Sawyer (Mel's daughter)

What I was going to say is, I think for me personally, when I first met Darren, I also was uninterested in dating. I also was completely over it and still not over even another guy that I was seeing before that. And so I think

What I was going to say is, I think for me personally, when I first met Darren, I also was uninterested in dating. I also was completely over it and still not over even another guy that I was seeing before that. And so I think

you feeling like no one is good enough or I don't want to date and I'm so uninterested in these people is not only normal, but I do think that paying close attention to who makes you feel safe, who sparks your interest, who makes you smile and laugh, those are all little pieces of data that can tell you, oh, maybe I want to explore this. And are they going to be here forever? No.

you feeling like no one is good enough or I don't want to date and I'm so uninterested in these people is not only normal, but I do think that paying close attention to who makes you feel safe, who sparks your interest, who makes you smile and laugh, those are all little pieces of data that can tell you, oh, maybe I want to explore this. And are they going to be here forever? No.

you feeling like no one is good enough or I don't want to date and I'm so uninterested in these people is not only normal, but I do think that paying close attention to who makes you feel safe, who sparks your interest, who makes you smile and laugh, those are all little pieces of data that can tell you, oh, maybe I want to explore this. And are they going to be here forever? No.

But I remember when I first met Darren way back when, I wasn't interested. I wasn't... It took me a long time to become and develop and develop that safety and that love and that support. And it's just not immediate with anyone.

But I remember when I first met Darren way back when, I wasn't interested. I wasn't... It took me a long time to become and develop and develop that safety and that love and that support. And it's just not immediate with anyone.

But I remember when I first met Darren way back when, I wasn't interested. I wasn't... It took me a long time to become and develop and develop that safety and that love and that support. And it's just not immediate with anyone.

I think that the spark is important, though, and that's what we feel when we're growing up and we're little. And you are trained to look for that. Disney trained you for that. That's not how the real world works.

I think that the spark is important, though, and that's what we feel when we're growing up and we're little. And you are trained to look for that. Disney trained you for that. That's not how the real world works.

I think that the spark is important, though, and that's what we feel when we're growing up and we're little. And you are trained to look for that. Disney trained you for that. That's not how the real world works.

I love that. So question number three is from Tim, who is 27. Even though we've broken up, so much of what I do still involves my ex. I want to look good in case she sees me. I want to post on social media for her to see. I want to date someone else to make her jealous. How do I stop living my life for her and start living it for me? Tim.

I love that. So question number three is from Tim, who is 27. Even though we've broken up, so much of what I do still involves my ex. I want to look good in case she sees me. I want to post on social media for her to see. I want to date someone else to make her jealous. How do I stop living my life for her and start living it for me? Tim.

I love that. So question number three is from Tim, who is 27. Even though we've broken up, so much of what I do still involves my ex. I want to look good in case she sees me. I want to post on social media for her to see. I want to date someone else to make her jealous. How do I stop living my life for her and start living it for me? Tim.

Thanks, Mom.

Thanks, Mom.

Thanks, Mom.

And what I will say to you, mom, is thank you so much for using the let them theory with me and actually letting me process and saying let them every day and giving me the space that I really needed to move through this and process this. And I couldn't have done it without you. Oh, well, I think you could have.

And what I will say to you, mom, is thank you so much for using the let them theory with me and actually letting me process and saying let them every day and giving me the space that I really needed to move through this and process this. And I couldn't have done it without you. Oh, well, I think you could have.

And what I will say to you, mom, is thank you so much for using the let them theory with me and actually letting me process and saying let them every day and giving me the space that I really needed to move through this and process this. And I couldn't have done it without you. Oh, well, I think you could have.