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Topher Payne

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TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

And so don't give till it hurts and certainly don't give past hurting.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

And the tree does.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

"'I am too busy to climb trees,' said the boy.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

"'I want a house to keep me warm,' he said.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

"'I want a wife and I want children, and so I need a house.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

"'Can you give me a house?'

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

And the tree said, "'Okay, hold up, this is already getting out of hand.'

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

Look, I was fine with giving you the apples to help you get on your feet.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

They'll grow back next season anyway.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

But no, I'm not giving you a house.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

You know, I've seen boys like you pull this nonsense with other trees in the forest.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

First it's the apples, then branches, then the trunk.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

And before you know it, that mighty beautiful tree is just a sad little stump.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

Well, look here, boy.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

I love you like family, but I am not going down like that.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

And as each generation played in her strong old branches, the tree often thought back to the fateful day when the boy had asked her for a house.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

In truth, she would have gladly given him her branches to build one.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

She would have given him her trunk to build a boat.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

She loved him that much.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to say no | WorkLife with Adam Grant

But then she would have had nothing left.