Steven Bartlett
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That was a really important thing. And money.
That was a really important thing. And money.
That was a really important thing. And money.
But money is this alien thing to the brain that we still have today. So it's actually just an emotional proxy for how you feel about yourself and that early context of love, attachment, abundance. And I think if you see it as a person in the room, and then you ask yourself the question, how did that person treat me growing up? Did I have that secure attachment to it? Were they absent sometimes?
But money is this alien thing to the brain that we still have today. So it's actually just an emotional proxy for how you feel about yourself and that early context of love, attachment, abundance. And I think if you see it as a person in the room, and then you ask yourself the question, how did that person treat me growing up? Did I have that secure attachment to it? Were they absent sometimes?
But money is this alien thing to the brain that we still have today. So it's actually just an emotional proxy for how you feel about yourself and that early context of love, attachment, abundance. And I think if you see it as a person in the room, and then you ask yourself the question, how did that person treat me growing up? Did I have that secure attachment to it? Were they absent sometimes?
Was there a longingness to be closer to them? Then it helps you to understand the relationship you have today.
Was there a longingness to be closer to them? Then it helps you to understand the relationship you have today.
Was there a longingness to be closer to them? Then it helps you to understand the relationship you have today.
For many, many reasons. The reason why I ended up in debt was because of my unhealthy relationship with money. Essentially, my spending is very, very simple. My spending was higher than my revenue, but I also didn't understand this thing called credit because nobody had told me. I didn't have financial literacy at all.
For many, many reasons. The reason why I ended up in debt was because of my unhealthy relationship with money. Essentially, my spending is very, very simple. My spending was higher than my revenue, but I also didn't understand this thing called credit because nobody had told me. I didn't have financial literacy at all.
For many, many reasons. The reason why I ended up in debt was because of my unhealthy relationship with money. Essentially, my spending is very, very simple. My spending was higher than my revenue, but I also didn't understand this thing called credit because nobody had told me. I didn't have financial literacy at all.
When I was 18 years old and I started working in call centers and I got my own money, When I got my paycheck, I would go and buy a plasma screen TV, the biggest one I could possibly buy. And get this, I'd put the plasma TV up like that. I couldn't afford cable to actually. And then a week later, because I couldn't pay my rent and I couldn't feed myself, I would sell the plasma TV.
When I was 18 years old and I started working in call centers and I got my own money, When I got my paycheck, I would go and buy a plasma screen TV, the biggest one I could possibly buy. And get this, I'd put the plasma TV up like that. I couldn't afford cable to actually. And then a week later, because I couldn't pay my rent and I couldn't feed myself, I would sell the plasma TV.
When I was 18 years old and I started working in call centers and I got my own money, When I got my paycheck, I would go and buy a plasma screen TV, the biggest one I could possibly buy. And get this, I'd put the plasma TV up like that. I couldn't afford cable to actually. And then a week later, because I couldn't pay my rent and I couldn't feed myself, I would sell the plasma TV.
This was a cycle. Wow. I had all kinds of really unhealthy, toxic relationships with this thing called money. I've never actually said this before, but when I got my student loan, I took half of it and I bet it on a football game.
This was a cycle. Wow. I had all kinds of really unhealthy, toxic relationships with this thing called money. I've never actually said this before, but when I got my student loan, I took half of it and I bet it on a football game.
This was a cycle. Wow. I had all kinds of really unhealthy, toxic relationships with this thing called money. I've never actually said this before, but when I got my student loan, I took half of it and I bet it on a football game.
It wasn't a good game. But it was just... It was Stokes. I didn't even like the team. But it was... I was so... It goes back to what I said earlier. The thing that invalidates you when you're younger is the thing you end up seeking validation from when you're older. So... The dopamine hit I could have got from winning would have filled some kind of hole in my insecurities.
It wasn't a good game. But it was just... It was Stokes. I didn't even like the team. But it was... I was so... It goes back to what I said earlier. The thing that invalidates you when you're younger is the thing you end up seeking validation from when you're older. So... The dopamine hit I could have got from winning would have filled some kind of hole in my insecurities.