Kristin Cavallari
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Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
How to Manifest Your Best Year in 2025 with Gabby Bernstein
The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in, guys, and happy New Year's Eve, which is crazy to even say. This year has flown by.
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Yeah.
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Oh God, it's so powerful. What are the four steps in your new book?
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It's what we're born with.
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Okay. Yeah.
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Right.
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Which is what a lot of people do.
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And then is journaling during this journaling with this is a whole other process. Yeah. Yeah.
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That's what is important.
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Yeah.
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Because isn't it true that like when you do the inner child work, your body doesn't or your brain, I guess I should say, doesn't actually distinguish between time of today and, you know, 35 years. That's right.
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Yeah. I mean, I feel like it's gotten better over the years, but there is still those moments. And, you know, because I've done a lot of work on myself in the last, I'd say, like five years. And even though I've done the work, there are still moments. It's an evolving thing, right? You're never fully healed or are you?
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Mm-hmm.
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How do you handle negativity or outside noise? You know, because I mean, that's people ask me that question a lot. And I'm always like, don't read the comments. But like at the end of the day, they do affect me sometimes.
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Okay. Right. Yeah.
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There's a trigger for a reason.
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And triggers are there to show us there's something we need.
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This is really important when you guys are out there looking for colostrum. You guys know I'm always on the lookout for ways to strengthen immunity and gut health, improve my fitness and metabolism, enhance my skin and my hair radiance, all the things.
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Well, that's why I love Armra Colostrum so much because I'm telling you, you guys, when you take this stuff regularly, you will see a difference in all of the things I just mentioned. All I do, you guys, is I mix this in water and it honestly has such a minimal taste. I don't even notice. You can mix it with other things. You could just sip on it throughout the day. Just make sure you get it in.
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But I really, since I've started doing colostrum on a regular basis, I can't say enough good stuff about how my skin is glowing. My hair looks great. My nails have been stronger. I even swear I've noticed a difference in my metabolism. Okay, guys, definitely check them out. And I've worked out a special deal for my audience. Receive 15% off your first order.
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Well, Hydration Booster contains electrolyte levels suitable for all day, always on hydration so you can enjoy Gatorade Hydration Booster throughout the entire day. Advanced blend of electrolytes from watermelon, sea salt, and other sodium and potassium salts. This product contains 30 calories and 5 grams of sugar versus Liquid IV, which contains 45 calories and 11 grams of sugar.
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I love drinking electrolytes when I'm working out, if I'm going in the sauna, if you're feeling a little run down, which maybe you guys can hear it in my voice right now, but I am I love that the electrolytes in Gatorade Hydration Booster come from recognizable sources like watermelon juice and sea salt. That is right up my alley.
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Life is short, guys. Spend it well with YNAB. There is nothing I love more than seeing where every dollar that I spend goes to. I don't know why. Maybe it's the Capricorn in me, but I get so excited when I have actual statistics like that. And right now I'm in a bit of a saving mode because I am doing some renovations on my house. So I am paying extra close attention to money right now.
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And so I just discovered this app that I'm really excited to talk to you guys about. Okay, guys, listeners of Let's Be Honest can claim an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required at www.ynab.com slash honest. And remember that is spelled Y-N-A-B. Okay. I want to talk about vibration. So, you know, it's so funny.
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I can just tell, I think a lot of people are aware of this stuff, but then there are a lot of people who are not. I'll try to have this conversation with some people and people are like, vibration, what are you talking about? But you and I are very similar. I believe everything is vibration. And like you said, we're all love.
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But so explain to me what vibration is and how can we stay in a high vibration?
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Yeah.
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Right.
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Yeah. Okay. That's such a great way to put it. And so staying in high vibration is just, is it just having positive thoughts? No, it's feeling it. It's really. Yeah.
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Practicing gratitude is probably a great one.
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Right, exactly. And then so the flip side, obviously, staying in low vibration is anger, jealousy, just anything talking shit about someone like all of those negative things.
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Yeah. Okay. That makes sense. Okay. And then going back to manifesting, because I do want to give the listeners real concrete things that they can do to have the best year of their lives. So when it comes to manifesting, first of all, is there anything that we can't manifest? You can't manifest something for someone else. Okay. Okay.
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But you can manifest a job, love, a trip, like whatever it is that you want. And is it the same practice for everything?
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Okay. So what are some good steps for us for manifesting this new year?
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So is it because like what I've noticed in my own personal practice is that if I'm trying to manifest something, the hard part sometimes is that waiting period, right? Of like, okay, I want X, but now I have to sit here and wait. And then I'm focusing on the fact that it's not coming, which then only makes it worse, right? That's right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. You leave no room to the universe to surprise you.
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Okay. So what you're supposed to do is let's say you want to manifest a new job. You get very clear about what you want and then you let it go.
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Okay. Because again, it's that vibration.
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Okay.
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What about someone who's single and wants to be in a relationship? Same thing. Just still enjoy being single. Have fun using the app.
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Yeah. OK.
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I love that. Yeah. Have a lot more fun. Yeah. And just stop thinking about when it's coming because it will come. Have fun along the way. Have fun along the way. Okay. Yeah. Okay. I love that. What else can you give to my listeners just going into the new year? Like what advice do you have for them if they want to go after what they want?
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That's incredible. 19 years. That's amazing. What do you say to people who are in that dark place, though? Is it like ask for a sign, like find that inner knowing? Like how do you guide people through that?
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There you go.
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Wait, I want to
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Oh, I love that.
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And then talk about your app because yeah, you do have this app so people can work directly with you, right?
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I love that you do that on social media too. You guys, Gabby's a great follow on Instagram if you don't follow her. Yeah. It's yeah. It's just I don't know. Seeing the cards that you pull and you just have such positive energy. It's just nice to see. It just shifts your whole perspective. We need it. We do need it. OK, so here's what happens.
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Just swipe. Oh, like this. Okay. Oh. I communicate with ease and grace. People are willing to embrace what I have to say. Okay. That's spot the fuck on for you. Oh my God. I love that.
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I like that.
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Oh, I love that. Remember this.
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Oh, I love this. Yes.
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Yeah, I'm literally joining right now.
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Yeah. OK, I like that. Yeah. You still have shit like everybody else. It's just how you respond to your faith.
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Yeah.
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That is true. It is true. I've been working on that for the last four and a half, five years. And it's huge when you can make that shift. It will shift your whole life, actually. Mm hmm. I needed to hear those. Those are great. OK, well, you are amazing. I'm so happy that we finally did this.
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So and then you mentioned a little bit earlier, but I want everyone to know exactly where they can find you. Your new book is out today. Self-help. Definitely get that. And then Instagram, your app. Tell everyone again.
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Yay. And you guys, happy new year. I can't believe I'm saying that. Go have the best year of your life and I'll see you guys in the challenge with Gabby. Yes. Thank you so much. I love you. I love you.
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That makes sense. Yeah. Healing is not just a straight line. It's ebbs and flows and it takes years, which actually, so your book may cause miracles. I was gifted in 2013. So this is over 10 years ago. And that was the very first thing on my spiritual journey, my self healing journey, because I I think, and I included, went through life not being aware of my thoughts and negative thoughts.
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I'm a little under the weather, so I'm sorry I kind of sound like this, but we're just going to make the most of it. And today's episode is absolutely perfect for the new year. I am so excited about my guest today. She's a spiritual leader and a number one New York Times bestselling author, which I know personally is a massive accomplishment. She has the Dear Gabby podcast.
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And that book was the first thing that made me take a step back and be like, wait a minute, am I doing this all wrong? And that book, what it does is it really shifts your mindset around everything from self, love, relationships, money. And so I just think sometimes having someone kind of wake you up is the best thing.
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And so when you were writing that book, what was your intention and how did you know that this is maybe what people needed to hear?
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Yeah. You've got a ton.
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Absolutely. Well, what I love so much about that book is there's just easy takeaways. Simple. I used to put in my calendar every Monday, believe in miracles. And like you said, it's just shifting that mentality. So if people are listening and they're sitting there going, wait, I don't I'm not aware of my thoughts. I don't know the negative thought patterns.
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Maybe I'm telling myself, where can someone start on that journey?
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She's a motivational speaker, and she's the queen when it comes to manifesting practices, which is exactly what we're going to get into today to set everyone up for the new year. Gabby Bernstein, hi.
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Okay. And then, okay, so it is a new year. We're going in here to 2025. So it's the perfect time to manifest, right? We've got a clean slate, a new year ahead of us. There's so much information out there about manifesting that I think it just overcomplicates everything. Really, when you break it down, it's fairly simple. So let's start simply. Okay. What is manifesting?
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Right.
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finally finally we've been talking about this for over a year i feel like i've been like dming you well i'm really excited to have you here i've been such a fan of yours for years and years which i want to tell you a funny story about how long i've been a fan of yours for but we'll get to that but i want to start with your story for the people who may not be familiar with you you are very open about the dark times you've been through the struggles you faced and how you were able to turn that into love
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So if we're manifesting from our subconscious, so what we're putting out. So if we have this negative belief, I'm not worthy. Let's just take that as an example. How can someone shift that? How can someone do the healing work to work on I am not worthy?
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And so I'm curious because I know when people are in such a dark place, it's really hard to find the light. It's really hard to think there's any hope and that you're ever going to get out of that. So how were you able to do that?
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in guys. How is everybody?
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
I did not do an ice cream date with him, but he did tell me that he takes girls on ice cream dates because he said, if you can't have fun having ice cream, then you can't have fun doing anything. Um, which I guess sort of makes sense. Also, I just think it's a cop out for guys. It's like a cheap, easy way. But again, you have to think about guys too.
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
I mean, they also want to know if they are going to be into you or not. I don't think an ice cream date is the worst. I don't think it's the worst. I don't think it's the, it's definitely not the best. I'd rather go on a fucking coffee date though. If we're just being honest, ice cream seems kind of young. No, I would, I'd be like, well, let's just get coffee instead. I don't know. I don't know.
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Sometimes guys need a little guidance, which is not ideal. We really, I think us women, we want to be courted. We want to be chased a little when we want a guy to put an effort and be like, I'm going to, of course, we want every guy to take us on the most amazing romantic date that gets a little tiresome for guys, I'm sure. And expensive as well.
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
So I can appreciate where they're coming from, but I don't know, ice cream, at least like, let's just go get drinks. That's we can all just go get a drink, you know? Although we are living in a big sober movement right now too. So that can also get a little dicey. Maybe the guy is sober and that's why he wants to go get ice cream. I think you should go on the ice cream date.
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
There's a whole lot of nothing to just go on that ice cream date. Okay. Here's another one. This is very funny. Man sent me his penis picture before the first date. Okay. Yeah. I mean, damn, that is aggressive. That is so aggressive before the first date. But here's the deal, ladies. That just means he just he's just trying for a hookup. He's looking for a hookup. And that is it. That's it.
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Go On The Ice Cream Date — Dating Questions Pt. 1
Otherwise, why would he send you his dick pic? There's one reason and one reason only. I had a guy send me not a dick pic, but it was like a picture in his boxers. I could like clearly see the outline of it after two dates. And that was like, whoa, I thought that was pushing it too. Yeah, I don't know. I think I think a guy initiating the photos is never a good sign. You I think really good guys.
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A will not ask for photos or at least not for a long time. I think I think the girl should be the one to like first initiate the sexy photos and take it upon herself to do it. I don't like when guys ask. I don't I don't like when guys are pushy about that. Like let the girl just do it when she's good and ready.
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And really it shouldn't, that shouldn't be happening until you're like in a relationship, I think. But maybe I'm a little old school in that sense. I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. And everyone's different. But I think like real men respect that. I really do. I think it's a generational thing too. But real men respect that.
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What is your best advice about keeping other women away from your man? Example, coworkers. Well, you can't. You cannot keep other women away from your man. I am sorry. And if you're trying, you are setting yourself up for failure and misery your entire life. I am sorry. Also, that is a surefire way to make your man want to run the other way from you. You cannot keep your man on a leash, ladies.
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It just makes them want to run the other way. People respond really well to trust and freedom. Now, If a guy is giving you a reason not to trust him, that's another conversation.
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But if this guy is just going about his life and there's never been issues with cheating or lying, this is about you and you need to let this man live and breathe a little because I'm telling you it's going to end up hurting you in the end. We cannot be treating our men like this or the guys can't be treating women like this either.
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or women and women, like, can we, I'm not always going to be politically correct and don't shoot me. Okay. I'm not, I'm, I'm just speaking really from my point of view, my place. Okay. I don't care if you're in a lesbian relationship. I don't care if you're gay. I want you to be with whoever you want to be with, but I'm not going to hit every single one every time I talk about things. Okay.
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I can honestly say a really solid guy. And the other two were meh, but that's fine. You know, they all can't be winners. But one of the questions I got was about Raya. And if, is Raya a glorified hookup site? Is any guy really seriously looking for a relationship on Raya? And what I will tell you is, yeah, I think there are guys on there looking for relationships.
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I'm sorry. So anyways, I think If a man is making you feel like you can't trust him, well, then that's another conversation. And I also think women can be really shady and women, a lot of times, some women, there's a specific type of woman that likes to go after men that are married or in a relationship. And that is the most fucked up thing on the planet, but it does exist.
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So I have empathy for women who, you know, there's a woman coming after your man, but we need men who can set boundaries with these women and tell them no and have a fucking backbone who don't need the attention from other women. Because the problem is if these men are feeling insecure and feeling like they're lacking something, they will find validation from other women.
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And that's just the harsh reality. I do think a lot of times, not all the time. I do think a lot of times cheating is to fuel the ego. It's to boost the ego. It's, even flirting. I'm okay with a little flirt though. I got to be honest. I don't think flirting is the end of the world. I think with a coworker, that's a little dicey because it's someone you see all the time.
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But I think going out once in a while and having a little flirt, I don't know. I'm kind of okay with that because at the end of the day, if you can trust each other and you have that foundation, I don't know. I think it's okay to feel wanted as long as it stops there. And I would be okay with my man flirting a little bit too. As long as there's like no touching, no, of course, exchanging numbers.
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If it's just like a little, if the girl's like flirting with my man a little bit and he's like laughing and okay, I don't know. As long as he's not being the one that's like preying on the girl and like initiating everything. If there's a girl flirting with him, like, okay, whatever. I don't know. Because I want to be with men that I trust wholeheartedly. I really do. I think that's huge.
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I don't think that we should base people based on how they text. This is why I hate texting. It's so much is lost in translation. We start to get in our heads about stuff like this because also you don't want a guy who sits on his phone all day. We want guys who are working, who are doing things. I don't like guys who sit on their phone all day.
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I also, to be fair, I like when a guy doesn't respond right away because then I feel like I have to. And I don't know. I don't think this is bad. I think what we should be really focusing on is how they're, when they're with us in person, how they're treating us. Are they attentive? Are they listening? I think you could also, when you're in person, see if he's on his phone or not.
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I think that's a good indication. If he's always on his phone when you're with him, but then he takes forever to respond to you, like, okay, well, that's not a good sign. But I think if he's with you and his phone is away and he's being present with you, that's huge. And that means then he just does that in his life. I'm like that. I try to be like that. I'm not always like that.
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three months, I guess, maybe even sooner than that was that, oh, the pool is actually not that big. And the issue with Raya is they will give you the couple people that are in your city, but they're giving you people in London and Switzerland and Australia. And you're like, that's great. But when am I going to go meet fucking Ken from Australia? Like that's not realistic. And
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And I have to be on my phone a lot for work. But I when I'm at dinner with someone, I don't want to be on my phone, even if I'm in a relationship. I'm like, he can wait. He you know, I think it's OK to I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. But again, you want to make sure it matches up with when he's with you. You know, that it's not just him like playing games too.
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Because I don't like game players, but I like a guy who is busy. Okay. How to tell somebody that you have herpes? Okay. So that's tough, obviously. I think... I think what you should do is I think that you should wait a few dates. Obviously, don't sleep with the person.
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But I think when you've gotten to know this guy and he seems like a good person and it's someone that you want to continue to see and it's getting to that point where like, you know, that sleeping together is coming. Then I think you say I think you just sit down and it's you don't you don't do it right before you're about to have sex.
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It needs to be like you need to make him dinner at your house or something and, you know, tell him during dinner or something. And just I think you say like, hey, I have to tell you something. You know, when I was 25, I, you know, dated a guy who gave me herpes and I'm just making this up, obviously. It's whatever your situation is. And it's something that I've had to live with.
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And this is my situation, basically. And I think any good guy is going to respect that and realize how difficult having that conversation is and respect you for it. I have had a couple of guys actually tell me that they... have cold sores on their mouth, which is a little bit different, but you know, similar, same, you know, basically the same thing.
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And how they told me was, was basically just that. And they, they, they waited. They didn't tell me at first, which actually they definitely kissed me and then told me, but that's okay. Again, this is a little bit different. And then they just... They told me, you know? And I know that those conversations are very difficult.
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And I really respect someone who's going to be honest with me rather than me just finding out later, you know? So... And if the guy is kind of a dick about it, well, then he is not the one. Clearly, he is not the one. I think I'm going to be potentially wrong on this statistic, but I think like one in three people have herpes. A lot of people have herpes. And so... I don't know.
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I don't think you should be ashamed by it. Obviously someone gave it to you. You know, I think the most important thing is being really careful and you not spreading it, you know, as much control over that as you have. And I think by doing that again, it's just being really honest and the right guy will not care. I can promise you that the right guy will not care.
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When do you usually wait to bring up in the conversation of where we are going or what we are? I don't. I don't bring it up. Well, I have. I have one time in my whole life. And it was the first guy that I dated after my divorce. And I think... Well, I did a podcast with him, Jason Walsh. He was my trainer in LA. We did a podcast episode about it. And we talked about that. But...
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I had said to him, we were at dinner one night and it was after a couple months of us hanging out. And I was like, hey, you know, just so what are we? Are we dating? Like, what is this? That was the first time in my whole life I've ever done that.
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And he was like, well, just finalize your divorce and then we'll, you know, we'll figure it out, which was a nice way of basically telling me like we are not in a relationship now looking back on it. And he's still a friend and he's still in my life. And He knew that I needed to spread my wings and fly. I was not ready to be in a relationship.
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So that's where I got annoyed with it. And I went on a couple of dates. Let's see. I went on the three of the dates I went on. Well, I guess all four of the guys I went out with had a connection to LA. Two of them weren't living in LA at the time, but they had lived there. And I think one of them ended up moving back to LA. But I don't know.
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And honestly, that was one of the best things he ever did for me. Thank God. If you want to hear all about that story, you can go watch the episode with him. But I really take the stance of when a guy is ready, he's going to ask you. And I know girls who have made it official and they're still together and things work out and it's all great. I mean, the girl can do it.
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The thing though, with the girl bringing it up, you have to know that if you ask a guy, what are we? And he... is like, well, I'm not, I'm not, you know, I don't, I'm not ready to be in a relationship and you are, well, then you have to walk away. So if you're going to ask or say like, Hey, I want to be in a relationship.
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Actually, Nick Vial said this another episode from one of the first episodes I did, actually, he said, it's not a question of like, so what are we? What is this? It's like, Hey, I'm ready to be in a relationship. I would love to be in a relationship. And then from there, if he says, great, me too. Okay, great. Wonderful.
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But if he's like, I'm not ready, then you have to walk away because you can't, you can't say, I want to be in a relationship. He says no. And then you're like, okay, a guy will not respect you for that. But I really believe when guys are ready, they will make it official. That's always been my experience. And so I wait for the guy to bring it up because I just feel like I don't know.
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I feel like that's a situation where I really stand by if he wanted to, he would. I just... I really feel like that. And guys know pretty fast. Guys know in the first three months what's happening. I would actually say in the first month. I would say in the first month, a guy knows if he wants to date you or not. And...
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I think guys typically make it official in that like one to three window range, one to three month window range. I really do. I'll stand by that till the day I die. I'm afraid the guy I hook up with distracts me from finding a real relationship. I feel this so much. This was me a couple years ago. I really get that. And I think there's probably some truth to that. I really do.
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I think that in order for something new to come in, you have to close a door. You have to let go of that. Because as much as we would love to say, you know, hooking up with a guy is not a distraction. It is. I just think it is. And... I've actually never been able to do that. I have joked and it fucking, of course, went everywhere that I was looking for a fuck buddy in Nashville.
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I never actually had that. I've never just done that. I've never been able to do that because I have to have some sort of emotional connection with someone and But yeah, I just... So actually, so maybe because I have to have an emotional connection with someone, it would be distracting for me. But maybe some women can just do that and it not actually become a distraction.
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But I still think it's taking up some of your energy and your time that could be going out and potentially meeting someone new. So I think... And I think... I think there's two ways to look at it. I think if you're thinking this and this is in your head, then that's probably what's true and accurate for you.
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Yeah, I didn't think that there were a lot of great options. And here's my other issue with dating apps is that... Men are not good in photos. I will stand by that till the day I die. And again, I mean, everything is about chemistry. It's about a connection you have with someone and you only know that by meeting them in person.
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I would say if you're having these thoughts, then maybe end it so that someone new could come in. And I also think there are probably women who could do this and they don't think it is distracting them or stopping someone new from coming in. And both can be true. I think it's just... I think it's just whatever. I think everyone's different in that sense.
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But I lean more like this listener that gave this is I do think that it would be a distraction. I just do because it's energy. It's your time. It's your headspace that is taking away from something else that could potentially be. We'll do one or two more and then we'll stop and we'll do a part two. Okay. So the other person doesn't engage or get to know me. I'm always initiating the engagement.
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Well, my girl, I hate to break it to you, but that's because he's not interested in you. And listen, guys, this goes for friendships too. If you stopped initiating, would they ever reach out? Give it a test with some people. I think you would be surprised that some people may go away. And you know what? That's okay.
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Those people should go away because a relationship or a friendship is not a one-way street. It takes two to tango. And especially with a guy, you do not want to be the one always initiating. No, this actually kind of breaks my heart. Especially if they're not asking questions about you. That's... No, this just tells me that they don't care. And that makes me sad.
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I think we all need to be better than this. Guys are naturally hunters and chasers. And, you know, they... I think if a guy is showing zero interest in you, it's because they are not interested. And that's a harsh reality. And it makes me sad, but it's the truth. But I'll tell you this. Good, because then we can weed out the ones who are not right for us. So look at it like that. Like, OK, great.
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Well, then I'm just one step closer to finding a great guy because now I can weed out this dud who is not engaging with me. And I think moving forward, then you can know too. Guys, if they are not keeping the conversation going, if they are not reaching out first ever, if they are not asking you questions about yourself, if they're not asking you out, they're not interested.
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And I think there are guys who like to keep some girls just on the hook because I think guys love to have multiple women in rotation. But if a guy is not actively trying to see you, trying to take you on dates, trying to see you, he's not interested and he just wants a fucking pen pal. And we have to be wary of those guys too.
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I think someone on paper can be incredible and they can have all the same interests as you. But if there's no chemistry, it doesn't matter. So that's why I think dating apps are tricky or any online dating really. And so that's why I have vowed in 2025 to meet someone in real life. And that's why I think other people are now feeling the same way. But I will always say Raya is
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Guys will want to see you if they're interested in you and they will ask you questions. I actually think guys are kind of simple in that sense. Okay, I am going to stop here and we will do a part two because we still have a lot of good stuff to go and we will kick off the next one with a good old narcissist. Always a fun conversation. So I will see you guys next week for part two.
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And again, thank you for submitting these questions. All right, have a good week. I'll see you soon.
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I feel very official because I got my let's be honest cards to have at my house now too. And I just feel like, yeah, after a year and a half, we should do that. We should do this. We should make this official instead of always using my laptop. I have a really fun episode for you guys, potentially a two-parter. We're going to see how much time it takes to get through these.
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I guess no different than any other dating app except for now everyone thinks because they had to be accepted, there's like this false sense of coolness associated with it, which I don't like that. I don't like that at all, especially with guys. And I don't know. I didn't think there was anything special about Raya. I would not go back. Let's put it that way. And so I don't know. But okay.
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So then other questions were, oh, but I know, but to answer that, that question though, I do think there are people on there looking for a relationship. I mean, I do, I think it just, I think it just takes the right person. Obviously I think guys will be fuck boys until they meet someone they don't want to do that to, or that they want to settle down for. And I think that's any dating app.
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I think that's also real life too. I think that's just our society. So someone said, I just can't do the dating apps anymore. But where do you meet people organically? Where and how do you meet people organically? And then someone else said, what is the best way to meet single men outside of the apps? And then someone also said, how to approach men in the wild. Apps are trash.
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So I think it's about just getting out into the world. I'm such a homebody. And so that's hard for me. And I've also decided, okay, I'm going to be more social. I'm going to start doing more things. I'm going to start going places. I think it's just about putting yourself in the world and putting yourself in the world that's
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you would like to meet someone at meaning don't just go to the clubs and, you know, expect to meet your dream guy. I think if you're serious about a relationship, I think places to go gyms. I just realized you got, so I've been fortunate enough to work out at my house for, I mean, a long ass time. I don't fucking know.
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But when I was in New York this past fall, Justin and I went and worked out at Equinox and I was like, what in the fuck? Why have I not been going to a gym? gym. There were so many hot guys. It was New York. I'll give it to you. There are very good looking people in New York. But I was like, okay, no, I need to start going to a gym. So things like that.
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Go to the coffee shop that you like, but sit at the coffee shop. Bring your computer. do some emails, do your work at the coffee shop. I've always heard hotel bars are a great place to meet guys. So if you're traveling, especially definitely New York, LA, Chicago, some of these bigger cities, go to the hotel bars, Nashville.
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Even in your own hometown though, like go find the nice hotels and go get a drink at the bar with a girlfriend. I think happy hour is a great time for that. I mean, and I will always stand by if it's supposed to happen, it will. And that could happen at the grocery store. It really, I think sometimes it's just right place, right time. But what are other things that guys like to do?
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Well, I have joked that I think... you know, going to the driving range could be a great option. Guys love to play golf. So get around the golf course somehow, you know, maybe you even just go to the clubhouse and get a drink. I'm not even kidding. I think these are great options, which as I'm saying them out loud, I'm like, right, I need to do that too.
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So I think it's just getting in the headspace of a guy and And like, where do guys go? It's just about putting yourself out there more, which is, you know, I need to take my own advice, quite honestly. And then how to approach men in the wild. Okay, so... You have to have confidence. And we've talked about this, guys.
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But I had asked my Instagram followers to tell me what's going on in the dating world, dilemmas they've been having, just issues and just things they want to talk about. And every time I ask, I get so much great content, so many great stories. So thank you to everybody who submitted. And the dating world is the wild, wild west out there. That is for damn sure. I experience it myself, obviously.
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If you have not listened to my episode on confidence, go listen to it because it is sometimes it's just about faking it until you make it. So if you're... Well, this just happened. I'll give you guys an example. So I went out the other night with a group of girls, really fun, great girls. Actually, Caitlin Bristow, who I adore. She's one of my good friends.
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And a group of her friends who I'd never met. And I just absolutely loved these girls. Really fun, really outgoing. Some of them are from Canada. Canadians, we all know, are just the best. So... We went out, we were on Broadway and we were at a club and there was a group of hot guys and they were all sitting at the table that was adjacent to ours.
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And this one of Caitlin's friends and I were like, these guys are so hot. And... I said, this is what I suggested. If you guys don't know what zins are, zins are these nicotine pouches that you put in your lip. They're like all the rage right now. Like all the hot guys have them, right? I am not in any way, shape or form condoning zins and saying that they are good for you.
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I'm not saying to do them. I am just giving you an example of what I did. So I had a feeling these guys would have zins, right? So I was like, let's go ask them for zins. Sure shit. They all had fucking zins. They were all pulling out their can of zins and that started the conversation. And so, and I'm not, I'm not saying go pick up zinning as a hobby.
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That's not what I'm saying, but use something like that, you know, like, like a conversation starter and icebreaker. And then we got our zins and I was just holding mine in my hand like, okay, thanks. But what am I doing with my zin now? which is fine too. Or put it in for literally one minute and then take it out or, or do a fucking Zen.
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I mean, you could do a Zen if you want to do a Zen, but it's, it's fun things like that, that show you're confident because you're able to go up and approach them. You are fun. You have a sense of humor. Like asking a guy for a Zen is fucking funny. And you guys can take that. You can use that one. I'll give you guys that if you want to use that. Or I don't vape. I'm vaping.
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I mean, I have obviously, you know, in my day after a couple of drinks, but you could ask a guy if he has a vape. Like, I don't know. I'm just think I'm trying to think of something also that's not like nicotine related or bad for you, though, that you could ask. Have you guys seen that TikTok thing about sending a group of guys water shots? I think that's fucking hilarious.
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You could send guys water shots and then after they take them, you could be like, we were just fucking with you guys. That was water. But like, do you want to take a real shot? I think that's really funny. I think showing guys that you're fun, you have a sense of humor, that goes a long way and that you're willing to make the first step. I think guys love that.
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So that would be a good way to do it. And I think having a wing woman is a great option. I think I would be too scared, too much of a little bitch to go up to a group of guys by myself. Maybe if I had a couple drinks in me, I wouldn't. But so get your wing woman and just go up to the table and be just like, fuck it. Who cares? You have nothing to lose.
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Having been in the dating world for five years and hearing y'all's stories and the issues you're having, it honestly makes me feel a lot better. It gives me a lot of peace because these are all universal things. So... Let's have some fun. Let's get into it. Okay. Let's start with the kind of the dating apps and stuff. So it seems like everyone is sort of over dating apps, which totally get.
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I've said it before, and I'm going to say it again. I did not want to like Skims, you guys. I'm going to be very honest with you. But I tried them, and now Skims bras and underwear are the only intimates that I wear these days. My entire top drawer is filled with the most amazing, stretchy, and supportive fabrics.
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Earning points on rent is now a reality when you pay your rent through Built. You don't even have to check with your landlord to start earning points that you can use towards flights, hotel stays, fitness classes, and even your next rent payment. All right, let me break it down for you. There's no cost to join Built.
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Make sure to use this URL so that they know I sent you join built.com slash honest to start earning points on your rent payments today. So someone said I'm 45 and divorced. Two different men asked me on ice cream dates. I know. What is with ice cream dates and lunch dates? I hate a lunch date. Actually, I think I would prefer ice cream because it could potentially be quicker.
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I just honestly, and I'm not a big drinker, you guys, especially as of late, but... I, for a first date, want to be able to have a cocktail. I'm sorry. I just do because it calms everyone's nerves.
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I want to be able to have a cocktail or to do something active because I do feel like doing something active, it just sort of... There's like this immediate distraction and it kind of puts everyone at ease too. So... even like going for a hike or something. Like I would go for a hike as a first date. I really would. I know, I know not everybody would, but I would do something like that.
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I understand that. The one dating app that I did was I was on Raya last fall for... Probably four months or so. And I only went on four dates from it. I would say all really good guys, though. I had actually met one of them previously, like 15 years prior. So we reconnected on there. I met... three new people on Raya. And one of the guys I went out with was a really good guy.
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I like being active. I like doing stuff or I want to just go get a drink. And I actually prefer just drinks over dinner for a first date because eating in front of someone the first time when you're first getting to know them, I'm sorry, it's just kind of awkward and it's a longer process. So if you get there and you don't like them, it's like, oh no, no, I have to have a whole dinner with them.
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I love a drink that turns into dinner. Those are great dates. You know, it's going well when the drinks turn into dinner, but you could, if someone it's funny, cause actually one of my Raya dates, you guys told me that he takes girls on ice cream dates.
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Okay, is there anything where you're like, the producers really did me dirty in that situation where you felt like they like set you up or maybe like things were twisted around and you're just like, it was all because of MTV. I know, I totally get that.
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It was a good time. So figured the girls were coming in town. We're going to have to do it right. So we stayed downtown the last two nights and we really did it up right. So fun. We did. What was your guys' favorite part?
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Like, whatever, you know, something like that.
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So I always said when I came out, if you don't actually see the words coming out of my mouth, I didn't say it there.
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Wait, remind me what happened at Winter Formal. No, we were still together.
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Or, like, that was the thing. Like, we'd be sarcastic about something, like, fucking around. And then they would use it to make it look like it was real. And I'm like, remember, like, we were walking on one side of the street? Okay, this is one of my favorites. Jessica, Huzi, and I are walking on one side of the street.
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And there's a producer on the other side and they're like, just, you know, look over at her and like, you know, make faces or whatever. And Jessica Reynolds, the producer, would like stick her tongue out at us and stuff and we'd be joking around like, what a bitch. And then they made it look like we were talking to you and Taylor and you guys were on the other side.
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And they did the same thing to us.
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Yeah. No, of course. I mean, you can't have a show without drama, obviously. But like, I remember even watching it back for Back to the Beach being like, God, was I really not friends with Alex Merle? And it's like, no, I'm falling for their shit. Like, no, we were all good friends. Even Taylor. Like, I didn't hate Taylor the same way that the show made it seem like.
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And you guys, like, I think about all the time, like, we were so young to have our lives manipulated like that. Like, that's the one thing for me where I'm just like, I don't know, that should maybe be illegal in a lot of ways. Like, we were children. And, like, I'm not playing the victim card, but, like, it was really difficult at times. And we also, like,
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Things just get better and better with each drink. Yeah. Okay, so we wanted to give you guys a little insight into Laguna Beach, the show. And obviously we had the Back to the Beach podcast. You guys all came on, which was really fun. But I felt like it would be even more fun to have the gals together to really just pull back the curtain and just go for it. Let's do it.
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But it is interesting because at that age, I think it's very rare for a 17-year-old to know who they are. So I remember being like,
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Okay. Without the show, just high school in general. What, if you could go back and relive any day, what would it be? A day. Or, like, a little time period in high school. Because, I mean, we had a lot of fun. There were so many highlights. Like, on or off camera? I could say, or either one. If it was an on-camera moment, too, that's fine.
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No, sorry, freshman year. The middle of freshman year. Middle of freshman year. It was, like, the summer or something.
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No, because it was driver's ed. It was like the second semester.
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Like, I mean, the shit we used to do, or like we were talking last night, like, Our freshman year, there was another girl, Bailey, who was staying out with us, too. And we'd be like, Dad, I'm spending the night at Bailey's. Dad, I'm spending the night at Alex's. But then there were some times where we'd be like, now where do we go? At like 4 a.m., we're like, wait, now what?
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We didn't think about that. No, we just wanted to make sure we could stay out late. And I was like, oh no. And then we'd be like, okay, what's the earliest we could go to someone's house? You know, that's like realistic.
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We were just recapping a little bit, just talking about high school shit. And we're like, God, some of this stuff we used to do is like just insane.
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But do you feel like, because like my mom has always said, but watch, there'll be one step ahead of you. Like, do you feel like it's different though? Like now it's like social media. So even like you can put trackers on phones. I've heard too, there's ways for them to like-
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turn it off and they can increase their bubble yeah like make it like yeah yeah i don't know how so i'm trying to figure all that out but your shit out so we're like oh they can't get anything past us yeah like no they will they'll just be way more sneaky and not as dumb as being like literally i bet they all talk and they're like parents know how to do this so you have to do that and like hide this in that app or like sneaking out of my house because my my room was on like the main level and there was no screen or anything on it so we would just open it up pop out
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That's where we go. I had a party one time. I had a Halloween party. You guys remember this? I think my dad was on his honeymoon or something. Mm hmm. And raging party. I was a nurse, like one of those little slutty nurses. I cleaned that house fucking spotless. I was like, my dad will never know. He found one beer can underneath the couch. And he was like, you had a party. He was like, damn it.
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One beer can. Although now that I'm an adult, I'm like, he probably just said that honestly. And then I just caved. You know, I was like, shit, you're right. I'm sorry. I had some friends over. Like, that's what I would do as a parent to try to catch my kids.
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Still everywhere we go. Wait, do you guys, our 20-year high school reunion is literally coming up. Oh, I forgot.
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He's like, you take another fucking bottle, you're dead. I was like, what?
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like it wasn't even that good oh my god you're probably like pounding it like oh yeah like you're not drinking wine to sip it for its flavor at that point you're just like oh my god so insane yeah we're lucky to be alive but honestly some of the shit we did yeah we stole my brother's car one time too when we were 15 i mean just like because you would lose your license i think if you got caught for that right oh my gosh yeah i don't think you could drive till 18 is that what it
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We literally thought we could get away with anything.
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How did that happen? It was, it blows my mind, honestly. Did you guys go to the den? No.
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Those phases. I would say we were worse before. I think so, too. I think, like, freshman, sophomore year.
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we really got out of our systems like mellowed out by senior year so renowned like you had older boyfriends like freshmen with like senior boyfriends like once they all started graduating you were kind of like I don't know I remember senior year we were just like fuck all these people this is so lame you know so it was like it was different we didn't have like the same motivation to like go out and get fucked up totally when you're younger and it's like all older people you're like oh my god
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We were over it at that point.
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Like we're those girls now. I dated Sam. Hot Sam. Second semester. No. Yeah. I can't remember. Because I dated Matt Liner.
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Oh, you're right. Yeah. Okay, yeah. So then I dated Sam second semester senior year. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, I went for a senior. Okay, well, you have to edit this out. But he was.
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No, because I had just had Sailor. Oh. Like four or five days before. Right. Did you go? No.
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Who was your friend? But I didn't want to be with him because I wanted to be with Sam. He had sex with her. Call Sam right now.
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Can I just bleep her name? Can I bleep her name? Okay. Well, we can bleep her name. But my God, I'm devastated now. I know.
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Yeah. Yeah. Right. Finally, almost. It'll be so fun.
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But I think Emily planned the tenure. Okay. So I wonder if she also plans the 20. I don't know. It'll have to find that out.
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My mom's always like, how can you watch this? But do you watch it and you're like analyzing it? Like, oh, that probably didn't happen.
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fake it was right well do you remember Perez Hilton used to like call it out and be like your nails are one color in a scene and then two seconds later they're another color like people started like really catch on and he would call it out which I actually kind of loved so I do feel like that was the beginning of people being like oh wait maybe this stuff really isn't real
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But I do feel like, well, the difference is, again, we went into it innocently in the sense where like we're not trying to like get more camera time. It wasn't like, oh, I know if I bring the drama. Right. We were just like doing our thing where now it's like people have a whole agenda going on to reality shows. So I think it's editing. I think it's all the same things that they were doing to us.
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Plus people being like, I'm going to bring my A game. Right.
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Great, perfect. We're doing it now. This is it right here. Well, and we got to see Jason yesterday. He came and visited us on Broadway, which was really fun. Has he been on the podcast yet? So he was on the Back to the Beach podcast. Okay. But he is going to come on this one with Dr. Amen to talk about brain health. Oh, good. Yeah, yeah. So that'll be really good.
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fighting for a storyline right like it was kind of handed to you but it wasn't like that desperation yeah they had writers so i feel like they kind of like yeah like but you're like remember like prom is a good example like they'd be like okay talk about prom you know like it's coming up and okay talk about it like it's coming up they're like all right now let's talk about it like it just happened and we're like okay but how the fuck are we gonna talk about it like it just happened and we don't know what the fuck happened but like looking back now it's because they already knew what storyline
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Like, that should be illegal where they can just, like, say random shit to you to get a reaction out of you. And especially about stuff that was going on, like, when cameras weren't up. It's like, that's not involved.
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That's crazy. Do you guys feel like it helped friendships and relationships or made it a stressor on both?
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At one point, I told him to stop over today, but I don't know. Maybe got a little sidetracked. Yeah, yeah. We're a little tired. A little slow. A little tired today. So when you guys look back on Laguna Beach, on the show specifically, what are your overall feelings of it?
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Yeah. They would even do it on set though too. Like they'd have us go in the minivan and just record lines. Yeah. And then they could splice it in wherever they wanted. You know what I realized was, cause you know, at the time, obviously at that age, like you make everything about you. And I was like, I was so,
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edited and oh my god and i look so bad and blah blah doing the back to the beach podcast i was like oh everyone was edited just as much we were all in the same boat i was over here this whole time like it was just me they fucked with me like no they fucked with all of us yeah they all had you know that there were like specific characters that they wanted us to play and we weren't allowed to like get outside of that box i feel like right right like i was very much like a pick me girl
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Well, what about difference between season one, season two? Like season two, do you think you were like, okay, like I know my role. But season one, I was just like a friend of. A hundred percent.
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Oh my God. It was at the house on the beach. On the beach. That was fun. The montage park right there. But like, that's the thing. Like, okay, you get the whole cast together. We're having the time of our freaking life, having so much fun. But then on the show, it's like, we all hate each other, you know, just goes to show you the difference. Yeah. But that was, that was a lot of fun.
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There were a lot of really fun memories. And I think like, having prom and high school graduation filmed like that is pretty special, I have to say.
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Funny moments. Some dumb moments. All good. But yeah, it's fun. I know it's wild that we all have that experience, that bond. And I love that 20 years later, you guys are in Nashville. We just had so... So much fun.
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And that was two years ago, the Uncommon James shoot, right?
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Because it was January, right? It was January. And before that, we hadn't seen each other in a minute, though.
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Okay, but by the way, no, we're not doing that.
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Okay, but hold on. We should get like our little crew and do dinner before and then go. Let's all go together. That's a good idea. Yeah. Okay. But let's make sure someone is planning it. I think so.
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So I know that like Stephen and Lauren's class is going to be in September.
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So it sounds, I mean, maybe every year is different, but it sounds like 2004 is having their reunion this September.
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So I don't know if we'll do ours September Thanksgiving or whatever. Yeah. I'm available. Do you know where they're having it? I have no idea. Oh my God. Yeah. No. Oh no.
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she's not like my class was great and she's like it's even worse after her class like who knows what it's like even now every year just gets worse and worse I'm like sorry we really set the bar high we brought all the good vibes oh my god thank you guys so much for coming and doing this this is so fun thank you thanks for having us now we're gonna go make a nice steak dinner so we'll see you guys later thanks for listening yay
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So that's possible. I don't know. Maybe I was 16 or like, you're probably 16 or whatever. God, that's crazy. I didn't realize that you were younger like that. Yeah.
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They are in Nashville with me. This was taped almost a year ago. The girls came to stay with me for the weekend and we had a blast taping this episode at my house. Alex, Alex and Jessica are some of my favorite people on the planet. We just have that special bond that we've had for over 20 years now because, you know, going to high school together and filming the show together.
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This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. I have a really fun rerun episode for you guys today. Today is the season two of Laguna Beach Girlies.
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Right, where now people go on a reality show specifically to like create a career out of it, where that was never a thing.
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Which honestly, thank God. Oh my gosh. I would have been even a bigger train wreck if it were social media.
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That was my college experience. Okay. What's like the one thing that just stands out in everyone's head of like, God damn it. That was like the worst thing I could have done. Like what's one moment for everybody overall?
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I love these girls with my life. And in honor of me gearing up for my podcast tour, I thought this would be a fun little throwback while I am currently busy planning everything for the tour. So enjoy this episode with the Laguna Beach girls. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. I'm your host, Kristen Cavallari. And what a fun episode today.
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It was really shine on that show ever.
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Except for maybe Trey, because they were always showing him in a good light. Like, that's nice, Trey. Why do you love him so much? That's really nice. You're such a good guy.
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Yeah, that's really nice. Good for him. What about you, Huzi?
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You know what it was? It was the margarita mix.
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I mean, we definitely we were just talking about this whole weekend. Like we got after it in Laguna. I think a little bit differently than other schools like Laguna. We grew up quickly. Totally. We had access to a lot of things. It's obviously a wealthy community. I think in really wealthy communities, parents kind of like look the other way.
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It was more acceptable.
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It's a Laguna Beach high school reunion, essentially, at my house. We have Jessica, Hoosie, and Alex. Hi. I'm so excited to have you guys here. So we just had a A bit of a wild weekend, I would say. Yep. We were in Nashville, decided to stay downtown for a couple of days. So you guys have never been to Nashville, right?
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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. "'Cause I got all the power, yep." Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. How are we doing, guys?
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And then also I found out from the builder. So the same builder who built my house is actually doing all of my renovations. And they told me that there's a house, like a little house on my property. And so I'm like, I'm a little freaked out. I'm not going to lie.
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And I am so excited to be able to connect with you guys and be on the road and do this. This is nothing that I ever thought in my wildest dreams I would do, but I am so freaking excited. So I will see you guys in March on the road. Come out. We're going to have some fun. I'm I'm calling it my headline tour. As you guys know, I love clearing up headlines and talking about what was really going on.
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And you guys, the part that I like actually really hate, my kids, all of my kids' bedrooms are in one wing of the house and I'm totally on the other side. And Cindy was like, oh, okay. Well, here's the other thing. All of my kids' bedrooms have... French doors that just go outside, which I knew when I looked at this house, I was like, come high school.
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That's not ideal because they're definitely going to be sneaking out. I would have, that's, I'm like giving them, serving it to them on a silver platter. Like, please sneak out and go have a great night. So Cindy was like, I don't like, I don't like that they all have these doors. And she was like, you should figure out a way to lock all of these doors. And I'm like, wait, what do you mean?
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Like what's going to happen? I'm like freaked out. So I actually ended up getting bike locks and I'm going to put these bike locks outside of their doors, which is genius because Hey, in the spirit world, if they want to fuck with us, okay, well then at least the doors can't go blowing open in the middle of the night and scare my kids.
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Cause honestly, at the end of the day, like I feel like I can handle this. I just don't want my kids to be scared. And I have not told my kids this by the way. So I can't post this as a clip. That's for damn sure. But also that helps when they're in high school that they can't just, you know, get out of, sneak out of their rooms in the middle of the night. So that's good too.
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So I'm getting these bike locks and I'm locking their asses in. But that's the other thing as parents is, you know, the things that we, the information that we withhold from our kids for their greater good. Like my kids do not need to know that there is these spirits, these energies around us and how everything is heat related that's been going on at my house.
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And my kids know that the graves are there, but that's fine. You know, as long as they don't know that Cindy was like quite literally scared in a lot of ways when she was channeling these spirits. I've never... I've known Cindy almost six years. I've never seen her... kind of get in her head a little bit.
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Like she was talking to her spirit guides of like, I am not, no, I am not talking to these spirits because these spirits who are on my property were trying to come through. And it's the first time I've ever seen her be like a little rattled or a little scared. So that did not sit well.
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Okay, the only reason you guys know I'm okay talking about Blue Nile is because they are a high-end jewelry line, very different than Uncommon James. So my gosh, what a year it's been. I love looking back on the whole year and taking it all in.
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And I do feel like right now is a good time to just take a step back, look at your life in this moment, and maybe commemorate it with something beautiful, something sparkly even. In all seriousness, if you're thinking of buying jewelry, there's no better place to do it than BlueNile.com.
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Holiday season for me is all about being cozy in my kitchen. I love Christmas Eve and Christmas, getting my kids involved, having everyone around the kitchen table for a great dinner. And I love all of the little kitchen accessories and all of the Christmas-themed plates, all the fun stuff.
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So what I'm going to do on the tour is I'm going to have some of the people I've been in the most scandalous, biggest headlines with over the years. They're going to come out and we're going to talk about what's really going on. Plus just have some fun. And, you know, these are all going to be people that you guys love and we'll be really excited to see. So I cannot wait.
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And that's why I love Wayfair so much because they have everything you need to create that holiday magic at home, whether you're honoring time-tested traditions or looking to make new memories. From cozy comforts and crowd-pleasing cookware to all the thoughtful trimmings, Wayfair has everything you need to celebrate the holidays your way while staying within your budget.
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Not only do I love Wayfair for all of their fun holiday stuff, but I actually just got Sailor a Christmas present on there. I got her this really cute swing that you hang from the ceiling that has these little twinkling lights in it. So that's going to be her big gift this year from Santa.
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I feel like every year I love to get new serveware, Christmas themed serveware and appliances, like all just all the fun kitchen stuff. And that's Another reason why I love Wayfair so much, they have beautiful tableware and serveware. Also for the living room, their throw blankets are great. They've got washable rugs, cozy lighting. Also, they have the decor covered.
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So from garlands and candles to tree trimming lights, I mean, you name it, they have it. Okay, guys, so check them out. Set the scene for new holiday memories with Wayfair. Head to wayfair.com right now to get your home holiday ready. That's W-A-Y-F-A-I-R.com. Wayfair, every style, every home. I want to talk to you guys about a brand that I know you know and love. and that is Gatorade.
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I love drinking electrolytes when I'm working out, if I'm going in the sauna, if you're feeling a little run down, which maybe you guys can hear it in my voice right now, but I am I love that the electrolytes in Gatorade Hydration Booster come from recognizable sources like watermelon juice and sea salt. That is right up my alley.
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And that reminds me actually too, another thing that my kids still do not know to this day is when we were in the Bahamas during COVID, well, it was spring break. We decided to go to the Bahamas. I've told this story and this is 2020 and then COVID hit. So we ended up staying in the Bahamas for a month and we were in a really great safe, you know, what we thought was a really safe gated resort.
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And I'm just thankful that I even have this opportunity. because of you guys listening at home. So it'll be fun. Okay. So that's the first order of business today. And now you guys can see, I finally got furniture in my house, by the way. Very excited about that. Still waiting on a couple of things, but we're getting there and the construction is coming along swimmingly.
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And we were in a condo. And then the last week or so that we were there, we switched into a house. And I had all of my Uncommon James jewelry in the closet just laid out, you know, like on one of the counters. And our HVAC unit broke. So we had workers in our house that day. They were fixing everything. Okay. Well, that night I had Camden in bed with me. Camden and I were sleeping.
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I went to bed early too. Camden and I went to bed early before everybody. So I didn't really know where everyone was in the house. But I woke up to my bedroom door opening and It woke me up because of the light from the kitchen. And I woke up to a man crawling on my bedroom floor. And I was so out of it because obviously I had just woken up. Then I go, what the fuck are you doing?
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Like I said it like that. And this man stands up and runs out the door. And you guys, he had a ski mask on, full black arms, black pants, like the full thing, right? And then I went, oh, fuck. Like that was not Jay or that was not like... I don't know who that was. But because Camden was in bed with me, I didn't yell. I didn't scream.
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You actually... You think in those moments that that's what you would do. But your instincts just kick in. I honestly felt like I was in Mission Impossible. Like I was... like, you know, getting it. And what I did was I picked up my phone. I texted Jay. Well, obviously Jay didn't respond. It's like 1am or something.
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So I'm like, fuck, I have to go out into the house by myself and leave my son here in bed. I'm like, okay. Again, it's your instinct. Like you like, don't think you're just like, go. I felt like a Navy SEAL. So I go out in the house and I don't know where anybody is. I go look in the bedroom across the way. No one's in there. I'm like, what the fuck? I go upstairs.
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Jay was upstairs with Jackson and Sailor, I guess. Now that I think about it, I guess they both were up there with him. And I woke up Jay. And once I woke Jay up, then I got really nervous. Then I started like really scared. I started shaking. I was like, holy fuck. I was able to process then what just happened. But until that point, I was not scared. I was really calm. And I just...
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Again, you just are running off of instinct. And my kids still don't know that story too. Because again, that's just one that I think would really scare them. That someone broke into our house, was crawling on the bedroom floor. And he was crawling on the bedroom floor, going to the closet to get the jewelry, to get the uncommon James jewelry.
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Long story short, he took all of the cash that we had in a backpack. We ended up getting it back. We found out who it was. It was the HVAC guy. And, you know, there you have it. But that was one of the scariest things that I went through. And so these two things, my kids still don't know.
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And I will not tell them probably until they're adults, you know, because I just think some things kids do not need to know. And those scary stuff like that, I will take that one. I will hold that one in and take that with me. So anyways, guys, we are fastly approaching Christmas, which I just I still can't even believe that this year is almost over.
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I have no plans for Christmas or New Year's, which makes me really happy. I typically travel a lot and I have not been this fall or this winter. And I I'm so happy about that. I'm actually going to LA on Thursday for the weekend. I'm going to do some podcasts out there. I'll work a little bit, but I'm also going to see my girlfriends and get my hair done, all the important things.
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But I got to tell you, I have all this brand new furniture, you know, and I've got three kids and three dogs and that's just a recipe for disaster. I don't know if you guys growing up had friends or maybe your own parents did this where they would put plastic on the couches. Like I remember living in Barrington and our neighbor, they used to put plastic on their couches.
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So I'm excited about that. Otherwise, I'm here and I have no plans. New And so I will probably be asleep by 9.30 PM. It will be like any other night. And I'm honestly really happy about that. I'm excited to wake up not hungover on the first and start the year strong. And this year, so I have... So any divorced parent can relate to this and understand this.
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So I didn't have them for Thanksgiving this year. So I do have them leading up to Christmas, Christmas Eve and Christmas morning, which I prefer quite honestly. And so that'll be nice. But then I don't have them for a week, Christmas day at noon, they go to Jay's and then I don't get them until the second. So normally I would go somewhere, you know, I would...
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or have friends in town or whatever I would do. But I'm not going to do any of that this year. What I'm going to do is I'm doing like microneedling one day and I'm going to do a facial one day. And I'm... What else am I doing? I'm going to like get coffee with a girlfriend I haven't seen in a while. And I'm just... I'm in this mode of rest and taking care of myself. And...
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I feel so much better that I haven't been on a plane every other week because honestly, that's what I used to do. And with this tour coming up in March, I'm just trying to be home, especially since I got this new house. You know, I just love being here. I'm just trying to relax. And then come January, I'm going to really start planning out the tour. Just, you know, all the fun things.
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And it's also my birthday, January 5th. I'm turning 38, which is also hard to believe. And again, I have zero interest in doing anything. Quite honestly, I might just take my kids to dinner. I don't know. I'm not a big birthday person. I really don't care. I think I'll do something really fun for my 40th. I had a huge 30th in Mexico with all of my friends, which was fun.
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I also, Jay, threw an awesome surprise party for me in Chicago, which was very cool. That was incredible, actually. Like literally all of my friends from every state and my family. And I was completely surprised. That is the key to a good surprise party. If the person is surprised and it was the best birthday party. So I don't care about any of the numbers in between.
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I really could give two shits, especially because my birthday is January 5th. So after Christmas and New Year's, like no one wants to do anything, including myself. So... Again, I plan on just being asleep at 930 still. So it is almost 2025. And the end of every year, I love to set goals, set intentions for 2025 and reflect back on the previous year.
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Cindy and I actually talked about this last week on the episode with her. But so my big thing for 2025 is I want to live in the energy like I already have everything that I want. And they say that's the key to manifestation really is living as though you have everything. the thing already. So if you want a relationship, it's living in that energy like you already have it. You want that dream job.
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It's living like you already have it. It's dressing for it. It's, you know, it's moving throughout your day as though it's already yours. So I just recently did two exercises that I loved. A friend actually told me about these. And I want to give them to you guys because I think they're really impactful. And so, okay, the two things are... Okay.
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And I remember thinking how insane that was. I thought their family was so weird. I really was like, this is so bizarre, especially for a kid because plastic on couches is obviously so uninviting. It's cold. It's just, it's a weird feeling for a kid. It almost makes you feel like you're in a museum. And so I just thought it was like the weirdest thing ever. I was like, what is the point?
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The first one is think about the thing that you want. So if it's a relationship, if it's a job, if it's a certain amount of money, whatever it is. Okay. And you say, we'll use a relationship, for example, because I feel like that's just sort of the easiest one for people to understand. So I want to be in a relationship. Why? You ask yourself why 20 times. And I just did this, you guys.
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And it was so fucking crazy because after a few times, you're like, I don't know. But if you just write and you don't even overthink it, you will get to the core of it. I got to the core of why I wanted a relationship real quick, guys. And it all stems from childhood usually. And mine was wild. It was really eye-opening. And then from there...
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What you can do is you can, I think really getting to the core of it and figuring out the why takes the power out of it. Yeah, it just, it takes the power away from it. And it makes it not seem so daunting in a lot of ways. And you can usually break it down to a feeling, right? Like a specific feeling of why you want this and how there are other ways to achieve that feeling.
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So after I did this exercise, I was like, oh, I'm totally cool. I don't even feel like I need that thing anymore, which is awesome. Okay. And then the other one is You're going to ask future you questions as though you already have everything. So I was asking myself questions in the future saying, how did it feel when you sold on Common James? How did it feel when you met your now husband?
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You know what I'm saying? Like these types of questions. So it's you in the future who already has everything that you could ever possibly imagine. And because again, it goes with what I was saying a minute ago is living in that energy like you already have it. So asking yourself questions, how did it feel when you sold Uncommon James? It felt fucking incredible.
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And then you obviously elaborate, you go into it. And I really believe that The power of writing something down is really where the magic happens. It's different than typing it into a computer and putting a note in your phone. The act of writing, it resonates in your brain a different way. So I really believe in writing things down. Write your goals down for 2025.
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And I love keeping my goals every year and going back and looking at them. And they always happen. It might not be in the way that you initially said, but they always do happen, which is really cool to see. Hopefully after the new year, I'll just have like another couple of weeks with the closet and the bathroom. They're getting there. The framing is done and now they're getting it.
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But so anyways, try those because I'm on this kick, right? Of 2025, taking all of our power back by moving throughout our lives as though we already have everything we want. That is the key to manifestation. So happy holidays, you guys. I really appreciate you being here every week, listening.
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It is not lost on me that all of this is because of you guys and this tour I get to do because of my listeners. So I really appreciate you guys. I hope everyone has the best holiday season, the best New Year's, and I will see you in 2025. I have some great guests right out of the gate. And next week is Gabby Bernstein, who... is so incredible.
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And now as an adult with three kids and three dogs, I'm like, no, I get it. I want to put plastic on my couches because furniture is insanely expensive and dogs and kids trash everything, everything. So I have a new rule in my house that food and any drink other than water cannot leave the kitchen. You cannot take food outside of the kitchen.
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If you guys don't know who that is, go look her up on social media because she's a great follow, but very inspiring. We talk more about manifesting next week and she's just, she's incredible. So I'm excited for you guys to listen to that episode and I will see you guys in 2025. Oh my gosh. All right. I love you guys.
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Also, side note, because my kids would have snacks in their rooms and my dogs would go in there and they would eat all of them. But not only would they eat... the chips and the candy and whatever else, they would eat the fucking wrappers. Like Teddy was puking up bits of a basketball, which is a whole other story, but, and wrappers. Like what?
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So between me not wanting to destroy any of the new furniture and the dogs just getting into shit, I've banned food. From leaving the kitchen, although I will tell you, my kids are in a bit of a phase right now where they just don't really want to listen to me. Sailor, well, the boys have been really good about food in their room, but Sailor does not give a shit, quite honestly.
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And I still am finding wrappers in her room. And it really pisses me off. And the other thing, so Jackson, my sweet little Jackson, my middle child, my little rebel. He's honestly my little mini me. This kid figured out how to... Well, let's start with this. He has a green light debit card. I've talked to... I've done ads for them actually on the podcast before.
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I have really exciting news. Just gonna start us off here. So I'm going on a podcast tour and I could not be more excited. So it will be in March. Let me pull up the exact dates for you guys here. And I'm going to be on a podcast tour. So I'm going to be on a podcast tour. So I'm doing, it's a small tour because it's during spring break for me and my ex has my kids this year.
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So maybe you guys have heard me mention it. But if you don't know what they are, they are basically a little debit card made for kids. And the parents can monitor it. And it's really easy. I've got an app on my phone. You can transfer money over. You can see what they're spending their money on. It can teach them how to balance their money and save money. And I really liked them.
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Well, Jackson somehow figured out how to save my credit card, I guess, on his Greenlight app and transfer money over from my credit card to his debit card. So just found that out. That had been going on for a few months. And I actually had no freaking clue. Saylor was the one who told me. I was like, wow, Saylor, thank you so much for telling me. And
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The kid spent a lot of money and I am not happy about it. He got his phone taken away. He's grounded for a few months. That's how much money he spent. He's grounded for months. And it's just like that phase of kids right now. So 12, 10, and 9. And they just test you. Right. And I mean, I get it. I was like this. I did all the things.
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But, you know, it's funny because as a parent on one hand, I'm like, well, that was smart. I'm like, Jackson is he's really smart, you know, like got to give him some credit. But he can't know that. Right. I'm like, what you did was very wrong because obviously it was very wrong. But it's just interesting as a parent to now see the things that your kids are starting to do.
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And, you know, it just reminds me of being a kid. Just yeah, it's just wild. The other thing is too, I've started making my kids do all their own laundry. So since we moved into this new house, I have not touched their laundry. Quite honestly, because it's a lot of laundry between me and the three kids. I would be doing laundry. I was doing laundry 24-7. And I'm not doing it anymore.
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And they're old enough. And it's like such a pet peeve of mine that especially boys... This is going to sound so sexist, but most girls know how to do their own laundry, right? But a lot of guys, like I can't stand the guys whose moms did their laundry like all throughout college and like they like don't know how to do their own laundry. So I was like, my boys will not be like that.
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My boys are going to know how to do their own laundry. And Camden actually took it upon himself to do his own laundry probably like almost a year ago. He just started doing it, which was great. But So the kids have to do their own laundry. Well, guess how many times Jackson has done laundry since we've lived in this house. I've lived in this house for almost three months.
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The kids do laundry one time. I'm not exaggerating. I am not making this up. If you walk into his room, his little closet is on the right when you walk in and the door always slams into the closet door because his closet is just full of dirty clothes. I don't even know how he has clothes anymore. He's wearing pajamas to school. He's stealing Camden's clothes.
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I mean, he'll get lucky once in a while. I'll wash like one pair of sweatpants with a sweatshirt. If he leaves them somewhere, I'll just grab them and throw them in the laundry. But this kid is not, he's done laundry one time. So another thing I said to him was, you have to do laundry. You have to clean your room. You have to do all of that.
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Cause for a minute I was like, fine, if that's on you, like if you don't want to do your laundry, you're not going to have clean clothes. Cause part of me is like giving them that independence and that freedom to make decisions. But I also understand they're still young and they do need, obviously, a parent to be like, no, this is not going to fly.
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So now that he got in trouble, I'm like, no, this is actually what you have to do. No more messing around, kid. So that's what he's going to be doing all of Christmas break because he's got, I don't even know if he has this many clothes, but the kid, well, he's wearing socks with holes in them. I mean, it's a disaster. So that's what's going to be happening. All right, let's talk about Servpro.
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So I really only had that one week available and it's St. Patrick's day, the second weekend. So it just gets a little tricky, but I'm going to do four cities. So I'm starting in Atlanta, March 7th. Then I go straight to Chicago, March 8th. Then I have a few days off and I'm going to go to Boston March 12th and then New York City March 13th. So I'm going to post exactly where these theaters are.
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Anyone who's lived through construction knows it really is not fun. I have guys here every day. My backyard sort of looks like it's just a mess. There's a huge pile of dirt right now, which we're actually getting ready to clean up. So that will be nice. But I'm adding on to my bathroom and my closet. And then I'm going to go to phase two and do a pool and a pool house.
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So I'm going to be living in this for a minute, but it's nice to know that Servpro is in my back pocket for when I'm ready to clean everything up. I'm just going to be giving them a call and it's going to make my life a lot easier. So guys, visit surfpro.com or call 1-800-SURF-PRO today. Contact your local Surf Pro today by visiting surfpro.com or call 1-800-SURF-PRO.
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You guys know I love probiotics, so let's talk about one of my favorites, which is Ritual. If you take probiotics, then you might find this interesting. Lots of probiotics break down during digestion before they even reach the colon.
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Obviously, this can be really irritating, not only because you may not be getting all the microbiotics safely down to your biome, but also literally the early breakup of the capsule can irritate your digestive system. That's why Ritual's Symbiotic Plus is designed with a delayed release capsule to help reach the colon and an ideal place for biotics to grow and thrive.
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I take my Symbiotic Plus every morning. It's just the first thing I do. I get it out of the way. And I notice when I take probiotics, I just feel so much better all around everything from my skin, my hair, my nails to the way my stomach feels. I'm never bloated. I'm regular. It's just doing everything that you want it to be doing.
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I love the holiday season for many reasons, but I actually really love getting gifts. It's something that I've always really enjoyed doing. And it's great when you can get someone a gift they wouldn't necessarily get for themselves. That little bit of luxury that they don't know they're missing. For quality gifts at an affordable price, my go-to is quints.
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But you guys can get your tickets on Ticketmaster and my podcast listeners get the code honest that you can use on Ticketmaster to be eligible for VIP tickets. So I'm only giving that code to you guys. I'm not going to be posting that on social media or anything. I, of course, just want to give my real listeners the chance to come meet me and hang.
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That's Q-U-I-N-C-E.com slash honest to get free shipping and 365 day returns. Quince.com slash honest. You guys, and the other thing that I just found out about my new house and this property is which I'm honestly a little freaked out about is there are two graves on my property. I only found out because I actually just recently met my neighbor who they just moved in.
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They built, they just built their house and it's a woman and her husband and they've got an eighth grade girl at school with my kids. And I met her and she was telling me, Oh yeah, no, there's, there's these two graves on your, on your property. They're, kind of in between hours, but they're definitely on my property. And I was like, what? I have graves on my property.
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So already I was like, not ideal, but okay. You know? So she sent me a photo of the graves. I have it. She did a little research. It was a dad and a son. It's from the 1800s. Dad and a son. The son was 19 when he died and the son died before the dad. That's all we could really find out. So, okay. I know this and I'm like, you know, it's fine. I've sort of like put it in the back of my head.
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Well, Cindy, my medium who was on the podcast last week, she came over to do the podcast. And then after the podcast, we did a proper reading and she was picking up on these other energies, these other spirits that were around. And I didn't even say anything about it, you guys. And I was like, oh my God, no. Yeah, there's graves on the property. And she was sensing...
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the dad and the son, but also either the wife, well, she said the wife or the mom, which would make sense because it was both, right? It was the wife to the dad and obviously the mom to the son. And she was the one that was like really present and like trying to do the talking, you know, for her spirit to come through.
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Again, Cindy is a medium and so she can connect with spirits who have crossed over. And we, she started piecing things together because I told you guys on the podcast when I moved in that my oven was all messed up. The first time I tried to use it, it was like flames coming out the side. Okay. And long story short, they just hadn't converted the oven over to propane.
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I'm the first person to live here full time. I bought the house from a couple who built it, but they were never here full time. They live in Florida. So I was the first person to use the oven. Okay. So the flames, I was freaked out because my whole house smelled like gas. The kids and I had to go over to the guest house. I was like so scared to sleep in my house that night. Okay.
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So that's number one. My kids showers. Well, my kids hot water was not working. This is like maybe three weeks ago. Okay. Their hot water was not working. And then the heat in the guest house wasn't working. So Cindy is like, these are all related to heat. And she was like, I'm feeling like the sun died in a fire on this property. So I am like... what? Oh my God. I'm like freaking out. Right.
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And she's like, they're, you know, Cindy is so great because she has a way of sort of putting a positive spin on everything. But she basically was like, they are trying to warn you. They don't want the same thing to happen to you. But I'm like, no, they're trying to get me the fuck out of here. They're trying to scare me away from here. Because again, I'm the first person to live here full time.
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Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? — Dating Questions Pt. 2
The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest, part two to listener dating scenarios. Welcome back.
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But in summary, it is when a person comes on really strong in the beginning and is telling you how great you are, how they've never felt like this before. They are whining and dining you. They are doing all of the things and you are like, oh my God, I'm in love. I've never felt like this. And then you start to see the real them.
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You don't really know someone for like six months, I think. And I think if it's causing issues... Well, everything is about communication. I think it needs to have a soft approach and just say, listen, I am flattered that you want me to meet your family and I would love to eventually meet your family. I'm just feeling like it's maybe happening a little too quickly for my comfort.
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you know, a month is moving very fast. And I'm not saying that I don't want to meet your family or that I'm not crazy about you. But I would love if we could push that off just a little bit. And if someone can't be receptive to that and understand where you're coming from, then I don't think that they're the right person. You want someone who can understand your stance and your place as well. And
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that is moving fast. If it was a year, I would be like, you need to go meet the family. Like, what are you doing? Cause then I would think maybe you're not serious about this person. And so, but a month is to that sort of a red flag. I think it should be for you. Honestly, if she can't, this was from a guy.
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I think if someone can't understand your perspective as well, that's also not a good thing. And so... I realize she's the one who's upset and that's why it's causing issues, but maybe that's an issue for you, right? And that's okay too. Again, this is why we date people. This is why we don't get married after a month because you don't know somebody for the first six months.
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And so this is when you figure things out. You have these tough conversations and then you're like, wait, you know what? Maybe we aren't compatible after all. And that's okay. This is how we learn by dating people, getting to know them. And then sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. And that's okay. Not everyone you date is supposed to be your next husband or wife.
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Because by the way, these conversations going through this stuff is how we learn and grow. Because to me, even if this doesn't work out, or even if it does, this is a real opportunity to have a really great conversation. This is an opportunity to build real intimacy.
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If you both can come at it from a vulnerable place and just have a conversation of like, I totally get why you want me to meet your family. I realize that that's so important to you as it should be. You know, your family is the most important people to you and their opinion matters. And I value that and I respect that. I think because it's only been a month, I'm having a difficult time with that.
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And so maybe we could just meet in the middle and push it off a couple more months, whatever it is, you know? And maybe you say, you know, because I don't know, like, I just think everything stems from childhood. So being able to express that of like, why is it too soon for you? You know, or why does she feel this urgency to have you meet the family? Like I would...
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I would come at it from curiosity of like just asking questions to understand like what that need really is about. That's how you develop real intimacy. Okay. How to break up with someone you love, but you know, isn't your forever person. That is the hardest thing. That really is the hardest thing to do. I think it's just that. It's that conversation.
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So, and in this one girl's particular case, then he ghosted her, ghosted her and gaslit you. Well, I'm assuming it went gaslit, then ghosted. But so this is what's so hard is they come on so strong where you literally are like, Oh my God, I've never felt like this before. I'm in love too. And then this did happen to me one time.
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I think when you end things with people, it can be that honest. I think it should be that honest. I think it's, I'm in love with you. I just know long term. And for whatever reason, I mean, you can list why, or, you know, but those are the hardest breakups when you break up, not for love lost, but because you know, it's not right for you or, you know, it's not your forever person.
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And that's really hard. I really empathize with that. Those breakups take a long time to get over, I think. And it just takes time. And I also have an episode about breaking up and how to help a breakup. If you guys are going through a breakup and you miss that one,
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But I think this shows how strong you are as a person because if you're able to make yourself a priority like this, I think that's huge. And I think everyone should make themselves a priority. I think a lot of people are stuck in unhappy relationships. And that breaks my heart because life really is so short. And...
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yeah, while there's going to be temporary pain for three, four, five months, whatever it is, if you know, it's not your forever person, that's going to be a lifetime of that always in the back of your mind. And so, yeah, ripping off the bandaid, knowing it's going to be painful, knowing it's going to be really hard, but still doing it shows a real level of strength and power, honestly.
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And I don't mean power, like abusing power. I mean, like I think it's important for all of us to realize how powerful we are and how we can really... shape our lives how we want them to be. We are in the driver's seat of our lives and doing scary stuff like that is where we really start to build confidence with ourselves and really start to love and value ourselves.
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And that's the best place to be. Having that strength, digging deep, having that strength, knowing ultimately what's right for you is huge. That's huge. And I applaud you for that. And just know it's not going to be easy, but you will get through it. I have spent four years on a healing journey. I am now 40 and finding it hard to meet anyone normal. I know what you mean.
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Once you've done the work, it's really hard to connect with people who have not. So I think a big part of the healing journey. healing journey slash spiritual journey is realizing that not everyone is where you are and that's okay. And it's meeting people where they're at. And I think a lot of times when you have done the work, you can actually be an expander for someone else.
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And you can bring a lot of that knowledge and that light to other people's lives, which I actually think is a really special thing. But it can also be difficult when you're trying to connect with someone romantically if they haven't. And I think it's okay to say that you don't want to get into a romantic relationship with someone who hasn't done the work. I... I think that's perfectly okay.
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I am in that place in my life right now because I don't connect to someone who hasn't done the work and that's okay. And they're at a different place on their journey. We're all in different stages of our own personal journey. And that can be great. And it can also be okay to have boundaries for yourself about what you're looking for.
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And I think you have to get really serious and clear about what you want. And I think the universe will send you people that are really close to be like, okay, I like this about him. I don't like that. But I like all these other things. And I think it's okay to say, I'm waiting for my perfect. I am waiting for my... I am doing that right now, you guys. I am waiting for my perfect.
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And then it was like one little thing and it was like fucking flipped, flipped. And I'm going to be honest with you. I think a lot of times if they... They will test the waters with something or something will happen and they'll see if they can manipulate you and control you. And I think what happened in my particular case was this guy saw he was not going to be able to manipulate me.
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And I have been... Really close, really close. But each time I date someone who has these really important things to me, like someone who has done the work, the depth is there, you know, all these things. I just I know, OK, it's not him, but it just means I'm that much closer to finding the one.
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And I'm a big believer in that, in that the universe is going to put things in your face to be like, do you like this? Is this what you're looking for? It's really close. We're really close. So keep going. But then I also want this. you know, just getting really clear and honest with yourself about what you want and standing firm in that.
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And it's okay to wait for that for your perfect, for your perfect. Your perfect is different than my perfect. It's different than Sally's perfect and Jennifer's perfect. Everyone has a different perfect and there is no such thing as perfect, but you know what I'm saying. That's why, I mean, I've been single. I'm going to say single. Obviously, I've, you know, dated and whatnot.
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But I've been single. I had a boyfriend. You guys all saw it. I've essentially been single for five years and it's because I am waiting. Well, it's because I had to do a lot of work on myself. First of all, I had to get serious, but now it's because I'm waiting for my perfect and I'm not settling. And I know he's out there. I know what I'm looking for is out there.
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And I know that I'm looking for the 0.001%. But he's out there. And I'm not going to stop until I find him. And I'm getting really damn close. I'm getting really close. And I want all of you guys to... also wait for your perfect. Cause it's not worth it. Not to, it's not wait for your soulmate. And I think we can have multiple soulmates, but wait for, wait for your perfect, your perfect one.
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I think that, I think we should do that and don't care about society's timeline or what your friends are telling you or whatever it is. It, Only you ultimately know what's best for you. Even my best, best friends. I value their opinions and I will listen. But ultimately, I'm doing what I'm going to do and I'm listening to my heart. And I want everyone to do the same.
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And he was like, I'm out. We're not compatible. But I'm like, what the fuck just happened? Oh, my God. You literally came on so strong. And now you're telling me that we're not compatible. And gaslighting, if you guys aren't familiar with gaslighting, it's kind of a... Gaslighting is kind of a tough one to actually explain. Let me look up the actual definition.
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So again, that is joinbuilt.com slash honest to start earning points on your rent payments today. Okay. All the nice guys I meet, I have zero attraction or chemistry to them. I'm laughing because I get it. Wouldn't it be so much easier if we could pick who we loved? If we could just be like, great, I want to love this person. My life would be a lot easier. I can tell you that.
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It just doesn't work like that. And I get it. I don't know if it's because it's nice guys and maybe you are typically drawn to the bad boy. But I think they're just not the right ones. Or maybe you do need to do a little work on if you are drawn to more toxic and unavailable men, maybe do a little work into why that is.
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But I think just in the general sense, I think chemistry is really hard to find. Well, okay, here's what it is. I think for a really great relationship, we need chemistry. We need compatibility. But then we need that X factor thing of like... It's like that chemical reaction. It's like that thing you can't put your finger on. You can't describe.
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It's just that feeling that you get, which is chemistry. But it's like another level of chemistry. Like I think you can have chemistry with a lot of people. But I think it's like that... That inexplainable chemical reaction. I don't know how else to describe it. But that's my thing right now because... I'm not settling until I have those three things.
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And obviously that's the hardest thing to find is when you have all three of those things. And I think they're all equally important, but I think that X factor thing is actually the most important thing. And trust me, I feel you because it's so rare that I am really attracted to someone. It's very rare for me. And I've had
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amazing guys, amazing guys where I'm like, why can't I, why can't I have this crazy attraction to you? And they're good looking guys too. It's not like, But it's that X factor thing that's lacking for me. And that's what I'm not going to settle until I have. And I think everyone, again, I think everyone should have that. I don't think that's wrong, you guys. I think a lot of people settle.
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I just do. I think a lot of people settle. And listen, I get it. I'm older now. I have my kids. It's like I can wait. I can wait. I don't need a guy for anything other than just pure happiness. I know not everyone is in that boat, but I, I think everyone should have that. I just do. And that's why I'm waiting until I have it.
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And I have a couple of girlfriends who waited a long time to get into a serious relationship. Two girlfriends really come to mind who, late 30s, got into their first real serious relationship. And they're both in really solid relationships with great guys that they are wildly attracted to, who are faithful, who are... all the things. They're great guys, but it didn't, it took a while, you know?
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And, um, That's what I mean. I think sometimes to find the best ones, we unfortunately have to filter through a lot of the wrong ones and it takes a little bit longer. And listen, that's not to say, I know some people are able to meet, marry their high school sweetheart and they have the most amazing relationship. Like that's fucking awesome. That was never me.
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That would have been nice or whatever. I'm not even going to say that would have been nice. That's not ultimately actually what I wanted in this lifetime. And I think But I'm happy for those people. I think all of that can exist.
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I'm just saying, I think sometimes for people more like my girlfriends that I'm thinking of, maybe this girl who wrote in this question, for me personally in this phase of my life, I think sometimes it just takes a little bit longer to find these really special guys. And I think that's okay too. Because in the meantime, we can really learn a lot about ourselves and do a lot of work on ourselves.
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So that's the thing. It starts to make you question everything in your life and you go, am I crazy? Because it's like this way that they like turn everything back around on you and, and lie and manipulate so that then you're like, wait, what am I lying? Am I losing my mind? But so for the girl who, okay, if you can't, if this happened to you and you can't get over this guy and you're so upset.
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And and make sure that we're putting out the same type of energy that we want to be attracting in. How long to date before you should know if you want to marry him? So, I mean, I don't think there's any sort of should is relative. I think it just, it depends on the person. Typically, I think people know within the first three months. They say, guys know within the first three months.
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I also sort of feel like girls know too. And that's not to say you don't continue to date, of course, because you want to make sure. And the longer you date, the more tough conversations you have, the more things come up to really test if you guys have what it takes to get through tough times or whatever it may be. And I think by month three, you should have a pretty good idea of...
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thinking, you know, I could potentially see myself spending the rest of my life with this person. I think you have an idea. And that's not to say you go and you get engaged and you run out and you get married, but you know, I think you know. So one guy is ambitious and wealthy and treats me like a queen. The other is sweet and truly cares for me and the sex is incredible.
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Do I go for stability or do I go for chemistry? Ah. Well, I'm going to say you go for chemistry. I know for women, this is, this is really hard. Here's why I'm going to say chemistry over stability, because at the end of the day, you're not marrying his ambition and his money. I mean, yeah, that lifestyle is nice, but I always, I'm going to go for love over money.
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I just do because to me, choosing someone for the lifestyle is empty. I think it can be fun. I think it can definitely be a distraction, but But I think about going to bed with that person at the end of the day and laying in bed talking and having sex with that person. And that to me is what a relationship is in those moments together.
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Go make money your own or go, you know, I don't know, find fun and adventure elsewhere, because I think that's a lonely dead end road. But if you end up with someone who truly cares for you. Like this other guy treats you like a queen. Okay. But you said this other guy truly cares for you. There's a huge difference in those two statements.
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The first one to me is like trophy wife, sort of just like, treats you like a queen for him. Do you see what I'm saying? Like that's about him. That's actually not about you. And the guy who truly cares for you sees you. That's intimacy. That's, that's a real relationship. That's love. And the sex is incredible. Why wouldn't you go with the guy who has, you've got great sex with?
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Because sex is huge in a relationship. And I can appreciate how a guy who is ambitious and wealthy is... That's attractive. I would never take that away from a guy. I find that to be very attractive in men too. A successful man is attractive. There is no doubt about it. And that is not a shallow thing to say. I'm sorry. It's just not us. Women think that is attractive.
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Success and power are attractive, but you need to be grounded while also having those things. And you need to be able to be both. You can find a guy who is successful and who is ambitious and who also sees you for you, who you also have great sex with, who you also have chemistry with. Maybe you don't have to choose between the two.
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Maybe this is a way for you to have both and you go, I like all of these. You know, I like a couple of things from the chemistry guy, like a couple of things from the wealthy guy. And now you want to find all of them in one guy. I think that's what this is telling you. And I think you can find that. I think, I think you can, again, it might take longer, you know, but I think that you can.
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And I think, but I think ultimately we want someone to see us who, for who we really are. I think that's more important. I do. I think that real chemistry, that real love is way more important than fun and an adventure and lifestyle. And I don't know, money. Maybe that's easier for me to say. I don't know, you know, because money's not an issue for me. And I'm very honest and very real about that.
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And I, again, I kind of went through this with this one guy and luckily I only went on two dates with him. So it wasn't that serious, but, but I was, it's like, you get so wrapped up in it. And I have experience with narcissists and I still got wrapped up in it. You have to realize how lucky you are that this guy ghosted you and that you got out because these relationships do not end well.
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But I think the money thing is, well, it's temporary. But I know, listen, I know it works for some women. I know some women, that's all they kind of care about. I wonder, I'm not saying this guy is ugly and whatever, but I wonder if, like, I'm always like, okay, so you marry for money, but you still have to sleep with the guy. Like, you have to sleep with the guy.
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Like, how could you sleep with a guy you're not attracted to? I could never do that. I couldn't do it. again, to each their own if that's what you want to do. But it sounds like you want more than that. And that's why you're having a hard time choosing. I say go for chemistry. Okay. Just started dating after being married for 11 years. I have no idea how to end a date.
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God, I love this so much because I've been there so many times and I'm like, fuck, I'm so over this date. But I just, one time I went on a date with this guy in LA and it was just supposed to be drinks. And it was an awful date. And he was fucking he was slamming drinks. I think I had one or two. If it was a five hour date, you guys. Oh, my God. And then it turned into dinner.
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And I just like didn't know how to get out of it. And I was like, fuck, I have to wake up early the next day. And I was just like, oh, he was hammered. I was like, oh, no. I think I've gotten better at that, though. But I think it's you just you you could go into the date being like, I have an early morning tomorrow with work. Just, you know, want to throw that out there.
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And then whatever plans can always change. If you end up liking the guy, you're like, oh, whatever. It's fine. But that's why I love a drink, because if you're not feeling it after one drink, you can be like, this was really fun. But I I shouldn't have another drink. I have a really early morning tomorrow. You know, that's an easy way to do it.
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And if, if you're not into him and the guy you're on drinks and the guy was like, can you get dinner again? I think you can be like, this has been so much fun, but I really only allotted for an hour. I don't know. Just, you could just make shit up. But before you go on the date, have those options in your head. So you're not thinking on the fly. You need to have your excuses ready to go.
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And then just be assertive and stand in that, you know? Okay. New guy is perfectly my type. Chemistry is unmatched, but his kid is with us all the time. Yeah, that's tough. I think you have to know that... a guy with a kid, unfortunately, their kid's going to be around. And if that's a deal breaker for you, then that's a deal breaker. And then don't date people with kids.
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But your time will probably be after the kids go to bed at night. And if they're younger, they go to bed pretty early, which is nice. So then you could have a whole night. You guys can make dinner at home and But that is a real thing, unfortunately. And I think you could bring it up and just say like, hey, could we get into a routine of getting a babysitter?
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Maybe it's once every two weeks to start. You know, we're able to like have our adult night or and then maybe after a little while, it's once a week we can have a babysitter. And I think you can ask for that in return. But unfortunately, when kids are young, it's, it's hard to get away. It sounds like maybe this kid is not in school. Eventually they will go to school.
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You know, you can get babysitters, but that's a real thing. But I think if it's going to be a problem for you, you should not date a guy with a kid. Sometimes that's why parents like dating other parents because you just get it. You get it. And I've heard from guys that with kids that it helps when they date women with kids because it's a hard thing if you don't understand it.
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But the kid's not going anywhere. So I would just if you can't do it, you can't do it. But I'd get out now. But I think it's OK to request an adult night without the kid once in a while. All right, you guys, thank you so much for sending these in. This was fun. I hope you guys enjoyed it and I will see you guys soon.
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Being with a narcissist will make you a shell of who you are. It will make you go crazy and question your whole reality. It will offer a level of stress that you didn't even know you could experience. So when I tell you this is a blessing in disguise, you have to realize that and you have to focus on that. you have to say, thank God.
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Thank God I got out because narcissists do not change and they are scary. And And it's, you just, this is a blessing in disguise. And I realize you're angry and it is like, how can someone go from love bombing you so hard and like so obsessed with you to then just ghosting you? And I'll tell you why, because the love bombing stage is not fucking real.
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That's what they do to try to like butter you up in a sense to then be able to manipulate and control you. And I would wonder if maybe something happened where you had to set a boundary or stand up for yourself or something. And they realized because I think a lot of times these narcissists, when they realize, like, I can't fuck with I this is going to be too much of a challenge.
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I did not take a break. I'm just continuing on, but it has been a week since I've seen you guys once this comes out. Welcome back. If you did not listen to part one, definitely go listen to part one. And we're just going to get right back into things here. We still have a lot of juicy listener dating scenarios to go over and just dating bullshit in general.
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Well, they do love a challenge. But if it's like they like if you're too headstrong and just too strong of a person, they will bounce because they love to manipulate and control. So other ways to tell if someone is a narcissist is if they take no accountability for anything in their life. So the same guy who love bombed me and then fucking overnight was like, wait, what? Oh, we're not compatible.
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He also, when asking about all of his previous relationships, everything was everybody else's fault. If a guy or girl cannot take any responsibility for any of their relationships and it's everything is everyone else's fault, that is a red flag. So zero accountability is a major, major red flag. And again, the love bombing, a guy coming on really fast, I have learned in my adult life is...
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It's not normal. And I think that... I don't think everyone who comes on strong is a narcissist. In fact, I had a guy who I had to say to, what is the point of rushing into this? Let's just take a step back and go slow. And I had a guy be very receptive to that. Very receptive and be like, no, you're absolutely right. Like... those guys do exist.
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And I've had another guy who I was like, what is the point of rushing into this? And he had every excuse in the world about why we needed to rush into that. He is a narcissist. Didn't know it at first. And again, because I have a lot of experience with narcissists, I thought I could fucking figure them out right away. But they're so good at hiding it in the They say all the right things.
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They will even bash narcissists. So you're like, oh, well, then you must not be one. But no, they are. Those are the big things. A guy who wants to like buy you stuff, like a lot of stuff, like shower you with gifts in the beginning, I also think is a red flag. that also might not go hand in hand with narcissism, but I actually, in my experience, it sort of does.
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And so again, these things do not necessarily mean that they are a narcissist. I think the word gets thrown around a lot these days, but I also think there are a lot of narcissists in the world for whatever reason. And so it is something that, you know, we do need to be hyper aware of and women can be narcissists too, obviously, but
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I think there's a misconception about narcissism is that narcissists are just full of themselves. And that is not it at all, actually. If you've had any experience with a narcissist, then you know narcissists are actually the most insecure people on the planet.
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They actually hate themselves and they have a lot of shame and a lot of emotions that they have buried so deep that they're overcompensating by living this big life. And look how great I am. But really, they hate themselves. And it usually stems from childhood, of course, like everything else. But yeah, the accountability thing is really, really huge.
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And unfortunately, I think we really don't know someone until you have that first tough conversation. And how do they argue or not argue, but how do they have a tough conversation? Are we able to have conflict resolution? You know, how do they handle conflict? Are they sweeping things under the rug? Do they actually want to talk about it? Are they taking accountability? Are they apologizing?
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And so we're going to start talking about narcissists and basically just how to spot them, what to do. So I had a lot of questions actually about this. And so people want to know how to avoid narcissists. which sort of goes hand in hand with another question, which is things that you can do to weed out the bad ones. And then this one is can't get over a guy who love bombed, ghosted and gaslit me.
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Are they listening to you? Are they hearing what you have to say? I think... that's when you finally get to see someone for who they are is that first tough conversation. And then of course, all of the other tough conversations they're on after.
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That's why I don't think, I think a conflict or a disagreement or something happening early on is not a bad thing because that's when you really start to learn who someone is. I have snow falling from my roof right now. It's melting and it's all falling. Okay. Okay, let's talk about Armour, guys.
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And then questions to really get to know someone. So that kind of goes hand in hand with things you can do to weed out the bad ones. You do, you got to have good questions. And you know, I want to hear about someone's Someone's story, you know, like how they grew up, the difficulties that they've had to face in their lives, how they've handled it.
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Like, I love people who have had to do work on themselves and who have gone through shit. I just do because I relate to it. And but it's important for me to see how people have worked on themselves, the growth that they've experienced. And, you know, you, I do think of asking about past relationships is a good thing.
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How to let go. I'm so hurt and so angry. So I put all of these questions together because they sort of go hand in hand because here are the telltale signs of a narcissist. Love bombing is a huge red flag. And if you don't know what love bombing is, definitely look it up.
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Not the first date necessarily, but I do think it's good to get into that because how a person talks about their previous relationships is huge to be like, like you want someone to be like, you know what? It didn't work out and maybe it was really difficult, but you learned a lot from it. It made you do X, Y, and Z. Like you had to work on yourself. You're a better person for it.
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You know, those are the kinds of things that you want to be looking at. If this person is willing to do the work and if this person wants to continue to evolve and grow in their lifetime, I think those are all really good qualities. I think you, I think you have to decide what's important to you first of all, but like loyalty and honesty is huge for me.
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That does come with time, but I think you can kind of figure it out quickly in conversations with these people. I think, you know, their goals in life, like just how they see their life, what's important to them.
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you know, if they're a parent, you know, their parenting style, how they're raising their kids, because that's a really good indication of who they are as a person, or if they have unresolved trauma that always comes out in your parenting. Because I think ultimately, you want to see if you guys align on your morals and values, really, you know, and
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I think the whole point of getting to know someone, that talking phase, those like first few dates is to see if you're compatible. Right. I mean, and that's the point of those conversations is to see if you guys have interests, if you look at the world the same, if you know all of that stuff, because I think chemistry, you can kind of tell pretty quickly.
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I think anyways, I know sometimes I can grow, but I, I always know pretty immediately if there's chemistry and chemistry is not something you question. It's like, it's either there or it's not. And you just know that from being together. So the whole point of these conversations, right. Is to see if you're compatible.
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I think you can totally ask someone if they've ever been cheated on, cheated on someone, you know, I think that those are questions to see again. Cause I also, I think you can have a guy say, Hey, yes, I have cheated on a girlfriend, but you know what? That's something that I've had to work on. That's not who I am anymore. It's not something I'm proud of, but I definitely did do it.
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Like that to me is a green flag. a guy who can be honest and that's taking accountability. And I do think people can change. I do. I think people only change if they want to change.
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And I think a lot of times the way people change is something has to happen where they're almost forced to change or they started doing the work on themselves and that made them change, you know, which is typically what I've seen. And that to me is great. And that's what I'm saying.
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Like if you have a past and you were maybe not a good person at one point in time, but now you've done the work on yourself, you've gotten your shit together and you're a different person like that to me is that's great. I love that. I love someone who's done the work because by the way, I always haven't been the best person either.
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I had to do a lot of work and grow up and really take a hard look in the mirror. So I respect anyone who is willing to go down that path because it's not an easy one. Okay, she wants me to meet her family after a month. I'm not ready yet and it's causing issues. So a month is fast. I mean, I get that. That's really fast to go and meet someone's family.