting like a clear answer. Oh, really? That's awesome.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I just finished. I actually have reshoots for a show. on this Friday so in two days it's not tomorrow the next day I have a one last reshoot and then the episode that I just a guest star for like a really cool show that was a cool experience very just like
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
cool in terms of like getting the flip side experience of like going and filming like a little low budget independent kind of film and then working on a high budget show was just like cool and like I felt like the experience that I needed to kind of again answer that question of like do I really like this or do I just really like the movie and you like it yeah and I had the best time and it was great and like I'm hoping I don't know I don't want to sound like ignorant when I say
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
you know, the success of sideline and the movie and like people seem to have a great response to it. And I love that. I couldn't be more like blessed and like grateful for it. I hope that this can like, I don't want to say it's going to like, Oh, floodgates are open. Like, here we go. Booked and busy.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, no, I just hope that it can get my foot like in more doors that wasn't able to before, just because without that experience, without like that, I guess on my belt, it was kind of proof of concept. Exactly. And it was very much just like, I was for the longest time, you know, a TikToker that was auditioning for these roles.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I have so many, so much footage of me in front of my living room wall for self tapes and like thousands of auditions that like, you can only, you can only gauge so much of like, how does he look in front of camera? Like, how does he look in an actual scene or like, how is his acting as opposed to like, In this film. You kind of have that like. You have that to pull from now. And so I'm hoping.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That. It's. I don't know. I just kind of have that. That foot in the door. To be like. Hey. Like I'm taking this serious now. And I like. Fell in love with it. And I hope that. It can. I don't know. Hopefully start something.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I hope so. And like, it's kind of just a waiting game now. And so at the moment, no, I'm just auditioning. No attached projects or anything. Just like I said, just finish that show. But yeah, I'm hoping I want to be booked and busy. You will be manifest.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Do you recognize that laugh? I'm laughing! What? Do you recognize that laugh? It's Julia's. I know, I was like... Okay. That's so funny.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It did. And I'm not a manifester. Apparently, I think I have I had this conversation recently with someone about like, I don't know, even just like on the car right over here. I was talking to my assistant about like, I just believe that. Like hard work and like kind of like doing your time and working hard, being a good person, like things will work themselves out.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I like I am a firm believer that things happen for a reason. You're a really good person, I think. Thank you. But I just... I don't know if I'm, like... I try not to be superstitious because once you are, I feel like... I don't know. I feel like I'm the type of person where I feel like that would overtake my life.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, I feel if I put my shoe on one way today and I had a great day, I'd have to replicate that. And I don't want it to get to that point. But I am about, like, weird things, I feel. That I'm, like... I did this today. Like... And note to self, like that made me happy today. So I'm going to try to replicate that or. Wow. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I think I'm more that way than the manifestation version of it where I'm like, you know. You're not a manifester. I don't think so. I think I do keep my goals like kind of to myself and like kind of quietly because I saw this one thing one time where it was like. part of the reward from all that hard work is like, if you tell someone like, Hey, I did this.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That's like the reward as opposed to if you were to keep it to yourself, it'll, I don't know, like I'm going to butcher it, but it's something along the lines of just like kind of working hard and doing good in silence for them to the reward to be like one day it comes out of in that regard, I guess. I don't get it. I, I, I don't know how it's like, yeah, I don't know.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I would have to see the video, but it really makes sense to me.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I would have a very hard time writing down what I just tried to say, but if I saw the video again and like, if I were to show it to you, it would make sense. But it was very much like, I don't know. I just try to, like, I do have goals and yes, that I want to achieve, but like, I try to keep them to myself.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Cause the moment I like put out in the universe, that almost feels like that's the reward as opposed to if I were to just do it alone. And like, Again, I'm just talking in circles here. Are you getting it? This recent time, I'm kind of getting it. Can you dumb it down for me, please? But I very much live by that where I'm like, I try not to talk too openly.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But what about talking openly is the reward? Like if I say, Hey, I've been like auditioning like hell and like, I just got a call back for this thing. Like I feel really confident about it. Me telling you that you having that like, Oh my God, like that's so cool. Good for you.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That for me is like, like almost the universe seeing that and like stealing that from like if I were to actually book it and then be like, so you are superstitious and you don't want to jinx it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's kind of a jinx thing. Yeah. Yes. That's a very much dumbing down version of it. I don't like to jinx things and like speak it too much into existence. I kind of just like to do it and then one day if it comes out – like I could be in this process of like getting multiple callbacks like in – like very close to a role.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I will keep that to myself because I feel like the moment I tell someone, that's like – they'll be like, Oh my God, you're getting callbacks for that. That's amazing. And then it's like, yeah, it is amazing. But then that's the, it's very much a jinx thing now that I'm talking about it. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I do. And like very fortunate to have some amazing people that I've kind of like almost been mentor-ly, like, to me and, like, kind of taken me under their wing. One of them that I called for a few times, like, on set was... And he was so helpful and was, like, happy to help. And, like, that's another thing. I don't like to call and, like, ask for... I don't like to... I don't know.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I immediately have this thing in my head where I'm like, I don't, I don't want to bother them, you know, but he was very persistent on like, please, like I have so much fun doing this. Like it helps me too. Was, um, uh, Taylor Perez.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
He's in kissing booth. And so like, he's worked on these kinds of, yes, he was amazing. Even Noah Centineo is like another one of the guys that I'm like, it just has been so amazing. And just kind of like in the early process of like telling him that I wanted to act, he was like, Oh bro, you're going to do great. Like if you ever need anything and amazing.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And then even like on set, James Vanderbeek was one of the guys that was just like, he sees like a young kid that is just like excited to be there and just had such amazing things to kind of help guide me in the right direction. Drew Ray Tanner on set who plays Nathan, my coach and Dallas's brother. Like, Amazing. So everyone like the acting community is so like helpful.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like everyone helps everyone. And I know there's like this competitive aspect to it of like, you know, there's a lot of people that can see it as being competitive. Like, oh, it's just the moment you drop that, it's just so collaborative. And it's so like you help me, I help you. And it's just very like you kind of feed off that, like the creativeness of it. Yeah. And it was great.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I hope so. I don't want people to think I'm, like, doing it in any kind of, like, malicious way. Because if they were to call me and have a question, I would love to answer it. And, like, it'd be so fun to help someone and then, like, see the movie and be like, like, I helped him with that scene. Like, it's just, like, a rewarding feeling. And so, yeah, pretty amazing.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I hope so. You know just as much as me, unfortunately.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
With the response, I will say the response to the film, it only helps the case of a second film.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's doing very well. Yeah. Better than I would have ever dreamt. I'm genuinely so proud of it. And so I'm like, I love... like it doesn't get repetitive talking about it. Cause like, these are questions that no one else has asked me. Like in even like this press run, like the things you're asking are like opening up a different side of my brain to it. And I'm like, thank you. I appreciate it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Basically summed up version, like, ah, those press days, literally the same questions over and over. But this is so refreshing. Like you should like do a podcast.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
You are getting into acting as well, aren't you? I am. You've, like, been acting.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, like, you know. Are these, that's not like hypotheticals. Someone. Yes. That's crazy. Yes. What would I, like, what would I do if I was.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, I would say break up and just take the high road. I don't think there's any need to go for the dad. That's crazy.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, God, that is crazy. Okay, let's hear the next.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Oh, my God. Dreams and, like, nightmares and, like, fascinate me. Do you think they have meaning? All the time. Great. What do you dream about? There was, I would say, like, a month ago. I don't know if it was just, like, a stress time in my life, but I don't know what I was that stressed about.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But, like, I think there was a good month ago probably for, like, a week straight nightmare every single night. Like, woke up. I don't know what it was. Me too. And I didn't, I didn't write them down or anything like that. It was just like for like a week straight. I just remember being like that night sucked of sleep and like waking up being like, were you waking up at like 4am every day?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's so hard to tell if it's real or not. I have vivid dreams. Yeah, last night was vivid for me. It was not right. I had a weird one last night as well. What was yours? Keep it, whatever. But I had a dream about my first ex. Like, from 7th, 8th grade. Uh-huh. And we... I don't even know what we... I think it was just, like, it was present day, but we were dating.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And it was just, like, we were having a great time. And it was not, like, a nightmare and wasn't a...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
fantasy dream it was just like it just felt like we were together and it felt like super vivid so like for me if that was me i would take that not as a sign that you should be together no i would take it as a sign that like your brain is just on a current path of like what ifs right now right maybe like your your though i texted her what are we really i haven't spoken to her in like six years hey i dreamt about you like i think you should do it no i mean okay i hope she's well and like
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. It was just so weird. Like, crazy. But, yeah, I have some weird dreams. I want an answer, but I just don't think we'll have it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. Is my advice. You regret... In your personal experience, you regret not doing it earlier?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I mean, I feel like the... Literally just to piggyback off what you just said.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I think, yeah, it literally just goes back to like, you might as well just do it because you don't want to look back with regrets. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't know if it's a regret, but it's more of just like a what if. And I think I have that. Then that'll always eat me alive with the soccer thing. Okay. Yeah. It's not like a regret because I can't complain what I'm doing now. My life 180'd in the best way possible, but... Yeah, there is that aspect of, like, what if I was still playing? Because that's all I knew.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And, like, I wish I had an experience where I was like, I really wish I would have done theater earlier or whatnot. But it was never even, like, in my head to, like, do theater in high school. Because I was school, training, more training, and that was it. And it was just, like, every day. And so there wasn't any, like, outside interest. So maybe that is a regret of, like, maybe...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't know, dabbling in more things outside of soccer growing up.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
No, it was hard. It was like the hardest decision I've ever had to make. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I mean, because it felt like I kind of, with the whole TikTok thing, like I felt like I had like lightning in a bottle and it was just like, I have to strike now or like, That sounds so dramatic. Like, but it felt like I just had this momentum that wouldn't stick for like, it wouldn't wait there for me. It's not going to be like, you know, take your time, figure it out and we'll still be here.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And like, you know, you'll still be getting millions of views. It was just like a, in my head, I just had like this gut feeling of like, I feel like I got to do this. And like, yeah, the numbers started to get a little too like big to not pay attention to. Cause at first I was like, Oh, that was cool. Like a little moment of fame or whatever.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It was just like, it felt just cause it was during COVID as well. So it was just like a little moment of like, that was cool. That was weird. And that was a fluke thing, but like not going to think too much on it. And then I kind of just consistently started to get like crazy views and I was, and then like the number felt just like a number on a phone.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And it, it really was until I started to get like emails about like, management and stuff like that. And I was like, this is really foreign and like a bizarre thing to even like consider. But like, I feel like I owe it to myself to kind of, I don't know. Yeah. Ask around, learn more about it. And then, yeah, it's crazy.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
She has somewhat like iconic moments. What was Debbie about that?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It took a total, this is going to sound crazy, but it took 18 days. What? Like 18 total shooting days. But we were there in Victoria, Vancouver Island for a little over a month. Oh. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, it's just from the outside. Yeah, I totally agree. Like, I can see where people would be like. Like, shut up, Jake. Yeah, but don't. Because I did talk to you about that. You were one of the only people I talked to about that.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. Yeah, I think so. Because it was at Aloe, remember? Pilates. Yes, it was. That's a tight-knit group. That was a tight-knit group. I only do Pilates with so many people. I have like three people that I rotate with.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, right. I wonder if them not going to the same college plays more into a factor of them breaking up as opposed to if they just lost feelings for each other. Right. I would love to have him on. I want to speak to him.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, I know I try to say it that way because it really, like, 18 days sounds crazy.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. Yeah, I'd like to know the origin of the structure. Yeah, do you know what I mean? I do.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. Like, that's not like a, like, something that's been, like, nurtured over the years and you, it's like a, Right. Like, this is, that's not a long time of knowing someone, I feel.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But I could imagine it could be like that feeling could be addictive.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's like, that's addiction. That's not the routine. Yeah. I can imagine.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. For any particular reason or you just felt, yeah, I was having the nightmares.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
We were there for, I would say, like, while we were shooting, we had, I think we shot...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
No, I'm loving it. Okay. Yeah. I'm asking, like, follow-ups because I'm, like, genuinely curious.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't know. I don't want to, like, self-diagnose myself because I feel like that would take away from the people that actually do have it. But I do get anxious. So, like, I feel like I could give some advice for this. I guess in public, I don't know. I feel like we all battle that.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I think that's advice in and of itself right there is, like, once you get to the mindset of, like, everyone else cares so much about what everyone else thinks. So, like... people aren't paying that much attention to you.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
five days of the week and then two rest days which were like great i guess but then we would we came early for like pre-production and like did a little bit of like rehearsals and everything and just kind of cast read-throughs and all that so like the month and a half like flew by but yeah the the total shooting days that we were on set with cameras shooting the thing 18 days crazy were there any days that you like was it did you have a good time
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And if that helps great, like that's kind of helped me sometimes relax of being like, even if I'm like on stage giving a speech or something, yes, people are listening, but they don't really care that much about like, if you stutter, like you're going to feel like it's the end of the world.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
If you like lose track of something, but if you just like admit to it and be like, Ooh, that was like, you know, I'm a little nervous, you know, before you say something, it's like, I feel like that immediately breaks like the wall.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But it is true. Easier said than done. It is true. Yeah, 100%.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I guess, honestly, like, to put it bluntly, I guess, yeah, that's kind of it. It's just, like, I feel like I would be much more anxious if I was, like, hiding something. You know what I mean? Like, I'm just, like, I am who I am. And it's, like, I don't know, take it or leave it. Like, I don't really, if I had some, like, alter ego, then that would be a little scary because it's, like...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
When do you put that away? When do you bring it out? But I think like, I don't know how that kind of helps knowing that it puts my mind at ease. I'm just like, I'm going to be myself. And like, not many people are that worried. So period.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Sweat mixed with dirt from the ground of diving and, like, just, like... It's bad. And, like... I don't have any advice for this. Cause you, how do you bring that up?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Well, no, we were at such a young age and we were like, I mean, not even any age. Like when you're that close, like with your goalie, you could be like, bro, you smell like shit. Like, it's just not that like, yeah, it's not like it was a huge insecurity of his. Cause it's not like his everyday life. Like when he freshened up, he was fine. Right. Like I don't,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't think I've met anyone that's like, even after a shower, just reeks. And like, that's gotta be medical at that point. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. But I mean, have you gone, you've gone to like France before, right?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. They all smell bad. They don't believe in deodorant.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's gotta be some give take. Yeah. But when someone, I don't know, I, that is like one of my biggest things about myself is like the minute I smell bad or like start to like get like a little, like if I've been out all day or if, you know, I try to work out or whatever and, If I smell bad, I got to go shower or I got to do something to mask that.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I feel like hygiene is a big part of how I try to carry myself. Yeah, because there's nothing worse than feeling like you smell bad and having people around you be like... Like it feels like they can smell you too. And it's like, oh, that's the worst.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's like not subjective at that point. It's like you objectively smell bad.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Wait, so her roommate is hanging out with one of her exes?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
No, literally. Please ask away. This is your show. Please.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't know. I think everyone's going to do what they want to do. I agree. As petty as that may be, it's like they're your exes for a reason. Let them. Maybe they deserve each other.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I feel like that's not, like, in the grand scheme of things, I feel like that's not as late of a bloomer as you would think.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like, I feel like 20 for a first kiss, that's, like, fine. Yeah. And they shouldn't, like, no rush, obviously. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Do you have a number of how many times you think you've been blacked out?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like more than two hands? Yeah. I don't even know where to ballpark.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I watch a lot. You watch a lot. I felt like, okay, I'll start with what am I listening to? Great time to talk about it because Spotify wrapped. I'm curious to hear yours. I think you can take a guess.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
You like Taylor Swift. Yep. Sabrina Carpenter? Yep. Is Drake up there? I'm just going like usual tops. I don't know.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Okay. Who were your top five? My top five shocked me. What were they? Noah Khan was number one for me. That's not shocking to me. I love him, and I love his music. You're named sisters. We are.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I haven't. I would love to. He seems like a really cool guy. Yeah, he seems awesome. But he's so talented. I love him. Yeah. Two, for me, like, I have three in there that shouldn't be in there strictly due to the fact that, like, I think I listen to a lot of music when I'm, like, working out. And so I'll randomly get, like, a, like, Gunna was up there for me.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And it truly... felt like summer camp. Like, and I mean that in the most, like, genuine way. Like, we... We obviously... Like, I had never met anyone on... Like, I didn't go in there knowing that, like, oh, at least I have my person there. It's not like when you go to a new school. It's like we're moving together, like, with a friend. It's like we were all, like, new kids to the school.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I'm, like, I don't just, like, bop to Gunna, like, in the car. And it's just, like, only, like, I'll put on, like, my workout playlist and I'll just put on Shuffle and I, like, won't really, like, while I'm working out, I'm not, like, too busy about, like, too worried about what I'm listening to exactly. But I guess there was a lot of Gunna. Metro Boomin. Well, his album was incredible.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
He dropped like two albums this year. Yeah, his album was incredible. So that one... Gracie Abrams was on there. That was the one that I was like, I thought she'd be higher, but due to the working out. Because I do love Gracie Abrams.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, she loves her as well. And then... I think Drake was up there, probably. Yeah, checks out. But I can't lie. I listen to everything and anything. Like, I love music. I love just, like... I don't know. Like, I am very much... Like I love music. But I listen to a lot of podcasts as well. Oh, you do? A lot. Like I'll wake up and go for like a walk and just like podcast.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I have three that I listen to religiously. But I've listened to every single episode of In the Envelope. Okay. It's the acting podcast. Okay. Every single episode. Who hosts that? Vinnie Mancuso is his name. And that one's amazing. Is he Italian?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Doesn't sound it, but I assume. That last name's got to be Italian. But he just has amazing guests on, and they just talk about their process, their projects, and everything. It's pretty fascinating. And then the A24 podcast. Oh, I didn't know they had one. It's really... I mean, A24... I don't manifest, but I'll manifest is right now. That is my like dream production company to work with.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like I think what they do is so amazing and like original and everything you want, like the way it's, I love it, but I love their podcast cause they just bring, they'll pair up like two people that have a 24 projects coming out and they just talk about like anything. They don't give them a script or anything and they're just like chat. And so those are pretty fascinating to listen to. And then, um,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
uh smartless with yes jason bateman yes and uh will arnett and sean hayes wow i love those and i've a24 and in the envelope listening to every single episode smartless i'm catching up but like i listen to a lot of podcasts you consume a lot of media i try to i feel like i owe it to i think ever since i like decided and made a promise to myself that i was gonna like Dive head in on acting.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I needed to like... Become a student to it. And like... I felt like I had so much catching up to do. Because I didn't... Do theater as a kid. I wasn't in acting. I would... Didn't do anything. So... I feel like... It's just been a game of catching up. And I've fallen in love with it. Like truly. And like... Hearing actors talk about... On their podcasts. Like... I don't know how they just see it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And, like, the movies... I mean, there's so many movies out there. So, like, I'm nowhere... Like, I have a letterbox and everything. I have my list of, like... Is it public? No, it's not. You don't? No.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I don't know. I think... When I made... When I downloaded the app, I was like, this is, like, a... Like, should I make it public? But I kind of just do it for myself to keep in order. Like, I have my list on there that, like, I have so many things I need to catch up on. But, again, like, when... Like, I love acting as well because, like, when you're, like, homework is watching movies.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's, like, doesn't feel like homework. It's amazing. So what are you... Speaking of watching, what are you watching right now? It's a lot of catching up on, like, classics. Like, I'm, like, right now I've... I watched... I'm, like, trying to watch some, like, Brando films right now. I'm, like, trying to go through his list. Oh, he's the hottest person ever. He's amazing. And, like...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And it was the best because we were all kind of... It was my first time ever, like, going away on set. This was my first movie and first, like, proper... Thank you. First, like, proper experience, like, on a set. Like, I had done...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Those are classic classics. So it's a mix of that. It's a mix of seeing what's in the theater. I love going to the movie theaters. I love it. And I've seen... I just saw Y2K last night. How was? It was good. It wasn't like one of those movies where you walk away and you're like, touch my soul. It was just... Right. It's a fun movie. It was a fun watch.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I think what they were going for resonated. It was perfect. And so I love that. I... I saw wicked. Amazing. Amazing. Have you seen it? Of course. Yeah. What'd you think? Loved it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Life changing. So good. Yeah. So good. Have you seen, do you like, I know this answer, this question is so annoying cause like I never have an answer for it and I hate when people ask me, but I think I could give one. What's your favorite movie?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Dune Prophecy. What's that? It's the TV series of Dune. What's... I know that sounds... That was, like, such a dummy down... Is it, like, superheroes?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, so have I. And so that's why I really want to watch that. I watched, I just recently watched The Penguin.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah. And I know that's, like, everyone has their opinion. But, like, for me, Dune 2 was, like, amazing. I thought Dune 1 was amazing. And then even re-watching it, like, I don't know. I think people just went into Dune 1 expecting so much. And, like, when it came out, like, it purely just, like, sets up Dune 2. And it, like, delivers. And I love it. And I'm excited for the next one.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
little guest star things for, like, you go for a day, maybe two, and, like, you don't get the full experience, so you don't really know if you like it, and then this experience for me was, like, it answered every question I had going into it of, like, I've been doing acting classes for a few years now, and I'm, like, I think I'm gonna love it, you know, like, the term actor has, like, a nice ring to it, but, like, is it gonna, like, fulfill me creatively how I hoped it would, and
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I am, like, that... I think Dune 2 gave me a whole different perspective of Timothee Chalamet. Like, I think I've always loved him, and I thought he was amazing, but, like, I never thought I would be, like, intimidated by Timothee Chalamet, and in that role in Dune 2, like... He plays like kind of, he's like a hero villain. Oh. And so it's like, he's amazing. I think he's incredible.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
There's so much out there. There's so much out there.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I understand that. Yeah. Have you seen Game of Thrones? Of course. What are your thoughts?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Of course. No one does. Yeah. Have you seen, or where I was, where I was going to go with a wicked. Cause I was like, I got that same feeling that I got the first time I watched probably one of my favorite movies of all time. Greatest showman.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Is it that good? Maybe not, but to me it is like that movie to me. Like I remember the first time I saw it, like I remember where I was at. I remember the feeling that I had like during some of those songs and like, I don't know what it is. That movie. What's that song they sing again? Which one? Every single one in that show. Every single song in that movie. I will play it. This is you.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Classic. It's so good. It is so good. I will watch that tonight. It's so good.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like five, probably. Holy shit. Like an over-under on five. Yeah. Yeah, I love it. It's so good. It's probably my comfort movie. Aww. Yeah. Do you have a comfort movie?
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
That's another one that, like, I remember where I was. I, like, had that whole spiel of, like, yeah, the movie's so good.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I love musicals. I like good movies. And, like, there are some people that... I don't know if you've gotten this, but I'm a very... I try to, at least, be so open-minded. And, like, I think I'm just curious about, like, everything.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I just... I will never knock something until I try it. And, like, I think it's part of, like, my parents being teachers is, like, they just, like... I've always kind of instilled, like, learn. And you go into every room or kind of have the approach of going into every room and feeling like you can learn something or... I don't know.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's like that saying of like go into the room and, you know, act like you're the dumbest person in the room. I don't really try to do that. But I like I always try to learn something from something, I guess. And like I think movies just have such a beautiful way of like teaching you stuff. Yeah. And I love that.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I just saw a movie that was like is on a lot of people's like top 10 list of all time that I hadn't seen. But about time.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's like, the cover looks like it's going to be a cute little rom-com, but it has like this little like twist where the guy is able to go back in time. Uh-huh. And it's just like, like I watched that one like three nights ago. I don't, I haven't, I don't remember crying in a movie like, like from a movie, I guess in a while, like as much as I did to that one. It was so beautiful. I loved it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It did. Yeah, truly, like, it... I will say, as much as I love social media and I owe everything to social media, I haven't felt, like, this passion about something since soccer. Oh. Yeah, so that was, like... Like, waking up every day in Victoria, like, excited to, like, go to work was, like, I loved it. The structure, the long days, the collaborative... of it was amazing. Yeah.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
It's really good because it just... I don't know. It was one of those things that kind of... Makes you look at life a little different.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
More than anything. Honestly, more than anything, I learned that we should hang out more. Truly. Are you serious? I would love to.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Like I was fully, it felt just like so fulfilling, like coming back from a day of like clocking out almost, you know, like with social media, you kind of, You set your own hours. You can like choose whether or not how productive you're going to be today or the next. It's like you kind of have your own hours and you can choose to do it or not.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And like I think I was missing that like structure that I kind of grew up with playing sports. Right. Being like today is training. You train, train, train and then have the game. And then it was like the same thing with sports. The movie, it was... Every day felt like game day. And it was just so exciting. I was so, like, over the moon. Oh, congratulations. Yeah, thank you.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
So, funny enough... The first castmate that I met... So I did, like... I've been attached to Sideline now, and I've had this script for, like, two and a half, almost three years, which is insane to think about. Really? With, like, the strikes happening, the pushback of that, and then, like, just getting finance. Like, creating a movie is so hard and, like...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
you don't really think about it as like a consumer of like, we'll just make a movie. Like it's not that hard. And like, right. Every little thing lining up the, even just like getting schedules in order, like it's a process. And I think once we finally got everything aligned, it was, it felt like amazing. And I met Sienna Agudong who plays Dallas in the film. Um,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I did like 50, like a year ago today probably, a little over a year ago as well, did like 50 chem reads with girls over Zoom.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
So it literally felt like speed dating over like a Zoom call. Like basically I was sitting in like this... this room on zoom, like, and we didn't have a director attached yet. So it was just the producers signing off on this. So I was in the room with the producers. We, there was girls in the waiting room and we'd kind of pull them in.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And it was like, it's like, if you were to do it in person, you kind of chat for the first minute or two. And then if there's like seeing how it flows, like people, I think that's one of the things as well that like surprised me is like after the first few, I asked the producers, I was like,
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
all these seem to be going well and they're like, yeah, but we're looking at in the beginning to like your guys's natural, like chemistry. I'm like, Oh, okay. Then I should be a little bit more like talkative in the beginning. Cause I kind of, you know what I mean? Like it was, it felt like, hi, how are you? Like happy you're here. Let's get into it. Chemistry test. Exactly. No.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Oh, like you and I. Yes. I feel like we'd have great chemistry. Okay.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, let's play. Okay. Okay. So you're in the waiting room.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
So I just got done with 13. Okay. You're getting pulled in right now, producers.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yeah, I've been attached for probably a year now. So we're looking for our Dallas. Oh, okay. We're all confident. We hope it will be you. What if it is? What if... And it goes a little something like that. And it's just like you do that 50 times. And the funny thing that I was going to get to is that Sienna wasn't one of those girls that I came red with.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
So she was a straight offer after like – Okay. Yeah. So literally my manager, Maxwell, he saw her from the show that she did on Netflix, Resident Evil.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And in the show she plays like – this badass girl, like very much not Dallas, I guess. And he just had like a gut feeling. And then we, I didn't even read with her or anything. It was just like a week later, it was like, she's our Dallas. And I was like, Oh cool. And so like, I hadn't even met her and it was, Sienna comes in and I hadn't even spoken to her.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And then all of a sudden it's like, you guys are going to be playing lovers in a movie. And then I would say earlier this year, like right before we filmed the movie in about, I don't even want to put a month on it because I'm so bad with timing. But, like, before shooting, like, just before, there was these Fox upfronts that we had to go to. Yes. Yes. And Tubi.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Sorry. Yes. Duh. That was our first time meeting at the upfront.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
Yes. Exactly. Exactly. This was in New York. This was in New York. Okay. We met. It was great. We were there for...
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
two days and then we did the thing that we had to do for the upfronts we got dinner that night because i was like we're both in town from that dinner i like quickly realized i was like this is gonna be so much fun like she was like a breath of fresh air like she is amazing and shot the movie in june uh-huh of this year so it was a quick turnaround like
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
From filming, us kind of wrapping mid-July, and then it coming out in November. It's kind of quick.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
I'm also an executive producer on the movie, so, like... Yeah, it was a very, very cool, like... I don't know how I got that, but, like, it's an amazing thing, especially for the first... Thank you. And, like, as an EP, like, I... As the actor, I tried to avoid watching it for the longest time. As an EP, I felt like I needed to for like some kind of approval and some kind of green light.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
But I, yeah, I ended up, I was going to hold out until the Newport Film Festival, which is where it premiered. And I ended up watching it like two weeks prior to that. So whenever that was, I want to say like early October. Okay. That's when I first saw it. And then the new. So I watched it with me and two of my friends because I couldn't watch it alone because I'm too close to it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
And I was just like, I don't know. I feel like I couldn't be honest with myself. And so having them in the room was nice.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
No, the picture was honestly already locked when they sent it. They sent me the final thing and they were like, do you want to be a part of the... And I was like, no, just do your thing. I trust you guys. And any nitpicky questions in terms of the producing part of it, I was able to answer. But in terms of the picture itself, I was like, I trust you guys. And I was very happy with it.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
When I first watched it, I can't lie, I didn't know what to expect. And like... I was happy with it. Yeah, it's incredible.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 52: Noah Beck
You know what? I've gotten this question quite a bit since getting into acting and people knowing that it's my first time. And I hope that you are able to relate to this somehow. But I've been waiting to say this because it's hard to say this as a first time person.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 51: Nicole Wallace
Okay, so, sorry, Americans, but you guys are so boring. I know we are, and we all have our phones out all the time.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 51: Nicole Wallace
You love, you don't, you. That's your new song.
Therapuss with Jake Shane
Session 51: Nicole Wallace
Of course not. I think that's the weird part. That's the weird part.