Steve Bartlett

And this is going on in dating at the moment. Do you know what it was? A friend of mine, we were having a debate actually in the room over there a couple of days ago, and they were saying to me, I just need to meet more guys. And I'm sat there thinking, your actual job is networking. Like, you get paid to meet people. You know more people than anyone I know.

And this is going on in dating at the moment. Do you know what it was? A friend of mine, we were having a debate actually in the room over there a couple of days ago, and they were saying to me, I just need to meet more guys. And I'm sat there thinking, your actual job is networking. Like, you get paid to meet people. You know more people than anyone I know.

I could say right now, I could say to this person, I need a chiropractor in Las Vegas. And this person should go... I know the guy. Oh, wow. So I was saying, like, the issue might be that you have too many options. Too much jam. Too much jam.

I could say right now, I could say to this person, I need a chiropractor in Las Vegas. And this person should go... I know the guy. Oh, wow. So I was saying, like, the issue might be that you have too many options. Too much jam. Too much jam.

You must meet people, though, that they've been on like 100 dates and they tell you that they just can't find the person. And you go 100 dates like 100 years ago, you wouldn't even know 100 people.

You must meet people, though, that they've been on like 100 dates and they tell you that they just can't find the person. And you go 100 dates like 100 years ago, you wouldn't even know 100 people.

And you'd be happily married.

And you'd be happily married.

Checklists?

Checklists?

So she was judging him based on his personality.

So she was judging him based on his personality.

So you're trying to get through the list.

So you're trying to get through the list.

Do you think there's also an element that we've got more and more ambivalent with... The more and more we date, the more it becomes transactional, the more we show up without passion or interest or curiosity?

Do you think there's also an element that we've got more and more ambivalent with... The more and more we date, the more it becomes transactional, the more we show up without passion or interest or curiosity?

I was just thinking that about something someone said to me a couple of days ago, which links to what you're saying. Someone said to me that much of the

I was just thinking that about something someone said to me a couple of days ago, which links to what you're saying. Someone said to me that much of the

of the incel culture is these young men spend lots of time playing video games and the video games gives them the sense of accomplishment the sense of building it also gives them the like dopamine hit when you like win a sword or some coins or something and so I was just also thinking about that in the context of being like a workaholic like if I'm working all day every day on a screen and I'm constant which is what I do when it comes to like going out and meeting people and networking for me it's like hell and I'm wondering if there's a link there I'm like maybe if I wasn't on the screen or for like

of the incel culture is these young men spend lots of time playing video games and the video games gives them the sense of accomplishment the sense of building it also gives them the like dopamine hit when you like win a sword or some coins or something and so I was just also thinking about that in the context of being like a workaholic like if I'm working all day every day on a screen and I'm constant which is what I do when it comes to like going out and meeting people and networking for me it's like hell and I'm wondering if there's a link there I'm like maybe if I wasn't on the screen or for like