Digital Social Hour
How Social Media Can Transform Your Dating Life| Logan Duong DSH #1285
Mon, 31 Mar 2025
Can social media really transform your dating life? 🤔 Tune in now to this electrifying episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly, where we break down all the insider secrets to dating success in the modern age! 🚀 From building a magnetic social media presence to navigating dating apps like a pro, our guest Logan shares his unconventional journey and game-changing tips to level up your love life. 💡 Discover how Logan harnessed the power of Instagram and dating apps to create meaningful connections, why confidence (not looks!) is the ultimate game-changer, and how maintaining mystery keeps the spark alive. ✨ Plus, shocking truths about dating dynamics, the role of mindset, and what it really takes to attract the right partner in today’s digital world! 💬 Don’t miss out! Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening conversations on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🔥 Let’s talk dating, relationships, and everything in between. Join the conversation today! 🎙️ CHAPTERS: 00:00 - How Women Are Born 00:27 - Intro 01:17 - How You Got Into This Space 04:59 - Looks Don’t Matter 06:25 - Nice Guys Finish Last 10:07 - Aries - Protect Yourself From EMF 10:51 - Would You Rather Be Hated or Ignored 12:29 - Why I Have Multiple Girlfriends 17:01 - How to Get a Girl to Commit 20:56 - Value of Men and Women 24:08 - Tate's Desired Family Size 29:48 - Dating Women with Attitudes 31:28 - Convincing Parents to Drop Out 32:57 - Boosting Dating App Matches 36:28 - Women's Body Count Limits 40:48 - Simps and OnlyFans Impact 44:44 - Dealing with Cheating 48:57 - Common Mistakes Killing Attraction 52:57 - Where to Find Logan 53:39 - Keys to a Successful Relationship 54:48 - Attracting Girls Without Money 55:30 - Prioritizing Mission Over Relationships APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: jenna@digitalsocialhour.com GUEST: Logan Duong https://www.instagram.com/theloganduong SPONSORS: AIRES TECH: https://airestech.com/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #selfimprovement #developattraction #femalenature #highvaluemen #howtoattractwomen
Chapter 1: How did Logan Duong get into the dating advice space?
All right, guys, we got Logan here today. He is going to help you pick up some ladies. Thanks for coming on, man. Let's do it. Thanks for having me on, bro. Appreciate it. Have you always had game or was it a developed skill?
Yeah. So for me, it's interesting. So I got dragged into like this whole gaming advice space accidentally. And it was just from a clip of my buddy posting like a video of me making out with some chick that I met within like 15 seconds. And it went viral. But the goal of that clip, the reason why he posted it is because we had a clothing brand at the time.
And we're trying to promote the clothing brand. And we're like, okay, the clothing brand, his name was Unbounded. And we're like, okay, Unbounded pulls bitches. And like video went viral, you know, but no one bought any clothing. Everyone in the comments was asking, how do you get girls? How did he do that?
Whatever the fuck, he's short, he's 5'7", he's Asian, never seen this happen before, what the fuck? And so it went viral. And then I started, you know, replying to people's questions, whatever, and kind of spread into this thing of me giving advice to guys. But before that, you know, I got out of a really bad relationship, right?
Heartbroken, toxic ex-girlfriend, you know, she had social media, a bunch of guy friends. I learned the hard way about that shit. And so, you know, eventually I started searching up on YouTube when I was younger. You know, how do I get better with girls? You know, why did she do these things? Whatever. I found my mentor, Coach Corey Wayne. And so he's the guy that helped me out.
And I know him very, very well now. But yeah, I watched a bunch of his videos, started getting good with the girls, started improving my life, and I started to share his work with everyone else. But everyone was like, dude, I want to learn from you. This guy's like 50. He's old. He's bald. He's talking about paging bitches and emailing bitches. So it was a little bit outdated.
And, you know, so I started talking about how to use social media, dating apps, and a bunch of other things. And that's where guys were like, okay, this is dope. This is new. This is what's right now.
It's a new era, right? Yeah, it's way different. Because before you would pick them up in person, but now with the apps, it's digital. Yeah.
Yeah, it's like once you have a social presence, bro, we don't have to leave our fucking houses. It's all automated, basically. Right. And there's different setups, too. Like, I have my girlfriend, and she's my main chick. She is on other dating apps for other girls. And she'll see swiping on other girls to bring me over other chicks for like three times. What? They're just hanging out.
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Chapter 2: Why do looks not matter as much in dating?
Chapter 3: What is the importance of social media in modern dating?
Yeah, it's like once you have a social presence, bro, we don't have to leave our fucking houses. It's all automated, basically. Right. And there's different setups, too. Like, I have my girlfriend, and she's my main chick. She is on other dating apps for other girls. And she'll see swiping on other girls to bring me over other chicks for like three times. What? They're just hanging out.
Are you serious? Yeah. You want to see the text? I'll send you the text. How did you work that out? I was sending Michael Sartain screenshots because she's like, she's over here in Cali, and we're in Vegas. And she was like matching with girls in Vegas. She's like, okay, I'm going to put you guys in a group chat. So my dating life's automated. I automated that shit, okay?
But when it comes to like regular, you know, for the average dude, right? And we can talk about that later. I'll teach guys how to do that shit later. But for the average dude, you need to have some sort of social presence or Instagram or something. Because even if you meet a grown person, she's still going to ask for your Instagram. She's like, okay, let me see your Instagram.
Because what they're looking for is, are you a fucking weirdo? Because if you have no social media and you're just an alien, that's what you look like. You have just an anonymous Instagram profile, whatever. They're like, who is this guy? And so they're trying to get more info on you. which is great if you have a good social media, you don't give away too much info.
Like if you look at my Instagram, right? You see me with girls, you see me with cars, see me in nice places. They're going to be like wondering, what does he do? That's a good setup for me, right? And, you know, it creates that spark of attraction, that interest, right? That gets her to, you know, get hooked and ask more questions. Right.
And so if you could build something like that, that's something you need to do. And I'll teach you guys how to do that as well. And like in my courses, whatever, you know, this podcast, I'll teach you guys how to do that because it's very, very valuable. And I have always had social media.
So back in like middle school, I had my own social media because I wanted to help grow other businesses, social media. So I used to walk up to restaurants, you know, tell them, yeah, I'm going to grow your social media. And I would help them do that. Right.
Because I understood that, yo, if you have a bigger social media presence, you're going to be able to sell more stuff or just at least raise the prices or do something that helps you, you know, raise the value of your brand. Right. Yeah. And so that's something that also could build a community, too. It's like when you post your customers and your clients, which I see you doing all the time.
It builds that community and builds a network, which is like another value add on to the stack. and i understood that for a long time and you know i did it for myself i did for other businesses um i didn't really see that many other guys doing it but dude in high school whatever it got me so many leads they got me so many people businesses whatever at such a young age and
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Chapter 4: Why do nice guys finish last?
I've pulled girls in wheelchairs. I went to an amusement park, put myself in a wheelchair, went around just getting girls' Instagrams and numbers just for fun, right? And so just to test it out. So it's definitely possible. And it doesn't really matter... You know, what you look like, whatever.
Because here's the thing, bro, is like girls genuinely only care about one thing and it's their feelings. That's it. They don't care about how you feel towards them. They don't care about any of that shit. They care only about how they feel towards you. And this goes down to every deepest level. You can do everything for a chick. You'd be super rich. You could buy a girl a bag.
You could buy her a fucking car. If she doesn't like you, it doesn't really matter. Yeah. She'd rather just spend five minutes with a guy that she likes rather than getting a car and a bag and all this other shit. Agreed. Do nice guys finish last? Nice guys always finish last. And the reason because nice guys finish last is because they put everyone else before them.
And when you put everyone else before you, you're always going to be losing. Because when you put other people above you and you put people on a pedestal, people don't treat you the right way, right? Whenever you put a girl on a pedestal, whenever you put a girl above you, basically as if she's better than you, which really she's not. All people are, you know, however you treat them, right?
How you view yourself is, you know, very, very important. But if you view someone better than you, instinctively, they're going to treat you less than you, right? But if you treat people as equal or sometimes even like less than you, they're also going to reciprocate that. It's just how it is.
And so, you know, the guys who are assholes, the guys who are nonchalant, basically treating everyone like whatever, those guys are most attractive. And the reason is because girls can trust that more because the guys are not trying to get anything from the girl. The reason why the girls don't really like nice guys and the guys who are people pleasers is because it's weird. You can't trust it.
It's like, why is this guy being so nice to me? Right. Because if that's it, you have everything in the world. There's no reason for you to be going out trying to do a bunch of shit for people unless you're trying to get something from them. Right. And so that's why girls instinctively understand that this guy, there's something off about this guy. The nice guy seems too desperate.
Why is he chasing after me so much? He has nothing else better to do than chase and text me and call me all day. That's literally what they're thinking. And the guy who's an asshole, the guy who has a bunch of other options, they're always questioning, does he like me? Is he into me? Why is he not texting me? Why is he not calling me? What else is he doing? Is he talking to other girls? Right.
He's already hooked, bro. Yeah. So that's the thing is, the reason why the nice guy loses is because he gives away all of his cards. He gives away all of his mysteriousness. He tells the girl he likes her. He shows too much interest. And now that's boring. And when the thing is, you know, predictableness and being too direct and sharing everything about yourself is boring to women. Absolutely.
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Chapter 5: How does Logan manage multiple relationships?
Yeah, because the thing is, when you give away all your cards, bro, there's nothing that they can play with. It's not fun. The game is no longer fun to them, right? Even with a relationship, too. And so even with a relationship, it's like, you cannot be getting complacent.
When you get complacent with a girl, she's going to start, you know, seeking attention and validation from other people, or she's going to start seeking that fun somewhere else, doing other things with her friends, whatever. So you always want to be the source of that. You always want to be the source of the fun, the attention, whatever it may be, and creating those emotions.
And so even in a relationship, you have to create that rollercoaster, right? What is he doing? What is he up to? Oh, he just flew to some other state for two weeks. What the fuck? I see him posting on Instagram. Where is he at, right? So even in a relationship, you have to create that drama, right? Even Tate says, like, you have to create the drama, right?
And it's better that you create the drama rather than some other people. Right. Because women are always going to crave it. They don't crave the drama. They crave the emotions, right? They create the feeling, right? I tell guys all the time, another reason why you need to have social media, another reason why it's okay to be the asshole is it's better to be hated than to be ignored.
And we understand this about social media too, is in social media world, it is much better to be slandered and talk shit upon and being hate or canceled than to be a nobody. Right. It is much better to have one than the other. And obviously it's better to be talked good upon, but that's not always the case. Right. Right.
So even in social media world and in every other aspect of life, it is much better to be bold, be direct, share what you believe in and, you know, have some haters than to be a nobody. Because, dude, there's going to be so many guys that, you know, are going to be afraid to say and do what they want because they're afraid of getting canceled.
They're afraid of getting hated or girls not liking them. Doesn't matter, bro. It's all, it's all publicity, right? If this girl doesn't like you, she talks whatever about you. Guess what? There's going to be her friends. It is what it is. Yeah.
So many people, when Dan Bilzerian came on the scene, hated it. Yeah. And now he was able to channel that into like a huge following.
Yeah. You know, so I agree with you. Yeah. You have to, you have to, even in the book, 40 Laws of Power talks about, right. And it's just, you, it's much better to move with being bold and direct and and to be talked shit upon than to be ignored. Because if you're ignored, bro, it's like you don't inspire emotions. You don't invoke anything. And this is why girls prefer being with a toxic asshole.
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Chapter 6: What are Logan's views on marriage and commitment?
The thing is about a girl having guy friends, each single guy friend is a guy that she has fucked, a guy that she will fuck, or a guy that she's currently fucking. That's the thing about a girl who has guy friends. And they use it as a plan B and a backup option. I'll ask you a question. Who are you going to be more committed to?
Are you going to be more committed to the girl that you are only talking to? Or are you going to be more committed to a girl where you have other girls on the side and you have other options? Only talking to. Exactly. So girls feel the same way. It's like, yo, I want the most commitment out of a girl. How do I get that? Get rid of the social media. Get rid of the guy friends.
Because here's the thing. That's even divorce rates. You think the divorce would be as high as it is now if girls weren't incentivized to get money? Girls are getting paid to get divorced. Imagine if it's like, hey, you actually lose money if you get divorced. You actually don't get the kids if you get divorced. You think divorces are going to keep going up? Exactly.
So the thing is, they're getting incentivized to have other options, to move on quicker. It's not good. It's not good for anyone. And the thing is, if she's cool and I'm cool, we're going to stay together. The thing is about Girls Bro is they can have everything under the sun. But if for whatever reason... If you are not leading the relationship, you can be the best guy for her.
You provide for her, whatever. But if you're not leading, you're not invoking her emotions, she's going to walk away. No guy's going to do that, bro. Every guy, if the girl is chill, she doesn't have to evoke no emotions. She can just be chilling. We're not going to leave her. If she doesn't cause any headaches, we're not going to leave her. That's the difference between guys and girls is like,
Girls naturally need these things, guys. We don't need those things, right? Like we can just talk to a girl, be in a relationship with her. She can be chill and we're like, all right, this is dope. It's just not how it works.
I wish, I wish. No, I've seen Myron talk about this where girls initiate divorce way more than guys, right?
Oh, a hundred percent. Yeah. 75 or some shit like that is like 75% of divorces are initiated by women or some shit. Damn, that's nuts. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cause they just get bored, right? They get bored, bro. I don't know. I don't know any guy that's talked, that's been like, you know what? This girl cooks for me. She didn't talk to anyone else. And she loves me so much.
Ah, man, I'm just going to divorce her. No. No guys ever, but I guarantee bro. I've heard this from girls all the time. You know, he was perfect He's great with the kids. Oh, he loved me so much But man, I just had to go fuck the other dude Bro, you hear it all the time, bro. It's sad.
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