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Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
He thought we just didn't want to be. Didn't want to see him. Didn't want to deal with his dying and his illness. That was what he thought. Because that's what she was telling him, too. Your family doesn't care. Your family doesn't really love you. I'm the only one. I love you. I'll take care of you. You're my hubby. Gotta stop. You're my Jakey.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
Ich fühlte, als ob sie wirklich nach der Sympathie und nach dem, wie groß ich bin, bei dem, was sie tut.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
We had just flown up to Dallas for our daughter's medical school graduation. And we went to our Airbnb and we literally had just gotten there. And my phone rings and I go over to it and it's FaceTime. I'm like, who's that? And it's Jake lying in a hospital bed. And he's like, hi, what's up? He could barely talk and it sounded like that. And I was just like... Oh mein Gott, du bist lebendig.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
Und ich sagte, Adam, komm her, komm hier jetzt. Sag mir, ob ich verursache, weil es so verdammt erstaunlich war. Ich glaube, wir sagten, du solltest tot sein. Wir dachten, du wärst tot, ja. Ich glaube, er hat gejagt. Er hat gesagt, bin ich in der Hölle? Sind wir alle in der Hölle? Er hatte noch einen Sinn für Humor, da und da. Und so haben wir kleine Teile zusammengefasst.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
Und an diesem Punkt war er noch mit Elle, aber er hat angefangen, ein bisschen über sie zu reden. Aber dann kamen unsere Kinder und wir sagten, komm her, komm her, du wirst es nicht glauben. Und alle waren einfach überrascht. Es war ein sehr, sehr glücklicher Schock. Warst du derjenige, der die News anderen in der Familie geliefert hat? Ja, ich musste Jerome wissen, was wirklich seltsam war.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
Was? Warum nicht? Und er sagte, ich bin verrückt an ihm. Ich sagte, warum bist du verrückt an ihm? Und er sagte, er hat mich verletzt. So, she had told Jake about the whole strangling, quote-unquote, and Jake at that point still believed her.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
7: The Resurrection of Jake
So yeah, I had to call Jerome. But he, you know, he wasn't, he didn't spend a moment being hurt that Jake didn't want to call him. He was just so happy he was alive and improving. And he said, we'll work it out eventually. It'll be, don't worry about me. That was his reaction, don't worry about me.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
3: Wayward Son
But I was still so afraid that her water was going to break as she was walking down the aisle, you know.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
3: Wayward Son
Such a cute baby and toddler. And he was so funny as a toddler already. I remember us saying, he's going to end up being a stand-up comic. And so now we say he's a sit-down comic.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
3: Wayward Son
Then his personality totally changed. He became depressed as a four-year-old because they got divorced when he was four. And I know they got him therapy and everything, but still, I think that's when the downward spiral began.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
3: Wayward Son
One time Jake was home alone with Max. Max was like five or six years old. Max went after Jake with a knife. And that's when they realized that Max had a terrible mental illness and had to be institutionalized.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
5: Making Peace with Death
Jerome can do or say whatever he wants. I'm not afraid of him. He's so incredibly weak. I could take him. LOL. I can't live with Jerome. I don't know what we are going to do. I wish Jerome would just die. It's hard to make peace with someone you don't like. So she made it very clear that, yeah, Jerome was the enemy.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
5: Making Peace with Death
Ellen typed, She shouldn't be traveling if she is sick. That is extremely selfish. Just go be a bitch to someone else. Your family is so fucked up. And that's when I totally lost it with her, and that's when my communications with her ended. I said, You are the biggest bitch I've ever encountered. You have no filter and no respect for anyone.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
5: Making Peace with Death
Today I finally let my filter go as you got my blood boiling. It's quite clear that you have a borderline personality disorder. Go get some help. Let's go back to not talking anymore. I'm done. And she wrote back, I'm only a bitch to people like you that are incompetent and delusional. Your family are the most fucked up people I've ever met. It's no wonder I'm a bitch to you people.
Blink | Jake Haendel's Story
5: Making Peace with Death
You should honestly expect it by now, you ignorant, arrogant bitch. And that was the last time I had any communication with her.