Mel Robbins

Don't have time for that anymore.

But the most shocking request.

Well, I got a request.

None of them were shocking.

They really aren't because when it's not you, it's easy to give people advice because you're not emotionally attached to what's happening.

And if you listen closely to anybody, you can really tell what they're grappling with.

And what most of us are grappling with is either the fear of disappointing somebody.

Or the fear that if you do this thing, somehow people are gonna judge you and you're gonna end up alone.

And so everything comes back down to this fear of what other people are gonna think about you.

And how their actions dictate your value.

And here's the secret.

The secret is you have to like you.

And you will only like yourself if you can learn how to let other people be unhappy and learn how to let people be disappointed and let people have their opinions and let me really be clear about the decisions that make me proud of myself.

Because when you're proud of yourself,

you kind of don't give a shit what other people think.

Every day.

I was literally sitting here going, am I going to have a moment where I kind of have an accident in my pants like Jason did in the green room, you know, in Colbert?

Oh, that's a great callback.

Because I'm so nervous about meeting these guys.

Like, I literally...