Vicky Reynal
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I always invite people to be curious about what they imagine more money will get them. The other way in which I ask the question is when they say I don't have enough. I ask, well, enough for what?
I always invite people to be curious about what they imagine more money will get them. The other way in which I ask the question is when they say I don't have enough. I ask, well, enough for what?
I always invite people to be curious about what they imagine more money will get them. The other way in which I ask the question is when they say I don't have enough. I ask, well, enough for what?
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Well, in my experience, our attitude towards money is shaped throughout our life, sometimes starting quite early. And what I found working as a financial psychotherapist is that when people get stuck in behaviors that are unhelpful financially, and they kind of know what they should be doing differently, but they can't change it.
Well, in my experience, our attitude towards money is shaped throughout our life, sometimes starting quite early. And what I found working as a financial psychotherapist is that when people get stuck in behaviors that are unhelpful financially, and they kind of know what they should be doing differently, but they can't change it.
Well, in my experience, our attitude towards money is shaped throughout our life, sometimes starting quite early. And what I found working as a financial psychotherapist is that when people get stuck in behaviors that are unhelpful financially, and they kind of know what they should be doing differently, but they can't change it.
it's because there's unconscious feelings that are getting in the way.
it's because there's unconscious feelings that are getting in the way.
it's because there's unconscious feelings that are getting in the way.
And those feelings could be related to early experiences, some that are not even money related, that have nothing to do with the money lessons they learned growing up, but actually have more to do with other experiences of attaching to others or past trauma and all sorts of different experiences that I'm happy to give you examples of.
And those feelings could be related to early experiences, some that are not even money related, that have nothing to do with the money lessons they learned growing up, but actually have more to do with other experiences of attaching to others or past trauma and all sorts of different experiences that I'm happy to give you examples of.
And those feelings could be related to early experiences, some that are not even money related, that have nothing to do with the money lessons they learned growing up, but actually have more to do with other experiences of attaching to others or past trauma and all sorts of different experiences that I'm happy to give you examples of.
Yeah, so for example, I've seen overspending being linked to a desire to fit in. Maybe a desire to fit in that was rooted in experiences feeling like the odd one out in school or maybe experiences of being bullied. There's
Yeah, so for example, I've seen overspending being linked to a desire to fit in. Maybe a desire to fit in that was rooted in experiences feeling like the odd one out in school or maybe experiences of being bullied. There's
Yeah, so for example, I've seen overspending being linked to a desire to fit in. Maybe a desire to fit in that was rooted in experiences feeling like the odd one out in school or maybe experiences of being bullied. There's
other spending behaviors like um well a difficulty with spending money that could be linked to not feeling worthy worthy of the good things that money can buy and that low sense of worth could be rooted in experiences with our early caregivers. So how, whether we felt good enough in our family growing up.
other spending behaviors like um well a difficulty with spending money that could be linked to not feeling worthy worthy of the good things that money can buy and that low sense of worth could be rooted in experiences with our early caregivers. So how, whether we felt good enough in our family growing up.