Mel Robbins

And when we say let them, let them in, traffic's either going to open up or it's not.

And I do believe what you believe, that it does start to shift things.

But what it shifts first is you recognize that your energy and your time is worth something.

And when you start to value and protect your time and energy from people's expectations, people's moods, people's rude behavior, traffic, long lines, you value and have more time and energy.

You become more in control and more empowered as a human being.

And then everything starts to change because you're not at the effect of all the shit going on outside of you.

Let him, Sean.

Let him.

Go ahead.

What was your question, Sean?

Well, you can never control what somebody else thinks, Sean.

Right.

So let them think what they're going to think.

Let them not like you.

Okay, fine.

It goes even more than that, Sean, because let's just unpack this.

Let's say that you are pulling out Instagram and you're about to post something and you pick a photo and you're like, oh, not that photo.

And then you put the filter on it and then you go to write the caption and then you put the emoji and then you backspace.

You're thinking, is this too much?

For whom?