Harvard Psychologist Shares 6 Words That Will Change Your Family

3270.495 - 3293.745 Dr. Stuart Ablon

Correct. And I was thinking about that as well, because you talk about in the book how let them is not giving in. It's not sort of ceding. It's actually a very mindful action. It's strategic. And for parents, by the way, when we talk about plan C, I always ask people a trick question. I'm like, with plan C, who's in charge? And they usually say, the kid. And I'm like, no, no, no, no, no.