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Confidence Classic: Break Toxic Relationship Patterns with Jillian Turecki, Bumble Relationship Coach & Product Advisor
09 Apr 2025
Are you tired of being stuck in the same toxic relationship patterns, wondering why love always seems to slip through your fingers? Renowned Relationship Coach, Jillian Turecki, is here to empower you to realize getting what you want out of your relationships STARTS WITH YOU. We get real about self-worth, and breaking those toxic cycles we all get stuck in. Jillian dropped some serious truth bombs about why we keep repeating the same relationship patterns and how it all starts with understanding ourselves. She'll challenge you to stop playing the victim, take radical accountability, and learn to be the chooser in your own love story. If you've ever felt stuck in relationships or wondered why you can't seem to get it right, this episode is going to be a game-changer. In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to reflect on your patterns and REWRITE the stories holding you back from LOVE and CONNECTION. Ways to own your role in relationships and focus on what YOU can change to CREATE the connection you want. Learn to communicate with confidence to express your needs to build AUTHENTIC and lasting bonds. Discover ways to BUILD your self-worth daily. Resources + Links Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN. Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Get 15% off your first order when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout at jennikayne.com. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553! Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/ Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Jillian @jillianturecki
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A lot of women, and men again will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is.
And that is, you have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing. And you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role.
Come on this journey with me. Each week when you join me, we are going to chase down our goals, overcome adversity, and set you up for a better tomorrow.
I'm ready for my close-up.
Tell me, have you been enjoying these new bonus confidence classics episodes we've been dropping on you every week? We've literally hundreds of episodes for you to listen to. So these bonuses are a great way to help you find the ones you may have already missed. I hope you love this one as much as I do.
I'm ready for my closeup.
Hi, and welcome back. I'm so glad you're back with me this week. Okay, you are going to love our guest and our conversation today, so get ready for it. Jillian Turecki is a renowned relationship coach, teacher, author, and host of the podcast Jillian on Love.
Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes relationships thrive, Jillian has helped thousands over the last 20 years through her teachings, courses, and writings to revolutionize their relationship with themselves and so that they transform their romantic relationships. Jillian has sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching, teaching, and writing.
Jillian, thank you so much for being here today.
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