I’m joined by Jonathan Courtney, Co-Founder and CEO of AJ&Smart, discuss startup ideas, lifehacks and book recommendationsStartup Idea: "Drip" - AI-powered content resurfacing• Combats "read it later" syndrome• Synthesizes bookmarks, saved content• Delivers curated insights via SMS/email• Personalizes based on interests & goalsStartup Idea: Entrepreneur Bookmark Newsletter • Weekly newsletter• Curated Bookmarks from famous entrepreneur• Partner with famous entrepreneursLifehacks:• Craft a personal mission statement• Avoid angry people & curmudgeons• Chasing generational wealth is overrated• Show up to meetings with small, thoughtful gifts• Use social media apps on desktop only• Use analogies to make ideas stick• Keep a learning list as your side hustleMust-Read Books for Entrepreneurs:• The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferris• Anything You Want by Derek Sivers• Double Your Profits by Bob Fifer• Rework by Jason Fried and David Heinemeier’s ReworkBonus Book Recs:• Expert Secrets by Russell Brunson• Traffic Secrets by Russell BrunsonWant more free ideas? I collect the best ideas from the pod and give them to you for free in a database. Most of them cost $0 to start (my fav)Get access: http://gregisenberg.com/30startupideas🚀 My FREE 5 day email course to learn how to build a business of the future using the ACP funnel:https://www.communityempire.co/free-course🎯 To build your own portfolio businesses powered by community you might enjoy my membership.You'll get my full course with all my secrets on building businesses, peer-groups to keep you accountable, business ideas every single month and more!Spots are limited.https://www.communityempire.co/📬 Join my free newsletter to get weekly startup insights for free:https://www.gregisenberg.com/70,000+ people are already subscribed.FIND ME ON SOCIALX/Twitter: https://twitter.com/gregisenbergInstagram: https://instagram.com/gregisenberg/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gisenberg/FIND JONATHAN ON SOCIALX/Twitter: https://twitter.com/JicecreamLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathan-courtney-4510644b/To improve your rankings your business on Google and using AI for SEO, sign up tohttp://boringmarketing.com/Links Mentioned:Episode Timestamps: 0:00 Intro03:58 Startup Idea 1: "Drip" - AI-powered content resurfacing13:04 Startup Idea 2: Entrepreneur Bookmark Newsletter18:53 Lifehacks1:04:40 Book Rec 1: Tim Ferris’s 4-hour Workweek1:08:53 Book Rec 2: Derek Sivers’ Anything You Want1:10:39 Book Rec 3: Bob Fifer’s Double Your Profits1:11:55 Book Rec 4: Jason Fried and David Heinemeier’s Rework1:16:06 Book Rec 5: Russell Brunson’s Traffic Secrets and Expert Secrets
What do you mean by chasing generational wealth is overrated and wealth is underrated?
I'm not chasing generational wealth. I don't need hundreds of millions of dollars or billions of dollars. This came to me a couple of years ago. We got offered a $100 million blank check to basically scale out late checkout and build out a bunch of new products faster, acquire faster products. Just take our model and just add steroids to it.
And we turned it down and the VC basically called me up like sweating bullets. He goes... People need a sip on Jonathan Jice Cream Courtney.
Yeah, I'm going to just start calling myself J Ice Cream now on your podcast.
I like calling you Jice Cream.
Yeah, that's not what I intended when I created my gamer tag, but you can call me whatever you like, Craig.
Well, that's the internet, bro. That's the internet.
It's your podcast, dude.
What do you want to talk about today?
I've got three options for you. And I'm going to tell you them in order of what I think I would be most interested in. Number one, and also this straight up, I think would just work well for views and engagement and all that good YouTube stuff. Number one, I've got a pile of books next to me. And...
And these are the books that had the biggest effect on me getting to my first million, running my business. So I thought a conversation around which books were actually influential, not just inspiring, but also had practical sort of outcomes and measurable outcomes. So I thought that that could be an episode. So it's like the books that made us our first million or some shit, all right? Um...
The second idea I had was on your Twitter, and this is sort of in a similar vein. On your Twitter, you posted 50 life hacks for you today. No, 50 life hacks for you in today's stressful, competitive world. And you had 50 life hacks. I thought we could go through those, see where we get to. I think each of them is really interesting. I think that could be really useful.
So both of those are more on the entrepreneurial journey, finding an advantage as an entrepreneur. And then the third thing is just like, I have an idea for a startup.
Okay, let's start with the idea. Let's go backwards. We're going to start with the idea. Then we're going to go the life hacks. And then we're going to go the books. If we get to it. No. Well, listen to the whole episode to get to it. We are going to get to it. Okay.
We'll only get to it if you like and comment right now. And we'll know. We'll know.
It's the least you can do. It's the least you could do. After all we've done. After all we've been through together.
Oh, after. Yeah. I mean, we're not, it's not like we're, someone's paying us to make these videos. I mean, I'm certainly not getting paid anyway. I'm waiting on that check. Um, so yeah, please. All we ask for is a like and a positive comment about my hair. And, um, so before the episode started, I asked, uh, Greg, how, how the comments were. And he said, some people didn't like your hair.
And I was like, Okay, I'm going to go look for those comments now. So we need more positive hair comments. So I got a big haircut two episodes ago. That was a big haircut. So we'll need some updates on that. Okay, so we'll go with some startup ideas. I'm going to hit you with one, and I'm going to be honest with you that actually this idea came from Amer, who works at AJ and Smart.
We were chatting around lunch, and I was like, I'm going on Greg's podcast. He loves ideas. He loves all these ideas. He kind of like stopped talking and just went fully quiet and just stared into space. And then he came up with this great idea. Well, I like it anyway. And his idea is a product called Drip, right? And the idea behind this product, it's kind of like a
You know how you, I don't know if you use Twitter like this or if you use the internet like this. I have like tons of bookmarks, tons of screenshots, tons of things where I'm like, oh my God, that's a cool quote. That's a cool thing. I want to check this out later. And also I use like Pocket Cast to put articles into just collecting loads of stuff.
But in the end, the truth is I very rarely go back to any of it. And I think that's really common. People rarely go back to any of this read it later stuff, even the like best possible read it later software. It still acts as a bit of like a hole for all of your stuff. It's just like a big black box.
Um, and Amr had this idea, which I thought was pretty cool for a product that, well, he, he said all of these services are basically procrastination machines, like screenshotting, bookmarking, save later. You rarely go back and take action on these things. And he had an idea for an AI startup, which I thought was pretty cool. And the idea is the product itself combines your sources.
Let's say you could even just start with bookmarks on Twitter on X and using Pocket Cast, the things you've actually saved. So you don't even have to create a new plugin for it. And instead of it just being a massive pile of stuff that you go to, you get things drip fed to you at a pace that you feel like. And this could be something as simple as SMS.
So once a day you wake up and it's like combining maybe three or four things that have something similar, synthesizing them together and giving you that idea. So an example of that could be you wake up in the morning, you look at your texts, There's a lot of weird ones, you know, like a lot of, a lot of weird shit. Like, I don't know. It's just, I wish that person would stop texting me.
But anyway, next to that, you have drip, right? And drip is an AI that's dressed up in cool drip, right? It's just got, it's, it's very vibey. And. you open it up and it's like, essentially it's your thought for the day or your thing for the day or your idea for the day, or it could even just be your inspiration for the day.
And it's taking the topic is around one topic that I got really into a couple of months ago was this idea of atomization. I don't know if you ever read this article called the atomization of life. I think the guy is called Nat Eliason. Anyway, I saved that article and then I Googled it and I saved loads of other things and then I bookmarked loads of stuff.
And the idea would be one day, just it could be a year later.
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A couple of months ago, you were researching atomization. Here's a couple of new things that have come up around this topic. Here's some of the quotes that you highlighted. Here are a couple of things you were interested in. And it's just a little one pager or just a text message. And that's literally it. You can either go down the rabbit hole back into that topic or nothing.
It's just reminding you of interesting things you've collected. And there's no central... interface where you go and see all the stuff so you don't have another dump to go to to see where all your articles that you're not reading are stored and over time maybe it can get smarter and smarter and like
I don't want to make it unrealistic because if you're talking about like a one person startup, you're not going to be, it's not going to be able to tell which parts of podcasts you listen to, et cetera, et cetera. But you could go further.
But the initial idea is a fairly cheap service that drip feeds you back information that you've stored for yourself at a pace that you want it to drip feed it to you. And it's called Drip AI. Drip a drip. It's a little idea. So much to do.
It would be really cool if you can also connect the dots. So for me, I'm one of those people too. I have thousands of bookmarks and I bookmark them. In my mind, I'm like, I'm going to get back to this. I'm totally getting back to this. Never get back to it. In fact, on my newsletter, I started just sending out five bookmarks called Greg's Letter, gregeisenberg.com.
And I started doing that because I literally don't look at my bookmarks. And I was like, this is going to force me. Creating a newsletter around these five most interesting bookmarks of the week is going to force me to drill in my head that these bookmarks, I need to read them, write notes. But then I forget about them. Yeah, absolutely. I forget about them.
What if instead of drilling into your head, you could drip out of your head? That's what I'm saying. Yeah.
That's what I'm saying. You know, the drip noise. That's what I'm saying.
I think it would be cool because I think a lot of people, I don't know why everyone loves to make bookmarks products, like collect all your bookmarks, collect all your stuff. I'm like, I'm clicking the things in the apps that store this shit for me. My problem isn't collecting. My problem is getting it brought back to me. You know, that's what's actually my issue.
Yeah, I think the easy way to do this, so you can still be a one-man startup and build this and not have to do crazy AI stuff, build a big team and raise venture, is when you sign up to the service, it could say, what are your goals and what kind of business are you in?
So for example, I could say, I'm an agency owner and I'm trying to get to $75 million this year in revenue and I'm looking for content that XYZ. And then from those data points, from that first party data, from the data of the bookmarks, then it's like, oh, hey, we're going to resurface this bookmark with this new piece of information that WPP has acquired this agency. Yes.
And we think that... Like community notes edition or something. Yeah.
I would just start... If I was starting this tomorrow and... I just wanted to make like 99 cents per person per month or something. I would just focus purely on X. My target market are entrepreneurs or creatives who like and bookmark crap tons of stuff on X. And I would just simply build something that works. collects that and sends it back to them. It can be more like a boomerang thing.
It kind of chooses things from a year ago, one day, two weeks ago, another day. And in the beginning, it would be a little bit random just to see if people care about the idea of reminiscing and bringing these things back. And then maybe adding on this context thing, like there's been an update to this, or this This person who tweeted this thing has talked more about it again. And here's that.
So I think there's a very simple, basic, baby version of this, which could be free and maybe with ads or something. And then there's the AI-powered version of it, which adds context and synthesizes.
I don't think I do a free version. To me, you do a paid version. I think the way to... get a lot of people excited about this is you create a bunch of Twitter accounts that are like Sean Poorey's bookmarks, Greg Eisenberg's bookmarks, Jay Ice Cream's bookmarks.
And maybe what you do is you go to some of these creators and you're like, hey, I'll give you $1,000 a month if you just share your bookmarks with me.
I think that's pretty cool. That could even be, we take a couple of steps back, that's another product now where you could just have that as an email list.
That's so true. Oh my God. Oh my God.
Greg Eisenberg, Sean Puri and someone else's like, it's basically the entrepreneur secret bookmarks paid weekly newsletter. It's just, here's what other people are liking and interested in. That would be, I would definitely pay for that. Yeah.
How much would you pay for it?
I'm probably not the right person to ask because I would probably pay a lot. Because I just spoke to you before this podcast about how much I'm about to pay for a mentor. I mean, I would minimum pay like $10 a month or something.
By the way, I thought you were going to say like, yeah, minimum pay like $10,000 to $50,000 a month. Is there like $10 a month?
I don't know. You think you're a baller?
You think you're a baller because you're about to spend $10 a month on this service?
I do $10. I do $10. No, I just mean like I'm already sold on being able to access things like that. Like I think if we're trying to do like a large target market, but then again, I mean, if we're thinking about,
people who are entrepreneurs who are like maybe a couple of million behind those people whose bookmarks you get to look at that could be pretty interesting but yeah i would i don't know i never know what i would pay for something until someone sells it to me totally totally but i think there's two ideas here and they're all around bookmarks people don't need another bookmarking app
People... No. No. No. Don't do it.
Bookmarks. Do you use any of these things like pocket casts and stuff?
No. I use Twitter bookmarks religiously. And that's it.
But there you go. Okay, so... People who use Twitter bookmarks, a product for them. That's a beautiful niche. Entrepreneurs who use Twitter bookmarks very often and obviously never look at them again. Come on. That's a great niche. All right. Come on. Come on.
Why aren't you more excited? Yeah, why aren't you more excited? Why isn't someone building this right now?
Such a great idea. Again, the drip aspect of this is from Amr at AJ and Smart. I want to give him all the credit. Amr, you're a legend. Amr Khalifa on X. I just want to take the credit because he gave me that idea.
Yeah, but we took, in our defense, we took the idea to the next level.
Yeah, exactly. We took the seed.
Yeah.
The seed was birthed.
He spread the seed.
The seed was, what happens when a chicken, the seed was laid? Why is it laid like an egg? I don't know. I saw it happen with my own eyes, though. He's a weird guy, you know? Then I sat on it and incubated it. for a few hours and then I brought it to you and we hatched it.
Yes, we did.
And then we fried it.
And it was amazing. You were lovely. Thank you. We consumed it. Yeah.
We don't talk about eggs enough on this podcast.
We don't. And everyone who's listening to it sipped it.
And they sipped the egg juice. You know, when I'm looking back on episodes of this podcast and I'm thinking a lot of people, you know, there's people.
We're going back to the egg juice. You can't just say and they sip the egg juice and just like segue it into something else.
Sip the egg juice. That's my next idea. Egg juice. But I was going to make a point related, like, when I come to this podcast, so obviously, I've been on a couple of episodes of this podcast, and I'm sort of like an anomaly in it, like, as in I'm regularly here, but...
When I look at the comments, I'm like, oh yeah, people don't realize that my brain is a bit broken and that I'm just kind of also a silly man. I'm a silly man. And when people come here for like hardcore back-to-back business ideas and I'm on here, like there was some guy in your comments last week who was like, I want to give you some constructive feedback, Greg.
Yeah, I saw that one.
Don't have this guy on your podcast anymore.
And what did I do?
What did you do? I actually didn't check the follow-up.
I texted you and I was like, hey, you want to record a pod right now?
Hell yeah. I would like to give you some constructive feedback, Greg. This guy sucks. Is that what he said? No, it was like, I'd like to give you some constructive feedback. Something like, I don't like listening to this guy and doesn't bring value and he just rambles. And I'm like, that's...
I mean, the reality of the situation is that startup idea with the insight around bookmarks is a huge insight.
Now he should give constructive feedback on how huge of an insight it is.
Like, period. That's a really good insight. No, and it's something I'm going to think about. So yeah, listen, you might talk about egg juice here and there. And that's really, really strange and unusual. And I hope you're well. I'm not well. Yeah. But, you know, in a sea of egg juice, you sprinkle on some great startup ideas and some good insights that I think people should be taking notes.
And I take notes. So that's why I bring you on. All right. Yeah. Thank you, Matt. All right. See you.
I'm going to bed.
Next segment. You want to talk about life hacks.
Okay, look, you did this post right. I bookmarked it. Yeah, you did. I bookmarked the shit out of it. I see your team has to... I'll try to reduce the swearing because I know they have to beep it out. Okay, so let's... I'm going to... You did this post on Twitter. Your team can maybe bring it up on screen. It's 50 life hacks. I'm going to just...
go to a few of them and ask you to expand on it or to talk about them or just very heavily agree with them. Maybe I'll just choose the top 10 of your 50 life hacks.
Does that sound good? Well, let's do that, but be sure to bring up the one around Instagram close friends.
Okay, I'm going to do that. First thing, and it's really the first one, use social media apps on desktop only so that you don't get sucked in. I mean, so fucking like do you basically then have no social media apps on your phone?
I the only social media app I have on my phone is TikTok. Oh, and that sounds like an addictive one, though. And it's like buried away. And it isn't something that I post on. And it, for me, it's not an addictive one. So I think, I mean, I think the advice is don't have the, you know, certain apps are more addictive to, to certain people. Like Twitter for me, it would be the most addictive.
Instagram to others would be the most addictive. So I just remove the ones that are addicted to me. And, uh, It's just the experience on desktop isn't as dopamine friendly than on mobile. You've got to be crazy to put social media apps on your phone. You've got to be crazy, period.
I agree. Do you sometimes sneakily log into X on your Safari browser?
No, actually I don't. You don't? No, but sometimes I will say if I'm out of the house for like a really long time or I'm traveling or something and I've got like a tweet or something that I just can't get out of my head. A banger. A banger as the kids say. I'll download it and... And quickly push it live and then delete it after.
Okay. You'll delete it. Yeah. I deleted social media on my phone years ago. But I'll occasionally get sucked into... You know, it's your fault that I'm back on X. I was off X for like four or five years before I did the first one of these podcasts. And then you were screenshotting what people were saying about it. And I was like, I'll just log in. And now I'm... It's so addictive. It's so good.
But yeah, I also don't put these on my phone. And again, I try to use this brick, like this brick thing that I talked about a couple of episodes to block things. Okay. Use analogies. People remember them. Can you give me an example of what you're talking about there in an analogy format? Yeah.
I tweeted this and someone who listens to the pod was like, yeah, and the river goes into the river into steps into the river. Remember from like four episodes ago? The worst analogy ever. Yeah. I made like the worst analogy ever.
Yeah.
So I read a book a long time ago and maybe this is actually interesting because we're going to talk about books later, but it was called Made to Stick.
I love that book. You remember that book? I remember it and I love it. And I actually refer to it a lot in my training when I'm training people in facilitation.
So I read it maybe 15 years ago at this point. And it talked a lot about how do you communicate in a way that sticks with people. And one of the ways is just analogies. The reality is when you have a conversation with someone for an hour, they're going to remember one or two things.
That you were covered in egg juice and the smell of it.
Even egg juice, right? It's so visual. You can kind of picture it. I can picture it. Oh yeah, you can smell it, unfortunately.
I can smell it right now.
So analogies work. And in the context of business specifically, like creating content, selling people, analogies just really stick in people's minds.
Absolutely. Especially if you're, I think one of the best analogy formats, because I remember, so Made to Stick is an amazing book. It also talks about this concept of the curse of knowledge, which is amazing. The idea is that once you know a topic, you now can't like, you can't act as if you don't know it anymore.
You can't imagine what it's like to be a person who doesn't know this thing anymore. And so you actually get worse at explaining something the more you know it. So when I'm trying to sell facilitation training, and I've been a facilitator and a designer for 14 years, I have to remember this curse of knowledge thing and bring myself right back to the basics.
And analogies are an amazing way to bring things back to the basics. And there's this format that I saw Russell Brunson use to make things into...
more of an analogy and it's like he uses the you know how or it's like yeah it's the the simple format he has is that it's kind of like or it's kind of like when so sometimes it's like you're you're thinking about okay how do i explain something like facilitation to people
Well, it's kind of like when you're on a trip with your friends and nobody's in charge of how we're going to get from the airport to the hotel. And it just feels super chaotic and everyone's kind of bickering at each other. Well, imagine if you had, if one of the people in the group just said, I'm going to take care of transportation. It's kind of like that.
It's kind of like, and this is something we actually use in our ads is this analogy is that being on, being on vacation with your friends is supposed to be something nice, but it gets really frustrating when everyone needs to decide where to go for dinner. And imagine if there was someone who was taking the lead
So it's kind of like thing when you're making copy, when you're writing copy, when you're writing an ad, just keeping this written somewhere in front of you. It's kind of like and then something relatable. So anything you're trying to sell or anything you're trying to talk about, you got to remember that it's kind of like and something relatable, something I've learned from analogy creating.
The other thing related to this that some of the smartest entrepreneurs I know do is they make it conversational when they're writing copy or they're communicating.
So what they'll do is, instead of saying, I remember a story that Steve Jobs said, and just explaining what the story is, you say, when Steve Jobs was at WWDC and everyone thought that BlackBerry owned mobile, Steve Jobs goes up on stage, he goes, So using the words, he goes, and then you just talk like you are Steve Jobs.
When you're conversational and you talk like the person that you're bringing up, it puts the person listening, gives them a front row seat, and it is just a way more effective way to get your point across.
100% agree with that. Have you ever had Neville Medora on your podcast?
No, I don't know him, but... You need to get him on your podcast. I do. I do need to get him on the podcast.
He has a book called This Book Will Teach You to Write Better. It takes 15 minutes to read. It's like an Amazon printed book. And it goes into a lot of these topics about how to tell stories from other people's perspectives. But he has one statement in there when it comes to copy, when it comes to all of this thing we're talking about.
And he said, when you're writing, when you're writing for people... And he goes... And he goes... Yeah. And he goes... Did I actually say that? He said he said. Oh, yeah. Okay. And he goes... And I'll just do his accent and he goes, when you're thinking about writing for people, the one thing you have to have locked into your head is nobody cares about you. They only care about themselves.
And this is one of the key, this insight that I got when I read that book really locked in for me to the point that whenever I'm writing copy or whenever I'm talking to my team about copy, I'm like, I'm like, and I go, are we writing here about us and about how great we are? Or are we talking about what they're going to get? So this is something that just like super locks into my brain.
The funniest part of what you just said was that you tried to do Neville Medora's accent, but then you just used your own accent.
Oh, no, I was thinking like if you're going to really embody the person and I try to do a big Austin accent. And if I was trying to do the Steve Jobs, California accent and getting like like if I overthought, if I if I really incorrectly took your advice and I thought you meant full impersonation. Yeah.
Yeah. Like you started talking about Steve Jobs and then you're like, oh, give me a second. And you like pull up a black turtleneck and you just start changing. Yeah.
15 minute change. Yeah. And then like practicing for ages and then the person's gone. All right, move on. This one, I really want to know what you think about this because I really want to know the exact thing you do. You said you should show up to meetings with small gifts. The ROI is insane. I have a lot of meetings coming up.
Especially with people who are a lot more important than me, I would say. They are more important than me, but they're more successful than me. I'm always wondering what to do. Talk about this. Tell me what you do.
When I first moved to San Francisco, I became friends with a group of 10 Japanese people who had just moved to San Francisco too. They all could barely speak English. Really, they were learning about American culture and stuff like that. And one of the first things I noticed was every time I'd meet them, they would show up with a gift.
And although I didn't need a pancake mix as a gift, which was one of the gifts, it didn't need stuff like that. It was just so nice that they showed up with a gift. So I took that to heart. And when I was in my early 20s, I remember I bought a thousand mini Buddhas. Because who doesn't want luck of a mini Buddha?
Okay, so a thousand mini Buddhas and you gave them all to one person, right? Yeah.
No, I gave... So I spent... I gave out those... It was like the year of the Buddha. I gave out all a thousand Buddhas that year.
Fucking hell.
Yeah, I had a lot of meetings. In my early 20s, I would just like meet with anyone. Yeah. And... People just like started talking about it.
It's definitely memorable.
Yeah. People started talking about it and I like kind of became known as like the guy who showed up with gifts. From that, and by the way, I was giving gifts to like the founder of Uber who I just like randomly met and all these crazy people that I shouldn't have been in those rooms, but I was in those rooms and they would send me an email right after and be like, by the way, thanks.
I'm looking at the Buddha right now.
That's really cool.
So it works, especially if you're trying to build your network and you're trying to create a lasting impression in people's minds.
I think it also puts you in a humble position, I would say. I don't know if this is even remotely the intention, but it shows somehow some respect to the other person, I feel. Yeah. I think so. What do you do today?
Like, okay, I am going to meet some people over the next few weeks and I want to bring them gifts, but what do you, what kind of things I'm always kind of struggling between like what's too expensive and desperate seeming and what's like too stupid. Like what, what do you think I could bring?
It like price doesn't matter. It's really just the thoughtfulness. I don't know if a thousand Buddhas would make sense today. Maybe they would. But it's just thinking about... Maybe today people are really stressed about the election, let's say. And it's generating anxiety. So what is something that you can give to people that is the ante of that?
What is something small, thoughtful that you can give? Xanax. Yeah. Maybe you should just... Go to... Become a pharma company.
Does Costco sell Xanax? I don't know. Okay. I get your idea, though. So, like, a nice tea... Yeah.
Well, the problem with tea is that you're done, right? Like, I'm sure that there's people who still have these little buddhas on their desks. Teapot? Teapot is a good one.
So, it should be permanent. Like, something that stays... What about, okay, if I was meeting you, I don't know if I'm going to be able to pull this off before my next meeting, but if I was meeting you and I got you the Playdate, this little cute yellow console from the guys at Panic, would you think that's cute?
I would think that's real. I would love that. That would make me so happy. But that's not permanent, I don't think.
A little yellow games console? Actually, yeah, it's pretty permanent.
I take it back. It's pretty permanent.
I actually just annoyingly realized that that's a great gift for people right now, and I don't know if I'm going to be able to get it on time. Fuck. I was going to get people these, the little TP7, but they're really hard to buy. Could you get me one of those?
Yeah.
Yeah, but it's something we forget. Like... I don't know. It's actually really good intangible thing to do. I feel like it's something that not a lot of people do. And I, I think also there's something about coming across as, I don't know how to put this when I meet. Okay. Just tell me if this makes sense, the way I'm going to put it. You, I often meet people who are a lot more successful than me.
And after a while you sort of become friends with them and I feel like what other people do wrong is that, let's say I become friends with someone who's like, who's been running a company for 25 years, super successful. I'm years away from ever getting there and I may never get there.
And they clearly have all the connections I would want, all of the things we talked about, this canvas strategy idea. And I'm here. And eventually I become friends with them. I think what a lot of people do wrong is they're like, oh, now I'm friends. So now I'm just going to get all this person's contacts and I'm just going to call them whenever I feel like, et cetera, et cetera. Whereas...
I would always, in my mind, think, okay, so this person is still being very gracious to give me their time, even though we're friends, etc. And so I think giving a gift, and would you give gifts every time you meet someone? Or just the first time? Basically, how many gifts am I going to get is what I'm trying to figure out.
The best time to give a gift is to give a gift when the person least expects it.
When they're in the toilet. Kick down the door. Here you go. Here's a play date. Oh, no. Jice Cream's here. Play it. How did you get my address? 1,000 Buddha.
Trying to put their kid to bed. I'm hanging off the ceiling with 1,000 Buddhas. Holding them in a box and shaking, sweating. What are you spraying at me?
Why are you spraying egg juice at me?
One of them falls on their head and it's like a horror movie. The camera pans up and I'm there strapped to the ceiling.
What I mean by that is on people's birthdays they often get gifts and they're busy. Yes. Are they more likely or less likely to remember a gift you give them on their birthday?
Less likely.
Exactly. So you want to give someone a gift when they're not expecting it. So that could mean the first time you meet them. But then also at month 6 or month 18 or month 24...
So it's not just about every time you meet them in person.
Yeah, don't be like a bot. You don't create a system where it's like, okay, on the third week of every month, I buy this thing and I create a script. No, be a human being.
You know what? I think a great book, Grace, I ruined it. I think a great gift, what I give to people is this book. I mean, having a book that you give to people. Why I think this is a nice gift, this one.
Hell yeah, Harnell. Hell yeah or no by Derek Sivers.
It's one of my favorite books of all time, by the way.
By the way, I can't believe you're going into books, even though.
No, no, no. But this is one that I gift people. I give it as a gift. Um, so I bought, I buy it in bulk off the website and then you can get like this hard cover version, but when you get on Amazon sucks, it's like a soft cover, kind of like crappy looking one, but you can get the nice hard cover additions from the website. I buy like 20 of them and I give them as gifts to people.
Uh, when they come to my apartment, I give it to them as a gift. So that's kind of like something I do.
That's cool.
Um, so that's just an example of a
That's a really good one, is always have gifts in your apartment or house to give to people. It's like no-brainer.
If anyone wants this when they come over to my place, it's like a glasses cleaner, but it's covered in other strange stains. I wasn't trying to bring the book thing in. All right, wait, let's do another. Okay, let's go back to this hack list. Okay, keep a learning list. Make learning your side hustle. What do you think about that?
I mean, I wrote it, so...
What do you mean by a learning list, like courses you want to do, books you want to read?
I use the Things to-do list app.
Oh, you use Things. I think it's made in Germany.
I think somewhere. It's made somewhere. I think it's Germany. Somewhere in Europe, for sure.
I think it's Germany. Germany. I'm just trying to get a claim to fame here. An American using a tech product that's made in Germany is like a big deal. You know, we don't tend to make much stuff over here. Yeah, it's made in Germany.
Okay. I use this German product called Thing.
Yeah.
There we go.
That's right. That's right. Cultured code. If you're listening to this episode, you guys make a lovely product. I think it's a really lovely product.
It's a lovely product. I use it. I have one of my tasks on it is learning list. And every quarter I have three new things that I'm trying to learn.
Oh, okay. I don't do that.
It's basically every month I'm trying to learn a new thing. And the thing I'm trying to learn, sometimes it's about business, but sometimes it's just like a personal thing. So it could be, well, actually right now I'm taking a bunch of Stanford online courses on finance.
Oh, interesting.
So I never went to business school. Of course I can like read an income statement, a balance sheet, that sort of thing. But I figured, hey, it would be great to be better at this. So it's one of those things where if you don't put it in a list and actually have homework and put it in your calendar, you're never going to get around to it.
How do you decide what you want to learn? Is it just following your interests or is it related to business weaknesses you have or life weaknesses?
I think it's business weaknesses and life's curiosities. So like right now, I'm also like for this upcoming three months, I'm also just trying to get better at guitar. So taking a guitar course and then if I pull up, I'm also learning how to golf.
Oh, interesting.
Yeah.
Probably a good way to network with high net worth people as well is golfing.
It's also I live in Florida, so. It's a golfing place. It's a golfing place.
What do you mean by chasing generational wealth is overrated and wealth is underrated?
This came to me a couple years ago. We got offered a $100 million blank check to basically scale out late checkout and build out a bunch of new products faster, acquire faster. Just take our model and just... add steroids to it. And we turned it down and the VC basically called me up like sweating bullets.
He goes, this is a Blackberry.
He goes, I don't understand. This is like a surefire way for you and your team to get generational wealth.
Yeah, he has a similar voice to you, actually.
Yeah, a similar voice. Very similar voice to me. And I go, I'm not chasing generational wealth. I don't need hundreds of millions of dollars or billions of dollars. In fact, the people who I look up to who have that sort of wealth, they give away 99.9% of their wealth anyways to charities. what I'm about is I want to, I want to live a wealthy life. I want to live a rich life.
I want to be able to do whatever it is I want, but I don't need generational wealth. I think that's, it's something that what I don't like about chasing general generational wealth is it's infinite. You're chasing an infinite goal.
I have, I have zero interest in generational wealth either. Maybe I, maybe it's just cause I don't think I can actually make it. Maybe if I had a no, but really, I also like I guess this die with zero concept where you use the money. And when you die, like I was thinking about it, like my daughter doesn't need to have crap tons of money from me. when she's older because I didn't have that.
And I, I found it really fun to figure out how to make money. I worked in bars, I worked in restaurants, then I started making my own things that I, you know, like that, that gave me sort of like something to do and sort of like a purpose. Um, So yeah, I would definitely agree with you. How would you define normal wealth, though? How do you define that for yourself?
I'm currently working with a financial advisor to figure out for me, what is it that I actually should earn? I run a creative thing, and so it's variable based on my vibes. So how do you and me figure that kind of thing out?
that's so frustrating to the financial advisor they're like so what's your goal and and you go that's literally just based on my vibes he literally really nice guy sebastian i um can definitely recommend him if you're in germany uh reach out to me and i'll connect you he he asked me what my goal was and i was like first of all he was sitting in the aj and smart office which looks like
like just looks like an art museum of some sort like a chaotic art museum and i'm like look around like do you think i have goals my goal is to keep making stuff that i want to do i want to just do stuff that i enjoy um but yeah i don't have any goals at all i don't know what i want to do i mean financially yeah do you have like a number or like just keeps going up
I don't have a number because people I know who have numbers are just, they hit the number and then the number becomes 2x. And then they hit the number and the number becomes 2x. And they hit the number and it becomes 2x. The way I think about it is I want to be able to do what I want.
Yes, you don't want anyone to tell you what to do, where to be.
Yeah, and there's a lifestyle that I want to have and that requires a certain amount of money, but that's kind of where I'm at.
That connects to number 20, which is craft a personal mission statement to guide your decisions. First of all, do you want to share your one? And second of all, how do I do that?
Well, what's your personal mission statement?
I don't have one.
You don't have one? Even around like facilitator.com?
My personal mission statement is I want to follow my interests. and then make things that I find interesting with other people. I don't like to make stuff just by myself. And ideally, other people like using those things. I don't have a mission statement, but if it would be something like that, make interesting stuff that I find interesting. It's very much around making things
I like to create stuff. I like making things.
So where this came from was a lot of companies have mission statements. Most companies have mission statements. And I realized that founders, because they care so much about making the business work, they kind of lose sight of what their goals are.
I have recently very much lost sight of my goals, which I've never defined, but I can sense it.
Yeah. So that's my point on this life hack. How do you do it? It doesn't make a difference what your mission is or what mine is. It's just like, have a mission.
But what does one look like? Can you tell me what that statement sounds like? I literally don't know what you mean. Yeah.
So... Help me! Help me help you. Help me! A personal mission statement could be something like, it could be numbers. Like you can say, I want to make a million dollars a year and I want my children to have the best possible life. And I want to have a happy family. And that's a personal mission statement. You can put dollars in there. You can add personal, of course, into it. Family, friends.
So you obviously don't want to share yours, basically. I don't want to share mine.
It's personal.
Share it with us, Greg. Okay, guys. If you like and comment, share it with us, Greg. Then in the next episode, Greg will share his personal mission statement. No, but it's interesting, a lot of Americans say things like, you know, that's sort of like my purpose or my mission. It's very rare to hear people outside of the US saying these sentences.
And so, yeah, it's interesting for me just sort of trying to understand it and trying to see if that makes sense for me. I like the idea of having like, so what I have is a post-it in my kitchen, which says 2024. Do you actually, can I go get it just to show you? Or is that an annoying thing for me to do right now?
Go for it. Yeah.
All right. Just because it's so it's so like not a mission, but it's like I'll just do it. I'll be back. I'm not wearing any underwear or pants. So I'm just sure. So at the end of 2023, I think it was the 29th of December, my girlfriend and I did like a. It's this Tim Ferriss thing. It's called the end of year review, something like that.
And then we created our goals for next year based on how that works. It's kind of embarrassing to show this because it's not like a public thing that I've ever showed, but just to show you, I think maybe my version of what we're talking about, which is very much within the year. So it looks like this.
And so it's like three questions for myself and then like one physical activity that I am just going to lock into. It sounds like a weird thing. The questions are, number one, am I optimizing for state? And that just means my state of mind. Am I living my life in a way that's going to optimize for how I'm feeling? Because when I feel good and when I feel excited, everything else works better.
A really simple example of that is being very, very cautious of... things like alcohol, not sleeping, over-caffeinating. I have my own list of things that cause my state to turn bad, also social media. Am I lowering noise and complexity? So this is something where just thinking about like, you and I talked about this a couple of weeks ago as well.
I actually shut down my holding company after realizing that even though it makes sense from a financial perspective, the noise and complexity, even though it wouldn't, for example, be a problem for you, for me, that overwhelms me massively. So am I lowering noise and complexity? And then the last one is kind of interesting. Am I being radically integral
I don't even know what that means.
Yeah, I know. It's fine. It's also a bit pretentious. Again, I wasn't planning on showing this so it was only for me. The idea there is that Am I being, first of all, am I telling the truth? Like if someone asks me something like, how am I feeling? Am I just telling them the answer to the question? But also, am I basically living in a way that actually reflects what's happening in my head?
Or am I just living in a way that's good for others to get what they want? Being integral, like having integrity, the idea is just like, Yeah. Am I being integral? Do I have integrity? Am I, am I, are the things I'm thinking similar? Are the things I'm thinking the same as the things I'm saying the same as the things I'm doing those three things lining up and, uh, Then yoga.
I actually have done one hour of yoga per week since January because I was having some back pains. So that also worked out well. That's kind of more like an optimizing for state thing. So yeah, I don't have a mission statement, but I kind of break it down into like the three things I want to focus on for the year. But the mission statement thing is pretty interesting.
Is there any like thing I can watch or read about how to create a mission statement for myself?
Yeah, there's like... There's a few frameworks for it. There's one called the three question framework. What is most important to you? What are your goals? What values guide your actions? For example, the integral piece that you talked about, the value that you have is integrity. You have pieces of it. That's one framework. There's also the purpose, values, goals framework. It's
purpose what is your life about values what do you stand for and goals what do you want to achieve so I kind of like that one because I do think that you need to have some number what you know associated like from a goal perspective because otherwise it just becomes like so lofty and then the last one that I've seen is the five step plan So it's, what are your past successes?
Identify themes from your past achievements. What are your core values? List and prioritize your most important values. Identify contributions, how you want to impact different areas of your life. Identify goals, short and long-term goals. And then it's write mission and vision statements. So you're basically synthesizing all the above stuff in concise statements. Love it.
I'm going to look at all of those after I have them open as tabs. I have them tabbed out.
Tabbed out. Okay, one more. One last one. One last and then more or then end of episode? No, then three to four books.
Okay.
I just want to talk quickly about the Instagram close friends one just because it's on my mind.
Yeah, say the Instagram close friends one. I don't see it here.
Did I not put that on the list? Oh, yeah. Being on someone's IG close friends doesn't mean you're close friends. So I don't know if this is just me, but recently I met a couple people out in the world and they just throw me on close friends. Oh, really?
Homie, we just met. I haven't used that feature in quite a while, so I can't say much to this thing.
So...
So are you telling the public just to not add you to close friends?
I'm saying that if someone adds you to close friends, it doesn't mean they're your close friends. And if you want to get deeper, it's like you only have a couple of close friends in real life.
I think that's also interesting because what you could do is if someone adds you to the close friends thing and then you see that they're doing something like a wedding or a family party and you haven't been invited, you could get really irritated with them. Like, oh, thanks for the invite. I thought I was a close friend.
Yeah, I thought I was a very close friend and I didn't get put on your will, interestingly. So yeah, okay, fair enough. That's a good one. Okay, let me, can I choose one more just to end on one that I like? Okay, avoid angry people. They suck the good energy out of the room. It sounds like really obvious.
And I would say not just angry, or maybe you, I don't know if you agree with this, but I would say you also generally want to avoid people who are super cynical, super pissed about everything. It's like you meet someone and they're like, oh, did you hear about this stupid thing? This stupid politician did this country's fucked up. And you're like, oh man, I was having a good day.
And now I have to listen to this stuff.
when when you say angry people are you saying someone who's just got a generally negative vibe or someone who's actually angry so in my mind i wasn't going to use this word on twitter because it wouldn't hit the same but i think of them as curmudgeons curmudgeoness the the people the people who are not going to hand out candy at halloween
because they hate the kids or the kids listen to loud rock music or whatever it is. You know what I mean? Also, the people that just are rooting for you to lose.
They're also the people that if you come to them, let me see if I can get this down to the perfect crystallization, if this is exactly what it is for you. You're really excited about something. You're really excited about a new thing. Let's say you got this and you're super excited and you show it to your friend and they're like, I heard teenage engineering are actually a shit company.