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Appearances
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Awesome. So if it is all right with you, I will go ahead and just read my question that I submitted since I don't think I could put it any more clearly than that.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Perfect. Awesome. Okay. So here's what I wrote. I need advice as to how I can best support my husband while he works on becoming a healthier version of himself mentally, spiritually, and physically. He has been in therapy for over a year to work through his past trauma and is trying to figure out who he is after 40 years.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Also, he is finally taking care of his physical health by going to the doctors. I am so very proud of him and all of the positive ways he has grown as a man, husband, and father. My primary concern as far as physical health weighs heavily on me as the days go by. His father passed away at 57, his grandfather at 63, and an uncle at 39, all from sudden heart attacks.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
My husband is almost 42 and is currently dealing with maladies that if left unattended to will cause stress and illness to his heart. My husband is my best friend and I love him more with each passing day. I want to see him become his best self in every way possible.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
I do not want to treat him as my child who needs minding or as an anxious worrier causing him undue stress when he's already working so hard as well as dealing with his own health concerns. I want to treat him as a loving and supportive wife who adores him immensely and is a positive encouragement to him.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Oh, man. He loves me. He deserves it.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Well, he's been that for me. So I just want to give him everything that he's given to me.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Um, Yes and no. He does hear it and he comforts me. But he also says, I'm not going anywhere anytime soon. So I think there's also a disconnect with him where... That's what all men say.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
Yes, because he has expressed to me on his own at other times that he is worried that he doesn't have long just because of the genetics in his family.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
I like it. I think that sounds fantastic.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
He is. He's finally at a point in his life where he realizes it's time to take action and he wants to. And that's a really, that's a huge first step, honestly.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
I think he would say yes, absolutely.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I Caught My Wife Cheating With My Friend
I would love to do one more weird thing.