Des Bishop
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Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 938
What would your advice be? I thought this call was so funny because they're like, we want to move on. We want to move up from lingerie. And I'm like, well, first of all, you guys are in like a polyamorous relationship, two women, one man. So I feel like you guys have already powered up from the, from the lingerie. So when I heard this call, I was like, God, like, am I the right guy?
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
I mean, I feel like if you're already comfortable with polyamory, the surprise has to be like an extra person in the mix, in my opinion.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
That was my thought. I was like, you know, beyond doing something like entirely inappropriate that might actually be the biggest turnoff of all time for him, I'm not really sure. I don't actually know how broad his sexual spectrum is. I mean, if he's very adventurous, maybe you want to you know, throw in another guy into the mix or something, even if he doesn't get involved.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Cause they, I, it was this the call where they said that, uh, he likes, he likes watching. Right. So I, I believe that they, they said in the call that he likes watching. I mean, maybe if they want to try to get something into the mix, that might be more exciting for him to watch, uh,
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Yeah, I 100% agree with that. I was like racking my brain. I was joking with my wife about like, I mean, I'm not going to say them on the air, but I was making jokes about all these inappropriate things you could surprise him with. But yes, at the end of the day, what I would suggest is racking your brains about
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Some fantasies he may have insinuated over the last amount of time you guys have been together and make a call. Maybe elevate one up from whatever his most adventurous thing you've ever heard him say. But don't go more than one up because you don't want to like ruin it. You know, you don't want him to be like disappointed.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Yeah. But I will say as a straight man that adding one extra woman will probably always go down fine.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
I know these women are really like, they're going too far with this guy. I don't know what sort of hold he has over them. I don't know what sort of mini cult is happening here.
Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 938
I think that's great advice. The one thing I will say is whenever myself and my wife, we have people message in on our podcast, we always have follow-up questions. And You can Instagram me. I want to know what you decided to do and what the result was because it's really more the follow-on that I'm interested in because I can't really make a suggestion, but I want to know what the decision was.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Good for them. Good for them. The comfortability is very impressive.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Well, you know, that's actually that bit is like it's sometimes comedians have these like bits that just like they pop up anywhere. Like so it just fits into so many different routines of mine. And I don't know where it came from originally, but I like butt play. I'm like open butt play guy. Love it.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Don't know who introduced me to it, but, you know, and I've, you know, some of my friends are into bup play. We talk about it. Some of them aren't, but the, the sort of like the joke about, well, it's a great joke because it touches on like a taboo, right? A lot of men are not comfortable talking about it.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Now, I have to say, one of the things that a lot of like Gen Z comics talk about is that like eating ass is like a recent phenomenon. So I always go back and I'm like, yo, bro, I was eating ass before the internet, motherfucker. You know, I would get my ass eaten before the internet.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
internet don't this isn't just your thing but anyway they're more they're more open talking about it so i'd say the average younger guy is possibly more aware of like the the erogenous nature of uh of butt play but anyway as a routine it just works because you know it's a taboo people get surprised in another bit that i posted that's not in the special i once asked this guy um
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Have you ever had a finger in your ass? And he said, no. And then his girlfriend went, liar. And the place erupted. The place erupted. And I love that because there is a sort of a secrecy around liking it in the butt. Because as you saw it, but the punchline is always men think the gay button is up there. And once it's pressed, that's it. There's no coming back.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Oh, is that right? Well, that's good. Yeah, because I think the secret's out there, right? And, you know, I'm not 100% all in on the positivities of porn. You know, I think it's pros and cons. But I guess one of the positive things is that has also sort of, you know, gotten into porn where you see a lot more of butt play for, you know, for straight men to watch.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
So, you know, I think that's a positive because it just it feels good. It's always hard to get your partner to get involved. That's the only thing. It's not just that men aren't comfortable. A lot of straight women also aren't comfortable. For some of them, it can be an ick. Why would you be into this? That's the other part of it.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
You have to get two people that are comfortable doing different things.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
It's funny. It's, it's funny. The bits that resonate with people like that, that to me is such a throwaway bit, but of course for you and this you're living, you're, you're in this world and you go like, Oh, this is great. This is like open, interesting stuff. Yeah.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
Well, actually, yeah, it doesn't come up as much as you would think. That's just really a bit because she wants a kid too, but she's so busy right now. She's happy to delay. So right now we're both in our happy place of similar desires.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 938
We're getting a lot of texts from women about Miller and his appearances and his appearance. Our audience at primetime believes you're some sort of sexual matador. What do you have to say for yourself?