Daniel Pink

And most of us, when we do the wrong thing, when we take the low road, we regret it. Because most of us are good. And most of us want to be good.

And most of us, when we do the wrong thing, when we take the low road, we regret it. Because most of us are good. And most of us want to be good.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Because these other, I mean, the other regret that people have are connection regrets, which are regrets about relationships. But when we look around the world and people have these regrets, these four regrets operate as kind of a reverse image of what we really value in life. Foundation regrets. We value stability. What's a good life?

Absolutely. Absolutely. Because these other, I mean, the other regret that people have are connection regrets, which are regrets about relationships. But when we look around the world and people have these regrets, these four regrets operate as kind of a reverse image of what we really value in life. Foundation regrets. We value stability. What's a good life?

Absolutely. Absolutely. Because these other, I mean, the other regret that people have are connection regrets, which are regrets about relationships. But when we look around the world and people have these regrets, these four regrets operate as kind of a reverse image of what we really value in life. Foundation regrets. We value stability. What's a good life?

A good life has some stability underneath it. A good life is not wobbly. And so what foundation regrets, taking care of your finances, taking care of your health, taking care of your education, that's part of what it is to lead a good life. Boldness regrets. We value learning and growth. We value not wasting our time in this limited space that we're here. Moral regrets. We value goodness.

A good life has some stability underneath it. A good life is not wobbly. And so what foundation regrets, taking care of your finances, taking care of your health, taking care of your education, that's part of what it is to lead a good life. Boldness regrets. We value learning and growth. We value not wasting our time in this limited space that we're here. Moral regrets. We value goodness.

A good life has some stability underneath it. A good life is not wobbly. And so what foundation regrets, taking care of your finances, taking care of your health, taking care of your education, that's part of what it is to lead a good life. Boldness regrets. We value learning and growth. We value not wasting our time in this limited space that we're here. Moral regrets. We value goodness.

A good life is being good. A good life is being true and honest and just. And connection regrets are about love. And so when you look at these regrets, what do we value in life? We want some stability. We want learning and growth. We want goodness. And we sure want connection. Absolutely. That was the biggest category.

A good life is being good. A good life is being true and honest and just. And connection regrets are about love. And so when you look at these regrets, what do we value in life? We want some stability. We want learning and growth. We want goodness. And we sure want connection. Absolutely. That was the biggest category.

A good life is being good. A good life is being true and honest and just. And connection regrets are about love. And so when you look at these regrets, what do we value in life? We want some stability. We want learning and growth. We want goodness. And we sure want connection. Absolutely. That was the biggest category.

As I've grown? Yes. Well, I mean, I think earlier in my life, I was clueless about that. I think I was incapable of answering that question. I think I didn't know. In the same way that I would not have written a book about regret in my 30s, whereas in my 50s, it felt inevitable. That's right. Because I had mileage on me.

As I've grown? Yes. Well, I mean, I think earlier in my life, I was clueless about that. I think I was incapable of answering that question. I think I didn't know. In the same way that I would not have written a book about regret in my 30s, whereas in my 50s, it felt inevitable. That's right. Because I had mileage on me.

As I've grown? Yes. Well, I mean, I think earlier in my life, I was clueless about that. I think I was incapable of answering that question. I think I didn't know. In the same way that I would not have written a book about regret in my 30s, whereas in my 50s, it felt inevitable. That's right. Because I had mileage on me.

You actually know what it is. But I mean, I think a good life is having people who you love and who love you. I think one can stop there. I think there are other things, but I think that's really at the core of it. And we have some interesting research on that.

You actually know what it is. But I mean, I think a good life is having people who you love and who love you. I think one can stop there. I think there are other things, but I think that's really at the core of it. And we have some interesting research on that.

You actually know what it is. But I mean, I think a good life is having people who you love and who love you. I think one can stop there. I think there are other things, but I think that's really at the core of it. And we have some interesting research on that.

The famous Grant study at Harvard, there was this longitudinal study following men, but then other people from the time they were in college all the way through the rest of their lives. It didn't matter what their IQ was, what their money, what their health situation, how much money they had, what ultimately mattered in people's satisfaction. was love.

The famous Grant study at Harvard, there was this longitudinal study following men, but then other people from the time they were in college all the way through the rest of their lives. It didn't matter what their IQ was, what their money, what their health situation, how much money they had, what ultimately mattered in people's satisfaction. was love.

The famous Grant study at Harvard, there was this longitudinal study following men, but then other people from the time they were in college all the way through the rest of their lives. It didn't matter what their IQ was, what their money, what their health situation, how much money they had, what ultimately mattered in people's satisfaction. was love.