Harvard Psychologist Shares 6 Words That Will Change Your Family

2447.825 - 2469.615 Dr. Stuart Ablon

And they try to motivate you through incentives, rewards, consequences to try to behave better. And that doesn't work because you're already trying hard. You're trying harder than anybody else to behave well. I mean, this is one of the secrets. People think sometimes people who struggle with their behavior aren't trying hard to behave well. No, you know who's not trying hard to behave well?