Tommy Metz III
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It's kind of interesting. I know it's greed adjacent, but there's ways of looking at greedy behavior and seeing it as something else. In the way that I was trying to reposition or take your rationalization and make it a justification for your phone, you are using the entire buffalo.
It's kind of interesting. I know it's greed adjacent, but there's ways of looking at greedy behavior and seeing it as something else. In the way that I was trying to reposition or take your rationalization and make it a justification for your phone, you are using the entire buffalo.
If you were just taking it, putting it on a shelf, or just showing people it and not really using it, if I just owned all these movies and never watched them again and just stacked them up, that's different. But I think the idea of that it's not a lack of control, that maybe grabbing these immediate rewards sometimes is more...
If you were just taking it, putting it on a shelf, or just showing people it and not really using it, if I just owned all these movies and never watched them again and just stacked them up, that's different. But I think the idea of that it's not a lack of control, that maybe grabbing these immediate rewards sometimes is more...
Would it, though, in the marshmallow situation? Because the marshmallow definitely would in the Halloween candy one. Yes. That person did not learn any empathy. It's like they wanted to inflict what they felt on the first three houses to everyone else.
Would it, though, in the marshmallow situation? Because the marshmallow definitely would in the Halloween candy one. Yes. That person did not learn any empathy. It's like they wanted to inflict what they felt on the first three houses to everyone else.
I think... In like the Halloween example, or like you were saying, what are the tools that you use to try to, if you feel like you're getting greedy, is try to see what's really going on. Like when I really, really, really want something, a lot of times it's because it's just, it's like heightened attention. Yeah. Like someone has pointed it out. Like I'm never hungrier.
I think... In like the Halloween example, or like you were saying, what are the tools that you use to try to, if you feel like you're getting greedy, is try to see what's really going on. Like when I really, really, really want something, a lot of times it's because it's just, it's like heightened attention. Yeah. Like someone has pointed it out. Like I'm never hungrier.
then the minute I have to start fasting for a colonoscopy. And it's like, I'm not hungry. I can't be hungry. But as soon as you say you can't have anything but broth, all I can think about is nachos.
then the minute I have to start fasting for a colonoscopy. And it's like, I'm not hungry. I can't be hungry. But as soon as you say you can't have anything but broth, all I can think about is nachos.
And it's like, I wasn't thinking about nachos five minutes ago, but it's the perceived scarcity and it's psychological reactance is what that's also called is you don't like being to be told what you can and can't do. And so you immediately take the something and, you know, a really amplify its importance or your fair need for it. Okay.
And it's like, I wasn't thinking about nachos five minutes ago, but it's the perceived scarcity and it's psychological reactance is what that's also called is you don't like being to be told what you can and can't do. And so you immediately take the something and, you know, a really amplify its importance or your fair need for it. Okay.
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I have a theory that I just thought of just now, so I don't know how great it is. So it's well studied.
I have a theory that I just thought of just now, so I don't know how great it is. So it's well studied.
Yes. So do not. So like get Wikipedia on the phone and just start typing. Right now. Okay. I think part of that comes from, especially in the idea of, let's say, Bonfire of the Vanities or Wall Street. These type of jobs can, for a lot of people, what they're hiding or what's being missed is actually creating something.
Yes. So do not. So like get Wikipedia on the phone and just start typing. Right now. Okay. I think part of that comes from, especially in the idea of, let's say, Bonfire of the Vanities or Wall Street. These type of jobs can, for a lot of people, what they're hiding or what's being missed is actually creating something.
having something and making it different in there's the golden little crumbs speech in bonfire, the vanities where she's like, do you make things? And the, the wife who is mad that the main guy is like, Oh no, they just take, they don't make anything. They just move things around.
having something and making it different in there's the golden little crumbs speech in bonfire, the vanities where she's like, do you make things? And the, the wife who is mad that the main guy is like, Oh no, they just take, they don't make anything. They just move things around.