Nancy
Appearances
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Nancy wanted the sex of the baby to be a surprise. When she came out, there was a girl. He actually had a frown on his face. I said, I don't care if it was a frog. All that I went through, you better be happy.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I was just in awe of her every day. She was a wonderful, wonderful little girl.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He always took care of my daughter. Always. Like, he diapered her. Not two dampers. Diapered. Like, washing material diapers. He made her baby food. He's the one that got up in the middle of the night. I didn't change poopy diapers because he did that. All of it.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He did all the cooking. He did all the cleaning. I could tell him, oh, I'm so tired. I'm coming home from work. He'd have a bath ready for me. He'd have a glass of wine for me.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
We worked together in the house without effort. Not like, OK, you're going to do this and I'm going to. We just did it. Like, even my mother used to say, you guys just do things effortlessly.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
The romance was still there, as far as I'm concerned. That didn't change at all.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
She was like, every time I see you guys, you're so close. She was like, he's mowing the lawn and you're right next to him. I'm like picking weeds. But we were. We were always close together like that. Always. At the time, Nancy worked at a bank. I had a computer to take home just in case it was inclement weather.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I had told them, this is just my work computer. Only I can go on. All right. Everybody knew that. Well and good. One day I went on the computer and a dating website popped up. It was called adultfinder.com. I'll never forget it now. The username was there, but the password wasn't there.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I'm like, Peter Parker. So I'm like, somebody got my computer and put their name on there. I'm thinking Peter Parker's a person. And I'm like, Seth, what is, did you see that? He was like, oh, those things are like pop-ups. And I'm like, oh my God, let me call my company and let them know I did not go on that website. And they took it at face value. They didn't dig into it or nothing like that.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
This is a freaking Lifetime movie. And I said, he deserves an Oscar. He really deserves an Oscar. I'm like, am I losing my mind? I couldn't believe it was happening to me.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I went to every after school program and every play and I was always by myself. because he was working.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And we always talk about retirement in Jamaica. I have a house there. Up in the hills where his father had a house, it's beautiful up there. The air and everything is different. We had a book and everything that we wrote and what we want, what we're going to do.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
When she got older, like 10, 11, we would go to the mall. I would go one way and they would go another because they're going to the video game store and I'm in Macy's or JCB or something. And we had walkie-talkies. We had walkie-talkies. It was cute. We had a lot of fun with her.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Well, I called him at work for something. I can't remember what it was. And they said he's not here. I'm like, oh, did he go to the bathroom? You know, no, he's not. Today's his day off. He's not doing overtime today. No. So when he got home at midnight, when he normally gets home, he comes in the door. I didn't mention to him that I knew he wasn't at work.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I said, oh, you're home a little bit later than normal. I was like, I know there ain't no traffic at this time. Are you OK? Yeah.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He was like, we were talking a long time because he was telling me that he cheated on his girlfriend and she found out. And that's why we was talking. He needed somebody to talk to. I was like, wow, a woman always finds out what you do in the dark comes to light. Don't forget.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Once you put it out there that you don't trust them, your whole relationship changes. It can really ruin even like a friendship. Say you and I, if we're friends and my pocketbook is missing, I put it in the wrong place. But now I'm like, did you take my pocketbook? Our friendship is over. It's over. You just have to be careful with stuff like that.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
You know, so I was kind of stuck until I can get something tangible.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I saw a figure next to him. And I was half asleep and half awake, and I stood back to sleep. And I talked to him the next day, and I said, were you okay last night? Did anything different happen? He goes, yeah, I almost got into a car accident. We were the only two cars in the road. I almost got in a car accident. And I was like, I figured something was wrong. He said, why?
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I told him the story, how I saw the figure. I said, that was your guardian angel. That saved him.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
After that, you can tell he was so nervous to do anything wrong.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I'm not checking your pockets and your cell phone records and finding out where you're going or following you. I'm not doing that. I'm not checking no man like that. I don't have time for that.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I told him I kept having a reoccurring dream of him being with somebody else.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Every year, we always said we would buy each other just one gift, and we'd splurge everything else on our daughter. And we did that for the longest time. Well, this Christmas, I got, it was an iPod at the time, the skinny one. And he got it engraved in back with a whole paragraph. I love you. I love you to the day I die. I'm like, oh, wow.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I got the Nikes with the pedometer that was inside the shoe. I mean, he gave me so many, and it was expensive gifts. And I'm like, why'd you buy me so much? He's like, I just wanted to. I'm like, okay.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He was so quiet. Like, he's a quiet person anyway, but I mean, nothing. After we did the gifts, we were going to my mother's house in Boston. Not a word driving there. Not a word during dinner. Not a word coming back home. And I was like, what's wrong with you? Are you sick? What's wrong? He was like, nothing. I was like, something's wrong. What's the matter? Nothing. Okay. We went to bed.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Two o'clock, I got up. I said, I can't take it anymore. Something is wrong. What is wrong with you? He jumps out of the bed and he gets on his knees like he's going to pray and closes his eyes and said, I got another woman pregnant.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
It was like somebody, like, boom, right in my chest. I finally came to, and I just said, well, I guess you just have to go. He said, just like that? I said, yeah, just like that. He goes, you're not even going to try to fight for me. I said, how can I fight for something I already lost? I said, you can come get your stuff later. For now, you have to go like right now.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Because if you don't, I really don't think you're worth going to jail for. So I really think you should leave.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
She's like, I can't, I really can't believe this because you would have never known that. And she loved him to death. She said, he deserves an Oscar. He really deserves an Oscar.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And that's when I asked, how long have you been seeing her? He admitted to four years. He goes, I know you knew. I was like, how? When you told me about that guardian angel, I knew you knew then.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
When I was born, they told my mother that I'm going to die in three days because I have a pinhole in my heart and a twisted bowel. She's like, I don't think so. She took me home. They told her, well, she's going to have to have open heart surgery by the time she's five. Didn't. Well, she's going to have to have at least by 18 or she's going to die. Didn't. I'm 55.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I said, and who the hell is Peter Parker? He said, it's Spider-Man, like I was supposed to know. I was like, what? He said, that's his real name. I said, so what does that have to do with you? Because you're not a damn Spider-Man. He said, it's my favorite character. Okay, Spider-Man.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He's like, you're divorcing me? I said, dude, you're not getting it? I told you, you gotta go. What, you think I just want you to go spend the night somewhere and just come back home? No. Done. Done.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He eventually told me the whole story. And I said, why me? He said, as my uncle would say, why not you?
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He goes, well, I came to America with a visa. I was only supposed to stay for six months. I started a job and I decided I wanted to stay. And he said, Marvin told him that you have to get your green card. And to get that, he would have to get married. And I said, oh, okay. He goes, well, it was you. I said, it was me. Like I was chosen. He said, yeah.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
So our relationship was set up from the beginning and I had no idea.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I'm only 4'11". And when I was five years old, I think, I actually have a picture. I look like I'm two. So everybody treated me like I was a baby all the time.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
His uncle had his eye on me and invited me to the club. When I came to the club, he made sure his nephew was there, made sure his nephew danced with me.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He told me his uncle was like, she looks like she has money. He's the one that put us together for this crappy green card.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He goes, I have to go back. And I'm like, oh no, I need you to have the baby. So I said, so we can't get married then? Because I didn't know. He goes, yeah, we can, but that changes everything. I just have to go and make it right at the immigration office with the certificate called a green card.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I was like, okay, so what do we need to do? He's like, well, it's easier and faster if we have a lawyer. And I said, okay. So I spent $10,000 of my own money to get the lawyer.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I definitely feel like I was singled out. Fortunately for them, it worked out and Seth got his green card. Marvin was the mastermind of the whole thing.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He goes, well, you told me you couldn't have any children that fit into the plan, that I wouldn't have to have any connection with you. I said, wow, you guys are evil. That is evil.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I said, okay, well, we were married for 15 years. So I don't understand. He said, well, I know I'm going to hell because I had to stay married to you a little bit longer because my girlfriend in Jamaica said, wanted to come here and for me to be able to bring her here, I had to show that I was economically fit to be able to bring her here.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He knew her In Jamaica, I don't know if it was since they were kids or all their life, I'm not sure, but he brought her here from Jamaica.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He told me that day because she was pregnant again. So there were four. She was pregnant with the fifth. At that point, he couldn't take it anymore, like do what he was doing financially with me and our daughter. He said he had come to a point where it was just becoming too much.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I even remember being over at her friend's house. We'd be playing with their children and they'd be in the kitchen talking, drinking or whatever. And I would hear her crying and telling her friend, I'm so afraid that she's just going to die on me one day. I never told her I heard that. Never.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I still feel that way. I don't know what was real or not. I feel like I'm going to cry because I feel so stupid. Everything was fake. Who was I living with? Are the walls real? Am I going to push them down? We're on a television program. What is this?
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I had moved to a smaller townhouse. I was going back and forth to the home that we owned together, Seth and I. because I had to figure out what I was bringing to my new home.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
One day I went during the day, and I went to open the door with my key, but someone on the other side of the door opened it for me. Someone's in my house. scared the living crap out of me. I'm like, who are you? He's like, who are you? I'm like, this is my house.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I was only on the deed and not the mortgage, so I guess I didn't need to be there for the sale of the home.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
My diaries and my ledgers that I've been writing in since I was 12, 13, up until that point, I had like a memory box that I had my daughter's baby shoes in it. It had hair bows of hers, little things like memory stuff, ornaments that meant some, you know, baby's first Christmas, things like that. All of that was gone. And it was just devastating.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He has this whole other new family to go to as if he didn't have to skip a beat while I'm scratching and scrounging to try to move and find out where I can live best for me and my daughter. And it just didn't seem fair.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I don't remember three years of that after the divorce. I was like in a fog. I don't know any other way to explain it. And I told my mother, I lost like two or three years of my life. I didn't even know what happened in between that because I was just going. Her daughter got her through those difficult years. And she was always my priority. Always.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Even though I was considered ill with the twisted bowel haunt murmur, I was born a warrior.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And after time went on, I can talk about this without crying, without being upset. Like, he doesn't deserve my tears. That's not my fault. I did survive, and I feel stronger now than I did before. The resilience in me, nobody can take that from me.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
It is my story and I want to tell it. Maybe somebody's in it right now and they're not thinking about it because this happens too much. And it's somebody's life, you know. I have a lot to give from that heartache that can turn into a good thing.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I didn't hang out with friends on a Saturday night. I hang out with my mother because she's just my best friend. Everybody loved her because she was just down to earth.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Back in the day, my mother and my father used to get pulled over a lot. And the cops would ask my mother, is he hurting you? Because she's white.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
It's like, what's wrong with your mother? There's nothing wrong with my mother. What are you talking about? My mother never paid attention to it. She said, if you pay attention, that's giving them more energy to do what they're doing.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
So I'm like, who is this person? And he was extremely handsome.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
So he heard that I loved soft-serve vanilla ice cream with colored jimmies. From that day on, we were together.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
We were a class couple. Of course we were. We were together all the time. It was like nothing could come between us.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I had heard that there was this extremely bad car accident. And I was in a school that sat up on a hill. So you could see, like, the police cars and the ambulances and all that. That looks like a really bad accident up there. Everybody knew but me. Nobody wanted to tell me because they were afraid to tell me.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
When I found out, the person who told me said he was in a car accident and he died. I passed out, woke up in the nurse's office, and I'm like, I didn't just hear what she said. The nurse said he wasn't a car accident, but he's not dead. He was in a coma for three days. I went every day, waited in the room, every day, waited in the room, talked to him.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
But when he woke up, it was a different person. You know, they asked things like, when's your birthday? What's your name? Who's the president? Things like that. He said his name was Robert something, and he was born in 1921.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
After that, he started smoking cigarettes. He never smoked. He was, like, completely against it. He started drinking, swearing, and he was, like, mean sometimes. And I'm like, who is this person? I'm just like, OK, it's going to get better. It's going to get better. And now it got better.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I had a beautiful condo. My house was fully furnished.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I worked in the financial district. There was always construction going on at the Liberty Mutual building. You know, the construction guys would do the cat calling when the girls walked by. But there was this one guy, he was just, when he's having lunch, I'm going to lunch, he's having his lunch.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And then he invited me to this club that he belonged to. It was like a dance club. It was like a Caribbean cultural club.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
So when I went into the club, I was expecting to see Marvin, you know, let him know that I did come for his invitation. And I never saw him that night at all.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He asked me to dance. I danced. To me, it's just a dance. I went to sit back down with my friends and continue hanging out. And he asked me to dance again. All right, I'm going to dance again.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
Well, being 4'11", it is awkward because everybody's going to be taller than you. Yeah, he's 6'3".
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
By that time, the night was ending, and he comes running out the club.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I'll never forget. It was a Sunday. It was two o'clock in the afternoon and he called. He said he was working. He was a butchie. He was like, oh, I want to come see you after I got off work. I said, all right. He was like, where do you live? I said, I live on River Street. He goes, really?
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
So he told me about, you know, living in Jamaica and that he was here on a visa.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He actually cooked it at his house and brought it to my house. That was like... So it's Jamaican food. It was a red snapper. Delicious, absolutely delicious. He was an excellent cook.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I always tell people, you sweep me off my feet. I would say the biggest attraction was he was pleasant and calm and respectful. He'd treat me like a lady. He was good to me and everything just seemed like it clicked.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I was like, you do the construction at Liberty Mutual, right? He's like, yeah, yeah, I see you when you're going to lunch sometime. Yeah. I said, wow, what a small world.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I went every year with friends or whenever. And I stayed at Bayview Beach. every year, right across from the beach. And I know that's where I conceived my child. I know that for a fact.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
We went to City Hall to register for the marriage certificate. I'm four months pregnant, and the lady gives you the paper. It's split in the middle. Your information is here, and his information is here. And I was like, oh, they have your birth date wrong. He's like, no, that's right. I said, no, it's not. He's like, It is. Well, you can't be 26 with this date of birth. He was 19.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He had to make up that age for me to be interested. Because if he told me he was 19, I would have definitely not dated him, he said. I said, you're right. So he lied to be able to date me. I just stood there for a minute. The place that you get the marriage certificate was at the bottom floor in the building where there is an echo because there is a big square with balconies.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
And I screamed out, what? And it echoes all over the place. All you saw was people coming over and looking down.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
He didn't comprehend that it was wrong. Like telling a child that it's wrong to play in the dirt and they look at you like, why not? Like that. You know, like, what's the problem? I'm like, you know what, what do I do at this point? I got a marriage certificate in one hand and a baby in the belly.
Betrayal: Season 4
Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy
I think I was more in love with my baby than any situation. I wanted her to have a married mom and dad, and I wanted everything for her. So that was in my head.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
So I'm Nancy and I've come to this school with my granddaughters and my daughter.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
But everything is hard. My struggle made me feel not good enough. I kept thinking, why do I worry about people loving me when I have no evidence of people not loving me? It was just really, really hard. Harder than it probably needed to be had I had a clue what was going on.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
So right now, I'm on the quest for a new psychiatrist and an ADHD coach.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
I was born in 49, and it wasn't a diagnosis then. And some days I get really angry that I was born too soon, that they didn't have the diagnosis. And I can get really angry about that and really sad, and I feel like my life has been so much more difficult than it had to be. But then I think, you know, I was born. They had found the treatment for polio.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
They found the treatment for tuberculosis and all the vaccines. So I have to temper it that I did benefit from a lot of medical successes. And that's the way life is. They didn't know about this. Thank goodness that people were working on it. Thank goodness it moved from just little boys' problem to people's problems, and that women are being seen.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
Like, do I wish science had worked on it a little quicker and harder? Sure. Am I upset about the gender discrimination in the diagnosis? I'm really angry about that. So just recently, I've had a lot of anger and frustration in not finding the... what I think is the appropriate caregivers for me. I'm just happy that my daughter's getting it and I'm super happy that my granddaughters are getting it.
Climbing the Walls
Stories from ADHD camp | 5
You know, that's just the way of the world. So, you know, there's been progress made.
Freak Show
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Servus. Well, that's what we have for you today. Thank you for coming. And we'll see you soon.
Freak Show
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These boots are made for walking and that's just what they'll do. One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
I'm thankful for every day I still have with my husband.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Well, my husband and I have been together around nine years, married seven. Um, there's a significant age difference. When we got married, he has five grandchildren and they kind of insisted on a prenup, which I didn't mind. I had my own house. He had his own house and my own investments, his own investments. No biggie.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Well, about a year and a half after we got married, he got diagnosed with dementia and I had to quit my job early and take care of him at 62. So I started doing myself security early. I still have investment checks that come in from my investments. But his daughter kind of pays all the bills for his house, and I still take care of mine.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
No, I just sold it in June. I owned it with my mother, and she was getting elderly, and she moved in with my sister. It was too much house for her after I got married. So we sold it, and by the time we paid off the debts... So at the profits, I have about $60,000 left.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
I have about $200,000 in investments.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Okay. I'm drawing from my investment account. I get about $1,800 a month, and then I have $1,600 a month from my security.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
No, I don't have as much time left.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Correct. So, you know, the kids are going to sell it eventually, and I don't know what they're going to do with it. But my question is, I live in Florida. Rent's super high. Do I try to rent? So I try to buy something small, like manufactured on a condo with a small mortgage with what I've got left.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Okay, well, that was my question. I was debating.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
I was a medical office manager for 20 years.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
I'm not 100% sure. I've got serious back issues and I got some disabilities. Okay.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
As far as I know, that's it. I have like 30 days after he goes to move out.
The Ramsey Show
Are you Stuck in the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Grind?
Um, I would pretty much live separately as far as finances goes and stay one. I mean, I've had my bills here too. When I sold my house, I paid off 30,000 in debt. I still owe 10. So I'm considering just go ahead and pay that off and there would be 50,000 but I just want, I don't want to pay it off too quickly.