Digital Social Hour
Secrets of Winning Arguments Every Entrepreneur Should Know | Ryan Umina DSH #1290
Wed, 02 Apr 2025
Discover the secrets of winning arguments every entrepreneur should know and take your persuasion skills to the next level! 🚀 In this episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly, we sit down with an accomplished trial lawyer turned entrepreneur, Ryan Umina who shares insider tips on mastering argumentation, understanding human psychology, and thriving in business. 🧠💼 From courtroom strategies like sticking to your version of the truth to the art of storytelling, this conversation is packed with valuable insights that can transform how you communicate and make decisions. You'll also hear inspiring stories of resilience, lessons from high-stakes trials, and how these skills translate to entrepreneurship. 🌟 Don't miss out on this eye-opening episode! Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and join the conversation for more fascinating stories and expert advice on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎙️✨ CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Ryan's Intro 02:10 - Why Ryan Became a Lawyer 04:05 - Ryan's First Case 12:01 - Sexual Assault and Consent Awareness 14:16 - Decision-Making Based on Survival Instincts 19:03 - Toughest Case: Police Shooting Incident 25:56 - Reasons to Attend Law School 27:59 - Avoiding Untelling the Other Side's Story 30:48 - Transitioning from Lawyer to Entrepreneur 31:35 - Early Business Ventures and Lessons 32:43 - Starting a Successful Law Firm 33:50 - Creating Notarize: A Business Journey 36:10 - Valuable Lessons from Failure 39:20 - Starting Tax Firms: Key Insights 44:10 - How John Summit Started His Career 46:04 - Sean's Company: Over $100 Million in Refunds 49:41 - Qualifying for the SAT Program Explained 51:15 - Understanding ERTC.com Benefits 56:08 - Wrap Up and Key Takeaways APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: jenna@digitalsocialhour.com GUEST: Ryan Umina https://www.instagram.com/ryanumina http://Setcpros.com/digital SPONSORS: AIRES TECH: https://airestech.com/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Digital Social Hour works with participants in sponsored media and stays compliant with Federal Communications Commission (FCC) regulations regarding sponsored media. #ad #audienceengagement #businessdevelopment #communicationskills #leadershipskills #persuasivespeaking
Chapter 1: Why did Ryan Umina choose to become a lawyer?
Yeah, so... You know, path to becoming a lawyer, you know, I finished undergrad a little bit later in life. I was like 25. And so I had some time to, you know, think about what am I actually good at? You know, I spent, I guess I spent a summer in like hospitality management and things like that. I was like, maybe I'll just work at a resort.
And I was always pretty good at public speaking and, you know, liked some academic exercises. And, you know, one of the things about becoming a lawyer that I would tell anyone who's thinking about it You have to really practice, even if you can speak well, reading, writing, and then like philosophical logic, right? You need to understand true logic.
And so like I minored in philosophy and really appreciated the academic exercise of that. And so, you know, when I went to law school, I was just very focused on being a trial lawyer. It's just what called me and people would say, what is a trial lawyer? Um, I tell people, it's like, you ever see a show, you know, The Practice or some of these other, uh, you know, lawyer shows, uh... Suits?
Yeah, yeah. And with the exception of maybe some of the corporate stuff they do in Suits, um... which we, you know, we handle some of that stuff. I do a wide range of things. I try, I've tried a lot, a lot of cases for some of my age, but I've tried, you know, so many criminal cases. We've handled stuff in the, you know, civil rights arena. A lot of,
uh kind of catastrophic injury wrongful death people being wrongfully killed um and then you know our practice probably 20ish percent um we do a lot of business uh business work you know uh medium size and you know large small businesses uh we do a lot of work for that what was the first case was it a win Yeah. So I had a great run in, in trials early on. Yeah. Right.
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Chapter 2: What was Ryan Umina's first case and its outcome?
You know, I was at a point, and again, I worked, they tell you in law school, like you're not going to see the inside of a courtroom for 10 years, seven years. And I just, I just chose not to believe that. And yeah, I, so I was on like competitive, uh, get a trial for them and they were like traveling trial competition teams, um, every semester starting my second year.
So, so four separate teams and, and, you know, won the schools like trial competition. So, I mean, I really worked at, uh, getting good at it. I would, I would set up a, uh, computer. I'd go up to the law school on like a Saturday and, you know, set up my computer in the jury box and sit there and be all by myself. Wow. You know, practicing and watching and critiquing myself. Yeah.
You know how to, I mean, you watching yourself on camera, sometimes it can be so painful. So uncomfortable hearing my voice. It's like, Oh my God. Yeah. And, uh, but you know, that's how you, that's how you learn. And so first, uh, First case all by myself was the first two before that.
So very first case, pretty heavily publicized, but I was more, you know, second chair, just really did like the work of it. I was fortunate when I started out, I don't practice now, but I ended up, you know, I did big law my first summer. And then I was like, I don't, I don't really think that's my- You worked under a big company.
Yeah, I worked for like one of, my first summer was with one of the largest law firms in the country. A huge, I mean, they've merged since then. They have about a thousand lawyers, like giant, giant firm. Yeah. And which, you know, love those guys. And I have a lot of friends that work in that environment, but it just wasn't for me. I wanted to be, you know, in court.
So I had an awesome mentor of sorts who was a, judge at the time he still is a judge he's a federal uh judge now but um he let me come and uh just kind of tag along for the summer you know and really you know taught you know you walk into the courtroom and he's like all right here's what really just happened right here's what's really here's what they're really saying right interesting
Yeah, it was invaluable. And then I went to work at a smaller firm, but these, they were very well established. So we had some, you know, significant cases. So first trial ever, it was a really hot button issue. It was right on the heels, if you recall, the Brock Turner trial. you know, the Stanford swimmer, right? And so the allegation was that our client at a party sexually assaulted a girl.
Yeah. And not that she didn't consent, but that she was too intoxicated to consent, right? And of course you hear that and it's like, oh my gosh. And this, the allegations alone nearly ruined the kid's life. But he, you know, kicked out of school. Damn. Oh yeah, kicked out of school. I mean, and it was picked up nationally, the story was.
Yeah, this was peak Me Too movement, right?
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Chapter 3: How does Ryan Umina approach high-stakes trials?
Nowhere to be found. Wow. And then the alleged victim attempted to say that, you know, because they're saying like, you're so drunk. He didn't forcibly do it. You're so drunk though, you can't give consent. And they're like, what? They're like, what happened after?
Like when she's talking to the police, he kicked me out of the room and I'm carrying my clothes down the hallway, naked to the bathroom, crying. Lo and behold, in the video, they walk out of the room, they're holding hands, she's fully clothed. They go into the bathroom. She realizes she forgot an earring. He goes back.
Gets her earring for her that she forgot because you'd remember that if you were so, you know, incoherent that, you know. And takes that back to her and holds her hand, walks her down the stairs, didn't need her.
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She didn't hold her hand. She freely kind of bounced down the stairs and, uh, goes to her friend. And then when you see, she engages the friend, the friend is angry. Right. And, uh, it's, you know, and then, and then, um, you know, what we kind of later found out is it sounds like, um, it may be, they may, maybe weren't just friends, the two gals at the party together. Wow.
So she didn't want to tell her, hey, I bounced on you to go hook up with my boyfriend, you know, dah, dah, dah, dah, dah. And it turned into police went and pulled this kid out of his bed at four o'clock in the morning, interrogated him all night, arrested him, charged him. He had to stand trial. He was kicked out of school. That's crazy.
You know, they're just, their inconsistencies were so much, you know, we had a four person was a retired, retired, you know, female school teacher, um, not guilty, you know, it gave the kids life back.
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Chapter 4: What is the significance of understanding human psychology in trials?
But, you know, we had truly innocent clients. That's the scariest thing. That's scary, man. Scariest thing you can do. I mean, it doesn't matter. You know, you try cases for money, you try cases for someone's freedom. I don't care how much money it is, dude. Nothing as live as when you wake up and you're driving to a courthouse and if you don't win, this person's getting years or life, you know?
And typically if you're going to trial, it's like there's big years on the table, you know, plus 10. Yeah. So yeah, it's- There's a lot on the line. Yeah, it gets you out of bed differently in the morning, you know? You're still a human. It's like, you know, even to now, it's, you know, we've done dozens of trials now and probably over 20 jury trials.
When I say we, my wife and I practice together. Nice. Yeah, we've tried many, many cases together. She's excellent. And- You know, so you still, it's like, you look yourself in the mirror and you put your suit on and you know, the jury walks in and it's like, you know, counsel, you may give your opening, you know, argument and it's, it's live, dude.
You got to stand up, go look at jury in the eyes and, and deliver. It's, it's an art, man. It's a fun game to play. Yeah. A lot of psychology. Tons of psychology. I would say I learned the most about psychology as really studying the craft of being a trial attorney.
Because you study everything and you learn, one of the most significant things, people don't make decisions for the reasons that they think that they make decisions. People make decisions based on their previously held beliefs. And then they're just trying to fit logic into that previously held belief and then they justify it.
But by the time they're hearing the rationale for their decision, they're justified. Wow. So they make their decision early on then. And for reasons that they don't realize. Wow. For reasons that they don't realize. The primary reason that people make decisions are survival or the appearance of danger, right? And so are you familiar with Maslow's hierarchy of needs? Heard of it. Yeah.
So it's like a triangle on the bottom is like, you know, survival, scarcity, you know, what your basic needs. And at the very top is self-actualization. And there's, you know, these different levels. And basically, if the need below isn't met, you can never get to like self-actualization. Yeah. And where a lot of messaging for different things, you know, politics, we see this a lot.
They're trying to keep you in the survival state because if you can get someone afraid, if you can grab on to fear, then you have them.
Right. The egg prices in politics, they got a lot of people on that one. The gas prices. Yeah.
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Chapter 5: How do personal biases affect jury decisions?
And then, you know, a lot of them go on to, you know, larger firms or, you know, maybe into teaching or different things like that.
Yeah. What was your toughest case? Was it a criminal case?
Yeah. Yeah. Well, toughest case I've ever had. No, it was actually a civil rights case. And it was like first kind of case that someone just brought in to me. And it was a shock. shooting uh police shooting and he had run right and uh you know they try to say he was basically being a threat with the vehicle and they shot him he was unarmed right and uh you know factually right factually um
Yes, it was likely a bad shooting. If you really looked at the physical evidence at the scene, because basically he had run and he ran out through the country and then they were already shooting at him, which they had no right to shoot at him. So he got pulled over and was on foot running? No, he was running in a car. And then they cornered him up at a well pad, right?
And the big critical piece of evidence in this was this. He's in a Jeep. It's a stick shift Jeep, right? And they attempted to say he was coming at them, right? And coming at them and shoot him. So if that is true... then yeah, he could have absolutely shot him.
However, they had pulled the body out of the Jeep and everything, and it was noted in the report that when they came, the Jeep is still running. Well, a stick shift cannot run in gear. Wow. A stick shift must be in neutral to continue to run with no one in the car.
Which means, unless he somehow, in his last dying moment, shifts the car into neutral, he couldn't have been trying to run it or whatever. Because he was backed up into the weeds. It was like a dead end. And then they shot him and then killed him. It was horrific. And they made a pretty substantial offer to settle that case. And the family just had a different number in mind.
Learned a lot about client management and that. I mean, it was a significant offer. And, you know, you get in a trial and you're doing great. And, you know, then people say things, you know, like your own witnesses that don't reflect well. And then they're not even looking at the evidence. They don't care. Once they decide they don't like this person.
And I don't think they're doing it consciously. It's just confirmation bias. Right. You know, once they decide, no, I kind of feel this way instead. Right. they will, and this is what people do, they will subconsciously diminish evidence that goes against what they're already thinking. And they will amplify evidence that they, you know, supports what they're thinking.
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Chapter 6: Why should aspiring entrepreneurs consider law school?
So, you know, from the beginning, they were just like, hey, listen, we'll leave. You leave. You know, we'll take what's ours. You take what's yours. And we're not exchanging any money. Like, see you later. Like, we're just going to we just want to go. We just want to be free. And so we walk in the second day of trial and, you know, that's how we ended up resolving the case. Jury goes home, right?
Wow. So it's resolved. We're not paying anything because they were suing us. Yeah. And so we walk out, me and the, you know, the partner I'm working for. And we hit the sidewalk and one of the jurors comes up and she's like, she's like, why'd you guys settle? And we're like, well, we didn't, we didn't have to pay anything. And, you know, we just put it behind.
She goes, she goes, they didn't have anything on you. She goes, everybody knows you don't quit one job till you have another. And yeah, man. So, so those, those little kind of, uh, you know, when people ask me stuff like this, like, When you see someone speaking publicly or speaking like that, right? It all looks very seamless, but it's tools in a tool belt. It's a polished craft.
And that's what makes it look so seamless, right? Right. And you can just grab all these little things from your tool belt, but the things that you learn Along the way and getting those skills. They are so unbelievably transferable to Especially like business. I mean life and understanding people but you know shifting into entrepreneurship and such I was just telling someone yesterday
You know, if there's a younger person or I don't even know what young means, right? Relative, right? Yeah. So someone that's like unsure and never thought about it, like people thinking about going to law school, like I would highly, highly recommend it.
Someone's thinking about going to law school and even if they want to be an entrepreneur, they want to do their own thing, especially if they want to work for themselves. Um, put in the work, like do the time and, uh, get really good at it and then go, go just, you know, you don't have to go do a whole career and then go be a public defender for three years.
Go put in some, some time in the trenches and it'll build humility. It'll build a lot of things, but you know, go to trial and that exercise, uh, I always joke like, uh, You know, if I do really, really well in my, like, grandkids' trust, I'm going to put this in there. They're going to have to go to law school, try three cases for an indigent person, and win. I love it.
And then you get your trust. That's cool. Yeah. And... The reason for that is, I mean, you develop public speaking skills, you understand persuasion, you're cool under pressure, at least you eventually get there. Right. And you're just so much more effective than not to mention, I mean, you pass the bar, you have a pretty good understanding of
most of what you need to know on the uh the things that people have to pay lawyers for yeah uh to do in business which once you start really going in any business especially if there's anything with compliance regulatory that's sometimes your greatest cost it's good to know yeah
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