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Chapter 1: Why should you consider leaving your current situation?
You will never understand the power you have as a person until you leave. Until you say, I'm done. And that goes for everything in your life. That goes for the moments where you realize the friends that you have around you, the friends that you grew up with, they're not supporting what you're doing. It's when you realize that the partner you thought was yours, your OTP for lifer,
They are stuck in the same spot and they don't even realize it and they don't want to move. They're comfortable there and you're not. And it also comes down to like physical location. You maybe have grown up in the same place and you are getting restless. And maybe you have had a couple arguments now with your parents where it's like, dude, I'm 18. I'm going to be 19. I'm going to be 20.
I need to leave. And I am here to tell you that's not just you. You need to leave. You should leave. You should leave. Why? Why should you leave? Why should you leave something that seems pretty comfortable? Why should you go out and risk potentially having an experience that you won't like? There's no guarantee in any of it.
There's no guarantee that if you get out of this relationship, you're going to find love again, which I don't know how being in a situation ship means love because truth be told, if he wanted to commit, he would have committed already. If she wanted to commit, she would have committed already. Let's stop kidding ourselves, please.
There's no guarantee that the city that you're going to move to is going to solve all of your problems. It probably won't. You probably will end up in a city and realize, wait a minute, I have more alone time now. I'm not happy. I'm not happy. So with all of this, with also the loom that your parents are, they're not going to be around forever.
And honestly, when you leave home, you don't see them as often as you think you would. You see them a lot less. Why should you leave? It's because if you don't, you will never know. That's the honest truth. Now, don't get me wrong. If you feel like things are good and you are happy and content, stay. Stay like a dog. Stay. Because if it isn't broke, don't fix it. It's cool, you know?
But if there is something that you know deep down is not sitting with you correctly and it's making you question things, and you can suppress it a certain amount, but then there gets a point where you're like, wait a minute. What if? What if? You have to. I mean, you don't have to, but you should. You should.
If you are not fully convinced and like, I'm going to commit to this and I understand that there is going to be regret of other opportunities, but I don't care because this means the world to me. Then why would you not? Why would you not take that risk? Why wouldn't you just try it? Maybe it's because you're afraid of the person you're going to become.
Maybe it's because you're not ready for the idea that some of your preconceived notions about family, maybe about your life, about your capabilities, are going to change. And you're going to realize that you are a lot more flawed than you thought you were. Or you're going to realize, probably more likely, that you are way more powerful and way more able
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Chapter 2: Is your comfort zone holding you back?
Like the way that it feels right now, unless something miraculous happens, which maybe it will, you're locked in and not locked in like, oh, we're locked in. No, no, no, no. You're locked into that reality. And if you don't like it, you should leave. But what, but, but Zerky, I went to school for X and, and I want to really do Y. I know, I know it's not this. No one ever said this is easy.
It's not easy. But you're going to have to spend your time regardless, right? So maybe taking that risk is at least worth it. Just to see. Just to see. You can go back. You can always go back. But if you don't explore something you have no idea about, then you'll never know. You'll never know. You will never know. And maybe you shouldn't leave.
Maybe you've realized that your situation right now is pretty dang good. And that's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful place to be in. But still, I, I just worry that some of us believe we can't do it because we haven't done it yet. And we're, we're living with a preconceived notion of, of what that would have been like. And it's like, you have no idea. You have no clue.
Yeah, I mean, if I would have, you know, if I would have tried a little harder, I could have gone pro. You're as good as the couch quarterback, you know what I'm saying? It's like, yeah, dude, I've seen your highlight tape 300 times. It's great. It's awesome. You should have gone pro. But you didn't. You didn't. And do you want your existence to be like that? You know?
That you could have, but you didn't? That you could have had a partner who genuinely loves every part of you, every bit of you, adores you, but you didn't? Because when you had the thought and you knew something was not good for you, you said, eh. You said, eh. Not me. And there's a good chance if you're listening to this, you're like, uh, not me too. Not me too. I don't want that. Okay. Good.
Admitting is the first step, you know? So what are you going to do about it? Maybe you really want to move. You want to go somewhere new, but it's expensive. Oh, I know. Oh, I know it's expensive, bro. Moving is expensive. Okay. Okay. What do you need to do to do it? What is like the minimal amount that you could do to do it? Because if you want to get it done, you'll find a way.
Because there's always a way. It's not comfortable. It's never comfortable. You think realizing that you have internal problems with yourself and you might have to get some professional help, it's a comfortable feeling? No, it's uncomfortable. You feel broken. You feel sometimes less than. But you have to. You have to kind of fall into your insecurities a little bit.
You have to kind of get into this little hole where you're like, oh my goodness, I can't do it. Oh, man. And that's okay. You can be in this little rut. But while you're there, just ask yourself, okay, if I did want to change, if I did want to entertain something new, what would that even look like? Because I think you're a lot closer than you think.
I think really what it takes is changing a little bit of your approach and realizing that maybe the goals that are going to define that new version of you, that new place you want to move to, right, or that new partner. There are a couple minor tweaks in just finding a new place to put your energy in. I have so many friends who have been like, yeah, man, I really admire what you did.
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