Bill Eddy: How to Deal With High Conflict People

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Then they switch and beg and plead. And I've got cases where people say, and, you know, my ex-to-be just seduced me and somehow I went along with it because it felt real good. And it's back and forth from the high conflict person and they call it hoovering. You go, hoovering? Where did that word come from? The hoover vacuum. What happens is they vacuum, they suck you back into the relationship.