Rachel Cruze

But then emotionally, like there's something about it that's so uniting. And again, I understand the second marriages. There's some hesitation with this for a lot of people.

But then emotionally, like there's something about it that's so uniting. And again, I understand the second marriages. There's some hesitation with this for a lot of people.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Or if you want to go buy something big and she's like, how much is it? Like, you know, just double checking. Exactly. Yeah.

Or if you want to go buy something big and she's like, how much is it? Like, you know, just double checking. Exactly. Yeah.

Or if you want to go buy something big and she's like, how much is it? Like, you know, just double checking. Exactly. Yeah.

Yes. And you both coming from similar situations, maybe the cause of it is different, but that is built in empathy, right? You're both coming from situations. So that's the positive. Well, we talked to some people and, you know, they marry someone who was divorced and they don't trust them now. You know, it's like this whole thing. So hopefully there's some of that empathy.

Yes. And you both coming from similar situations, maybe the cause of it is different, but that is built in empathy, right? You're both coming from situations. So that's the positive. Well, we talked to some people and, you know, they marry someone who was divorced and they don't trust them now. You know, it's like this whole thing. So hopefully there's some of that empathy.

Yes. And you both coming from similar situations, maybe the cause of it is different, but that is built in empathy, right? You're both coming from situations. So that's the positive. Well, we talked to some people and, you know, they marry someone who was divorced and they don't trust them now. You know, it's like this whole thing. So hopefully there's some of that empathy.

But I really would, Jessica, sit down together and you guys just... That's good. Just put it all in one pile because there's just something about it that I think can be very energizing where a lot of people feel a lot of fear around that and a lot of caution, which is understandable. But once you just pretend, you're like, we're not really doing it right now.

But I really would, Jessica, sit down together and you guys just... That's good. Just put it all in one pile because there's just something about it that I think can be very energizing where a lot of people feel a lot of fear around that and a lot of caution, which is understandable. But once you just pretend, you're like, we're not really doing it right now.

But I really would, Jessica, sit down together and you guys just... That's good. Just put it all in one pile because there's just something about it that I think can be very energizing where a lot of people feel a lot of fear around that and a lot of caution, which is understandable. But once you just pretend, you're like, we're not really doing it right now.

Let's just pretend and have fun and take out a sheet of paper and just start... figuring this out, like there's something about it that is really uniting. And you can see how fast you guys can move together. And that's the other big thing couples miss out on. That's one of the biggest arguments is we feel like, well, we just have separate accounts completely. And you lose the synergy.

Let's just pretend and have fun and take out a sheet of paper and just start... figuring this out, like there's something about it that is really uniting. And you can see how fast you guys can move together. And that's the other big thing couples miss out on. That's one of the biggest arguments is we feel like, well, we just have separate accounts completely. And you lose the synergy.

Let's just pretend and have fun and take out a sheet of paper and just start... figuring this out, like there's something about it that is really uniting. And you can see how fast you guys can move together. And that's the other big thing couples miss out on. That's one of the biggest arguments is we feel like, well, we just have separate accounts completely. And you lose the synergy.

Yeah, there's just something that's like, you're just going to go at a certain pace your whole life financially with that mindset. And so there's something really powerful about it. But I think it's a fair question. And we get... Yeah, I mean, the blended family thing is real. And even, you know, if there's people coming in with, I know we've got, we got a question.

Yeah, there's just something that's like, you're just going to go at a certain pace your whole life financially with that mindset. And so there's something really powerful about it. But I think it's a fair question. And we get... Yeah, I mean, the blended family thing is real. And even, you know, if there's people coming in with, I know we've got, we got a question.

Yeah, there's just something that's like, you're just going to go at a certain pace your whole life financially with that mindset. And so there's something really powerful about it. But I think it's a fair question. And we get... Yeah, I mean, the blended family thing is real. And even, you know, if there's people coming in with, I know we've got, we got a question.