Kristen Cavallari
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Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
I really hope that we can find it.
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You're right.
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I still can.
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I think that name is gone.
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A baby girl. This is Patricia.
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No, I don't think so.
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70 year olds are like Bob and like Susan.
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Trisha.
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I still, even if I found out what it was right now, I would still fuck it up.
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I would have been Trisha. Or Trishy. Trishy. Sounds like trashy.
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My whole life would have been ruined.
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If we can find it.
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Yeah, because we're solving the world's problems.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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It's literally what I was just thinking too. Territorial. Territorial.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
Oh my God, I love this question. Okay, so yeah, I'm super decisive. And in fact, my team at Uncommon James has always told me that too. So it's always been there, but I definitely had to learn how to trust my gut. And that is just through trial and error. Then anytime I didn't listen to my gut, my gut was always right. And I'd be like, okay, I have to always trust my gut.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
I didn't really like hone in on it. I would say until the last like 10 years.
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But honestly, it's my biggest compass. It's my biggest tool now. I only, not only, but I, I, for the most part, just listened to my gut on things.
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Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
I just know what I like or don't like.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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I'll tell you why. Because when I do things to please other people or whatever it is, it fucking eats me alive. And I can't sit with myself then. So I, yeah, I, I've created boundaries for myself and I live my life for me. And, you know, obviously with kids, like there's a gray area there. I can't just like live my life for me with my kids, but in my social life and my work life and everything,
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
Yeah, I think because when I can see it... Say in a sentence, say, I am very... Guys get very territorial.
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I've been able to get to a place luckily where I can say no to a lot of things. I think learning how to say no is one of the most important things people can do.
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That's my boundary, Teddy. Digging holes in my yard. Look at him. Look at him.
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Oh yeah, he knows.
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Did you come up with these or did your Instagram followers?
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I love that you came up with these. You had to do a lot of work.
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You couldn't even say, I am very... Well, I was using it in a sentence like I used the other day.
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I am. And I wasn't always like that either. I was the queen of going on a beach vacation and not fucking getting up from my beach chair all day long. So this isn't the last again, probably like six, seven years. But I just I've gotten to a place where I want to experience everything out there. Like I want to when I'm dying, I want to be like, cool. I got to see the world.
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I got to do all the things I wanted to do. Like I just like having experiences like that's what I want to spend my money on. And so when especially traveling, like I'm all about a beach day. But then the older I've gotten, the more I just want to like get out and experience whatever that town or city has.
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Like you guys could just get drunk all day.
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Every guy.
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Cause like, I don't want to go to Stockholm and then be like, I didn't even see Stockholm. Like I don't even know what Stockholm had to offer.
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Break it down. Territorial. She could not say it for the life of her. I couldn't say it. I literally couldn't say it. But I don't even know how we just got on that conversation. But yeah, so I thought today was going to be a snow day. It wasn't, thank God, because it's the first day my kids have been back in school in like two and a half weeks. It was needed. Everyone needed to go to school.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Talking about Guys to Stay Relevant with Justin Anderson
I love this question. I think it can. I don't think every situation is the same, but I think... I think it definitely can. Like if you really got your heart broken, I think it can definitely make you have walls up and it can change you. And I think like each experience that you have in love will change you. They all do. So if your first one is heartbreak, okay.
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But then maybe your second one, you know, someone teaches you how to like let down your walls a little bit. So you soften a little bit more. I think like each one molds you. What do you think?
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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A hundred percent.
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Well, I was just going to say, cause like going into your first relationship, typically it's like, you're not jaded at all. You're just like coming at it from like a place of pureness, unless you've had a really fucked up relationship with a parent.
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You know what I mean? But I'll be, I mean, I had fucked up relationships with both of my parents and I still went into my first love with Johnny. Like, totally open and willing and able. And like, just like out of like pure joy and love. Like I wasn't like, he's going to break my heart. Like there was like no worry about my heart getting broken.
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It was just like, we were just in it and we were just like experiencing it together for the first time.
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So Johnny.
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I moved. I moved. And he.
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Lainey.
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He hooked up with Lainey like immediately. And I was. And that fucked me up. And then I dated this scumbag. I think he was a senior. He had a tongue ring. Like, ew. And I remember my stepmom even being like, Kristen, like, what are you doing? And I was like, what? Like, because it like fucked me up. And so I think when you're young, the only way to.
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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to get over someone is to like get with someone else. You know what I mean? There's no like healing or like reflecting.
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That's why I never wanted to feel that again. So I decided to break everyone else's heart.
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My kids have been fighting so much.
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Yeah. That's what it is. Yeah.
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And it wasn't a conscious decision. I didn't figure that out until recently. Whoa. Yeah. I never wanted to feel that again. I was like, I will never feel this again. And so I'm going to break your heart before you can break mine, which is my whole life since Johnny.
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And to be fair, I would want to hear Johnny's side of it too. Cause he may say I broke his heart too. I may have broken up with him before I moved. Like I don't, you know what I mean? Like, I don't know, but cause there's two sides to every story.
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I didn't want them sitting next to each other at dinner.
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It could have been worse.
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They were really good at dinner.
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Oh my God. The next chapter of my book would probably be called cruise control. Well, I say that, but then I see like big things popping for me in the next 10 years. But overall, like, Life is really good. You know, like I feel really lucky. My kids are at such great ages. The most important thing to me right now is just like being at every basketball game and like being at all their things.
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And I just want to like keep that going. Work is really good. I don't have to bust my ass anymore, but I have... the podcast and uncommon James. And those are just like steady, which is great. And then, you know, I would like to get married again, for sure. I would like to meet the one and get married. I'm in no rush, but I do, I do see that happening. It fucking better be in the next 10 years.
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Everyone was really good last night. We did like a six. Well, we did Amakase for my birthday actually. And it's, if you guys don't know what that is, it's literally a 16 course sushi dinner, but it's like one piece of sushi, like each course. But my kids sat through it. It's two hours long and they were so good.
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Yeah.
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We're the same person.
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You have really good questions. There's nothing that I haven't done that I want to do. I think for me, like putting myself in situations where I'm nervous and I'm fucking scared and I have to overcome a fear is huge for me. My podcast tour, I will be so fucking nervous. That's a big deal for me. I used to have such a fear of public speaking.
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And in the last couple of years, I've forced myself to be in situations where I've had to like overcome it. So I do feel like I'm like pretty good now. But the podcast tour is different. You know, I'll be nervous for that. But I've done a lot of cool shit. I've kind of like done a lot of things.
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Like what if it was like... But there's everything I want to do, I do. Does that make... Like there's nothing that I'm like... Yeah. I'm not scared of like rejection or like money. Like I would do something. Starting my own business. Scary as fuck. I did that. I've written books by myself. I've hosted big red carpet events. I've done live TV hosting Paradise Hotel on Fox.
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Like I've done, those have all scared the shit out of me and I've done them. And so like, I'm really proud of that. There's nothing on my list. I want to open up a coffee shop, but that's not like, there's nothing that I'm like dying to do.
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And it's not something you can just like leave at the door. Exactly. Yeah. That makes sense. I get that. Well, that's why I think even with the podcast and everything else, like I just took the last few weeks off. I took last summer off basically. Like I have to do that for me. Otherwise I would never stop.
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And like, I'm figuring out how to make this all work for me while still getting a break, you know?
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And I think maybe younger too.
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But I, that makes me feel really appreciative for everything I've done in my life. Again, like when I look back at my career, like I've done really cool stuff and it's more than just like cool stuff. It's stuff that's like really pushed me out of my comfort zone. Dancing with the stars, literally I thought I was gonna shit my pants.
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I've never been so fucking nervous for anything in my entire life.
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I've never been so scared I was like I'm gonna forget every step I was like I don't like you're like my mind's gonna go blank I was so don't you think it's so good to do that kind of stuff though to push yourself like to get out of your comfort zone like when I tell you like even growing up I had like if I had to speak in front of the class I had anxiety for weeks I couldn't sleep I thought I was gonna puke like this has always been a fear of mine and in the last couple years I can finally like do it and like be okay and it's like a huge fear that I've overcome wow yeah
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There's always something happening.
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Oh my God. No, actually. Shut up. No.
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What would I say?
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I'd be like, now we can go out late.
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Justin always wants to go to bed so early.
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I want people to remember me for going after what I wanted and like living my life for me. And I hope that I can be an inspiration for people to chase their dreams, do what they wanna do, be unapologetically themselves.
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It is important to me. I think authenticity is important to me. So I think everyone should just be authentic. Be you, live your life for you.
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I had a woman come up to me at Whole Foods the other day and I literally almost started crying, but she was like, you helped me get through a breakup. Like you've been there for me. And I was like, I needed to hear that so much. Cause like, if I can make a difference in one person's life, like fuck. Okay.
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And it's so easy for me to get hung up on like, Oh, the fucking headlines and people don't think I shut up. But like, I, I think the people who love me really love me. And that's why I've had a career for 20 years. And that means a lot that I can like actually help people in some way.
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And my thing is like when people follow celebrity gossip and then they're like, oh, she doesn't shut up. It's like you follow celebrity. gossip. Like, if you don't want to see some people, don't follow this.
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Go away. The only way she's stayed relevant for 20 years is talking about guys. Partly true.
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That's basically my podcast tour.
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I, okay, hold on. I'm going to give you a real answer. I feel like you, you have one for me.
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I only know like one or two, but I love SZA. I love SZA.
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I agree. No, I used to, my fuse used to be really short and I've had to learn over the years to like take a fucking breath as a mom. But even in relationship, you know, I used to always feel like the worst was going to happen or like I always had to be on the defense. Like people were always attacking me and I had to learn that's not in fact the case.
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Like I've done a lot of work on myself over the last few years. Had you asked me this five years ago, I would have had a laundry list for you. But I feel like I mean, as a mom, I could have more patience sometimes. But I think I do a pretty damn good job as a mom. There are things I could work on. But as far as a personality trait goes...
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Yeah, she's the girl. And remember, I think recently I was like, I don't know if I like her new album. It takes a minute and now I'm like obsessed.
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I'm like thinking of things, but I'm like, I don't actually think I would change that about me. Like I can be, it takes a minute for me to warm up to people. I wouldn't change that though.
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I think I can.
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You are. You think I am too? It depends on who it is.
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It depends on who it is.
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Yeah, I'm not a bitch. I don't open up to people. It takes a long time for me to really open up to people.
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I have to.
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Yeah, I'm obsessed. I fucking love SZA. I will go to that concert. I don't think I'm gonna ring Camden. Sorry, buddy.
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And people do take advantage and people do fuck with you still, you know, especially with guys.
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I mean, well, girls, too. No, I've had people just burn me a lot in the past. So I wouldn't change that. It's not ideal, I guess, but I'm not.
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Like, yeah.
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You're a major empath.
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Well, I think I could be better at asking people for help like that. But that's not like a personality trait. That's just something I do need to work on. I think especially in relationship.
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I think there's a part of that. I think my whole life trained me for that too. Even before I was on TV, I was the girl that people always taught. People always said shit about me. That was just always a part of my life. And I was always a new girl. I moved around. So I experienced a lot of new schools. I got thrown in situations.
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So I had to learn from an early age how to have a thick skin, how to deal with people just judging me, criticizing me when they didn't even know me. on a smaller scale, obviously, but like people in school deal with that all the time. And so, and then obviously being on TV, just, you know, multiplied it by a bajillion. I do sometimes care what people think about me.
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No, SZA's not young. My kids don't help with SZA.
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I'm not like completely cut off from it. Well, even being in the headlines a lot in the last couple of weeks. And if I do read comments, I get like, it's, that's like,
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stressful and i know where it comes from i know people who tear other people down i know where it comes from i've dealt with it for 20 fucking years but it still is not i can it still will sometimes hit me you know and again it's because the people are like she doesn't shut the fuck up it's like you don't understand my side of it though i think it's like when you don't know like people don't know what they're talking about that's where i get like you don't understand though
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Like I have a podcast, I'm making money. This is how I make a fucking living is my podcast. Like I don't.
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People either love me or hate me.
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And I know that. I do know that. I also think people think that I'm like loud and obnoxious. Do you know what I'm saying? That I'm like, I'm so not that. I actually fucking hate attention. If you guys could see me in my everyday life, like I go to the grocery store looking like a fucking bum, like I just rolled out of bed. Like I'm trying to like blend in. I never in my life try to stand out.
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You dress like a... I'm surprised the girl recognized me at Whole Foods the other day. So Kristen, is that you? I swear to God, I actually think she was like, you're Kristen, right? But I don't know. I think it's just like that misconception. It does get to me sometimes. I'd be lying if I said it didn't.
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No, you've seen my Spotify hours. All I do is sit on Spotify.
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And like- Lately it has been every fucking day.
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My kids are like, are you crying? I'm like, no, what the fuck?
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Thank you. I appreciate that. Yeah. I mean, and I remember when I first came on the scene, people were like, enjoy your 15 minutes.
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Bitch, I have. And then some. Yeah. I mean, I don't know. I think it goes back to that authenticity piece. I think the people who know me, they fucking get it, you know?
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You know, like, yeah, yeah. I've always been me, you know, I mean, and it can it's not to say there hasn't been hard times and stuff. But yeah, you can't because at the end of the day, I've always separated myself from Hollywood. Like to me, it's always been a fake world. Like none of that's real. Like at the end of the day, like the headlines on social media and like that's not real.
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Like if you just put your phone down and you go out into the real world, like that's what's real. Hollywood's not real. A red carpet's not real. Like I always was like, this is such a fake, weird world.
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My phone is always playing Spotify. It's like music's always on because I don't listen to podcasts, believe it or not. I don't watch TV. I don't do any of that. I like listening to music. I feel like I just like sit down and listen to music.
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Put the phones down.
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It's snowing outside. It is snowing. It's the second snow of the year for us, actually.
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That's why I think I just like hate all of that. It's just like the amount of hate on the internet is so gross. And there's a lot of love too. I mean, I, you know, But it's given unhappy people a place where they feel a connection to other unhappy people. And then they feel like validated. Right. And that's a really dangerous, slippery road, I feel like. Yeah.
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Like, why aren't we like being happy and building each other up? Also, like, again, put your phone down and go outside. Go ground. Put your feet in the grass. You'll feel better. You know what I mean? These fucking haters.
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Solid questions, Justin. A plus on the questions. I do love myself and that hasn't always been the case. I'd say in the last five years, I really, that's what I've done is I have found love for myself and I think love for yourself comes with knowing really who you are, getting through hard times, trusting in yourself that you're capable of a lot.
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Like having that faith in yourself of like, look what we did. Like, look what I did. You know what I mean? Like hypnotherapy was huge for me of like loving myself because it really worked through a lot of my trauma that I hadn't worked through yet. But journaling is really important. Our Bufo experience was life-changing for me.
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But no, music for me is life.
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So, OK, it's interesting. I was actually just talking about this with someone else. So I've always loved journaling. I even in my early 20s, I used to go out to the club and get fucked up and I would come home and I would journal. And those are some of the most insightful journal pages because like you could and I would be like, I don't know what's wrong with me. Like, I'm so unhappy.
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It's just like you could like see like I was going through it. Wow. And I didn't know why I've kept a diary since eighth grade. And like, it's just wild to go back and read everything. But I think like, so during my divorce, you know, that's like a pivotal time in someone's life. It was the first time in my whole life. I didn't go to therapy. And instead I like read books.
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I journaled, I did the hypnotherapy. I've like done all of this stuff, but I, And it was the best work I've ever done. I think sometimes the best work is just with yourself. But journaling, like if you don't think and you just write like the shit that comes out.
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And I think the most important thing is getting shit out, getting it out of your body because otherwise emotion stays in your body and then it harbors in other ways. And, you know, and then you can learn a lot about yourself, quite honestly.
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Yeah.
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A self-help book. Kristen's guide to loving yourself. No, but I mean, I think there's a lot of, it's powerful. Meditation, I think is huge.
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I was partying my dick off.
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And it wasn't even a conscious thing. It was more just like I was looking to fill a void in every area with guys partying, shallow friends like my party friends in L.A. in my early 20s. And it was just to avoid. Isn't that why I like it?
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So many lost souls.
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I'll watch it. I'll get into a show and then I'm like, I'm good for five months.
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Completely.
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That town will literally kill you.
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I'd have to really think about that. What were some of the most recent?
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you know, because everything, oh, and that's not to say like a lot of my good friends, you know, I've been in my life for 20 years, but there was a point in my early twenties where I kind of distanced myself from the good people because I was partying so much. And I had like my party friends and, you know.
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It'll always be.
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I want to watch it.
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Well, that's why I love, like, Euphoria. You know what I mean? I was like, ah!
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Yeah, I'm not going down that fucking road. Okay. But anyways, so it feels good to be back and I'm excited that you're here. So Justin and I were kind of brainstorming fun things we could do with the podcast for 2025. And what we ended up deciding on today was, this was actually Justin's idea. Do you want to take the reins on this now?
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By the way, like, That was what Laguna Beach High School was like. Oh, I believe it. Like we were like that when everyone's like, oh my God, I can't even believe what I'm watching. I'm like, no, that was my, that was my high school.
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Yeah. Like bad, bad. But again, like I don't regret it. You know, I was a willing participant in everything I did. But anyways, well, this was fun. Those were really good questions. And I appreciate you taking the time to do that. No worries.
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I love you guys.
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Yeah, nothing is sticking. Actually, I was worried this morning that school was maybe going to get canceled because...
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i'm gonna leave i'm gonna leave like i talk like that you can't i don't think i've ever given a fucking pr answer in my entire life no you don't that's not you that's why i always get but i think that you're also really smart at like avoiding questions that you don't want to answer or or my biggest thing is like people think i'm out there talking a lot i'm like i'm actually not saying anything
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This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in, guys. Hi. I feel like it's been a minute. Justin Anderson is here.
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I'm not saying it. You think me saying one thing about someone is me. Oh my God. I actually, that was me deflecting the fucking conversation. Yeah.
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Do you know, do you understand what I'm saying?
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there's any sort of ice like tennessee is not prepared for snow chicago this would be a joke but tennessee will shut down the schools the whole city shuts down with a dusting of snow because we just we're not we don't have the infrastructure for it oh i like that infrastructure infrastructure for it what was the word yesterday you were asking me to try to say
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People are like, oh my God, I can't believe she's talking about that. It's like, trust me when I tell you, I am not talking about it. I didn't say anything. The things I could say, the things I could say about all these people that I'm not fucking saying.
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Well, that's why I don't do a lot of other people's podcasts.
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Well, it has because it's kind of, I was actually thinking about this the other day. I feel like my podcast is very similar to like when I was on TV where it just like keeps me out there. And I think the biggest misconception about me is that people think I love the headlines and I love that whole world. I try so hard to not be in the headlines, to dodge those things.
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I say no to every other podcast. I specifically do not put myself in situations where I know that's going to happen. I did end up going on bunny's podcast a couple of weeks ago and that I love bunny and it's a respect thing. And that's why I did it. And that's why I answered. I said more than I probably normally would have out of respect for bunny because I fucking love bunny.
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She is.
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But that's why I don't do them. Exactly.
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I can't lie.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. Go play in the snow. Yeah. It's also the timing of that. Like we, we had been talking about me going on her podcast for a year, a fucking year. And it just so happened to be then after I've been in the press a lot and like, I'm sick of me. Like, trust me, I'm sick of me.
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The one thing I will say, so like the first year that I had this podcast, I learned how to like avoid a headline by like how I would talk about something. And I am good at that. I know how to avoid them if I really truly do want to. But then I got to a place, I remember saying this to you, where a clip of Laguna Beach came up on my TikTok.
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And it like kind of hit me where I was like, people fell in love with me for being outspoken and saying what's on my mind. And I felt like I had gotten away from that because I was trying to play it safe so much to avoid headlines that then I did kind of shift my energy of like, I'm just going to be me. I'm not going to give a fuck. And it's sort of now I'm like, this is why it's been a lot.
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The last three or four months has been a lot in the press.
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And then it's been a shit storm. I mean, so now it's like, okay, maybe we can find a happy medium. But I was playing it safe for a while.
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Or who cares?
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Yeah. I just, it's just, it's a lot even for me.
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And like some of the headlines are just, it like pushes it too much. I'm like, did I actually fucking say that? I guess I did. Jesus Christ. But like, you know, as a mom and stuff too, I don't know. Like the headlines most recently definitely pushed it. I was actually kind of surprised the headlines could say the things that they did. Like about...
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F word and stuff like I don't know I just thought it was a lot but whatever it is what it is I was just playing it safe for a while and that's not me so anyways here we are here we are we'll see where this one goes you know yeah Let's take a minute, you guys, to talk about YNAB. You put so much time and effort into earning money, you deserve to spend it without stress or second guessing.
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I love looking at financial statements. I love seeing how much is going to dinners, to household stuff, to kids. I love having all of those different buckets and YNAB makes it so easy to stay on track. In 2025, I'm doing a lot of renovations to my house. So I'm definitely keeping a close eye on that money. And maybe that means I have to tighten up in other areas.
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And YNAB has really been helping me track all of that. And listeners of Let's Be Honest can claim an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required at www.ynab.com slash honest. Again, that is spelled Y-N-A-B. You guys know I recently moved into a new house. So I let the kids have free reign when designing their rooms.
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But I didn't want to spend a lot of money because as any parent knows, kids ruin everything. So I gave them a budget and Wayfair was one of the places that they loved to shop on.
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This is gonna drive me.
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Also, after the holidays, I don't know if you guys are like me, but it's kind of nice just to give your home a little TLC, start kind of fresh, whether you're tidying up, clearing out, or you just want some new looks to start the new year. Well, Wayfair's got everything you need and all within your budget.
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And no matter what your style is or what you're looking for, they literally have it all, which is what I love so much. But Camden just needed a new rug. So I let him just go on the website and pick one out. And he had so many options that he loved. So that's what I love too about Wayfair. It's great for me. It's great for kids. There's something for everybody on their website.
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And they're also great when you're in a time crunch. The delivery is free. It's fast. It's hassle free. Oh, actually for Christmas, I bought Sailor a cute little swing that hangs from her ceiling too that have these little lights in it. It's really adorable. So I think especially for kids, they just have the best stuff. I'm a sucker for anything that's for the kitchen, like fun cookware, decor.
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It's one of the words that I mess up all the time, by the way, though.
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Like that's where Wayfair just has completely gotten me. It's so satisfying to get great deals on things your home actually needs. Give your home the refresh it needs with Wayfair. Head to wayfair.com right now. That's W-A-Y-F-A-I-R.com. Wayfair. Every style, every home. All right, let's talk about Skims. Skims bras and underwear are the only intimates that I've been wearing these days.
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Yeah, like, do you have any words that you always fuck up? I have to find this now.
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My entire top drawer is filled with the most amazing, stretchy, and supportive fabrics. I'm always on the go, and I need products that keep me feeling comfortable and confident all day long. Nothing fits me as well as Skims does. You guys, you have to try these if you haven't already. And I'm the first to admit I did not want to like Skims, but they won me over.
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I've tried every thong on the planet, but nothing beats the fits everybody thong from Skims. It's seamless and it fits me like a glove. There's nothing worse than uncomfortable underwear. I barely feel like I have anything on when I wear this one. And when my bra and my underwear match, I don't know. I just feel unstoppable. I love that feeling. I also just got my first push-up bra.
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I mean, I had push-up bras back in my early twenties and stuff, but since I've become an adult, I haven't bought a push-up bra, but I just decided screw it. And I'm obsessed with their push-up bra. They make any outfit look so much better. And the fits everybody push-up bra is my favorite shop skims, best intimates, including the fits everybody collection and more at skims.com and skims stores.
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